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  1. Comment on ‘Mitzvah night is cancelled’ Inside the sex strike that has infuriated husbands and shaken the ultra-Orthodox world in ~life.women

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    Yikes on a bike...... This woman isn't the person asking for a divorce but if my husband tried a stunt like that he'd better believe the next person at risk is him. Holy moly the absolute...

    After Gittel, a 40-year-old Orthodox woman from Flatbush, began refusing sex to her husband of 20 years, he bought a sex doll and parked it in his bed. “He buys her/it lingerie and says he’ll buy her/it jewelry if I don’t start opening it up,” she told me. But she wasn’t deterred. “If I can deprive him of using me, for a good cause, I’m in. And I’m a Bais Yaakov girl and I encouraged my friends to withhold sex too.”

    Yikes on a bike...... This woman isn't the person asking for a divorce but if my husband tried a stunt like that he'd better believe the next person at risk is him. Holy moly the absolute entitlement and dehumanization happening here....

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  2. Comment on I am a witch. Well, a well witcher... in ~talk

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    I saw Goody @GoWestYoungMan talking with the witcher! Does that make his wife the warlock is that not how it works?

    I saw Goody @GoWestYoungMan talking with the witcher!

    Does that make his wife the warlock is that not how it works?

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  3. Comment on I am a witch. Well, a well witcher... in ~talk

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    (Not serious) It's magnets. Magnets explaine probably most of our how does it work questions like how do birds migrate or how do rats know to abandon ship and how do ladies get pregnant and where...

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    It's magnets. Magnets explaine probably most of our how does it work questions like how do birds migrate or how do rats know to abandon ship and how do ladies get pregnant and where my chips go at night.

    But seriously I don't understand how electric fields and magnets work so maybe the rods respond subtly to that....

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  4. Comment on Solar storm knocks out farmers' tractor GPS systems during peak planting season in ~tech

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    That'll be hilarious if only their brand was affected. They're the people who made it so their hardware cannot be repaired by farmers who spent hundreds of thousands of dollars on them right? The...

    That'll be hilarious if only their brand was affected. They're the people who made it so their hardware cannot be repaired by farmers who spent hundreds of thousands of dollars on them right? The ones that Cory Doctorow wrote about where you can remotely lock out?

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  5. Comment on Solar storm knocks out farmers' tractor GPS systems during peak planting season in ~tech

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    There's a part of me that feel like real life cyberpunk is just shitty capitalism without the cool esthetics and the freedom of the masses. All high tech and boring monotonous lowlife. More...

    There's a part of me that feel like real life cyberpunk is just shitty capitalism without the cool esthetics and the freedom of the masses. All high tech and boring monotonous lowlife.

    More depressed kids crammed into one apartment working desk jobs in a cubicle farm an open office than Kowloon Walled City.

    But then I remember how bad Kowloon Walled City actually was and it's maybe not too bad.

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  6. Comment on Solar storm knocks out farmers' tractor GPS systems during peak planting season in ~tech

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    Yup, also not a farmer I only play one on my TV, but in Clarkson's Farm, they talked about it a fair bit. When you're first putting seeds down, you're in a giant truck and it's just brown soil as...

    Yup, also not a farmer I only play one on my TV, but in Clarkson's Farm, they talked about it a fair bit.

    When you're first putting seeds down, you're in a giant truck and it's just brown soil as far as the eye can see with no frame of reference and no lines on the ground. Jeremy has been a car host for a very long time but he still ended up planting squiggly lines. They sometimes use another vehicle to draw intentional squiggles to help visually align the actually planting truck. And then there's an art to how to space seeds out so that the harvester, with a different size equipment can efficiently pick up crops without crushing any.

    And all that on Jeremy's 1000 ac farm that he grows multiple kinds of things on. For other even bigger monocrop farms I can see how crucial GPs would be.

    oops I meant to reply to @Melvincible

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  7. Comment on Please recommend me an anime to watch? in ~anime

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    The first couple episodes were the best....I think they suffered quite a steep drop in strategem into regular idol show territory quite quickly :( Knowing that though, yes definitely recommend the...

    The first couple episodes were the best....I think they suffered quite a steep drop in strategem into regular idol show territory quite quickly :(

    Knowing that though, yes definitely recommend the first few episodes for the unique concept and fun execution

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  8. Comment on A big new facility built to take carbon dioxide out of the atmosphere opened up in Iceland. It's a stepping stone to bigger plans in the US. in ~enviro

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    That doesn't necessarily mean any human will be hurt. I don't see it as a violence so much as life saving. But otherwise I grudgingly agree.... we will only be able to agree on spending and...

    We get out the dynamite and start blowing up pipelines and oil refineries?

    That doesn't necessarily mean any human will be hurt. I don't see it as a violence so much as life saving.

    But otherwise I grudgingly agree.... we will only be able to agree on spending and building and capitalising our way out of this

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  9. Comment on AI, automation, and inequality — how do we reach utopia? in ~talk

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    I dont think efficiencies is what's stopping people from being able to have the necessities met, and that's why I think tech improvements in efficiencies will never get us there. The economic...

    I dont think efficiencies is what's stopping people from being able to have the necessities met, and that's why I think tech improvements in efficiencies will never get us there.

    The economic engine is a meat grinding machine that takes inputs of small critters and grinding them into meat. Let's imagine some of the critters don't want to be ground down and have been working hard to come up with ways to make the machine better, more efficient, more autonomous, more interactive and predictive and blah blah blah. We'll have a faster churn of little critter slurry.

    We can make sure there is better distribution of currently already existing gains and resources by voting for politicians who talk about "radical" and aggressively caring for the last, the lost and the least among us as their main platform. Remember, if their platform focus on advancements and wealth instead of the poor, they're talking about how to shove you faster into the meat grinder queue.

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  10. Comment on The surprising reason few Americans are getting chips jobs now in ~tech

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    Not if they can outsource the training to politicians (like "for gods sake learn to code" Biden) who will use a combo of public funds and pushing youth further into debt and unpaid internships to...

    Not if they can outsource the training to politicians (like "for gods sake learn to code" Biden) who will use a combo of public funds and pushing youth further into debt and unpaid internships to make it happen.

    It's a shifting of the burden

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  11. Comment on The surprising reason few Americans are getting chips jobs now in ~tech

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    Imagine that, people don't like living in poverty. The unwillingness to keep people during slower times and the unwillingness to teach people things you want them to know so they can make money...

    Imagine that, people don't like living in poverty.

    The unwillingness to keep people during slower times and the unwillingness to teach people things you want them to know so they can make money for you is common, but isn't normal.

    Human beings work for jobs, not robots. Human beings need to eat and sleep while they learn, and they need to eat and sleep whether or not the market is good. Having workers who know things, have homes, and are decently fed is part of having your profits be subsidized by society as common good. The fact that they have teams of people strategizing to minimize taxes and investments at every turn, and put as little of it into not just society but the humans who make them money.... It makes me angry

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  12. Comment on What do I do if I don't have any clothes? in ~life.style

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    Oh I totally missed your message!! Did you have a good time in Beijing and HK? You're right we tend to be on the short side.....

    Oh I totally missed your message!! Did you have a good time in Beijing and HK? You're right we tend to be on the short side.....

  13. Comment on Early tests of H5N1 prevalence in milk suggest US bird flu outbreak in cows is widespread in ~health

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    Yeah, I'm reading some older Tildes threads like this and going to research how to make tempeh and seitan. https://tildes.net/~food/19y1/vegans_of_tildes_what_are_your_favourite_sources_of_protein...

    Yeah,

    I'm reading some older Tildes threads like this and going to research how to make tempeh and seitan.

    https://tildes.net/~food/19y1/vegans_of_tildes_what_are_your_favourite_sources_of_protein

    I've also tried making my own tofu and it's too time consuming + results not fool proof enough.

    But for big lifestyle changes like this, it'll be a marathon not a sprint. We've sort of started, by reducing meat consumption twice a week for religious reasons (2/7 reduction), then only expecting it for dinner (further 2/3) reduction. The bigger change was when we moved out of the city, to where we could grow things and raise chickens. So....maybe we'll never be fully vegan, but I could hopefully see us one day going down to local beef and self raised chickens + foraged / hunted animals.

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  14. Comment on Early tests of H5N1 prevalence in milk suggest US bird flu outbreak in cows is widespread in ~health

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    Thanks, I could use some help. Half of it is habit: meals are centered around meat and thing around it are side dishes. This is fixable by introduction and habit building. Half of it is cost....

    Thanks, I could use some help.

    Half of it is habit: meals are centered around meat and thing around it are side dishes. This is fixable by introduction and habit building.

    Half of it is cost. Looking at flyers today, Chicken is $2.50/lb, cheaper if it's on sale. Basically any time I go into a store I can nearly guarantee some kind of meat will be $2/lb or cheaper. Tomatoes are $4/lb, oranges $3.50, fresh greens are always more etc, they rarely go on sale and the quality is compromised if so.

    Beans rice peas are cheaper. So again it goes back to habit. Myself, I could survive on rice noodles and broth with frozen spinach in it probably indefinitely. It's harder to feed a family.

    I've tried all kinds of tofu and veg based fake meat products, it doesn't get eaten by the family and I'm the only one finishing it up. Stews and curries and wet type foods with 2+ ingredients mixed in are out, even with meat they're barely tolerated.

    While I'm not giving up, it's an uphill battle.

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  15. Comment on Instagram's Nudify [non-consensual fake nude photo generator] ads in ~tech

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    My puritanical reflex would be "no", that easy gratification whets ones appetite and "inflames a passion" (ignites something that makes us passively bound by its appeal and subjugate us by our...

    My puritanical reflex would be "no", that easy gratification whets ones appetite and "inflames a passion" (ignites something that makes us passively bound by its appeal and subjugate us by our desire for more and more and more).

    There's the dark side of repression, as you pointed out, a hellscape where victims can't even speak out without ruining their own lives. But I'm not sure that limitless indulgence is the answer either....that there isn't a middle ground where.....

    Where AI porn isn't outlawed, but one where responsible use satisfies people's desires without hurting each other, including ourselves.

    If the desire is for fantasy, why isn't AI porn of fictitious women good enough? Why isn't imagination of public figures enough? The specific desire here is for specific public figures to satisfy one's sexual desire without the public figure's consent. When phrased like this, it really isn't that much of a debate is it?

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  16. Comment on Instagram's Nudify [non-consensual fake nude photo generator] ads in ~tech

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    Older thread, additional perspective: Aside from social stigma, there is also the danger of encouraging sexual assault directly. To be perceived as sexually available is dangerous to many women:...

    Older thread, additional perspective:

    Aside from social stigma, there is also the danger of encouraging sexual assault directly.

    To be perceived as sexually available is dangerous to many women: the language used to describe women's bodies and acceptable behavior towards them differ base on how "deserving" or "open" the women are perceived to be.

    We also know that people's opinions on stuff changes based on images seen, even when specifically told it's not real.

    Some will choose to believe the women depicted are really consenting to violence and assault based on what they see, and pluck up their courage to attack women when they otherwise might not have.

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  17. Comment on Early tests of H5N1 prevalence in milk suggest US bird flu outbreak in cows is widespread in ~health

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    I don't....I don't know what to do. For physical health reasons as well as morally I'm thinking I need to heavily step back participation in anything to do with the agricultural industrial...

    I don't....I don't know what to do. For physical health reasons as well as morally I'm thinking I need to heavily step back participation in anything to do with the agricultural industrial complex? Be vegan aside from the fish I catch myself and the chickens I'm willing to slaughter myself? Spiritually that's probably a good move to be stricter about veganism for half the year as well.

    And I guess the acceptance that nothing I do will "save" me and my family, only lessen the moral implication of death and suffering.

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  18. Comment on Canada bet big on immigration. Now it’s hitting the brakes. in ~misc

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    Refuse is an interesting word here. The local seafood processing plant here put out an ad online to hire overnight (eg graveyard) labourers, 12 hour shifts, for $15/hr. They're offering that...

    they perform the low-paid or insecure work that already-naturalized Canadians refuse to do

    Refuse is an interesting word here. The local seafood processing plant here put out an ad online to hire overnight (eg graveyard) labourers, 12 hour shifts, for $15/hr. They're offering that because they know locals will "refuse" and are applying for immigrants and short term foreign workers instead of raising wages.

    If Canadians are refusing wages, employer should be forced to up wages not sneak around and import international labour.

    Many locals are refusing this kind of wage because working graveyard for pennies won't even make rent.

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  19. Comment on What do I do if I don't have any clothes? in ~life.style

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    How easy is it to travel from Russia to another country? I ask because I've flown within Europe for like, pennies, on cheap airline and wondering if russia has similar. It sounds stupid to travel...

    How easy is it to travel from Russia to another country? I ask because I've flown within Europe for like, pennies, on cheap airline and wondering if russia has similar. It sounds stupid to travel internationally for clothing but really it's not: especially if your esthetics are different from local offerings, if your body build just isn't catered to, or if a hop over is where they make a ton of stuff for cheap.

    Us Hong Konger kids used to fly back and forth from Vancouver every year or so, and we stock up on fashion in HK because it's so much cheaper and there are so many more choices for our body builds.

    It's entirely possible you just don't like anything on offer locally and need to travel a little bit. If you have a work trip coming up, try stretching it to give yourself an extra week just to browse and shop

    Edit: just read that you're on the young side. Family holiday shopping? It'll also give you a chance to get away from noisy festivities if you ask to get dropped off at the mall for a day with cash.

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  20. Comment on At least thirty protesters arrested during pro-Palestinian protest at UT Austin in ~news

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    Agreed. We've been told not to judge police by their worst members, and not to judge government by its worst members etc. why we demand this of protests especially with police provocateur being a...

    Agreed.

    We've been told not to judge police by their worst members, and not to judge government by its worst members etc. why we demand this of protests especially with police provocateur being a proven repeated reality is totally unreasonable.

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