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3 votes
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The CIA is trying to recruit Gen Z—and doesn’t care if they’re all over social media
7 votes -
What’s your dream career?
“Dream” as in something you’d love to do as a job, with no consideration for its feasibility whatsoever. You don’t have to worry about pay, location, requirements, trainings/skill development,...
“Dream” as in something you’d love to do as a job, with no consideration for its feasibility whatsoever. You don’t have to worry about pay, location, requirements, trainings/skill development, etc.
If you could choose the work that you do without having to worry about everything else tied into that decision, what would you do, and why?
20 votes -
Portugal makes it illegal for your boss to text you after work in 'game changer' remote work law
16 votes -
Ceylon cinnamon has been produced in Sri Lanka for generations. But experienced peelers are now rare.
5 votes -
"The Hiring Post" - How to hire exceptional engineers
11 votes -
Good blessings
4 votes -
Why and how Belgium is regulating sex work
8 votes -
IATSE strike to begin Monday unless producers negotiate
9 votes -
Service workers face more harassment than ever. Panic buttons can help.
13 votes -
Hollywood crews vote to authorize a strike for better pay and working conditions
33 votes -
The effects of remote work on collaboration among information workers
9 votes -
Is there really a US truck driver shortage?
15 votes -
Danish artist Jens Haaning is refusing to pay over €70,000 back to a local art museum in protest at what he called 'miserable' working conditions and low pay
9 votes -
Activision Blizzard settles with federal employment agency for $18 Million
14 votes -
Deep Work: The secret to achieving peak productivity
7 votes -
‘Can’t compete’: Why hiring for child care is a huge struggle
13 votes -
Behind shipping delays and soaring prices are workers still at mortal risk of COVID-19
8 votes -
The myth of the productive commute
11 votes -
Lawyers from top accounting firms do brief stints in the US Treasury Department, with the expectation of big raises when they return
5 votes -
Adults returning to work - (Funny sketch from De Ideale Wereld)
10 votes -
How factories were made safe
5 votes -
Backpage founders' trial begins
6 votes -
Job hunts after a toxic work experience
I terminated my position over 4 months ago and I'm still not able to apply for jobs. I'm frustrated with my inability to move on from the previous toxic work environments. My background is in a...
I terminated my position over 4 months ago and I'm still not able to apply for jobs. I'm frustrated with my inability to move on from the previous toxic work environments. My background is in a male dominated field and there was always something either insensitive, sexist or racist said in all my previous workplaces. I feel, I know I'm going to be met with some sort of comment in my next work place and I no longer want to put myself in those situations anymore. I don't know how I'll react, I feel like I may explode if I hear another ignorant phrase.
I want to be able to make money. People say I must not have liked what I did very much if I wasn't able to put up with the comments. Other people say that that's just how the world is, "get used to it!" I've also heard that I'm just going to have to wait for change because drastic/fast pace change causes recoil. All of these comments literally tell me to suck it up and allow the same rhetoric to propagate. And, of course, all of this has been told to me by white men, those who aren't effected by the comments said to me.
Things that have happened to me or that were said to me:
- Smile more
- I'm too soft spoken/nice
- I'm too aggressive
- "Do you want to fix your hair?"
- A project manager bought me hair product, I didn't ask. I have curly hair and it took me a long time to love my curls, but it's seen as "unprofessional"
- A Director was staring at my hair throughout an entire interview
- "I'll put you up there" when the males were talking about strip clubs
- "Why are women crazy?"
- I've been kissed on my face and told "if only I met you before my wife"... never had a fucking conversation outside work with this person. I didn't even speak to him more than once a week!
- "We were surprised that you and Mohammad spoke English". Both me and Mohammad were born and raised in the United States. When I responded with "Why did you guys think that?" they conveniently stumbled and changed the subject.
... Many more things happened, but require too much context.
I just don't get it. Am I suppose to let ALL these things slide? Am I suppose to hold empathy for people who don't have empathy for me? Who don't empathize with me and how what they have said may have made me feel? Should I forgive people who would rather hide the fact that they said something rather than apologize? (And yes, I filed reports for some of these comments/experiences and the rhetoric was "She got X fired", not "X's own behavior got them fired".)
And more importantly, how do I move on from this knowing that it's going to happen again? The last job had the most amount of sexism in it. The thing about sexism (and racism) is that it's meant to make you feel devalued, and shocker, I felt devalued. It took me so long to gain my self confidence back. And I want so badly to protect myself. I never want to feel those feelings again. But the world is still sexist and racist and homophobic and xenophobic... all the phobics. And how do I tell my next work place that the reason why I left and why I took a break from working was to deal with the emotional repercussions from a very toxic/sexist work environment (when workplaces see whistle blowers as a red flag)? And how to I prepare my little sister who is in college studying a male dominated field knowing that she'll have to deal with the same things I went through?
It's been 4 months and I'm still angry and still jobless. I've grown to hate social interactions for fear of someone saying some ignorant shit. I've grown a distrust of all people. I hate how much this thing has affected me, how belittled I feel and how I can't move on from this. I feel emotionally paralyzed and money is running out and jobs are hard to come by especially because I'm not white nor am I a male and my hair isn't straight Billie Holiday - I Love My Man.
I'm tired of confusing people with how my looks don't match my attitude/personality that they've been conditionally taught to think it was like. I'm tired of confusing people with how unashamed I am of my existence.
24 votes -
Employees of Activision Blizzard file Unfair Labor Practice charge against the gaming company
8 votes -
Bus driver shortages are latest challenge hitting US schools
8 votes -
How open should I be with potential employers about my mental illness struggles?
For the past 3 years I haven't worked in any full-time job because I've been trying to sort my mental illness problems and I started a new Master's degree. Now that I am working on my thesis and...
For the past 3 years I haven't worked in any full-time job because I've been trying to sort my mental illness problems and I started a new Master's degree. Now that I am working on my thesis and my savings are running out, I want and need to find a job.
The problem is that my mental health still isn't where I wanted it to be. I don't think I can work 8h per day. For example right now I'm trying new medication and after around 3 hours of focused work I get tired and sleepy.
I've been applying to many jobs and I feel I'm close to getting one as I'm having multiple interviews per week. So far I've explained the gap in my resume as being severely I'll and needing time to get treatment. But I never tell interviewers exactly what my issues are or that I'm still figuring out how to be at the level of a normal person.
I've been hearing a podcast about a guy who faces the same issues as me and his strategy was to be upfront with his employer and tell them when he is entering a dark period and needs to work less. He works in the effective altruism industry which I think is very different from the rest. I think that if I am as upfront as he is I wouldn't get a single interview.
Tell me what you think. Thanks.
14 votes -
Danish government has presented a proposal to get foreigners and people with immigrant backgrounds to work thirty-seven hours a week in exchange for welfare benefits
7 votes -
Billie, Lorde, Lizzo: Pop stardom has never seemed less aspirational
11 votes -
What’s going on with the ‘Great Resignation’? You’d better work on hanging on to your workers, or you may end up shutting your business doors.
17 votes -
‘I had no confidence, no money’: The pop stars kept in limbo by major labels
9 votes -
Technical leadership and glue work
4 votes -
OnlyFans will prohibit "content containing sexually-explicit conduct" (but still allow nudity) starting October 1, at the request of banking/payment providers
50 votes -
Curt Schilling’s failed game studio finally sends last paychecks
7 votes -
Inside Facebook’s metaverse for work
4 votes -
You can now practice firing someone in virtual reality
6 votes -
These people who work from home have a secret: They have two jobs
16 votes -
Pay cut: Google employees who work from home could lose money
16 votes -
Apple keeps shutting down employee-run surveys on pay equity - and labor lawyers say it's illegal
24 votes -
Xsolla fires 150 employees based on big data analysis of their activity
14 votes -
Blizzard turned game developers into rock stars. Misbehavior followed
11 votes -
How the founder’s toxic culture tore apart Fullbright, the studio behind Gone Home
11 votes -
Activision Blizzard employees are walking out in protest
16 votes -
Inside Blizzard developers’ infamous Bill ‘Cosby Suite’
15 votes -
Walmart to pay 100% of college tuition and books for associates
11 votes -
Activision Blizzard sued by California over ‘frat boy’ culture
36 votes -
I’ve landed my first interview! Any advice?
After a hiatus of applying for jobs, I got an email from Indeed that really caught my attention. It’s for a programming job in a new-ish framework that has quickly become my favorite to work in. I...
After a hiatus of applying for jobs, I got an email from Indeed that really caught my attention. It’s for a programming job in a new-ish framework that has quickly become my favorite to work in.
I applied for that and got back to work on applying to other jobs, different languages and frameworks.
This morning I got a message from that first job opening, the one I wanted! They reached out to schedule an interview.
I’ve got really bad social anxiety and a lack of interviewing experience. How do I prepare?
23 votes -
Cows using virtual reality and the future of work
5 votes -
Why do women earn less than men? Evidence from bus and train operators
10 votes -
The success of Iceland's 'four-day week' trial has been greatly overstated
13 votes