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"What does anger mean for the immigrant?" - What we're talking about when we talk about "political correctness", inclusion, and social justice, Part 1

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  1. [9]
    patience_limited
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    Appropos this thread, there are rather horrifying levels of anger, vituperation, and bitterness about what could be more descriptive, accurate, and less freighted changes in nomenclature. The...

    Appropos this thread, there are rather horrifying levels of anger, vituperation, and bitterness about what could be more descriptive, accurate, and less freighted changes in nomenclature. The Python commit at issue was done poorly by reasonable technical standards of the community, but the change was as necessary as removing a painful splinter - once you notice the problem, you can't unnotice it. This is a microcosmic war deriving from macro problems.

    However, for me the question isn't just one of cleaning up the toxic relics of blind, unipolar thinking, but also acknowledging that there are more important things to do for all of us - to help people embrace complexity, to stop seeing their own pain through binary filters of black/white, male/female, young/old, native/immigrant, winners/losers. To participate in unification for everyone's interests.

    One of the most punishing problems with "political correctness" (not simply the caricature, but the actual practice) is that it addresses splinters when the world is full of broken bones. Many of us lack the power and/or knowledge to confront more dangerous forms of oppression that cut across all the binaries. We're not yet telling stories about the inclusive "us" and what the world we want looks like, because we're consumed with naming and fighting the oppressive "them".

    There are malign storytellers whose aim is to consolidate and direct "white", "male" anger against everyone else, defending and reinforcing economic power structures which are not favorable to the vast majority of those same white males. There is an economic system which is harming the vast majority of people, regardless of color, which succeeds politically by atomizing us into the smallest possible tribes of identity.

    I'd like to call attention to truths about complexity, about our overlapping spheres of mutual interest. That we are all participants in cooperative or combative relationships, constantly striving towards equilibrium, and as such are obliged to accept each other at face value, on the basis of information rather than promoted stories about "others". That we recognize the advantages and disadvantages we're all subject to. That we strive toward recognition of how we can become better people in a better civilization, rather than grasping after fictional stories of greater and lesser identities. That we take history fully into account in recognition of where we need to improve. That we ask, not declare, how to make a more just and equitable world for all of its inhabitants. That we owe each other the benefit of open, empathetic attention, rather than polarized judgment.

    In that spirit, I've linked a story which effectively captures the complex personal, emotional experience of identity and oppression. Dr. Sen's essay illustrates how capitulation to the dominant narrative of success isn't sufficient to make "otherness" safe, and acknowledges the nature of relative power - who has a "right" to express anger.

    [If you read the story through, you'll also note that it's a lesson in the value of broad exposure to humanities - literature, history, geography, mythology, comparative religion... Dr. Sen couldn't be so eloquent and precise in her explanation without that background.]

    If you've made it this far, thank you for your attention, and hopefully, your input.

    At the end of the 19th century, the African Amer­ican poet Paul Laurence Dunbar wrote,

    We wear the mask that grins and lies,
    It hides our cheeks and shades our eyes

    In the early decades of the 21st century, I know that if I stop grinning, I will frighten others with my anger. Anger is the useless emotion of people with grievances. Civilized people, superior people, capable people manage anger through reason, televised town hall meetings, logic gates, strategic planning, branding exercises, op­-eds, and fireside chats with tea and sherry.

    In the universities of America today there are angry students who say that when people of paler complexions use pigments to darken their faces and redden their lips for Halloween, when people with blond straight hair wear dark curly wigs in order to dress as a rapper, they are in­sulting black people. “Don’t curb our freedom and be a killjoy who doesn’t understand that Halloween is about experimentation,” say their opponents. “Children, do you want adults to tell you how to dress? Do you want to whine about microaggressions and institutionalized racism? Re­member, out there in the real world, outside college, no one will give you trigger warnings in a boardroom meeting.” Those who think angry students of color are pampered minorities continue, “Institutionalized racism is a figment of your imagination. This is the reign of emancipation. Jim Crow is a chapter in the history books. The empire has folded up its flags and bid farewell to the natives. Stop com­plaining, pull up your pants, and learn to have a little fun. We cannot go around changing names of buildings just because the name happens to belong to a white man who owned slaves. Think of all the good qualities the slave owner had. Think of all the wondrous things he did for this country.”

    “What’s wrong with a little racial ventriloquism? Race is just performance. Race is a metaphor. Race is a biologi­cal fiction. Let us perform our identities.” (These are the graduate­ school­ educated voices of America.) “What’s wrong with having a little fun?” (These are teenage voices in America.) “Parading in blackface is our cultural heri­tage. We will fight to protect our heritage.” (That is Dutch people parading as Zwarte Piet, or Black Pete, on Saint Nicholas’s Day.) These voices, I wager, are mostly white.

    Why do blackface and brownface bother me? Because I have been wearing whiteface for so long. Because my Hal­loween never ends. The tricks and the treats are not toilet paper and cheap candy. The truth is that the opposite of blackface is not whiteface. Blackface is jolly, makes fun of others, is entertainment, is a game you get to play when you are already the winner. Whiteface is sad, demeans me, is deadly serious, is a game we play when we know we are on the losing team.

    Blackface makes me angry because whiteface is not its opposite. And anger is no longer a heroic emotion. The age of Achilles is over. Gods and heroes no longer rage as the topless towers of Ilium burn. Now anger is a Third World emotion. Anger is a militant black. Anger is a shrill woman. Anger is a jihadi. Because we know this, many of us also hide our anger behind elaborate masks of comedy.

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    1. [5]
      super_james
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      The world is being destroyed by climate change, politically the U.S. is so divided that you're unable to elect moderates. Your politicians can be legally bribed and as such wealth inequality is...

      The world is being destroyed by climate change, politically the U.S. is so divided that you're unable to elect moderates. Your politicians can be legally bribed and as such wealth inequality is soaring & being locked into law.

      But it's really worth everyone's while to have the most commented on thread of the day to be about naming conventions internal to a language likely most of the commentators don't even use.

      You live at I suspect the most socially equitable time in 5000 years of recorded history. In one of the most socially equitable countries. When the average Jane is just working out: "Hey, my grandparents bought a house at age 25 on minimum wage. I went to collage I'm 30 and I can't fucking make rent."

      And we know that the economic elites and Russians are all perfectly happy to stir up irrelevant extremism on both sides of social equality issues. As you yourself said:

      There is an economic system which is harming the vast majority of people, regardless of color, which succeeds politically by atomizing us into the smallest possible tribes of identity.

      Well it takes two to argue.

      Do you really think lecturing people on changing naming conventions is helping you build the big tent you're gonna need to fight that? If the West should fall into fascism or revert to theocracy do you think China with their Uighur reeducation camps or Russia with their anti-gay propaganda prosecutions will pick up our progress on social equality again?

      In the same time period these topics on non social issues gained 1 comment each:
      What's next after liberal democracy
      Things Fall Apart pt2

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      1. [4]
        patience_limited
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        I don't remember saying that changing naming conventions was more important than working on the issues you describe. I said it's a vexing problem that some believe chasing leftover toxic memes is...

        I don't remember saying that changing naming conventions was more important than working on the issues you describe. I said it's a vexing problem that some believe chasing leftover toxic memes is as much power as they can safely exert.

        However, for me the question isn't just one of cleaning up the toxic relics of blind, unipolar thinking, but also acknowledging that there are more important things to do for all of us

        But do you really think that we can be effective in addressing big issues if there's vehement denial that even the smallest ones can or should be addressed? How long should "small" issues be put aside if the failure to address them undermines mutual trust?

        For the record, I disagree that the U.S. is one of the most socially equitable countries, neither economically nor politically, and we are backsliding.

        In the same time period these topics on non social issues gained 1 comment each:
        What's next after liberal democracy
        Things Fall Apart pt2

        Does it seem to you that the number of comments on a thread is indicative of its relative importance? It has seemed to me that the least commented threads on Tildes are those for which there is silent assent. If you read the Truthdig essay, it more or less made the same assertions as the "Whats next after liberal democracy" essay, but with additional links to historical and analytical material, and more attention to the victimized.

        What's most troubling about the points you've made, the articles we've both linked, and a host of other material, is that they're merely diagnostic at best, and full of apocalyptic pessimism at worst. Even Bernie Sanders' pronouncements are hollow populism with no praxis, and no one has put together an effective memetic vaccine against the spread of fascist ideology other than helping people feel safe with each other.

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        1. [3]
          super_james
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          Do you really think this is a good faith argument? Ok lets ignore comments, the two linked topics have ~5 votes. Even this one has 15, own-tribe signaling is just far more attractive than actually...

          Does it seem to you that the number of comments on a thread is indicative of its relative importance?

          Do you really think this is a good faith argument? Ok lets ignore comments, the two linked topics have ~5 votes. Even this one has 15, own-tribe signaling is just far more attractive than actually thinking about systems and being challenged.

          You really believe that when your ideology insists people give you un-limited control of their language use to 'remove splinters' you're helping the people you so casually lecture feel safe? When people have lost their jobs & reputation for minor infractions of language correctness? In order to win elections you need low class whites to feel safe, does the call out culture hyper focused on minority issues achieve this? Failing to do so will lose you both social & economic progression.

          Your last link was interesting, nothing to do with the point your paragraph made. Best of luck with your activism.

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            clerical_terrors
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            If a request at small change is construed verbatim as "giving people un-limited control of their language" then I'm not sure there really is a way to make anyone feel safe. Trust is a two-way...

            If a request at small change is construed verbatim as "giving people un-limited control of their language" then I'm not sure there really is a way to make anyone feel safe. Trust is a two-way street, why is it somebody else's responsibility to cater to anyone's habit of leaping to the least charitable interpretation of intent?

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            1. super_james
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              I don't think you followed the discussion I had in the other thread...

              I don't think you followed the discussion I had in the other thread...

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      Lynndolynn
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      Actually, if I may make another comment, I think the biggest problem I've seen with "political correctness" is not that it addresses splinters rather than bones, but that so many people so...

      Actually, if I may make another comment, I think the biggest problem I've seen with "political correctness" is not that it addresses splinters rather than bones, but that so many people so viciously oppose removing the splinters in the first place.

      Like we both observed in that thread, people's reactions range from denying that the splinter exists, to claiming that we may as well pull all of our hair out, too, since it also enters the skin, to claiming that anyone who cares about the splinter is weak and easily hurt. I wish I could find it again, but I remember reading an article about civil rights discussing how so many of the people who opposed the Civil Rights Act of 1964 did so because they believed that black people were already equal. I think that belief is the basis for so much of this backlash - we're already equal, why are you agitating?

      What worries me so much is that if we as a society are so opposed to making small changes - removing splinters - how are we ever going to make the big, more important changes?

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      1. patience_limited
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        I think I got at some of this in the reply to @super_james, but the underlying problem is that when even the "splinters" are met with such resistance and threatened violence, who will have the...

        I think I got at some of this in the reply to @super_james, but the underlying problem is that when even the "splinters" are met with such resistance and threatened violence, who will have the courage to take on more serious problems? If anything, the ragefests at even the smallest protest are manufactured and fueled precisely to keep people frightened of the personal costs for more purposeful, concerted action.

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    3. Lynndolynn
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      Thank you for sharing. The article was thought-provoking, and you make good points regarding our focus on splinters when there are still broken bones to address. I think I may need to put that...

      Thank you for sharing. The article was thought-provoking, and you make good points regarding our focus on splinters when there are still broken bones to address. I think I may need to put that book on my to-read list. :)

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    Exalt
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    I used to be strongly against political correctness, but of late I've found my view shifting, at least in part because of a book I read. It's called The Player of Games and it shows how powerful...

    I used to be strongly against political correctness, but of late I've found my view shifting, at least in part because of a book I read. It's called The Player of Games and it shows how powerful altering something as simple as language can be. One of the ideas presented is that the language (Marain) has words for gender, but they aren't used -- because it's considered irrelevant. Butchering a quote from the book: The Culture's message was clear: what mattered was intelligence, not your gonads. I don't think English will ever be like Marain but maybe moving it (and its kin) closer in some aspects isn't such a bad idea.

    On the other hand, there's plenty of angry people who are more than happy to censor, chill, and otherwise attack anyone who doesn't join the mob (on both sides). That's not something I'll ever support.

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    1. patience_limited
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      It's never as simple as just declaring a difference irrelevant, unfortunately. And I apologize in advance if what follows seems like a lecture or retread of old ground. It's just that the...

      It's never as simple as just declaring a difference irrelevant, unfortunately. And I apologize in advance if what follows seems like a lecture or retread of old ground. It's just that the underlying inequities are often argued past when we talk about "political correctness" as an abhorrent act of censorship and moral wrong somehow greater.

      As we've seen, every step toward equality of rights both in law and in culture invites a backlash; the backlash has a counter-backlash, and so on until a political equilibrium or open warfare is reached. The U.S. had a great deal of "post-racial", "post-feminist", "post-class" nonsense floating around in mainstream punditry through the last couple of decades that contributed to the "we've solved this, what trivia are you complaining about?" attitude that pervades current discourse. The U.S. data says that little has been solved - schools and neighborhoods remain about as segregated now as in 1970, median women's pay is still around 75 - 80% (less if you're brown) of men's, and median real-dollar household income hasn't budged since 1980. And gonads are definitely still relevant, particularly fertile female ones.

      I don't want to play the "both sides" game - there's a difference between vociferous and violent, and the current preponderance of personalized or terroristic violence is on only one.

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  3. Cliftonia
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    Can this be tagged with politics, please?

    Can this be tagged with politics, please?