I guess it's throwaway time. I am not sure where on the BSDM spectrum this fits, but I like to hit my partners, which are women. Most sexual partners do not wish or allow being spanked, and the...
I guess it's throwaway time.
I am not sure where on the BSDM spectrum this fits, but I like to hit my partners, which are women. Most sexual partners do not wish or allow being spanked, and the ones that do are still fairly vanilla, so I am really not sure how far I would go if given free rein. I would like to use strong language with them as well. My previous partner allowed me to beat her and use strong language, and she liked it, but we weren't together for long so we didn't have the opportunity to develop it. I merely slapped her in the face a bunch of times, and not super strong or anything, but her cheeks got red and that was extremely erotic to me. She really liked giving me an avenue to express that preference. I am now in a stable relationship with another woman. I find her extremely attractive. I talked to her about doing rough play, but she is absolutely not into it. At all. I even tried inverting the polarity, so that she could make me her slave. It didn't work, she just wanted to lay there and let me make the decisions. But not enough to feel like domination either. I love her, but that is frustrating. Not only because of that specific kink, but she is really not very interested in anything creative in bed. Maybe I am paying the price for being extremely good at cunnilingus (no false modesty here), because she doesn't want me to do anything else.
She is very girly, romantic, and traditional in bed.
I guess it's throwaway time.
I am not sure where on the BSDM spectrum this fits, but I like to hit my partners, which are women. Most sexual partners do not wish or allow being spanked, and the ones that do are still fairly vanilla, so I am really not sure how far I would go if given free rein. I would like to use strong language with them as well. My previous partner allowed me to beat her and use strong language, and she liked it, but we weren't together for long so we didn't have the opportunity to develop it. I merely slapped her in the face a bunch of times, and not super strong or anything, but her cheeks got red and that was extremely erotic to me. She really liked giving me an avenue to express that preference. I am now in a stable relationship with another woman. I find her extremely attractive. I talked to her about doing rough play, but she is absolutely not into it. At all. I even tried inverting the polarity, so that she could make me her slave. It didn't work, she just wanted to lay there and let me make the decisions. But not enough to feel like domination either. I love her, but that is frustrating. Not only because of that specific kink, but she is really not very interested in anything creative in bed. Maybe I am paying the price for being extremely good at cunnilingus (no false modesty here), because she doesn't want me to do anything else.
She is very girly, romantic, and traditional in bed.