- Haven't hit the 40 quarters I'm sure, but am close will be getting another job so that will be solved.
- That thought has crossed my mind, but it'll be quite a bit down the road. To pull out enough at once to buy will take so much tax that it won't pay for a home and while there is security in owning, having zero money and owning a home isn't a much better position. It is a possibility I am keeping open, and other suggestions made here such as a duplex and renting out the half I do not live in, once I have normal employment.
- He owned a home that went to his wife, who is not my mother (my mother passed several years ago). To keep it short, his wife has a daughter whom I am not, and while we are on pleasant enough terms I do not expect to get anything further once she dies. I received this $500k, she got everything else.
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InheritedIRA (OP) Link ParentHaven't hit the 40 quarters I'm sure, but am close will be getting another job so that will be solved. That thought has crossed my mind, but it'll be quite a bit down the road. To pull out enough... -
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InheritedIRA Link ParentYes he did. I am renting, until a couple of days ago I was unaware of what, if anything, I'd get as an inheritance, but it is not enough to buy a house, although the mention of renting a room is a...- Yes he did.
- I am renting, until a couple of days ago I was unaware of what, if anything, I'd get as an inheritance, but it is not enough to buy a house, although the mention of renting a room is a non-starter for me (I cannot at this time live with someone else), another person here mentioned a duplex which is perhaps more realistic. Will look into that, but will be a few years before that can be a possibility.
- That is the plan.
- On my list of questions as well.
- Will do, thank you.
I am entitled to some of his social security. The divorce was very specifically finalized 10 years and one month after we were married.
I do intend to get a job, and have been looking, just wasn't willing before to have my soul sucked out at Walmart and less willing to do so now. Even a part time job at something like a non-profit or public service that only pays $20k a year would half what I need to pull out of the account for example. More is better of course and my recent move opens up local options that I did not have previously. -
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InheritedIRA Link ParentI'm in a much better place now mentally, somewhere I did not think was possible two years ago (short version, ex was abusive, but as abusers will do I was convinced it was the best I could ever...I'm in a much better place now mentally, somewhere I did not think was possible two years ago (short version, ex was abusive, but as abusers will do I was convinced it was the best I could ever get). I will not be spending money hand over fist, but just will not be fearful of being homeless because I took myself to a movie and couldn't make rent because of it. I do take my mental health seriously now and I no longer neglect it.
I do intend to get a job, and have been looking, just wasn't willing before to have my soul sucked out at Walmart and less willing to do so now. Even a part time job at something like a non-profit or public service that only pays $20k a year would half what I need to pull out of the account for example. More is better of course and my recent move opens up local options that I did not have previously. To clarify, when I say invest in my small businesses, I'm referring to the tune of $5-10k max over the course of a couple of years. I've yet to invest anything in my ventures except my time and with that I've had good months that nearly paid all my bills and others that didn't make a dime, so the idea brewing is more from a marketing standpoint to get it to be a more steady income if possible.
Thankfully, I have a very reliable, low mileage, Honda that my father gave me that I recently had serviced and checked out by a trusted mechanic and it passed with flying colors. So the car issue is resolved for at least a decade as I am a stickler on its maintenance.
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Comment on Single, solo, poor, woman gets $500k pre-tax, how to make the most of it? in ~finance
InheritedIRA Link ParentThank you for the link. I'm in a much better place now mentally, somewhere I did not think was possible two years ago (short version, ex was abusive, but as abusers will do I was convinced it was...Thank you for the link. I'm in a much better place now mentally, somewhere I did not think was possible two years ago (short version, ex was abusive, but as abusers will do I was convinced it was the best I could ever get). I will not be spending money hand over fist, but just will not be fearful of being homeless because I took myself to a movie and couldn't make rent because of it.
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InheritedIRA Link ParentThank you very much for the recommendation and link, will look into NM and the list further as I begin a search for a financial advisor.Thank you very much for the recommendation and link, will look into NM and the list further as I begin a search for a financial advisor.
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InheritedIRA Link ParentDon't want to respond to every comment or interrupt the back-and-forth between you two, but thank you both for taking the time to respond with options and links for me to look into.Don't want to respond to every comment or interrupt the back-and-forth between you two, but thank you both for taking the time to respond with options and links for me to look into.
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Comment on Single, solo, poor, woman gets $500k pre-tax, how to make the most of it? in ~finance
InheritedIRA Link ParentThank you for the response and advice on tickers to look for. To clarify, when I say invest in my small businesses, I'm referring to the tune of $5-10k max over the course of a couple of years....Thank you for the response and advice on tickers to look for.
To clarify, when I say invest in my small businesses, I'm referring to the tune of $5-10k max over the course of a couple of years. I've yet to invest anything in my ventures except my time and with that I've had good months that nearly paid all my bills and others that didn't make a dime, so the idea brewing is more from a marketing standpoint to get it to be a more steady income if possible.
I do intend to get a job, and have been looking, just wasn't willing before to have my soul sucked out at Walmart and less willing to do so now. Even a part time job at something like a non-profit or public service that only pays $20k a year would half what I need to pull out of the account for example. More is better of course and my recent move opens up local options that I did not have previously. -
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InheritedIRA Link ParentI'm not disabled. I can, but unlikely to do so as I'll need continued access to it until I have another source of income. As I understand it I have to pull all of it out in 10 years and it is...- I'm not disabled.
- I can, but unlikely to do so as I'll need continued access to it until I have another source of income. As I understand it I have to pull all of it out in 10 years and it is considered normal income for me, so I'll have to pay normal income taxes on it. Income tax alone (not including social security taxes) is $40k over 10 years if I pull out $50k per year. Pulling it out all at once is $140k in taxes.
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InheritedIRA Link ParentNo intent to start spending any more than I already do to keep the lights on and a roof over my head. In no rush to pull it out, but will have to do so and looking to do so with the lowest tax...No intent to start spending any more than I already do to keep the lights on and a roof over my head. In no rush to pull it out, but will have to do so and looking to do so with the lowest tax burden possible.
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InheritedIRA Link ParentI am not retired unfortunately, just haven't been able/needed to work in about a decade.I am not retired unfortunately, just haven't been able/needed to work in about a decade.
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InheritedIRA Link ParentFae, we've interacted elsewhere here on my main account. I take you and your statements to heart. If you have anything you wish to say, please feel free to do so. Was out running errands, so...Fae, we've interacted elsewhere here on my main account. I take you and your statements to heart. If you have anything you wish to say, please feel free to do so. Was out running errands, so didn't get to see what was said.
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InheritedIRA Link ParentLargely metaphorical. I get out, moving to a place I could do so was one of the reasons for moving, but as far as actual "entertainment" in going out to dinner, buying myself a piece of clothing,...Largely metaphorical. I get out, moving to a place I could do so was one of the reasons for moving, but as far as actual "entertainment" in going out to dinner, buying myself a piece of clothing, looking for treasures that make me happy at thrift stores, etc. I've had a budget of $50/month max for a very long time. Anything over that means something like the electricity doesn't get paid or I don't eat for a week or I have to skip getting a prescription refilled.
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InheritedIRA Link ParentI am not a qualified individual and he had already started taking RMDs, but hadn't taken all of it this year so I have to take out the minimum that he was required to do so already per my case...I am not a qualified individual and he had already started taking RMDs, but hadn't taken all of it this year so I have to take out the minimum that he was required to do so already per my case worker at the investment firm.
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Comment on Single, solo, poor, woman gets $500k pre-tax, how to make the most of it? in ~finance
InheritedIRA Link ParentI fully intend to discuss with a financial advisor, my father had one he trusted his entire life and has offered his services to me as well. This post is partially to gather info that I do not...I fully intend to discuss with a financial advisor, my father had one he trusted his entire life and has offered his services to me as well. This post is partially to gather info that I do not know/have not googled so far so I know what I am talking about when I talk to a financial advisor soon. For example the VITA mentioned elsewhere and your specification of "fee-only fiduciary financial planner" are things I wasn't aware of to look for, so thank you.
What I do know so far:
I have to extract it all within 10 years.
Since it is a Traditional IRA, I will have to pay normal income tax on it, but not the early withdrawal penalty.
I do have to take an RMD since he had already been required to do so at his death.
I have zero intention of taking it out in any lump sum, am not a tax professional, but the back of the napkin math difference between taking it out all at once and taking it out in $50k increments is $100k in taxes. -
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InheritedIRA Link ParentWill look into those, thank you. Unfortunately, not touching it isn't an option as I have no other income and it has to all be removed within 10 years per US law. There is a Required Minimum...Will look into those, thank you. Unfortunately, not touching it isn't an option as I have no other income and it has to all be removed within 10 years per US law. There is a Required Minimum Distribution that also must be met, but that will not be an issue as my overall expenses exceed the RMD.
Living how I currently do is mostly the plan, but also be nice if taking myself out to dinner once isn't the only "luxury" I get to experience each month. Is a strain on mental health to leave the house one time and not be able to afford to do so at all for the next 30 days.
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Single, solo, poor, woman gets $500k pre-tax, how to make the most of it?
Hello all, long time listener, first time poster. First time poster because this is a throwaway account as it will have more personal info included than I'd like linked to my main account. The...
Hello all, long time listener, first time poster. First time poster because this is a throwaway account as it will have more personal info included than I'd like linked to my main account. The point of this post is to request guidance/advice/ideas from the always incredible, intelligent, and helpful people of Tildes.
The high level points:
- I am a female 40 year old, for lack of a better phrase, starving artist living in the US. I am single, live alone with my cat in an apartment, and have no debt.
- I have not held a steady/normal job in over a decade (mental health being a primary reason), my personal income has come from a couple of very small business ventures where I make things by hand, some freelance graphic design, the generosity of friends, and pet sitting. The latter is dead in the water as all my pets were in another state and I just moved in the last 30 days to a place that is much smaller and simply will not have the customer base to do the same, nor am I all that interested in pursuing it here.
- My primary method of financial support over the last decade was being the homemaker to my now-ex husband up until about two years ago when he informed me he no longer wished to be my husband. Since then my primary financial support was from my now-deceased father, who generously provided me with $2,500 per month to subsist on, with my previously mentioned ventures closing the finances gap as much as possible.
- Over the decade of being in a single income household and for the last two years subsisting off a "guaranteed" income of $30,000 per year I managed to learn to be extremely frugal wherever possible so as to not spend above my means and keep a roof over my head. I eat once per day, my overall health isn't great but I am attempting to address that, and thus far my "retail therapy" budget to give me a little boost of dopamine has been $50 per month that is generally spent in thrift stores. I wouldn't call it living so much as I'd call it surviving and am often unsure why I bother.
The issue/question at hand:
My father has passed away and with him my primary/only means of support, with his passing I have inherited just over $500,000 in a Traditional IRA. So my primary question is how to minimize tax burden and maximize return on his investments to make them last as long as possible while I figure out the next stage of my life.I am not opposed to getting a normal/steady job, but this is more difficult to obtain than one would imagine with a decade long gap in employment and an unwillingness to sacrifice the mental health gains I have made and gestures broadly everything else that is going on. There is also the bit of freedom that this amount of money provides that will perhaps allow me to double down on my small business ventures, investing in them/myself at a level that I was unable to do prior and therefore enabling them to become a primary source of support. So there is a thought of setting a budget, both monetary and time, to allow myself to try to grow my businesses first.
TLDR: Single, solo, poor, woman gets $500k pre-tax, how to make the most of it?
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