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Anyone had experience with Element and making friends on there?
things have happened recently and I think I might need to make a friend that is more available. I have friends and some are close but they are not as plugged in as I am so sometimes when I am in...
things have happened recently and I think I might need to make a friend that is more available.
I have friends and some are close but they are not as plugged in as I am so sometimes when I am in need of some comfort, I feel lonely and after some searching and googling, it seems that element is best for me given my distaste of anything app-based and my desire to upload as little information about myself to a public place.
but I have never really had experience with element and am not sure the best way to find a room of people who are friendly, speak english, and has a vibe I find appealing?
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I think you are making me confront the fact that maybe my search is perhaps pointless.
most of my friends don't live near me and while I would consider 2-3 close, and they have said they consider me close, a blocker has always been the geographical barrier which means that we can't regularly hang out and my friends are not like me in the sense that when I get a message, I respond pretty quickly.
one of my friends decided recently that she doesnt want the obligation of always being available to anyone.
and the other night, I was having a mental health episode and it made me realize that while I can't claim I don't have friends, I can't always rely on them to be available on a random night and I wish I had a friend like that.
pair that with the fact that I prefer to spend most of my time at home, just cause my life is busy with chores or things to do at the computer or other obligations, finding the time to going out and making a local friend is not really something I can do.