I'm really glad you posted this, because honestly the whole "unicorn hunter" concept rubbed me the wrong way, and even felt a little bit biphobic towards bi couples, but now I'm realising I just...
I'm really glad you posted this, because honestly the whole "unicorn hunter" concept rubbed me the wrong way, and even felt a little bit biphobic towards bi couples, but now I'm realising I just didn't understand. All the points listed are important but to me the biggest take-away message was "treat people like people not objects", and that's exactly what my partner and I do when involving other people in our love or sex lives. "Unicorn hunter" has gone from something I was worried people would unfairly think of me, to something I know I'm not.
I was totally down with the arguments she made in the beginning but does anyone else feel like a list of 24 things that unicorn hunters do screams victim complex?
I was totally down with the arguments she made in the beginning but does anyone else feel like a list of 24 things that unicorn hunters do screams victim complex?
I wouldn't say it "screams victim complex", but I did find them a bit repetitive. I think she's just not a very concise writer. Personally, I believe the piece, though very informative, could pack...
I wouldn't say it "screams victim complex", but I did find them a bit repetitive. I think she's just not a very concise writer. Personally, I believe the piece, though very informative, could pack a better punch with less points and more focus on them. So, if I were to choose what stood out to me, it would be "sexual objectification", "general lack of respect for the lgbt community and their spaces" and "toxic masculinity".
I'm really glad you posted this, because honestly the whole "unicorn hunter" concept rubbed me the wrong way, and even felt a little bit biphobic towards bi couples, but now I'm realising I just didn't understand. All the points listed are important but to me the biggest take-away message was "treat people like people not objects", and that's exactly what my partner and I do when involving other people in our love or sex lives. "Unicorn hunter" has gone from something I was worried people would unfairly think of me, to something I know I'm not.
I was totally down with the arguments she made in the beginning but does anyone else feel like a list of 24 things that unicorn hunters do screams victim complex?
I wouldn't say it "screams victim complex", but I did find them a bit repetitive. I think she's just not a very concise writer. Personally, I believe the piece, though very informative, could pack a better punch with less points and more focus on them. So, if I were to choose what stood out to me, it would be "sexual objectification", "general lack of respect for the lgbt community and their spaces" and "toxic masculinity".