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  1. Comment on Beth Gibbons - Mysteries (2002) in ~music

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    I really like that album. Listened to it this week. So eery.

    I really like that album. Listened to it this week. So eery.

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  2. Comment on TV Tuesdays Free Talk in ~tv

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    I used to love 24 and still do. But some things are pretty funny on rewatch. First, Bauer sedates his superior based on absolutely nothing. And now a cop who doesn't even know what CTU is decided...

    I used to love 24 and still do. But some things are pretty funny on rewatch. First, Bauer sedates his superior based on absolutely nothing. And now a cop who doesn't even know what CTU is decided to help him in on a chase instead of arresting him. Based on a badge she never saw before lol.

    Also, why is the chief of a unit going around chasing people with guns? Don't they have a tactics unit? I mean the excuse is that he cannot trust anyone, but I am sure there is at least one tactical buddy he can rely on lol.

    I don't think I ever watched it in full because back then you had to catch it on television, and I didn't even start watching on day one.

    That show goes so fast into action that you don't have time to think about the details. I don't think I ever saw something like that on TV. Before or since. It is unabashedly fantasy, and yet it manages to give the illusion of being grounded. Great television.

    3 votes

  3. Comment on What made that wedding that you attended particularly memorable? in ~life

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    Well, I officiated it. It was a full, formal, traditional ceremony with the exception that I am not a priest. I got positive feedback from the guests, some were very moved by my words. That was...

    Well, I officiated it. It was a full, formal, traditional ceremony with the exception that I am not a priest. I got positive feedback from the guests, some were very moved by my words. That was many yeas ago and they have a 1-year-old now. So I guess it turned out well.

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  5. Comment on What's something that's more challenging for you than it is for others? in ~talk

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    Avoiding profound misunderstandings with tragic consequences. I mean, almost everyone has gone through something like that in their lives. But my social mishaps are so frequent and profound and go...

    Avoiding profound misunderstandings with tragic consequences. I mean, almost everyone has gone through something like that in their lives. But my social mishaps are so frequent and profound and go so much farther than the norm that they led me to increasing isolation. That is made worse by the fact that I actually do wish to participate in social events. But at my current stage I am simply unwilling to pay the price. Some may be open to giving the benefit of the doubt to a 12-year-old autistic kid. Much less so to a 44-year-old autistic adult.

    2 votes

  6. Comment on Is there any interest in building a Tildes successor? in ~tildes

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    Yes. As long as it was just Tildes but they implemented all the features that were already planned from the start and nothing more.

    Yes. As long as it was just Tildes but they implemented all the features that were already planned from the start and nothing more.

    3 votes

  7. Comment on Looking for an effective self-block application for Android in ~tech

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    An update I identified the issue with both Lock Me Out and Digital Detox (which in retrospect can also be uninstalled during a block). I have no idea why I arrived at that suspicion, but the issue...

    An update

    I identified the issue with both Lock Me Out and Digital Detox (which in retrospect can also be uninstalled during a block).

    I have no idea why I arrived at that suspicion, but the issue is that my phone was in Portuguese and these apps clearly work by identifying specific strings. Changing my phone to English made both work as intended, and the settings to stop and uninstall them are completely blocked!

    I don't mind using my phone in English but I'm used to Portuguese and that's a little annoying. This change in behavior was probably caused by some Android update along the way.

    Oh, well 🤣

    3 votes

  8. Comment on Looking for an effective self-block application for Android in ~tech

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    If anyone's curious, I found the almost perfect app for me: Digital Detox by Urbandroid on Android. It is free, blocks everything, and even prevents me from uninstalling it by replacing the lock...

    If anyone's curious, I found the almost perfect app for me: Digital Detox by Urbandroid on Android.

    It is free, blocks everything, and even prevents me from uninstalling it by replacing the lock screen with its own launcher containing only the items I've whitelisted. I also cannot access my default launcher, of course.

    I can set an amount to pay to end the blocks the same way as I could with Lock Me Out. So I chose a value that is substantial enough to deter my impulses but also not high enough that it imposes too much of a burden in case of an emergency.

    Thank you for all the suggestions, and give Digital Detox a chance if you have needs similar to mine!

    3 votes

  9. Comment on Looking for an effective self-block application for Android in ~tech

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    What I described and more. WhatsApp is essentially the everything app in my country. All kinds of anxiety inducing solicitations you can possibly imagine go through WhatsApp.

    What I described and more. WhatsApp is essentially the everything app in my country. All kinds of anxiety inducing solicitations you can possibly imagine go through WhatsApp.

  10. Comment on Looking for an effective self-block application for Android in ~tech

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    Unfortunately some apps are inescapable due to circumstances outside my control. WhatsApp, for example, is both socially and practically mandatory in my country. We use WhatsApp to make doctors...

    Unfortunately some apps are inescapable due to circumstances outside my control. WhatsApp, for example, is both socially and practically mandatory in my country. We use WhatsApp to make doctors appointments, be in touch with family and even interacting with companies, banks and governments. I already never had or already uninstalled many addictive apps such as Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, orTwitter. There is also the issue of being able to easily reinstall any app other Play Store. With Lock Me Out these apps remained blocked regardless.

  11. Comment on Looking for an effective self-block application for Android in ~tech

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    I have not. If I understand correctly, someone would have to act as the "parent" in those cases? Perhaps my wife? It's definitely a possibility. I'll look into it. Thanks!

    I have not. If I understand correctly, someone would have to act as the "parent" in those cases? Perhaps my wife? It's definitely a possibility. I'll look into it. Thanks!

    3 votes

  12. Comment on Looking for an effective self-block application for Android in ~tech

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    Unfortunately anything that is not a hard block will work for me. I could buy a much crappier phone, that is certainly a possibility. But the reality is that I'll just keep using regardless of...

    Unfortunately anything that is not a hard block will work for me. I could buy a much crappier phone, that is certainly a possibility. But the reality is that I'll just keep using regardless of inconvenience, the impulse is way too strong.

    Thanks!

    1 vote

  13. Looking for an effective self-block application for Android

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    My phone is a Samsung A55. Fully updated. I have ADHD and autism, which is to say that I have a very obsessive personality. I have used various blockers over the years to prevent me from wasting...

    My phone is a Samsung A55. Fully updated.

    I have ADHD and autism, which is to say that I have a very obsessive personality. I have used various blockers over the years to prevent me from wasting time on apps and websites.

    Lock me Out has helped me for many years to curb my smartphone usage. Unfortunately, it stopped working, as it became easy to circumvent by either forcing the program to stop or uninstalling it. I have been in contact with the developer, but they weren't able to find a solution and eventually stopped responding to my emails.

    So I need an app that prevents me from disabling blocks at all.

    While I can pay for an app even if it is a little expensive, I cannot justify an expensive subscription priced in US dollars (although I might do so if there's no other alternative).

    Any suggestions that could help me out? I'm using my phone 24/7, I can't stand it anymore. And I cannot simply turn it off because I have a toddler, and I must be accessible to my wife for emergencies when she leaves the home with him.

    There are also many ways to use a smartphone that are actually useful, positive, and non-addictive. And I'd rather be able to access these functionalities.

    Thanks!

    17 votes

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  15. Comment on World number-one Magnus Carlsen defeated Fabiano Caruana in the final classical game to win the inaugural 2024 Freestyle Chess G.O.A.T. Challenge in ~games.tabletop

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    "Freestyle chess" is the same as chess960 and Fischer Random Chess. chess960 is what people usually call it to avoid mentioning its creator Bobby Fischer. That's the first time I've seen it called...

    "Freestyle chess" is the same as chess960 and Fischer Random Chess. chess960 is what people usually call it to avoid mentioning its creator Bobby Fischer. That's the first time I've seen it called "Freestyle", I guess I'm just misinformed.

    3 votes

  16. Comment on Ding Liren wins 2023 FIDE World Championship in rapid tiebreak in ~games.tabletop

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    I just can't believe Nepo let this win escape through his fingers. He had it at one point. Ultimately, it comes down to personality and work ethic. Ding seemed totally willing to drive himself...

    I just can't believe Nepo let this win escape through his fingers. He had it at one point. Ultimately, it comes down to personality and work ethic. Ding seemed totally willing to drive himself crazy to squeeze every ounce of grey matter he could get. Looking at him during this match made me sad. On the other hand, Nepo is usually detached, bored, and a bit arrogant at the chessboard. I was rooting for Nepo once again, and I do believe he is the better chess player, but I came to terms with the fact that no one becomes world champion with that attitude. Nepo is always preserving himself from stress, and that is not something you can do at that level and win. Unless your name is Magnus, of course.

    Just look at the interview, Ding is falling apart, while Nepo looks just a little distraught.

    3 votes

  18. Comment on World Chess Championship game 8: More drama, Ding Liren misses big chance in ~games.tabletop