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What happens when the experience of celebrity becomes universal?

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    skybrian
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    From the article: […] […]

    From the article:

    That’s not to say the experience of being known, paid attention to, commented on by strangers, is in any sense universal. It’s still foreign to most people, online and off. But now the possibility of it haunts online life, which increasingly is just life. The previous limiting conditions on what’s private and what’s public, on who can know you, have been lifted. In the case of our young Russian lovebirds, one might safely assume that, until Bellingcat started snooping around their wedding videos, they had been spared the experience of the sudden burst of Internet fame. But, like them, just about everyone is always dancing at the edge of that cliff, oblivious or not.

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    The Star seeks recognition from the Fan, but the Fan is a stranger, who cannot be known by the Star. Because the Star cannot recognize the Fan, the Fan’s recognition of the Star doesn’t satisfy the core existential desire. There is no way to bridge the inherent asymmetry of the relationship, short of actual friendship and correspondence, but that, of course, cannot be undertaken at the same scale. And so the Star seeks recognition and gets, instead, attention.

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    Everyone is losing their minds online because the combination of mass fame and mass surveillance increasingly channels our most basic impulses—toward loving and being loved, caring for and being cared for, getting the people we know to laugh at our jokes—into the project of impressing strangers, a project that cannot, by definition, sate our desires but feels close enough to real human connection that we cannot but pursue it in ever more compulsive ways.

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      skybrian
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      And what can we say about posting under a pseudonym? This precludes most possibilities of being known, for good reasons. In some ways I think meetups and dating apps are more straightforward,...

      And what can we say about posting under a pseudonym? This precludes most possibilities of being known, for good reasons.

      In some ways I think meetups and dating apps are more straightforward, since the goal really is to get together in real life.

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      1. Nepenthaceae
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        your statement brings to mind reddit users like u/poemforyoursprog, what do we think of their "fame"?

        your statement brings to mind reddit users like u/poemforyoursprog, what do we think of their "fame"?

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