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Weekly Israel-Hamas war megathread - week of April 22
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How do you guys cope with how the war is going? It feels hopeless sometimes, seeing people loose their homes, war crimes happening (with video evidence) and then seeing our own government flat out deny them. I know alot of Palestinians and they're all sorta going through this horrible cycle of grief, and many can't speak out about it. My family is also Muslim so I end up feeling pretty bad when I see Israeli soldiers desecrating Islamic stuff, which I have seen numerous times.
From what I gather now Israel seems to want to build settlements in Gaza and will probably do something in the West Bank, the question is at this point how long before someone breaks the cycle? I don't think they will succeed doing this no matter how hard our politicians support them. How do I cope with what's going on, genuinely?
I feel you on so many of those fronts and it's really difficult.
I have a number of Palestinian friends, some here, some living within Israel, and some who were in Gaza (a few of whom have passes.) It's a really sad situation. I think for me the hardest part has been seeing folks in my circles who have been so quick to post vitriol online. To blame Palestinians for their own "predicament", make extreme claims like "there are no innocents in Gaza", or just minimize the scale of violence. Particularly when it's people I know and like and work with regularly. It's been pretty astonishing how widespread and socially acceptable it's been.
I've been trying, embarrassingly, to put into practice the Yvon Chouinard quote "the antidote to depression is action." I've been engaging in the collective action campaigns domestically (like the "undecided" ballot cast instead of Biden) or sending letters and calling my state representatives to encourage them to be more vocal for a ceasefire and ratification of Palestine within the UN. I've been reaching out more to Palestinian friends and in some cases helping to organize places for them to stay in the meantime. I've had 2 friends move the US, one to New York the other here in California, and another to Portugal. Otherwise we organized a movie night for Gaza Surf Club with friends/ the local surfer community to try to humanize the folks being murdered. Honestly, I don't think I'm moving the needle politically but hopefully making it a little better for a few folks in my network and trying the provide a more supportive community for our friends locally.
Otherwise I'd say I go down one Gaza related spiral a week, sometimes posting here and later regretting it, and then taking a week long hiatus from web based news until some flippant headline snags my attention, rage ensues, and the cycle starts anew. The more time I take away from it the better I feel, but I feel pretty guilty about it. I'm trying to keep the mindset that I can't light myself on fire to keep others warm and so try to engage in the really distressing stuff in smaller chunks with longer intervals in between (so I can understand what is happening and how things are progressing without thinking about it all the time).
Take everything from here with a grain of salt cause it's pretty much all projection from me at me from a few months ago. I think if you can take some time away from the really triggering things that would be best. At this point you know in your bones the horrible things that are happening (the war crimes, destruction, and murder) and seeing them validated again and again is only going to send you into a rage spiral. So if you can take the urgency of knowing these things are happening without having to experience them again and again by seeing them I think you can point your anger and frustration into positive action rather than a feeling of hopelessness. Or at worst you might not feel as horrible everyday.
On an optimistic note, I think perception has really shifted. I think this is the first time that there is widespread support of Palestinians and the last 9 months has really taken the mask off of the IDF and their hyper-brutal war tactics. Younger generations have a completely different view of the conflict and I think that pressure will (fingers crossed) lead to political change domestically. That is the silver lining that I'm taking away from everything. It's been a "both sides are the problem" for such a long time. I think that argument is finally being questioned.
Google fires more workers after CEO says workplace isn’t for politics (Washington Post)
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In war-battered Gaza, residents grow angry with Hamas (Washington Post)
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