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  1. Comment on What do you think the top three most used apps on your phone for the past week are? in ~tech

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    Guess: Ironwolf (Firefox), Aliucord (Discord), Mihon I have no way to verify this as GrapheneOS apparently removes this kind of tracking Edit: On Battery Usage it shows screen time for a few apps...

    Guess: Ironwolf (Firefox), Aliucord (Discord), Mihon

    I have no way to verify this as GrapheneOS apparently removes this kind of tracking

    Edit: On Battery Usage it shows screen time for a few apps (only since last charge), but there's no way to sort by screen time.
    Using what's available there my highest screen times are:
    Ironwolf, Aliucord and Endfield.

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  2. Comment on Who’s buying SpaceX and Anthropic? in ~finance

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    Absolutely not, the reason they're going public is because they're burning money.

    Absolutely not, the reason they're going public is because they're burning money.

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  3. Comment on So it turns out I was cheated on in ~health.mental

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    I'm sorry you are going through this. As someone that went through something similar in the past, the things that helped me were: The knowledge that this pain your are feeling right now is...

    I'm sorry you are going through this.

    As someone that went through something similar in the past, the things that helped me were:

    • The knowledge that this pain your are feeling right now is temporary. It might take a while but in a few years from now you'll be in a better place.
    • You now have the freedom to do whatever you want without having to cater your ex wants/needs.
    • Keep your mind busy. I am aware you will be busy with your child soon but do not allow your mind to drag you further down. Find new hobbies, reconnect with friends, spend time with your family (if you live close). Now is the perfect time to find things to get obsessed with, like games and stuff.
    • Try to use all these emotions as a fuel for something. When I was going through it, I decided that if I was going to suffer I was going to "Suffer well". I was putting extra effort in things for myself (working out, dressing up, eating well, etc).

    I really recommend searching for a therapist if you are able to afford it and still don't have one. Having someone to let things out of our chest without the fear of being judged helps a lot. It will help you heal sooner.

    Edit: typo

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