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  1. Comment on US voters were right about the economy. The data was wrong. in ~finance

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    This is a lucid framing of the situation, thanks for taking the time to post it. We can't rely on the democratic party to internalize any of this and do something useful with it in a reasonable...

    This is a lucid framing of the situation, thanks for taking the time to post it.

    We can't rely on the democratic party to internalize any of this and do something useful with it in a reasonable amount of time. It's possible of course but they've had decades to figure it out. At the end of the day their (figurative) paychecks depend on not understanding it.

    But that doesn't mean the general public can't understand it, and change their political (and media) priorities as a result.

    We need human-centered policies. Those are unacceptable to big donors and corporations

    Your post made it clear but I want to stress it anyway: this is the core problem.

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  2. Comment on Phishing tests, the bane of work life, are getting meaner in ~tech

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    You're right, almost all of the time. The problem is the rest of the time. There have been exploits that could compromise a machine solely from a webpage visit that were used in the wild. They're...

    So I don’t see a problem from just clicking the link

    You're right, almost all of the time.

    The problem is the rest of the time. There have been exploits that could compromise a machine solely from a webpage visit that were used in the wild. They're increasingly rare, because of course software companies have learned from those mistakes, but it's not safe to say it will never happen again. Future vulnerabilities are a given, as are undiscovered current ones.

    We definitely don't want people to think it's ok to click suspicious links. Not only because of the (admittedly low) chance of an immediate exploit, but because it increases the chance of that second click, which has much better odds of compromising you. Companies are absolutely right to discourage clicking links in questionable emails, or anywhere else. And we should keep telling our elderly not to click!

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  3. Comment on reCAPTCHA: 819 million hours of wasted human time and billions of dollars in Google profits in ~tech

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    Small aside, there are actually viable free alternatives. Cloudflare's solution being one, hCAPTCHA is another. Lots of others, but those two are probably the most widely adopted.

    Small aside, there are actually viable free alternatives. Cloudflare's solution being one, hCAPTCHA is another. Lots of others, but those two are probably the most widely adopted.

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  4. Comment on Why Gen X women are having the best sex in ~life.women

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    Disclaimer: Not a woman. I just thought this thread deserved more comments. It's an interesting article/topic and you posted great questions to get things started. For me, and for the...

    Disclaimer: Not a woman. I just thought this thread deserved more comments. It's an interesting article/topic and you posted great questions to get things started.

    Share your thoughts about the impact of age on your sexuality and desire;

    For me, and for the non-representative sample of women I've known, it just keeps getting better. You learn so much about sexuality as you go.

    Has/have you and your partner(s) discussed your age and its effects on your desires;

    Yes, and there doesn't seem to be a decrease, though that day will no doubt eventually come.

    Have you separated from a spouse or partner(s) for reasons you attribute to incompatible sexual desires

    Not once. In my experience as long as there's good communication and chemistry sex isn't often the deciding factor in a relationship. Which isn't to say that intimacy isn't a hugely important part of the relationship.

    Do you feel you need, or have you sought, medical intervention for the changes around perimenopause/menopause?

    Obviously I can't answer this one, both because I'm a dude and because I haven't arrived there with anyone yet. I am curious about it though, what the experience of (for example) hormone therapy is like. Upsides, downsides, caveats and etc..

    Has what you look for in a prospective sexual partner changed?

    I've always been after romantic relationships rather than just sexual partners, but if I were to be looking for a purely sex partner one of the factors would be self awareness. Sex and communication are inextricably linked and people who know themselves are better at both.

    Do you feel comfortable thinking of yourself as still sexually attractive to your preferred partners?

    I think this is really important post 30. It's easy to get caught up in western cultural beauty standards and let that convince you you're not sexy anymore and it is so completely not true. For all the obvious reasons that transisition is a lot easier for men... who you weren't talking to in the first place :)

    The objectification and co-opting of women's sexuality for marketing is oppressive. Whereas being sexy to someone you trust and respect is empowering.

    It's been great to see love, sex and romance among people who aren't 25 depicted more and more often in entertainment and culture. I think we're collectively getting over the idea that these things are mostly for young people. When I was 25 we all understood that older people had sex, probably. But it felt like the cultural norm was that they should be discrete about it because no one wanted to be reminded of it. It's been a big shift.

    The recent shift in the way older women's sexuality is depicted has also been great to see. The idea, that felt pervasive not so long ago, that you could have sexy older men but that sexy older women were a compelling but somewhat distasteful anomaly was just dumb.

    From a male perspective: As I've aged I've been profoundly grateful to continue to find my peers attractive. The trope of men trading up for younger women because (presumbly) they don't find women their own age attractive anymore doesn't seem be be based on anything other than their own insecurity.

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  5. Comment on reCAPTCHA: 819 million hours of wasted human time and billions of dollars in Google profits in ~tech

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    I feel that you skimmed both the original post/article and my post a little too fast. Here's a quote: Almost a trillion! It's fun making up numbers! And here's the full quote about pixels and...

    I feel that you skimmed both the original post/article and my post a little too fast. Here's a quote:

    while generating massive profits for Google through its tracking capabilities and data collection, with the value of tracking cookies alone estimated at $888 billion.

    Almost a trillion! It's fun making up numbers!

    And here's the full quote about pixels and fingerprinting:

    "Re-captcha takes a pixel by pixel fingerprint of your browser, a realtime map of everything you do on the internet."

    I left out the second part the first time around for brevity, but it's an outright lie. A reCAPTCHA snippet cannot make a map of everything you do on the internet, let alone a real time one. Chrome could, Edge could, even an ad network has better coverage than a JS snippet confined to a small subset of pages.

    There's a difference between dramatic language and making stuff up. Literally everything in that quote is wrong.

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  6. Comment on At what age do you consider someone to be an adult? in ~talk

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    What is an adult? I think people have a lot of different definitions, to the point that it's an abstract term. 18 is legal adulthood, 21 is sort of 'full' adulthood in that you now have all the...

    What is an adult? I think people have a lot of different definitions, to the point that it's an abstract term.

    18 is legal adulthood, 21 is sort of 'full' adulthood in that you now have all the privileges. But I don't think many people over 30 see 21 year olds as full adults.

    Someone mentioned 25, as the age when brain development is considered finished. But of course that number has gone up over time and recent studies suggest it continues until at least 30. So who knows? I do like the insight that our brains are far from finished developing at legal adulthood. Biological maturity seems like a pretty good definition. So that would be 30+ with the most current science, maybe it will be adjusted up again at some point.

    But is adulthood more than brain development? If I think about times in my life that I considered myself an adult, I'm not sure the current me agrees that I was, in fact, an adult. I fully expect that to keep happening.

    Eventually you arrive at a point where no casual observer would accuse you of being anything other than an adult, maybe that's adulthood? I suppose that's early to mid 30's.

    Or maybe adulthood is a spectrum that you never reach the end of.

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  7. Comment on reCAPTCHA: 819 million hours of wasted human time and billions of dollars in Google profits in ~tech

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    Google's data collection and monetization sucks, I want to say that up front. It's frustrating, though, when people intentionally misrepresent tech, relying on the ignorance of their audience. For...

    Google's data collection and monetization sucks, I want to say that up front.

    It's frustrating, though, when people intentionally misrepresent tech, relying on the ignorance of their audience.

    For example:

    Re-captcha takes a pixel by pixel fingerprint of your browser

    A browser doesn't have pixels. Do we mean browser window? Maybe the canvas? If so, that's not what a fingerprint is. A fingerprint in this context is a compressed pseudo-unique indentifier based on multiple metrics. It's used to identify non logged in users across sessions and websites. A screenshot (so to speak) is not useful for this purpose.

    That may sound like I'm quibbling over small details but presumably the researcher(s) knows exactly what these terms really mean, or if not they aren't qualified to be doing the research. My guess is that it's the former, and they're after attention for their work via hype.

    The study revealed that reCAPTCHA extensively monitors users' cookies, browsing history, and browser environment (including canvas rendering, screen resolution, mouse movements, and user-agent data) — all of which can be used for advertising and tracking purposes.

    All of those things are valid metrics to look at when trying to identify bots and malicious behavior. Also those lovely moments when a CAPTCHA doesn't present any challenge and just passes you are the result of looking at the above data points (and more).

    It's true that they're also useful for tracking, but the implication is that reCAPTCHA is just a scam. Which I believe the author well knows isn't the case. It goes on to estimate wasted user hours. And sure, CAPTCHAs are annoying and G's implementation has all kinds of issues, but some form of low effort bot identification is absolutely necessary. The wasted user hours of the alternative are much higher.

    I don't personally recommend reCAPTCHA but any decent alternative solution is also looking at as many data points as possible. It's just common sense.

    It does matter whether or not they retain that data, how long they retain it for, and whether they share it with 3rd parties. But according to Google they don't sell reCAPTCHA data. I'm not suggesting we trust Google, but we can kinda trust how expensive the GDPR (and similar) has made it to lie about that sort of thing. And anyway G doesn't need to monetize that data, they have more ubiquitious ways to collect the same data and more. Ways that are covered by different privacy policies.

    The author never establishes that Google is ignoring data privacy laws and monetizing reCAPTCHA before going on to estimate how much money they've made from the data. That's just silly.

    Revealing aspects of big tech's data collection empire is a good thing, but there's no reason to mislead people to accomplish it. That's part of how we end up with legislation that does nothing useful while wasting everyone's time (i.e. pre GDPR cookie banners) versus better informed legislation that actually works (most of the rest of the GDPR, CalOPPA, PIPEDA, etc..)

    There were years of misinformed reporting that led up to those cookie banners and related laws that failed to protect users in any way because cookies were never really the problem. To this day the general public doesn't understand the difference between 1st and 3rd party cookies. And really the language should have never involved cookies in the first place, that's just one of various methods of 3rd party data collection.

    Whereas the GDPR, which came after European legislators had started to listen to people that understood the technology, recognizes that the core issue is data collection itself, along with how that data is then handled and monetized.

    Do the same analysis of data collection and monetization by 3rd party advertisers and advertising networks, which have very different privacy policies and can often fly under the regulation radar, and you'd have something useful to contribute to the data privacy fight.

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  8. Comment on What books do you recommend for someone looking for positive vibes or casual amusement or escape in ~books

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    Don't stop at Hitchhiker's guide, Douglas Adams has other good ones like Dirk Gentley's Holistic Detective Agency, The Long Dark Tea Time of the Soul and Last Chance to See. See also, Lamb by...

    Don't stop at Hitchhiker's guide, Douglas Adams has other good ones like Dirk Gentley's Holistic Detective Agency, The Long Dark Tea Time of the Soul and Last Chance to See.

    See also, Lamb by Christopher Moore. It belongs among the great humorous novels of all time alongside the work of Adams and Pratchett.

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  9. Comment on How would you moderate this scenario? in ~tech

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    Well said, I want to add that moderation works best when it's swift and decisive. The longer you leave the post up for, the bigger the potential backlash when you remove it. Any time you give...

    Well said, I want to add that moderation works best when it's swift and decisive. The longer you leave the post up for, the bigger the potential backlash when you remove it.

    Any time you give space to "but but free speech!" you're really unintentionally giving space to trolls and their supporters.

    One thing that forum goers sometimes lose sight of is that the stakes are low. Not having "punch a nazi" posts isn't taking away anything important or valuable. But if the conversation is allowed to be about free speech, now you're talking about human rights and suddenly the stakes are artificially high, and emotions with them.

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  10. Comment on Are we witnessing the takeover of a country right now? in ~society

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    We should keep in mind that they haven't succeeded at any of their theoretical goals yet. As @snake_case implied, Trump and co fail way more often than they succeed. Whatever the ultimate goals...

    We should keep in mind that they haven't succeeded at any of their theoretical goals yet. As @snake_case implied, Trump and co fail way more often than they succeed.

    Whatever the ultimate goals are, if there are any besides enriching themselves and grabbing power, this timeline is crazy.

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  11. Comment on App/browser extension idea if it doesn't already exist: likely bot database in ~tech

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    One thing to keep in mind... what people call 'bots' are more often actually humans in poorer countries. Bot has just become a catch all term for low effort posts and 'fake' accounts for purposes...

    One thing to keep in mind... what people call 'bots' are more often actually humans in poorer countries. Bot has just become a catch all term for low effort posts and 'fake' accounts for purposes of karma farming or political manipulation or etc..

    From a technical perspective I'm not sure there's a good way to reliably identify these kinds of users from a browser extension. You'd need access to data only the platform has or, at the very least, full post history on every account. Even then you'd have to make hard decisions about false positives versus false negatives.

    Or alternatively you could crowdsource it. The challenge there is reaching the critical mass of users necessary to make it work while being mostly useless until you get there.

    In either case the heavy lifting would need to be done by a service you built and hosted rather than in browser.

    One other option, ironically, would be using an LLM bot to evaluate the text. A lot of the posts are clearly made by people who can barely write or understand english and an LLM would likely do a good job of identifying them. I've been wondering why people, and Redditors in particular, continue to upvote those posts.

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  12. Comment on Worried about my US treasury bills in ~society

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    This is an addendum rather than an argument... It's easy to talk about Bezos, Thiel and others because everyone knows who they are and (non reclusive) billionaires have become the face of wealth...

    This is an addendum rather than an argument... It's easy to talk about Bezos, Thiel and others because everyone knows who they are and (non reclusive) billionaires have become the face of wealth inequality.

    But the real power lies in industries and the corporations they're comprised of. Musk, Bezos and the Kochs could team up to dominate the world but if they stepped on the toes of, for example, the military industrial complex (and the energy industry that's tied to it) they would get swatted like flies.

    Which doesn't alleviate the concerns in this thread, because Trump is all about being good to the energy industry. They don't want financial volatility but it's not hard to imagine them waiting too long to do something about it when they're posting record profits and buying up more of the market.

    At the moment I'm leaning towards believing there will ultimately be more smoke than fire, but it really is uncertain.

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  13. Comment on Dallas Mavericks trade Luka Doncic to the Los Angeles Lakers for Anthony Davis in ~sports.basketball

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    I don't follow the NBA that closely and still I know how huge this trade is. It's not just wtf are the Mavs thinking, it's also a big win for the lakers trying to figure out what comes after the...

    I don't follow the NBA that closely and still I know how huge this trade is. It's not just wtf are the Mavs thinking, it's also a big win for the lakers trying to figure out what comes after the LeBron era. They even get to offload one of their (great but) older players in the process.

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  14. Comment on Senior US official to exit after rift with Elon Musk allies over payment system in ~society

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    I agree, but there's that whole plan that other, slightly smarter, bullies created for him. Though I'm not saying he'll pull it off. I'm hoping for incompetence.

    I agree, but there's that whole plan that other, slightly smarter, bullies created for him.

    Though I'm not saying he'll pull it off. I'm hoping for incompetence.

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  15. Comment on Senior US official to exit after rift with Elon Musk allies over payment system in ~society

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    Trump has been blushing over dictators since before his first term. Part of the plan is undoubtedly to make it easier to subvert democracy.

    But what's the actual plan?

    Trump has been blushing over dictators since before his first term. Part of the plan is undoubtedly to make it easier to subvert democracy.

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  16. Comment on US President Donald Trump directs Pentagon and Department of Homeland Security to prepare migrant housing at Guantánamo Bay in ~society

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    I'd add that most of the modern world is founded on colonialism and genocide. It's the history of the post agricultural human race, rather than specifically American history. So you're not wrong...

    I'd add that most of the modern world is founded on colonialism and genocide. It's the history of the post agricultural human race, rather than specifically American history.

    So you're not wrong that people can get behind, or at least tolerate, awful shit. But still I don't think it's 50% of American voters.

    Maybe it's optimistic to hope for a good outcome in two years, but I don't think it's delusionally optimistic. At least not yet.

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  17. Comment on US President Donald Trump directs Pentagon and Department of Homeland Security to prepare migrant housing at Guantánamo Bay in ~society

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    I think you're right to be cynical about the most extreme Trump supporters. But his base alone didn't win him the election. 50% of American voters don't want to murder immigrants. Granted the...

    I think you're right to be cynical about the most extreme Trump supporters. But his base alone didn't win him the election. 50% of American voters don't want to murder immigrants.

    Granted the percentage that do (or claim to on the internet) is no doubt shockingly high, but I don't believe it's 50%.

    By the same token, Trump's base alone can't be counted on to deliver republicans the midterms. We don't have to put our hopes in people's better natures for this administration to lose full control of the government. We just need enough of them to be unsatisfied with the administration over the next two years. Which will be likely if they keep doing insane things alongside continued economic challenges. Not to mention the upcoming shameless giveaways to the rich.

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  18. Comment on US President Donald Trump directs Pentagon and Department of Homeland Security to prepare migrant housing at Guantánamo Bay in ~society

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    If there is a silver lining to the insanity that is the last week or so, it's that the new administration is hopefully coming on too strong, too fast, and will alienate a significant part of their...

    If there is a silver lining to the insanity that is the last week or so, it's that the new administration is hopefully coming on too strong, too fast, and will alienate a significant part of their public support.

    Putting aside that sending migrants to an offshore camp to be dealt with extralegally is wrong on many levels and straight up evil... Guantanamo has a bad name on both sides of the aisle, seems like a terrible PR move at a time when things are sketchy for them (grocery prices, bird flu, medicare, etc..)

    I guess the strategy is shock, awe and see how much manages to slip through amid the torrent. They don't have 4 years after all, just 2 until the midterms.

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  19. Comment on Donation drive: Lambda Legal in ~lgbt

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    Thanks for posting this. I'm in for $50

    Thanks for posting this. I'm in for $50

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  20. Comment on Are LLMs making Stack Overflow irrelevant? in ~tech

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    I definitely agree that an LLM could be a part of a system that could effectively deduce. And there are a lot of really interesting possibilities in that direction. I wouldn't rule anything out at...

    I definitely agree that an LLM could be a part of a system that could effectively deduce. And there are a lot of really interesting possibilities in that direction. I wouldn't rule anything out at this point in terms of possible LLM applications.

    I still think it's fair to say, though, that an LLM on its own doesn't have the capability to understand or deduce.