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I might be intersex?
Recently I have noticed something odd about my genitals, and believe I might be intersex of some sort (assigned male if it matters). The problem is that I don't know where to start researching and taking steps about it, so any help would be appreciated, especially if it is not US centric.
While I would definitely stress seeing your doctor, the wiki page for intersex [1] has a lot of info. ((do you think you have a P and a V))
[1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersex
I don't feel comfortable what aspects of my genitals are distinct from a non intersex penis, but I'll try to check out a doctor once I get the time and courage to do so. That page only makes me more confused.
it's not the biggest community, but r/intersex exists too. And try not to be embarrassed about telling your doctor about it, I know it can be hard to get over the fear built up over time[1] but that's what your doctor is there for, there's nothing to be ashamed of. :)
[1]: am trans
This seems pretty good, you can check Figure 10 and google the terms:
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/232247588_Evaluation_and_Management_of_Disorders_of_Sex_Development_Multidisciplinary_Approach_to_a_Complex_Diagnosis
One sign seems to be glandular hypospadia, where the pee hole is located lower instead of at the tip of the penis. The position of the gonads seems also to be important. Note that in many country doctor check it, hasn't a doctor checked your testis at some point ?