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  1. Comment on Weekly thread for casual chat and photos of pets in ~life.pets

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    He's called Garland :) loved seeing your pics of Zoey, Lilah and their kittens, super cute! Reminded me a lot of my mum's cats and their litters.

    He's called Garland :) loved seeing your pics of Zoey, Lilah and their kittens, super cute! Reminded me a lot of my mum's cats and their litters.

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  2. Comment on Weekly thread for casual chat and photos of pets in ~life.pets

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    Thank you so much :) it also helped a ton that someone's recommendation here finally put us in touch with a trainer/ behaviourist that actually stuck around. I have been haemmorhaging money on...

    Thank you so much :) it also helped a ton that someone's recommendation here finally put us in touch with a trainer/ behaviourist that actually stuck around. I have been haemmorhaging money on this little boy but it's been worth it to be on a much more linear upward trajectory and crawl out of my pit of puppy blues!

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  3. Comment on Weekly thread for casual chat and photos of pets in ~life.pets

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    It's been a while since I said anything on one of these (or Tildes in general) but a lot has happened: I got married! My pup was at the wedding and he was brilliant, we got some lovely photos with...

    It's been a while since I said anything on one of these (or Tildes in general) but a lot has happened:

    • I got married! My pup was at the wedding and he was brilliant, we got some lovely photos with him and he only barked once at a well meaning grandparent who came on too strong and strolled into his airspace intending to make a big fuss of him.

    • We entered a fun dog show last weekend and he won 2nd place "Handsomest Hound". Obviously the judge didn't have her glasses on and just made a mistake ;) but he was a complete angel when she came around to inspect him and it's something that I never thought we'd be able to do.

    • We started some new reactivity classes on Saturdays and he's actually been one of the best dogs there. So much so that the woman running them kept us behind after class today and is kicking us out... because she thinks he's not reactive and wants to try him in the normal Saturday classes instead. I felt pretty emotional and am cautiously optimistic about giving it a go next weekend.

    He's been on a moderate dose of Reconcile (fluoxetine) for the last couple of months which he's responding really well to. He's 18 months now and we're aiming to keep him on it until he's about 2 years old and hopefully mellowed out a bit more. He is still not perfect: we've got some work to do before I can be at the stage where I can take him out with me to a restaurant or café and relax, and he's still fairly wary of children but I love this silly sod so much and I'm so proud of how far he's come.

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  4. Comment on What's a life lesson you've applied that has changed your life? in ~life

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    "If the day was not your friend, then it was your teacher". Day to day I'm either having a great time or learning a lot and sometimes, if I am very lucky, it's both!

    "If the day was not your friend, then it was your teacher".

    Day to day I'm either having a great time or learning a lot and sometimes, if I am very lucky, it's both!

    10 votes
  5. Comment on Weekly thread for casual chat and photos of pets in ~life.pets

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    My beautiful boy passed another Good Citizen Dog assessment and got his silver award on Friday! I'm still absolutely buzzing this morning. We walked into the hall on Friday and there was both a...

    My beautiful boy passed another Good Citizen Dog assessment and got his silver award on Friday! I'm still absolutely buzzing this morning.

    We walked into the hall on Friday and there was both a new dog he'd never met before and one of his best friends who he loves to bits doing it too, so the potential for distractions was off the charts but he came through when he needed to. He's also started a short course of meds to calm him down a bit but even without them he's shown so much improvement lately. Really proud of him.

    6 votes
  6. Comment on Nigel Farage claims Russia was provoked into Ukraine war in ~news

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    He's a known charlatan and grifter that's plagued UK politics for many years. Formerly conservative, formerly UKIP (his latest endeavour, Reform UK, is just the latest flavour of this), admirer of...

    He's a known charlatan and grifter that's plagued UK politics for many years. Formerly conservative, formerly UKIP (his latest endeavour, Reform UK, is just the latest flavour of this), admirer of Trump, Putin and Enoch Powell (incredibly divisive and now dead conservative politician who famously stood against the race relations act with his "rivers of blood" speech). More recently made some dog whistle comments on how our brown prime minister "doesn't understand our culture". You know, a real stand up gentleman.

    He routinely stirs up trouble for his own benefit and then disappears before the shit hits the fan. How he's convinced a chunk of working class people that he's one of them and has the UK's best interests at heart is beyond me. As it stands, Reform UK is unlikely to be a threat this year but they have taken a significant chunk of the conservative votes and will likely have to be given more of a platform off the back of that. I'm not thrilled that they'll be given some legitimacy.

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  7. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    Eating: Nothing! I'm fasting until Friday and will probably do this regularly in the final weeks leading up to my wedding. It is so, so boring but the results are effective for my purposes....

    Eating: Nothing! I'm fasting until Friday and will probably do this regularly in the final weeks leading up to my wedding. It is so, so boring but the results are effective for my purposes.

    Cooking: When I break the fast I am really looking forward to a nice grilled dinner - chicken and corn cobs over the charcoals! I'll probably season the chicken quite simply because I want to smother it in some UK made buffalo sauce which is phenomenal stuff! They also do tins of mackerel in hot sauce that are fantastic.

    It'll also finally be time to make the bottom tier of my wedding cake for real (chocolate and salted caramel) and stow that away in the freezer.

  8. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    I find this recipe from Vincenzo's Plate super easy and beginner friendly. It's one of my favourites and I still make it this way a lot today. When you get the feel of it, you can sub out the...

    I find this recipe from Vincenzo's Plate super easy and beginner friendly. It's one of my favourites and I still make it this way a lot today. When you get the feel of it, you can sub out the instant yeast and replace some of the flour and water with a starter instead (assuming it's 50/50 water and flour).

    Brian Lagerstrom also has some great bread recipes, as does the King Arthur website.

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  9. Comment on How to find purpose in life? in ~life

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    This part so much! Things feel good when you put yourself in the role of the earth's caretaker.

    Leave things/people/the world better than I found them. Help people, clean things, progress the world in a way that it benefits everyone.

    This part so much! Things feel good when you put yourself in the role of the earth's caretaker.

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  10. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    Booked a stay in Cornwall with some friends for the bank holiday weekend and making an occasion of it! I am bringing: Homemade streaky bacon, it's been curing for a week and I smoked over...

    Booked a stay in Cornwall with some friends for the bank holiday weekend and making an occasion of it! I am bringing:

    • Homemade streaky bacon, it's been curing for a week and I smoked over cherrywood this morning
    • Orange and cardamom granola using Stella Parks' lovely recipe
    • A loaf of bread which is baking currently. Used a combination of white, wholemeal rye and Matthews eight grain flour
    • Homemade baked beans to go with the streaky bacon into a magnificent fry up breakfast
    • A lemon courgette cake, which is practice for a tier of my wedding cake
    • A very dodgy looking 2 litre bottle full of pre-mixed mai tai, made according to Simon Difford's recipe. It just needs 360ml of fresh lime juice added to it and some ice and it's ready to go!
  11. Comment on Weekly thread for casual chat and photos of pets in ~life.pets

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    We've finally started working together with yet another trainer/ behaviourist and are locked into an 8 week course. It's been hard to learn to do less with my dog; I now take him out 1-2 times per...

    We've finally started working together with yet another trainer/ behaviourist and are locked into an 8 week course. It's been hard to learn to do less with my dog; I now take him out 1-2 times per day rather than 2-3 and the guilt has been overwhelming at times! I hated it at first but the rational part of me knows it's all within the realms of normal resistance to change. He seems to have adjusted to it a lot better than I did.

    He met up with one of his good friends Whiskey today (a rhodesian ridgeback mix). He loves Whiskey's owner too and his friend was visiting and tagged along. We followed the trainer's advice and went straight into a long walk with them all. At one point my boy went in for a little sniff of the new person and then immediately disengaged. He had great fun tearing around with Whiskey and was totally unbothered that the new guy was there, massive success for us all!

    He's been super dozy ever since we got back :) this seems like a good strategy for us going forward.

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  12. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    My big things over the last few days have been: A chicken, bacon and mushroom pie with wild garlic that I foraged on a walk. I actually made the pie filling a few weeks back and threw it in the...

    My big things over the last few days have been:

    A chicken, bacon and mushroom pie with wild garlic that I foraged on a walk. I actually made the pie filling a few weeks back and threw it in the freezer for an easy midweek dinner (thank you, past me!). It's pretty great and there's enough left for dinner tomorrow.

    The top tier of my wedding cake, which is a classic-ish rich fruit cake. Feels a bit surreal to have baked that, it's not too far away now! I've thrown in some non-traditional dried apricots, figs and fresh ginger and will be feeding it with rum for the next couple of months. Had a trial run of it for Christmas and it was great. Next month I'll get to work on the other tiers/ flavours ahead of time and freeze them.

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  13. Comment on The emotional support animal racket in ~life.pets

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    If we could just magically cure all allergies to animals overnight and it was far more of a cultural expectation that we should have well behaved dogs, I'd agree with you. I don't need most places...

    If we could just magically cure all allergies to animals overnight and it was far more of a cultural expectation that we should have well behaved dogs, I'd agree with you. I don't need most places to be dog friendly, but I do wish that more of them were - especially hotels. It's also a bummer that some hotels tend to restrict guests to only small or medium breeds. I don't think my dog is massive but he'll be somewhere between 25 - 30kg when he's fully grown which tends to put him on the lower end of large.

    As it stands, we'll generally only be able to have certain types of holiday with the dog but luckily we like those sorts of holidays (we'll be spending our honeymoon with him in a self catering dome in the forest later this year). I'm looking casually at boarding kennels so that we can go off on a different sort of holiday in a few years but I know I'll miss him horribly.

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  14. Comment on Recipes for chicken thighs in ~food

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    Here's my recipe for jerk chicken fricasseé: 6 - 8 servings (with rice n peas) 900g/ 2lbs skinless, boneless chicken thighs Marinade Juice of 1 lemon 1 tsp salt 3 spring onions, sliced 1½ tbsp...

    Here's my recipe for jerk chicken fricasseé:

    6 - 8 servings (with rice n peas)

    • 900g/ 2lbs skinless, boneless chicken thighs

    Marinade

    • Juice of 1 lemon
    • 1 tsp salt
    • 3 spring onions, sliced
    • 1½ tbsp ground allspice
    • 1 tbsp dried thyme
    • 1 tsp ginger (preferably fresh and grated but dried will do)
    • 1/2 tsp coarse ground black pepper
    • 1/4 tsp ground cinnamon
    • 3-4 cloves garlic, grated or crushed
    • 1/2 tsp dried chilli flakes

    Other things
    400ml good quality chicken stock
    1 bay leaf
    1 - 3 scotch bonnet peppers, whole (depends how spicy you want it)
    1 tbsp neutral oil (e.g. vegetable)

    Combine all the marinade ingredients, coat chicken thighs well and leave to marinate for at least 6 hours but preferably overnight.

    Add oil to a sauté pan over medium/ high heat. Wipe as much marinade off of the chicken as possible but don't discard it. Brown the chicken in batches and set aside (it shouldn't be fully cooked at this point).

    Once all the chicken is browned, deglaze the pan with a little bit of chicken stock and scrape up all the nice crispy bits. Add all the chicken thighs back to the pan, along with the bay leaf and any scotch bonnets. Add your remaining stock to the marinade bowl, swirling to pick everything up and add that in too, topping up with water if needed. The chicken shouldn't be totally submerged, but the liquid should come up to about ¾ of the way.

    Bring to a simmer, turn the heat down to low, cover the pan and continue to cook for 20 - 30 minutes, or until chicken can easily be cut with the side of a spoon. Every 10 minutes or so, turn over the chicken pieces to make sure they cook evenly and check for tenderness. If you want it extra spicy, break up the scotch bonnet peppers, otherwise gently pull them out about halfway through cooking.

    Once the chicken is tender, remove it from the pan and turn the heat up to high to reduce the liquid a bit into a sauce/ gravy. If it becomes too thick/ salty, just thin it out a little again with more water. Serve with rice n peas and a nice bit of salad.

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  15. Comment on How do I fix my (stupid) use of excessive punctuation? in ~humanities.languages

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    Your comment gives me a lot of peace; reading this post was like looking in a mirror! I am now reassured and completely unrepentant, so I hope OP is too. :)

    Your comment gives me a lot of peace; reading this post was like looking in a mirror! I am now reassured and completely unrepentant, so I hope OP is too. :)

    13 votes
  16. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    This place is about an hour away from family I've got over that way, hopefully I can convince them to take a trip out there for a treat :)

    This place is about an hour away from family I've got over that way, hopefully I can convince them to take a trip out there for a treat :)

    2 votes
  17. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    I actually bought two tins/ brands of the fabada asturiana (Litoral and El Gaitero) and I've just had the second one now for a late breakfast/ early lunch. El Gaitero was the better of the two in...

    I actually bought two tins/ brands of the fabada asturiana (Litoral and El Gaitero) and I've just had the second one now for a late breakfast/ early lunch.

    El Gaitero was the better of the two in my opinion, but if you spot another kind and like it even more let me know! As much as I'm sure homemade will be better, it's tasty enough that I'll probably keep buying tins for the convenience.

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  18. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    Aside from the usual fried chicken and buttermilk pancakes, I believe there are several cheeses you can make from buttermilk. You could add some to coleslaw or potato salad for a nice tang. Stella...

    Aside from the usual fried chicken and buttermilk pancakes, I believe there are several cheeses you can make from buttermilk. You could add some to coleslaw or potato salad for a nice tang.

    Stella Parks also has a wonderful granola recipe that I've made several times now that needs buttermilk. I make an orange and cardamom version sometimes.

    2 votes
  19. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    Fabada asturiana (a Spanish bean stew with assorted meats). Not homemade this time but a convenient can picked up from a Spanish deli. It was a little bland, which was surprising considering the...

    Fabada asturiana (a Spanish bean stew with assorted meats). Not homemade this time but a convenient can picked up from a Spanish deli. It was a little bland, which was surprising considering the inclusion of things like chorizo, morcilla (blood sausage) and smoked ham, but still overall a good flavour. I was blown away by the texture of the beans, they were incredibly creamy! Definitely given me plans to cook some.

    I visited friends for the weekend and made meatballs with cheesy mash, garlic butter mushrooms and a red wine and red onion sauce. Added some green beans on the side because dinners usually feel incomplete to me without some green veg, that was pretty nice.

    I also made some curry goat with rice n' peas (I know it's meant to be served with plain rice but humbug to that). One friend thought it was just right but the other unfortunately couldn't cope with the heat levels, which I felt a little guilty about! I only put a single scotch bonnet in and kept that on my plate to eat; I'll admit it was a freak of nature though - the hottest one I've eaten in years.

    3 votes
  20. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    An Italian-ish white bean and tuna salad for lunch, butter chicken for dinner. My in laws are looking after the dog for a few days this week. FIL likes his bread so I've baked him a crusty white/...

    An Italian-ish white bean and tuna salad for lunch, butter chicken for dinner. My in laws are looking after the dog for a few days this week. FIL likes his bread so I've baked him a crusty white/ rye loaf and MIL does keto so she has some homemade peanut butter cups made with 85% dark chocolate as a quick thank you.

    3 votes