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  1. Comment on What’s a plot twist that happened in your own life? in ~life

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    Con freaking gratulations!!!! Glad you were able to find yourself!

    Con freaking gratulations!!!! Glad you were able to find yourself!

    3 votes

  2. Comment on What’s a plot twist that happened in your own life? in ~life

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    I honestly do think she is a whole new person. We are still coping with some (other?) mental health struggles that also only popped up during the transition, which might also be affecting my view...

    I honestly do think she is a whole new person. We are still coping with some (other?) mental health struggles that also only popped up during the transition, which might also be affecting my view of her vs. pre-transition.

    The hormone ride has also been CRAZY, and I'm so relieved she is like uh evening out her hormones lol. I didn't expect it to be so up and down. But I love her a lot and am determined to make sure she lives her best life.

    Also I'm so happy you are watching Sailor Moon - I looooooved Sailor Moon growing up (as more of a tomboy), and have really femmed out myself as I've grown :) Sailor Moon is such a celebration of (a type of) femininity! All of my "big girl" jewelry now is from Sapphire Studio Designs out of Australia (including my wedding ring), and it's all SM :)

    5 votes

  3. Comment on What’s a plot twist that happened in your own life? in ~life

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    Got married at 35 to a wonderful man. He decided to go back to for a degree in the arts. During school partner finds out they are trans but have been in denial their whole life. To the point where...

    Got married at 35 to a wonderful man. He decided to go back to for a degree in the arts.

    During school partner finds out they are trans but have been in denial their whole life. To the point where they don't let themselves play women in video games, lol. They allow themselves to transition to becoming a women.

    So, 5 years after getting married, I find myself married to a beautiful woman and a whole different person than who I originally got hitched to. Oops!

    31 votes

  4. Comment on Andrew Tate and brother leave Romania for US after travel ban lifted in ~society

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    This is hilarious and absurd because of how close to reality it might be... lol

    This is hilarious and absurd because of how close to reality it might be... lol

    10 votes

  5. Comment on Is ADHD really that debilitating? in ~health.mental

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    Ooof you can google the link between ADHD, anxiety, and depression and how they all get intermingled...

    Ooof you can google the link between ADHD, anxiety, and depression and how they all get intermingled (https://www.additudemag.com/adhd-anxiety-depression-the-diagnosis-puzzle-of-related-conditions/)

    I have been diagnosed with depression my whole life since my teens. I recently learned within the last couple of years that women can even have ADHD. My mum still doesn't think ADHD exists and that I'm just unreliable and not very committed to things, ouch.

    I have also felt shamed by a (female) doctor for not tracking my period; although I have always attempted to track it, I always fall off the bandwagon. Currently, I am not tracking it and am trying to skip my periods on birth control, which is another struggle and big pressure - remembering to take my birth control every day. The thought of tracking something (even like habits or drinking water every day) makes me sweat.

    33 votes

  6. Comment on Hair removal tips needed! in ~lgbt

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    What is your review of the at-home device? I'm interested but skeptical!

    What is your review of the at-home device? I'm interested but skeptical!

    2 votes

  7. Comment on Why doesn't Tildes display a user's social score or karma on their profile page? in ~tildes

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    My initial thought is that showing these kinds of "contributions" may lead to gatekeeping and policing of comments. New users are already intimidated to interact with the community. I'm happy to...

    My initial thought is that showing these kinds of "contributions" may lead to gatekeeping and policing of comments. New users are already intimidated to interact with the community.

    I'm happy to just have everyone on an equal playing field with no stats showing, other than on posts/comments.

    22 votes

  8. Comment on Now political polarization comes for marriage prospects in ~life

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    Yeah, if a potential partner isn't willing to fight for women's rights (alongside myself) I'm not interested. I'm running in the other direction.

    Yeah, if a potential partner isn't willing to fight for women's rights (alongside myself) I'm not interested. I'm running in the other direction.

    22 votes

  9. Comment on Let's talk about Reddit alternatives, shilling, and Tildes bans in ~talk

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    Oh wow, I loved SubredditSimulator! That's so cool he made it!

    Oh wow, I loved SubredditSimulator! That's so cool he made it!

    23 votes