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  1. Comment on Christmas present swap ideas in ~life

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    uncut currency and a book on paper airplanes!

    uncut currency and a book on paper airplanes!

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  2. Comment on 100 notable books of 2024 (gifted link) in ~books

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    The Entire List Title Author Genre Similar... All Fours Miranda July Sexy Perimenopause Fiction Big Swiss by Jen Beagin Beautyland Marie-Helene Bertino Speculative Fiction The Book of Strange New...
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    Title Author Genre Similar...
    All Fours Miranda July Sexy Perimenopause Fiction Big Swiss by Jen Beagin
    Beautyland Marie-Helene Bertino Speculative Fiction The Book of Strange New Things by Michel Faber and Contact by Carl Sagan
    Black River Nilanjana Roy Noir The Seven Moons of Maali Almeida by Shehan Karunatilaka
    Bluff Danez Smith Poetry American Sonnets for My Past and Future Assassin by Terrance Hayes and Ordinary Beast by Nicole Sealey
    The Book of Love Kelly Link Fantasy Epic Ninth House by Leigh Bardugo and Neverworld Wake by Marisha Pessl
    The Bright Sword Lev Grossman Arthurian Fantasy Wolf Hall by Hilary Mantel
    The Coin Yasmin Zaher Literary Fiction The Guest by Emma Cline and My Year of Rest and Relaxation by Ottessa Moshfegh
    Colored Television Danzy Senna Mixed-Race Dramedy Erasure by Percival Everett and All Fours by Miranda July
    Creation Lake Rachel Kushner Literary Fiction With a Soupçon of Spy Birnam Wood by Eleanor Catton and Already Dead by Denis Johnson
    Dead in Long Beach, California Venita Blackburn Speculative Fiction Death Valley by Melissa Broder and The Fifth Season by N.K. Jemisin
    The Empusium Olga Tokarczuk Historical Fiction When We Cease to Understand the World by Benjamín Labatut and Trust by Hernan Diaz
    The Familiar Leigh Bardugo Historical Fantasy Spinning Silver by Naomi Novik and Shadow of Night by Deborah Harkness
    A Film in Which I Play Everyone Mary Jo Bang Poetry The Captain Asks for a Show of Hands by Nick Flynn and Exit Opera by Kim Addonizio
    Forest of Noise Mosab Abu Toha Poetry The Country Between Us by Carolyn Forché
    Funny Story Emily Henry Summer Rom-Com Georgie All Along by Kate Clayborn and Party of Two by Jasmine Guillory
    Ghostroots ’Pemi Aguda Horror Magic for Beginners by Kelly Link
    The God of the Woods Liz Moore Thriller The Fever by Megan Abbott and Saint X by Alexis Schaitkin
    Godwin Joseph O’Neill Literary Fiction The Darling by Russell Banks
    Good Material Dolly Alderton Romantic Comedy Romantic Comedy by Curtis Sittenfeld and Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus
    Great Expectations Vinson Cunningham Political Fiction Primary Colors by Anonymous
    Headshot Rita Bullwinkel Punchy Debut Chain-Gang All-Stars by Nana Kwame Adjei-Brenyah and The Swimmers by Julie Otsuka
    The Hunter Tana French Thriller Case Histories by Kate Atkinson
    Intermezzo Sally Rooney Sad Irish Millenial Fiction The Idiot by Elif Batuman and Kairos by Jenny Erpenbeck
    James Percival Everett Reimagined Classic Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver and The Fraud by Zadie Smith
    Joy in Service on Rue Tagore Paul Muldoon Poetry The Rain in Portugal by Billy Collins and House of Lords and Commons by Ishion Hutchinson
    Long Island Compromise Taffy Brodesser-Akner Family Saga The Bee Sting by Paul Murray and White Teeth by Zadie Smith
    Martyr! Kaveh Akbar Uncategorizable The White Tiger by Aravind Adiga and Empty Hearts by Juli Zeh
    The Mighty Red Louise Erdrich Literary Fiction Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout
    Modern Poetry Diane Seuss Poetry Kontemporary Amerikan Poetry by John Murillo and Context Collapse by Ryan Ruby
    My Favorite Thing Is Monsters, Book 2 Emil Ferris Graphic Novel Feeding Ghosts by Tessa Hulls
    The Mysterious Case of the Alperton Angels Janice Hallett Mystery Magpie Murders by Anthony Horowitz
    Neighbors and Other Stories Diane Oliver Literary Fiction Slapboxing With Jesus by Victor LaValle and Drown by Junot Díaz
    Our Evenings Alan Hollinghurst Literary fiction NW by Zadie Smith
    The Pairing Casey McQuiston Gourmet Eurotrip Romance The Day of the Duchess by Sarah MacLean and Yerba Buena by Nina LaCour
    Piglet Lottie Hazell Literary Fiction The Particular Sadness of Lemon Cake by Aimee Bender and Nightbitch by Rachel Yoder
    The Practice, the Horizon and the Chain Sofia Samatar Science Fiction The Saint of Bright Doors by Vajra Chandrasekera
    Praiseworthy Alexis Wright Down Under Fever Dream Safe Haven by Shankari Chandran
    Rakesfall Vajra Chandrasekera Science Fiction This Is How You Lose the Time War by Amal El-Mohtar and Max Gladstone
    Reboot Justin Taylor Literary Fiction Beautiful Ruins by Jess Walter
    Rejection Tony Tulathimutte NSFW Stories American Psycho by Bret Easton Ellis and Homesick for Another World by Ottessa Moshfegh
    The Safekeep Yael van der Wouden Literary Fiction Eastbound by Maylis de Kerangal and We Do What We Do in the Dark by Michelle Hart
    The Sequel Jean Hanff Korelitz Publishing World Thriller Palace of the Drowned by Christine Mangan and Last Resort by Andrew Lipstein
    Shred Sisters Betsy Lerner Literary Fiction My Sister, the Serial Killer by Oyinkan Braithwaite and The Most Fun We Ever Had by Claire Lombardo
    The Silence of the Choir Mohamed Mbougar Sarr Literary Fiction The Wrong End of the Telescope by Rabih Alameddine and Girl, Woman, Other by Bernardine Evaristo
    Smoke Kings Jahmal Mayfield Thriller Friday Black by Nana Kwame Adjei-Brenyah
    Someone Like Us Dinaw Mengestu Literary Fiction Netherland by Joseph O’Neill and Native Speaker by Chang-rae Lee
    Wandering Stars Tommy Orange Historical Family Saga Martyr! by Kaveh Akbar
    Whale Fall Elizabeth O’Connor Historical Fiction Charlotte Gray by Sebastian Faulks and The Whalebone Theatre by Joanna Quinn
    What Does It Feel Like? Sophie Kinsella Poignant Autofiction The Fault in Our Stars by John Green and Between Two Kingdoms by Suleika Jaouad
    Wild Houses Colin Barrett Literary fiction Close to Home by Michael Magee and Mayflies by Andrew O’Hagan
    The Women Kristin Hannah Historical Fiction Absolution by Alice McDermott and The Berry Pickers by Amanda Peters
    You Dreamed of Empires Álvaro Enrigue Hallucinogenic Historical Fiction Tell Them of Battles, Kings, and Elephants by Mathias Énard and Civilizations by Laurent Binet
    You Should Be So Lucky Cat Sebastian Queer Sports Romance Evvie Drake Starts Over by Linda Holmes
    The Achilles Trap Steve Coll Biography The Assassins’ Gate: America in Iraq by George Packer and Fiasco: The American Military Adventure in Iraq by Thomas E. Ricks
    All the Worst Humans Phil Elwood Feel-Bad Memoir Thank You for Smoking by Christopher Buckley
    All Things Are Too Small Becca Rothfeld Essays Having and Being Had by Eula Biss and Stranger Faces by Namwali Serpell
    The Anxious Generation Jonathan Haidt The Kids Are Not All Right Who’s Raising the Kids?: Big Tech, Big Business, and the Lives of Children by Susan Linn and My Age of Anxiety: Fear, Hope, Dread, and the Search for Peace of Mind by Scott Stossel
    Be Ready When the Luck Happens Ina Garten Culinary Memoir Love, Loss and What We Ate: A Memoir by Padma Lakshmi and Eat a Peach: A Memoir by David Chang
    The Black Box Henry Louis Gates Jr. Literary Criticism Self-Portrait in Black and White: Unlearning Race by Thomas Chatterton Williams and The New Negro: The Life of Alain Locke by Jeffrey C. Stewart
    The Black Utopians Aaron Robertson Philosophical Family Memoir The Unsettled by Ayana Mathis and The New Naturals by Gabriel Bump
    The Bluestockings Susannah Gibson Feminist History The Club: Johnson, Boswell, and the Friends Who Shaped an Age by Leo Damrosch and The Exceptions: Nancy Hopkins, MIT, and the Fight for Women in Science by Kate Zernike
    Challenger Adam Higginbotham Narrative nonfiction Fire Weather: A True Story From a Hotter World by John Vaillant
    Chop Fry Watch Learn Michelle T. King Food Biography Mastering the Art of Soviet Cooking: A Memoir of Food and Longing by Anya von Bremzen and Appetite For Life: The Biography of Julia Child by Noel Riley Fitch
    Circle of Hope Eliza Griswold Religion The Kingdom, The Power, and the Glory: American Evangelicals in an Age of Extremism by Tim Alberta and Reading Genesis by Marilynne Robinson
    Cocktails With George and Martha Philip Gefter Film History Alright, Alright, Alright: The Oral History of Richard Linklater’s ‘Dazed and Confused’ by Melissa Maerz
    Cold Crematorium József Debreczeni WWII Memoir Fateless by Imre Kertész and Night by Elie Wiesel
    Connie Connie Chung Media Memoir The Rulebreaker: The Life and Times of Barbara Walters by Susan Page and Ticking Clock: Behind the Scenes at ‘60 Minutes,’ by Ira Rosen
    Cue the Sun! Emily Nussbaum TV History When Women Invented Television: The Untold Story of the Female Powerhouses Who Pioneered the Way We Watch Today by Jennifer Keishin Armstrong
    Do Something Guy Trebay Glitzy Downtown Memoir Love Goes to Buildings on Fire: Five Years in New York That Changed Music Forever by Will Hermes and M Train by Patti Smith
    Every Valley Charles King Classical Music History Beethoven: Anguish and Triumph by Jan Swafford
    Everyone Who Is Gone Is Here Jonathan Blitzer Current Events Solito: A Memoir by Javier Zamora and One Mighty and Irresistible Tide: The Epic Struggle Over American Immigration, 1924-1965 by Jia Lynn Yang
    Fi Alexandra Fuller Grief Memoir Once More We Saw Stars: A Memoir by Jayson Greene and The Long Goodbye: A Memoir by Meghan O'Rourke
    Health and Safety Emily Witt Sex, Drugs & Techno Memoir The Vulnerables by Sigrid Nunez and The Best Minds: A Story of Friendship, Madness, and the Tragedy of Good Intentions by Jonathan Rosen
    The Hidden Globe Atossa Araxia Abrahamian Economics Unruly Places: Lost Spaces, Secret Cities, and Other Inscrutable Geographies by Alastair Bonnett and How the World Ran Out of Everything: Inside the Global Supply Chain by Peter S. Goodman
    I Heard Her Call My Name Lucy Sante Transition Memoir Come Back in September: A Literary Education on West Sixty-Seventh Street, Manhattan by Darryl Pinckney and Just Kids by Patti Smith
    I Just Keep Talking Nell Irvin Painter Essays Lessons for Survival: Mothering Against ‘the Apocalypse’ by Emily Raboteau
    John Lewis David Greenberg Political Biography You Have to Be Prepared to Die Before You Can Begin to Live: Ten Weeks in Birmingam That Changed America by Paul Kix and King: A Life by Jonathan Eig
    Knife Salman Rushdie Survival Memoir Experience: A Memoir by Martin Amis
    Language City Ross Perlin Linguistic Anthropology Names of New York: Discovering the City’s Past, Present, and Future Through Its Place Names by Joshua Jelly-Schapiro and New Yorkers: A City and Its People in Our Time by Craig Taylor
    Lovely One Ketanji Brown Jackson Supreme Court Memoir Becoming by Michelle Obama and Up Home: One Girl’s Journey by Ruth J. Simmons
    Madness Antonia Hylton American History Under the Skin: The Hidden Toll of Racism on American Lives and on the Health of Our Nation by Linda Villarosa and The Nickel Boys by Colson Whitehead
    The Message Ta-Nehisi Coates Current Events A Day in the Life of Abed Salama: Anatomy of a Jerusalem Tragedy by Nathan Thrall and The Question of Palestine by Edward Said
    The New India Rahul Bhatia Current Events I Am on the Hit List: A Journalist’s Murder and the Rise of Autocracy in India by Rollo Romig and A Burning by Megha Majumdar
    The New York Game Kevin Baker Sports Summer of ’49 by David Halberstam
    No One Gets to Fall Apart Sarah LaBrie Family History Memoir The Best Minds: A Story of Friendship, Madness, and the Tragedy of Good Intentions by Jonathan Rosen and The Collected Schizophrenias: Essays by Esmé Weijun Wang
    Private Revolutions Yuan Yang Current Events Wild Swans: Three Daughters of China by Jung Chang and Sparks: China’s Underground Historians and Their Battle for the Future by Ian Johnson
    Reagan Max Boot Political Biography G-Man: J. Edgar Hoover and the Making of the American Century by Beverly Gage and Our Man: Richard Holbrooke and the End of the American Century by George Packer
    The Rebel’s Clinic Adam Shatz Postcolonial Biography Che Guevara: A Revolutionary Life by Jon Lee Anderson and The Meursault Investigation by Kamel Daoud
    The Return of Great Powers Jim Sciutto Current Events Lenin’s Tomb: The Last Days of the Soviet Empire by David Remnick and New Cold Wars: China’s Rise, Russia’s Invasion, and America’s Struggle to Defend the West by David E. Sanger with Mary K. Brooks
    Salvage Dionne Brand Literary Criticism The Fraud by Zadie Smith
    Soldiers and Kings Jason De León Current Events The Snakehead: An Epic Tale of the Chinatown Underworld and the American Dream by Patrick Radden Keefe and Behind the Beautiful Forevers: Life, Death, and Hope in a Mumbai Undercity by Katherine Boo
    Splinters Leslie Jamison Uncoupling Memoir Dept. of Speculation by Jenny Offill and Liars by Sarah Manguso
    Stolen Pride Arlie Russell Hochschild Politics Evicted: Poverty and Profit in the American City by Matthew Desmond and An American Dreamer: Life in a Divided Country by David Finkel
    The Swans of Harlem Karen Valby Dance History Hidden Figures: The American Dream and the Untold Story of the Black Women Mathematicians Who Helped Win the Space Race by Margot Lee Shetterly
    There’s Always This Year Hanif Abdurraqib Basketball Memoir Shooting Stars by LeBron James and Buzz Bissinger
    Undivided Hahrie Han Religion Circle of Hope: A Reckoning With Love, Power, and Justice in an American Church by Eliza Griswold
    A Walk in the Park Kevin Fedarko Adventure Memoir Wild by Cheryl Strayed
    When the Clock Broke John Ganz American History Reaganland: America’s Right Turn, 1976-1980 by Rick Perlstein
    The Wide Wide Sea Hampton Sides Biography The Wager: A Tale of Shipwreck, Mutiny and Murder by David Grann and The Empire of Necessity: Slavery, Freedom, and Deception in the New World by Greg Grandin
    A Wilder Shore Camille Peri Biography of a Marriage The Peabody Sisters: Three Women Who Ignited American Romanticism by Megan Marshall and Alice James: A Biography by Jean Strouse
    3 votes
  3. Comment on Formula 1 Las Vegas Grand Prix 2024 - Results in ~sports.motorsports

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    hahaha sorry. I'm leaving it. I'd rather they just put them in a room with a bunch of cats instead of that stupid car thing.

    hahaha sorry. I'm leaving it. I'd rather they just put them in a room with a bunch of cats instead of that stupid car thing.

    2 votes
  4. Comment on Formula 1 Las Vegas Grand Prix 2024 - Results in ~sports.motorsports

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    I like George and feel for him. He’s got that ‘Bad Luck Brian’ thing where he runs a perfect race, barely gets on tv, his teammate gets driver of the day, etc. Fun race, though. The pool I run has...

    I like George and feel for him. He’s got that ‘Bad Luck Brian’ thing where he runs a perfect race, barely gets on tv, his teammate gets driver of the day, etc.

    Fun race, though. The pool I run has another week where we were all horribly wrong.

    The whole thing with the cats is awkward and they need to ditch that or make it way smoother.

    8 votes
  5. Comment on Kendrick Lamar - squabble up (2024) in ~music

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    i mean, these two overshadow everything. so good in every way.

    i mean, these two overshadow everything. so good in every way.

    2 votes
  6. Comment on Kendrick Lamar - squabble up (2024) in ~music

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    6:16 in LA -- the second diss track.

    6:16 in LA -- the second diss track.

    2 votes
  7. Comment on Today he is a high school football player. Soon he'll be a Buddhist lama in the Himalayas. in ~humanities

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    my guess is that they searched the name, copy and pasted the correct one, forgot the period. it’s tempting to contact them to find out.

    my guess is that they searched the name, copy and pasted the correct one, forgot the period. it’s tempting to contact them to find out.

    2 votes
  8. Comment on I just bought a 64GB iPad, anything I should know/do? in ~tech

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    damn, that's awesome. I bought a cheap cheap one from Aliexpress that had good reviews, but its terrible. I might get one of these. It'd be fun for my tablet. thanks!

    damn, that's awesome. I bought a cheap cheap one from Aliexpress that had good reviews, but its terrible. I might get one of these. It'd be fun for my tablet. thanks!

    1 vote
  9. Comment on What programming/technical projects have you been working on? in ~comp

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    this doesn't count, but I need to barf it up somewhere. Last year a Windows 11 update broke my bluetooth. Existing devices were fine, but I couldn't add new ones. I don't use bluetooth for a lot...

    this doesn't count, but I need to barf it up somewhere.

    Last year a Windows 11 update broke my bluetooth. Existing devices were fine, but I couldn't add new ones. I don't use bluetooth for a lot of things, but its nice for headphones.

    Anyway, the logs said 'The mutual authentication between the local Bluetooth adapter and a device with Bluetooth adapter address failed.'

    For each of the services, you need to change the Log On to Local Service with no password. fixed.

    2 votes
  10. Comment on Today he is a high school football player. Soon he'll be a Buddhist lama in the Himalayas. in ~humanities

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    I'd bet money that they pasted that in after misspelling it.

    I'd bet money that they pasted that in after misspelling it.

    1 vote
  11. Comment on I just bought a 64GB iPad, anything I should know/do? in ~tech

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    which active stylus did you get?

    which active stylus did you get?

    1 vote
  12. Comment on Kendrick Lamar - squabble up (2024) in ~music

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    Dot drops a record 6 months and 16 days since Drake’s The Heart pt 6 and on the anniversary of JFKs assassination… and a one minute teaser for something else. I love all of the coincides and stuff...

    Dot drops a record 6 months and 16 days since Drake’s The Heart pt 6 and on the anniversary of JFKs assassination… and a one minute teaser for something else.

    I love all of the coincides and stuff he plays with.

    7 votes
  13. Comment on F1 closer to approving Andretti bid for expanded grid with Michael Andretti now out of picture in ~sports.motorsports

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    for what its worth, Eddie Jordan has been dropping blunt hints about this for a little bit. I wouldn't be surprised if he's right. I'd love to see more teams so long as they're competitive....

    for what its worth, Eddie Jordan has been dropping blunt hints about this for a little bit. I wouldn't be surprised if he's right. I'd love to see more teams so long as they're competitive. Everything is tightening up nicely.... just in time for a big change, which they should delay indefinitely.

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  14. Comment on Midweek Movie Free Talk in ~movies

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    i watched Clueless tonight for the first time. i had no interest in it until finding out that it’s a retelling of Austen’s Emma. John August and Craig Mazin’s Script Notes podcast was focused on...

    i watched Clueless tonight for the first time. i had no interest in it until finding out that it’s a retelling of Austen’s Emma. John August and Craig Mazin’s Script Notes podcast was focused on it in their last episode.

    Great movie with perfect narration. It’s amazing how Silverstone kind of disappeared since being Batgirl*. It feels like she didn’t get a chance to show a lot of range, but she was good in Killing of the Sacred Deer — she also works far more than i assumed.

    I don’t know why, but i feel like i’ve always been a big Silverstone fan, even though i haven’t seen a lot of her work. Maybe she won me over with the dropkick on Sawyer in the Cryin’ video.

    5 votes
  15. Comment on Wicked, Dune, It, and deceiving the audience about two-parters in ~movies

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    holy smokes! nice. it’s so nice when they do practical effects

    holy smokes! nice. it’s so nice when they do practical effects

    1 vote
  16. Comment on Wicked, Dune, It, and deceiving the audience about two-parters in ~movies

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    Enemy was so good. It didn't get a lot of love in theatres. I think it was around $5m to make and only made around $1m in theatres --- but I would never expect a movie like that to be a...

    Enemy was so good. It didn't get a lot of love in theatres. I think it was around $5m to make and only made around $1m in theatres --- but I would never expect a movie like that to be a blockbuster.

    Surprising that Dune P1 and Blade Runner 2049 were flops.

  17. Comment on Should I stop using Kagi because they do business with Yandex? in ~tech

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    their image search is one of the best for hard to find source-images.

    their image search is one of the best for hard to find source-images.

    4 votes
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  19. Comment on Computer Airflow in ~comp

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    ok, the ducts are sweet. haha. I don't think I'll go that far into it. I've got everything set pretty good, now, I think. Its quiet and seems to run really cool. I wish I had the Fan Control level...

    ok, the ducts are sweet. haha. I don't think I'll go that far into it.

    I've got everything set pretty good, now, I think. Its quiet and seems to run really cool. I wish I had the Fan Control level of fan control in the bios.

    I love and hate this stuff. thanks again! this is great

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  20. Comment on Computer Airflow in ~comp

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    its surprising to me how little impact different configurations really has. Good point about keeping the fans on, too. Thanks for this! It feels like there's so much to know, but then its all...

    its surprising to me how little impact different configurations really has. Good point about keeping the fans on, too.

    Thanks for this! It feels like there's so much to know, but then its all relatively simple.