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Where did all the tween fashion go?
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- Authors
- Aiyana Ishmael, Illustration by Jill Heesbeen, Sara Delgado, Chiara Giovanni, Teen Vogue Staff, Kara Nesvig
- Published
- Jun 1 2023
- Word count
- 2831 words
The other day I observed 3 middle-school aged girls walking down the street together and they were all dressed completely differently. One was the spitting image of a 90s grunge girl, baggy JNCOs, the smiley-face Nirvana t-shirt, green streak dyed in her hair. She was dressed EXACTLY how my female friends dressed when I was 12.
That alone was weird to me. But what was weirder were her two friends. One was dressed EXACTLY like a Kardashian. She had a velour trackpant and a matching cropped jacket over a cropped t-shirt. And the third was dressed in what I'd characterize as a chic Mormon mom. Like a very traditional maxi-dress looking thing.
When I was young kids a.) Didn't have such put together "looks" for a regular day hanging out with their friends. b.) Friend groups didn't dress so differently within the group. It was kind of weirdly jarring to see, but I guess "fashion TikTok" or Instagram has combined with fast-fashion to make these sorts of curated "looks" really easily accessible.
All that to say, I don't fully agree with the article. Back then girls were taking their cues from Tiger Beat and Seventeen and other such magazines. Now they're taking it from TikTok. I don't think they're any less original today than they were back then, I just think the culture-makers being unmoored from a monthly publication schedule + clothes being disposable and dirt cheap now have both combined to accelerate the trend cycles to the point where they aren't cyclical anymore. They're just continuously churning and never getting a chance to really sit and evolve into anything.
It's not just girls either. There's a whole episode of Atlanta that revolves around kids bullying each other over who has a knock-off FUBU jersey.
Yeah, there isn't a single dominant fashion anymore. The mass internet has shattered the cultural monolith, and now there are a bajillion subcultural dimensions flitting through people.
Personally, I love it. Fashion has pretty much gone the way of Grand Theft Auto 5 characters but it's nice to see most people feeling comfortable in whatever they like.
Yeah which seems to have created a surfeit of prescriptive labels. The article talks about being “over pressured” into an identity. Like you have to “belong” to a -core and have a defined “aesthetic” to be a person.
That seems to be a bit of a shame. There is some utility there in being able to more easily find and identify “your people,” but I think being too hung up on labels encourages kind of conforming yourself to the expectations that come with those. I can’t help but feel this actually stunts the process of identity discovery in some people the same way having too much choice in the dating market stunts people being able to form meaningful romantic connections because nothing is ever given a chance to properly take root and grow.
ugh thank goodness. I was always one of those kids without access to trendy clothing and automatically stood out in every age. I just wanted to wear things that feel comfortable and compliment my skin tone and body, and it was too much to ask as a teenager. Case in point: I'm so glad that skinny jeans aren't the only option available for purchase anymore. I saw some side by side super wide flare jeans the other day.
The micro-trends and sheer variety of ultra niche subcultures is wild to me. It's like nothing is really out of fashion anymore, you just have to brand it as xyz and suddenly it's cool again.
Oh! This reminds me of a fantastic interview with HCI researcher and thought leader—which I use without irony because she was a huge influence to me when I was in university—Judith Donath on Signaling, Design, and the Social Machine.
Here's the relevant segment on fashion and signaling:
Anyway, in short, everyone engages in fashion. People who say they're opting out of fashion, are doing fashion! (Male) senior software engineers who wear sweaters and slacks are doing fashion. Why would a male SWE wear sweaters and slacks as opposed to... a dress? A suit? Designer jeans and a Supreme hoodie?
Fashion signals information about the gender, national culture, ethnic culture, subculture, class, subclass, etc. etc. that we identify with and, more importantly, whose norms we have internalized to the point where it's like air to ourselves: unnoticeable yet all-permeating.