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Queer Tildes Community Discord Server

Tags: discord

Hello loves!

A wonderful individual reached out to me recently and proposed the idea of creating more of a community within Tildes, rather than being a smaller part of the Tildes community as a whole. As it is right now, Tildes feels like a single place with a single voice that's the average of its members, and we'd like to change that. We've started a discord server for queer individuals on Tildes. This server is meant to define itself as its own thing. ~lgbt is a place to organize posts on a topic, not a community, so we'd like to fill that hole.

Here's the invite link: https://discord.gg/FmhWYVAhFs

One particular aspect of forming a community I think is important, perhaps even more so for a minority identity, is that Tildes can be frustrating and alienating at times, even when it doesn't intend to be. This space is meant to be somewhere you can go to vent when you run into any of the many trials and tribulations you may run across on this wonderful website. You know, the times where you want to bang your head against a wall because you're just not getting through to someone else or when you open a thread, read a few replies, shake your head and close it - disappointed in the tone or direction it has taken. After all, sometimes we don't want to be direct or confrontational to people who say hurtful things when often they're just mislead, uneducated, or misinformed.

Anyhow, I hope to see many of you wonderful folks in there and I'm looking forward to knowing you all a little bit better! 💜

5 comments

  1. [5]
    lionirdeadman
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    I'd rather ask before joining but would this server accept allies? I can see the benefit of both excluding them and allowing them in the safe space so I'd rather ask before including myself....

    I'd rather ask before joining but would this server accept allies? I can see the benefit of both excluding them and allowing them in the safe space so I'd rather ask before including myself.

    Either way, I hope it goes well. ❤️

    6 votes
    1. Gaywallet
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      Of course allies are both accepted and welcomed!

      Of course allies are both accepted and welcomed!

      4 votes
    2. [3]
      Rez
      Link Parent
      Related to that, is the general Tildes discord still kicking?

      Related to that, is the general Tildes discord still kicking?

      3 votes
      1. lionirdeadman
        Link Parent
        Yep, still there and kicking. The invite link on the ~tildes wiki here still works. It might be worth considering putting the Queer Tildes server there or in the ~lgbt wiki to avoid bringing too...

        Yep, still there and kicking. The invite link on the ~tildes wiki here still works.

        It might be worth considering putting the Queer Tildes server there or in the ~lgbt wiki to avoid bringing too much attention, not sure. I think @Gaywallet knows best when it comes to that so I'll leave it to them.

        3 votes
      2. Cycloneblaze
        Link Parent
        There is still an unofficial Tildes discord about (to which @Gaywallet can also give you the link)

        There is still an unofficial Tildes discord about (to which @Gaywallet can also give you the link)

        2 votes