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What did you do this week (and weekend)?

As part of a weekly series, these topics are a place for users to casually discuss the things they did — or didn't do — during their week. Did you accomplish any goals? Suffer a failure? Do nothing at all? Tell us about it!

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    AugustusFerdinand
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    Spent the last five days in New York (on Long Island (not Long Island City since apparently that's a thing) specifically, traveling into Manhattan mostly), thank you to everyone that commented...

    Spent the last five days in New York (on Long Island (not Long Island City since apparently that's a thing) specifically, traveling into Manhattan mostly), thank you to everyone that commented with suggestions. Didn't get to do as much as I'd like, but 90% sure this will be a yearly thing so I'll get another chance next year.

    Random observations (largely in comparison with DFW):

    1. It's really nice to hear languages out on the street other than English or Spanish. In Dallas you'll hear 80% English, 18% Spanish, and 2% of everything else and usually only that 2% if you're in a specific area where those ethnic groups tend to congregate.
    2. I've officially declared that there are absolutely no Italians living anywhere in DFW. If there was even one, then we'd have somewhere with respectable Italian food. We do not, therefore there cannot be a single Italian living here. I never found any Italian food here to be extraordinary, but I am now aware that even the best in town is trash in comparison.
    3. I don't personally like the number of people/population density in NYC if I were to live there, but I'd love to have the density of places to go. Having one without the other is an impossibility though.
    4. The real estate prices are insane. While sitting in traffic, popped open zillow just to see what it took to live in a not-exactly-nice part of Queens we were passing through and see places that would be lucky to break $200k here being sold for the better part of $1M. One of my devs' rent for a one bedroom apartment on Long Island is more than my mortgage.
    5. I could eat my way through Chinatown alone and die happy.
    6. As @PantsEnvy mentioned, I found most New Yorkers polite, but not all that talkative to randos. I, however, can make most laugh pretty easily. Make a New Yorker laugh and they'll stop to talk to you if only for a few moments. Did get a free cup of coffee by doing so, which was a pretty good one.
    7. There isn't a decent cup of coffee outside of the boroughs and it's not easy to find one inside the city either. Don't know what y'all's obsession is with Dunkin and Starbucks, but they're everywhere, they're always packed, and they're always shit (and not just in tourist-y areas). Of the dozen or so cups of coffee I had over the five days, two were good with one actually being excellent. Over 8M people in NYC, nearly none of them care about good coffee.
    8. The random waves of hot fart-y air on an otherwise chilly stroll through a park are... interesting.
    9. If there is a gap large enough for a vehicle to move into, it will. No signals required/used. I've (did not drive in NYC, just in the car) changed lanes more times in the last 5 days than I have in probably the last month of driving in Texas.
    10. Honking, most of the time, from my observations is a response from another driver saying the gap you think is large enough for your vehicle, really isn't and they're not going to stop to prevent a collision. The rest of the time it's to say "the light has been green for a millisecond why haven't you moved yet?" In Texas honking at a light is because you've been looking at your phone for more than 2-3 seconds and anywhere else is an extended honk as a way of hurling a string of expletives at the other person.
    11. I heard absolutely zero gunshots while in New York. I know the gun laws are some of the strictest in the country and maybe the relentless honking covered it up, but even in really nice parts of Dallas you'll still hear a gunshot at least once a week.
    12. Lyft/Uber/Taxi drivers need to calm the hell down with the air fresheners. Nearly every ride we took was like walking into a Bath and Body Works with every candle lit.
    13. Weekends are typically busy everywhere. Weekends in NYC are on another level. If I have the choice, the next time I go it'll be M-F and I'll skip the weekend as there is no shortage of things to do during the week.
    14. Food outside the boroughs, like coffee, largely sucks. There's a diamond in the rough here and there, but all of Long Island outside NYC proper just feels like overcrowded suburb and what you can get there reflects that.
    15. Please, for the love of all that is holy, New Yorkers I beg you to stop trying to make BBQ. Please. You're taking perfectly good meat that can be turned into perfectly good food that's not BBQ into crap because you're trying to make it into BBQ with an oven and a water tray with some liquid smoke poured in.
    16. I am disappointed that as a connoisseur of encased meats I never actually found the time to get a hot dog. That said, one of my Polish coworkers asked his grandmother where to get the best polish food and I'll be following grandma's advice the next time I'm in town even if he thinks it's too far away. Grandmother did what was asked and answered the best place, not the best place within 15 minutes of where I was staying.

    That's all that pops into my head at the moment.

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      PantsEnvy
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      And you were there in winter. Imagine summer time. It's hot. Humid. Then you go down into the subway. What is toasty warm during winter is unbearably hot in summer time. And you are painfully...

      I don't personally like the number of people/population density in NYC

      The random waves of hot fart-y air on an otherwise chilly stroll through a park are... interesting.

      And you were there in winter. Imagine summer time. It's hot. Humid. Then you go down into the subway. What is toasty warm during winter is unbearably hot in summer time. And you are painfully aware that you are surrounded by thousands of commuters, and all of them with arm pits etc.

      I found most New Yorkers polite, but not all that talkative to randos. I, however, can make most laugh pretty easily. Make a New Yorker laugh and they'll stop to talk to you if only for a few moments.

      Flying in from California, what blew me away was how different the New York sense of humor is. While Californians are politically correct and polite in behavior and humor, New Yorkers are... not?

      there is no shortage of things to do during the week.

      There is no shortage of things to do at 3am on a Tuesday night.

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        cfabbro
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        Wait til you visit Boston (where I lived for several years) or Philly. Their general behavior and sense of humour is even more abrasive than NYers. ;)

        While Californians are politically correct and polite in behavior and humor, New Yorkers are... not?

        Wait til you visit Boston (where I lived for several years) or Philly. Their general behavior and sense of humour is even more abrasive than NYers. ;)

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        1. PantsEnvy
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          Oh, I gots to go to Boston. Felt like Philly was a little more refined than NY. Maybe it was me mostly visiting during winter in the burbs. Maybe it was the lack of car drivers with their elbows...

          Oh, I gots to go to Boston. Felt like Philly was a little more refined than NY. Maybe it was me mostly visiting during winter in the burbs. Maybe it was the lack of car drivers with their elbows permanently attached to the horn.

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      cfabbro
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      What are some of the sites you actually visited on your trip to NYC? Which did you enjoy most?

      What are some of the sites you actually visited on your trip to NYC? Which did you enjoy most?

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        AugustusFerdinand
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        As for official sites: Rockefeller and "the tree", Empire State (and other various buildings), Times Square, plus one of the holiday markets (I don't remember which) during the Thursday tour on...

        As for official sites: Rockefeller and "the tree", Empire State (and other various buildings), Times Square, plus one of the holiday markets (I don't remember which) during the Thursday tour on the bus the company booked for us. Tried to go to a couple of the larger museums, but that didn't work out time-wise. Did go to the Museum of Sex as it was on our way from one thing to another and found some interesting history, but it was mostly just crowded and full of loud idiots.

        Of the official sites I'd say I liked the holiday market the best. Not for the shopping, but for the people watching in the park as it's something I enjoy doing and there was plenty to be had. Watched people play table tennis with strangers, caught 1-2 lines of conversation of passing people and either laughed at the random bits of drama in their lives or made up stories to go along with it in our heads. Did have a nice conversation about roller skating with the employees at one of the shops near Rockefeller/Tree as my wife is an avid roller skater and didn't expect such there.

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          cfabbro
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          Aw, it's a shame you didn't manage to get to any of the major museums. They're some of the very best in the world, IMO. The only places I have visited with better ones was Paris, London and...

          Aw, it's a shame you didn't manage to get to any of the major museums. They're some of the very best in the world, IMO. The only places I have visited with better ones was Paris, London and Vienna. But as long as you still had a good time, that's ultimately all that really matters. :)

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          1. AugustusFerdinand
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            Yeah, they're the plan for another trip. I'm 90% sure this will be a yearly thing and we'll plan better in the future. Ultimately it's a 5 day trip with two days being travel, so really three days...

            Yeah, they're the plan for another trip. I'm 90% sure this will be a yearly thing and we'll plan better in the future. Ultimately it's a 5 day trip with two days being travel, so really three days of things to do, reduced to two in actuality because one day was planned for us and could have been better spent with some other time management choices made.

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    3. EgoEimi
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      re: bad coffee is a general American problem. Apart from the small handful of third-wave coffee shops in hip city neighborhoods or college towns, the US is devoid of good coffee. It's a wasteland...

      re: bad coffee is a general American problem. Apart from the small handful of third-wave coffee shops in hip city neighborhoods or college towns, the US is devoid of good coffee. It's a wasteland of overly sweetened yet watery yet burnt coffee.

      I wonder what Americans think. Do they think that this is okay? Do they yearn for something better? Is there a business opportunity in creating a fast coffee business that serves decent coffee at a price point between Dunkin' Donuts and Starbucks?

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      NoblePath
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      I love ny, would give my left nut to live there, and am glad you had a great time. Some thoughts A “New York minute “ is the time that elapses between the moment a traffic light turns green and...

      I love ny, would give my left nut to live there, and am glad you had a great time. Some thoughts

      A “New York minute “ is the time that elapses between the moment a traffic light turns green and someone honks their horn in nyc.

      The biggest compliment i have been paid in the last year was when someone asked me for directions while I was strolling on green ave.

      I have never eaten great pizza in manhattan or brooklyn but i have had my mind blown at random family joints on long island. Other than beaches, i cannot think of another reason to be on long island.

      Agreed on the coffee, although many restaurants have great beans and decent equipment, however only available with your meal. Surrender to duncan. Otoh, you can get real japanese energy shots if you know where to look. Also good milk tea (but lots o sugar).

      Be sure to check out the high line next time.

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      1. AugustusFerdinand
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        I had some pizza places saved on Long Island (none in Manhattan interestingly) as possibilities to hit, I consider Italian food and pizza as separate entities.

        I have never eaten great pizza in manhattan or brooklyn but i have had my mind blown at random family joints on long island. Other than beaches, i cannot think of another reason to be on long island.

        I had some pizza places saved on Long Island (none in Manhattan interestingly) as possibilities to hit, I consider Italian food and pizza as separate entities.

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      Wulfsta
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      Oh, I’m so sorry I didn’t warn you about the BBQ - it’s awful in NYC. There’s actually some great places upstate, but I think due to lack of space it just can’t compete in the city. Someone told...

      Oh, I’m so sorry I didn’t warn you about the BBQ - it’s awful in NYC. There’s actually some great places upstate, but I think due to lack of space it just can’t compete in the city. Someone told me Fette Sau is decent, but I haven’t personally been.

      Regarding coffee, there are actually good places here, but they’re hard to find. Black Fox on 45th is one of the best places I’ve been for espresso.

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      1. AugustusFerdinand
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        No worries about the lack of warning about BBQ. I didn't go with intent of trying any and I didn't order any, but it was thrust upon me, so to speak, and I passed a few places that just smelled...

        No worries about the lack of warning about BBQ. I didn't go with intent of trying any and I didn't order any, but it was thrust upon me, so to speak, and I passed a few places that just smelled awful and artificial.

        Adding Black Fox to my list for the next trip, thanks! If anyone else has coffee suggestions, I'm here for them so I have more than one spot to go to, I'm not a coffee snob or anything, life is just too short for Folgers.

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