FrillsofTilde's recent activity
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Comment on Best way to voice call and screenshare with audio on Linux? in ~comp
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Comment on What happens when you touch a Pickle to an AM radio tower? in ~science
FrillsofTilde Link ParentYour eyeballs are particularly worrisome. When I got my amateur radio license the course referred to people as meat sacks and warned about frying meat sacks. It was great!Your eyeballs are particularly worrisome. When I got my amateur radio license the course referred to people as meat sacks and warned about frying meat sacks. It was great!
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Comment on What games have you been playing, and what's your opinion on them? in ~games
FrillsofTilde LinkI played MW WWII yesterday on my son's insistence and my lord did we have a fun time! The missions are just super enjoyable and there is nothing better than getting sniped by my son on the beaches...I played MW WWII yesterday on my son's insistence and my lord did we have a fun time! The missions are just super enjoyable and there is nothing better than getting sniped by my son on the beaches of Normandy!
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Comment on How to get into photography? in ~hobbies
FrillsofTilde LinkStart by understanding the relationship between aperture, iso and shutter speed. Knowing what and when to use each is immensely helpful. Take a photography course or join a local photography walk...Start by understanding the relationship between aperture, iso and shutter speed. Knowing what and when to use each is immensely helpful. Take a photography course or join a local photography walk to discuss things with people. Then try and be purposeful, try and really think then shoot. Try not to chimp too much (taking a photo and looking at the screen to see what you got) so that you really reflect on what you're shooting and anticipate what you will get.
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Comment on How to tell if a conspiracy theory is probably false in ~science
FrillsofTilde Link ParentTo me the big question is the money. Who is making money off this?To me the big question is the money. Who is making money off this?
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Comment on What are some of your favorite PlayStation 1 games? Any odd or unique ones worth playing? in ~games
FrillsofTilde LinkGonna throw out Bishi Bashi Challenge which was one of my fav arcade games but is much more fun in arcade and you have to play against peopleGonna throw out Bishi Bashi Challenge which was one of my fav arcade games but is much more fun in arcade and you have to play against people
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Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life
FrillsofTilde Link ParentThank you. It certainly is hard to accept in the moment.Thank you. It certainly is hard to accept in the moment.
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Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life
FrillsofTilde Link ParentAre you telling me to wrestle him?Are you telling me to wrestle him?
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Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life
FrillsofTilde Link ParentIts tough because I obviously can't give all the details here on a public and open forum. But I knew that in Tildes I would see a good conversation and have people probe my situation in a way that...Its tough because I obviously can't give all the details here on a public and open forum. But I knew that in Tildes I would see a good conversation and have people probe my situation in a way that would help me process it or at least try to. It's been interesting reading the discussion around it and feeling my thoughts and emotions as I read the opinions.
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Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life
FrillsofTilde Link ParentYes I do know them. I mean it's a work thing and it's a small company but I know they are getting support.Yes I do know them. I mean it's a work thing and it's a small company but I know they are getting support.
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Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life
FrillsofTilde Link ParentI appreciate both sides. I just needed discussion and there is no one I could discuss this with who wouldn't know too much right away. Thank you so much!!I appreciate both sides. I just needed discussion and there is no one I could discuss this with who wouldn't know too much right away. Thank you so much!!
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Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life
FrillsofTilde Link ParentThanks for the understanding and the perspectives.Thanks for the understanding and the perspectives.
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Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life
FrillsofTilde Link ParentWell, today I was confronted with some proof that I have to accept. That's the challenge. I have never seen him do anything (even in situations where it could have happened) but I really have to...Well, today I was confronted with some proof that I have to accept. That's the challenge. I have never seen him do anything (even in situations where it could have happened) but I really have to accept it.
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Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life
FrillsofTilde Link ParentIt's really making me question my ability to judge a character. I also found out that he had an affair a few years ago which is blowing my mind. I really appreciate your reply.It's really making me question my ability to judge a character. I also found out that he had an affair a few years ago which is blowing my mind. I really appreciate your reply.
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Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life
FrillsofTilde Link ParentThat situation is actually quite similar. He's a big supporter of women and has raised thousands for anti domestic abuse causes. I really appreciate your insights. Thank you.That situation is actually quite similar. He's a big supporter of women and has raised thousands for anti domestic abuse causes.
I really appreciate your insights. Thank you.
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Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life
FrillsofTilde Link ParentThe proof that I have at this point is pretty solid. But I like your point. When I was in high school, I had a friend who put his hands down a girls pants while she slept and I just cut him out. I...The proof that I have at this point is pretty solid. But I like your point.
When I was in high school, I had a friend who put his hands down a girls pants while she slept and I just cut him out. I always wondered if I could have helped him through that situation instead. It's a thought that is playing in my head and I appreciate your thoughts on it because this has been tearing at me.
The reason I posted here was exactly for this kind of conversation. Thank you.
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My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do
Hi all, I don't know where to turn on this. I work in a small company, my boss who is an amazing person and has given me so much and helped me really kick start my career has had some accusations...
Hi all,
I don't know where to turn on this. I work in a small company, my boss who is an amazing person and has given me so much and helped me really kick start my career has had some accusations over the past little while. But now I've heard a few stories that really show that he's done some shady stuff. My boss has been like a brother to me and is a close friend. I have no idea how to digest this and I have no idea who I could talk to, so I'm just posting here.I don't want to lose a friend, he's been nothing but amazing to me.
Edit: thank you everyone. I'll keep reading the comments. I just need to reflect on this and I appreciate your discussions.
Edit 2: There is proof enough to not deny things, inappropriate and agressive advances and groping stuff. Nothing good.
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Comment on Max Martin has the most No. 1s among music producers in the history of the Billboard Hot 100 songs chart, surpassing George Martin in ~music
FrillsofTilde Link ParentProducers have a huge influence on the end result. It's why Mut Lang was a rock muse and sug night was a rap god. These people know the stuff to get payedProducers have a huge influence on the end result. It's why Mut Lang was a rock muse and sug night was a rap god. These people know the stuff to get payed
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Comment on What do you use to manage your music library? in ~music
FrillsofTilde Link ParentI also setup a Navidrome backend for music on a raspberry pi 4 in docker with a dynamic DNS service. I was shocked at how easy it was and how great it is setup. I paid for Synfonium and it is...I also setup a Navidrome backend for music on a raspberry pi 4 in docker with a dynamic DNS service. I was shocked at how easy it was and how great it is setup. I paid for Synfonium and it is awesome. I find it to be like Spotify on steroids.
That said, I need to reorganize the folders and I need a better way to discover new music, that's what is keeping my Spotify sub at the moment.
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Comment on The rise and fall of MuchMusic in ~music
FrillsofTilde Link ParentI think when Speakers Corner shut down it was clear it was over. It was the end of listening to people or trying to make something with the people. Then it's just TV.I think when Speakers Corner shut down it was clear it was over. It was the end of listening to people or trying to make something with the people. Then it's just TV.
Jitsi meeting will do that plus it's open source! You can host your own jitsi server if you desire. I run a Matrix chat for my family so that no one is scraping our data and we can do video calls etc etc.