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  1. Comment on What are some of your favorite PlayStation 1 games? Any odd or unique ones worth playing? in ~games

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    Gonna throw out Bishi Bashi Challenge which was one of my fav arcade games but is much more fun in arcade and you have to play against people

    Gonna throw out Bishi Bashi Challenge which was one of my fav arcade games but is much more fun in arcade and you have to play against people

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  2. Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life

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    Thank you. It certainly is hard to accept in the moment.

    Thank you. It certainly is hard to accept in the moment.

    2 votes

  3. Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life

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    Are you telling me to wrestle him?

    Are you telling me to wrestle him?

    3 votes

  4. Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life

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    Its tough because I obviously can't give all the details here on a public and open forum. But I knew that in Tildes I would see a good conversation and have people probe my situation in a way that...

    Its tough because I obviously can't give all the details here on a public and open forum. But I knew that in Tildes I would see a good conversation and have people probe my situation in a way that would help me process it or at least try to. It's been interesting reading the discussion around it and feeling my thoughts and emotions as I read the opinions.

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  5. Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life

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    Yes I do know them. I mean it's a work thing and it's a small company but I know they are getting support.

    Yes I do know them. I mean it's a work thing and it's a small company but I know they are getting support.

    3 votes

  6. Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life

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    I appreciate both sides. I just needed discussion and there is no one I could discuss this with who wouldn't know too much right away. Thank you so much!!

    I appreciate both sides. I just needed discussion and there is no one I could discuss this with who wouldn't know too much right away. Thank you so much!!

    7 votes

  7. Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life

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    Thanks for the understanding and the perspectives.

    Thanks for the understanding and the perspectives.

    7 votes

  8. Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life

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    Well, today I was confronted with some proof that I have to accept. That's the challenge. I have never seen him do anything (even in situations where it could have happened) but I really have to...

    Well, today I was confronted with some proof that I have to accept. That's the challenge. I have never seen him do anything (even in situations where it could have happened) but I really have to accept it.

    23 votes

  9. Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life

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    It's really making me question my ability to judge a character. I also found out that he had an affair a few years ago which is blowing my mind. I really appreciate your reply.

    It's really making me question my ability to judge a character. I also found out that he had an affair a few years ago which is blowing my mind. I really appreciate your reply.

    8 votes

  10. Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life

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    That situation is actually quite similar. He's a big supporter of women and has raised thousands for anti domestic abuse causes. I really appreciate your insights. Thank you.

    That situation is actually quite similar. He's a big supporter of women and has raised thousands for anti domestic abuse causes.

    I really appreciate your insights. Thank you.

    20 votes

  11. Comment on My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do in ~life

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    The proof that I have at this point is pretty solid. But I like your point. When I was in high school, I had a friend who put his hands down a girls pants while she slept and I just cut him out. I...

    The proof that I have at this point is pretty solid. But I like your point.

    When I was in high school, I had a friend who put his hands down a girls pants while she slept and I just cut him out. I always wondered if I could have helped him through that situation instead. It's a thought that is playing in my head and I appreciate your thoughts on it because this has been tearing at me.

    The reason I posted here was exactly for this kind of conversation. Thank you.

    20 votes

  12. My boss is being accused of sexual misconduct and I don't know what to do

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    Hi all, I don't know where to turn on this. I work in a small company, my boss who is an amazing person and has given me so much and helped me really kick start my career has had some accusations...

    Hi all,
    I don't know where to turn on this. I work in a small company, my boss who is an amazing person and has given me so much and helped me really kick start my career has had some accusations over the past little while. But now I've heard a few stories that really show that he's done some shady stuff. My boss has been like a brother to me and is a close friend. I have no idea how to digest this and I have no idea who I could talk to, so I'm just posting here.

    I don't want to lose a friend, he's been nothing but amazing to me.

    Edit: thank you everyone. I'll keep reading the comments. I just need to reflect on this and I appreciate your discussions.

    Edit 2: There is proof enough to not deny things, inappropriate and agressive advances and groping stuff. Nothing good.

    40 votes

  13. Comment on Max Martin has the most No. 1s among music producers in the history of the Billboard Hot 100 songs chart, surpassing George Martin in ~music

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    Producers have a huge influence on the end result. It's why Mut Lang was a rock muse and sug night was a rap god. These people know the stuff to get payed

    Producers have a huge influence on the end result. It's why Mut Lang was a rock muse and sug night was a rap god. These people know the stuff to get payed

    2 votes

  14. Comment on What do you use to manage your music library? in ~music

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    I also setup a Navidrome backend for music on a raspberry pi 4 in docker with a dynamic DNS service. I was shocked at how easy it was and how great it is setup. I paid for Synfonium and it is...

    I also setup a Navidrome backend for music on a raspberry pi 4 in docker with a dynamic DNS service. I was shocked at how easy it was and how great it is setup. I paid for Synfonium and it is awesome. I find it to be like Spotify on steroids.

    That said, I need to reorganize the folders and I need a better way to discover new music, that's what is keeping my Spotify sub at the moment.

    2 votes

  15. Comment on The rise and fall of MuchMusic in ~music

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    I think when Speakers Corner shut down it was clear it was over. It was the end of listening to people or trying to make something with the people. Then it's just TV.

    I think when Speakers Corner shut down it was clear it was over. It was the end of listening to people or trying to make something with the people. Then it's just TV.

    3 votes

  16. Comment on What are your top three video game soundtracks? in ~games

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    For me it's Willy's Stage 1. I love that song. Zelda the original Tetris That 8 bit sound.

    For me it's Willy's Stage 1. I love that song.

    1. Zelda the original

    2. Tetris

    That 8 bit sound.

  17. Comment on Roughly ten games into the NHL season: what are your thoughts on the season so far? How is your team doing? Any surprises? in ~sports.hockey

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    To me it was the poor treatment of Quebec City vs Vegas and Seattle. Bettman just wants US growth and money. Then throw on ads as much as possible. It's just crappy. The Leafs and all the Canadian...

    To me it was the poor treatment of Quebec City vs Vegas and Seattle. Bettman just wants US growth and money. Then throw on ads as much as possible. It's just crappy.

    The Leafs and all the Canadian teams are at a disadvantage every post season. It is really shitty.

    2 votes

  18. Comment on Roughly ten games into the NHL season: what are your thoughts on the season so far? How is your team doing? Any surprises? in ~sports.hockey

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    Leafs should really try and get a goalie one of these days...

    Leafs should really try and get a goalie one of these days...

    4 votes

  19. Comment on TV Tuesdays Free Talk in ~tv

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    The movie was excellent and such a fun experience. I wish you could have! I went to the set in 2010 and it was really neat but it's a small little set in the middle of nowhere (which was the...

    The movie was excellent and such a fun experience. I wish you could have! I went to the set in 2010 and it was really neat but it's a small little set in the middle of nowhere (which was the plan). Letterkenny would be next on the list :)

    1 vote

  20. Comment on Internet Artifacts in ~tech

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    It's weird sometimes you realize how not funny something was...or how in the moment it was. But for the most part it's pretty ridiculous.

    It's weird sometimes you realize how not funny something was...or how in the moment it was. But for the most part it's pretty ridiculous.

    3 votes