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  1. Comment on Tildes Gardening Group: Week 24/3/26 in ~hobbies

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    Yes hi hello!! I am very excited for these threads. Apparently gardening is my big undertaking this year. We are starting ambitious with arugula, broccoli, kale, cucumber, zucchini, peas, beans, 3...

    Yes hi hello!! I am very excited for these threads. Apparently gardening is my big undertaking this year.

    We are starting ambitious with arugula, broccoli, kale, cucumber, zucchini, peas, beans, 3 types of tomatoes, spinach, parsley, carrots, radishes, strawberries, potatoes, basil, oregano, chives, chamomile... all of these are in either raised beds or containers. We're trying to figure out what grows best in our north-facing backyard. We're also trying to get some plants into our bare beds, mostly foliage and flowers, since we have a dog who spends a lot of time in the backyard. We picked some for the sunny areas and some that will be a shade garden. We got two dwarf spruces with globe growing patterns, which I think are totally adorable. We also have an espalier apple tree, which we won't be allowing a harvest from this year, but we're excited for next year!

    Husband started me on gardening by saying out loud that he wanted an apple tree. I had a garden plan and spreadsheet together 36 hours later. He is a major part of the muscle and has been working hard to help us realize our dream of... not bare dirt. The cat supervises from the screen door.

    We moved into our house in May last year. We haven't grown anything before! We are focusing on cleaning up some of the unnoticed hazards left behind by the previous owners, such as a couple of rotting whiskey barrels, a moss garden that was taking over everything, and a dogwood whose root crown was planted several inches below the surface... I pruned a cherry tree and two Japanese maple trees pretty hard. We're hoping to learn from our failures this year so we can focus on refining for summer and autumn seasons and plan for next year.

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  2. Comment on Are you a morning person or a night owl? in ~talk

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    I am most definitely a morning person. I start work at 6:30, which means I'm usually out of the house by 5:15. I've more or less been a morning person since around age 20, when my body decided to...

    I am most definitely a morning person. I start work at 6:30, which means I'm usually out of the house by 5:15. I've more or less been a morning person since around age 20, when my body decided to begin waking up at 7 am. Before that, I was totally a night owl, routinely staying up til 2 am but sometimes as late as 4 am.

    Now that I'm living as a morning person, I much prefer morning person life. It's nice to have the option to watch the sunrise and hear the dawn chorus. I like going places early on the weekend when traffic is light. And now that I'm older, I feel less like I'm missing out on stuff by going to bed early, because a lot of my peers go to bed early, too.

    My sleep is a lot more easily interrupted by light occurring at night time, though. This factor is kind of new for me, as up until turning 30 I could basically fall asleep anywhere, whatever the circumstances. Now I need dark and quiet.

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  3. Comment on Tildes Book Club - How is it going with The Metamorphosis? in ~books

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    I've read it before (in college) so I will probably lurk when it comes to the discussion this time.

    I've read it before (in college) so I will probably lurk when it comes to the discussion this time.

    5 votes
  4. Comment on Why do I almost never catch colds anymore? in ~health

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    I also get fewer illnesses than before covid. In fact, I think I've only been sick 3 times - recently with a fairly major something (10 days of 102F fever), once with something my husband brought...

    I also get fewer illnesses than before covid. In fact, I think I've only been sick 3 times - recently with a fairly major something (10 days of 102F fever), once with something my husband brought home after being on a work trip, and once with covid (earliest, August 2020, extremely mild and never tested positive). My husband has gotten sicker much more often than me. I rarely catch what he has. May or may not be correlated, but he gets vaccinated less (he forgets to make an appointment). I'm in public much more often, but also more isolated when I'm in public (big open office, very socially distanced except for one coworker). So I don't know. Maybe people who are sick are staying home and/or masking more in my environs, and it makes a difference?

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  5. Comment on Would anyone be interested in an online gardening club? in ~hobbies

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    Hi me yes!!! We just set up our raised bed last weekend and put in some cold-hardy veggies. The rest of the spring season veggies are hardening off. We've got bulbs in the garage to throw in the...

    Hi me yes!!! We just set up our raised bed last weekend and put in some cold-hardy veggies. The rest of the spring season veggies are hardening off. We've got bulbs in the garage to throw in the ground after the last frost date. We got an espaliered apple tree to mostly keep an eye on this year (not supposed to let it fruit the first year I guess). I would love to share progress and keep up with fellow plant enjoyers.

    3 votes
  6. Comment on How's everyone doing? in ~talk

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    I'm excited for peas, beans, radishes and carrots, mostly. Easily snackable! But we're growing greens and tomatoes, too, and some herbs. And cucumber and zucchini. The nails actually seem to be...

    I'm excited for peas, beans, radishes and carrots, mostly. Easily snackable! But we're growing greens and tomatoes, too, and some herbs. And cucumber and zucchini.

    The nails actually seem to be holding up okay with regular (light leather) gardening gloves. They have some utility, too, with sewing seeds and some delicate work separating seedlings. Much to my amazement, they trap WAY less dirt than short nails. I just have to be careful working around a preexisting, not-gardening-related break, which I have to keep gluing together. I moved 500 pounds of pavers for the base to our raised bed with no problems!

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  7. Comment on How's everyone doing? in ~talk

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    I've been pretty out of touch recently, and it's probably somewhat good for me. We're getting a vegetable garden started and working on planning out the landscape for our backyard (which is bare...

    I've been pretty out of touch recently, and it's probably somewhat good for me. We're getting a vegetable garden started and working on planning out the landscape for our backyard (which is bare dirt aside from a section of artificial turf and a weird but cute moss fairy garden area by the previous owners). This process, and general housekeeping, and my other hobby of doing my nails, are keeping me busy. The nail hobby is going pretty well too.

    10 votes
  8. Comment on What would you do with a video game style inventory? in ~talk

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    Hah. My nail polish collection would explode.

    Hah. My nail polish collection would explode.

    1 vote
  9. Comment on How far back in time can you understand English? in ~humanities.languages

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    Interestingly, I could get 1300 better than 1400, but it may just be down to recognizing more words in the specific contexts. This was fun. English is ever-evolving.

    Interestingly, I could get 1300 better than 1400, but it may just be down to recognizing more words in the specific contexts. This was fun. English is ever-evolving.

    3 votes
  10. Comment on What's an obscure book/series that you've read that you would like to recommend? in ~books

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    It's been a LONG time since I read it, but The Free Lunch by Spider Robinson was the first sci fi adjacent book that I read. I still have my battered thrift store copy and plan to read it again....

    It's been a LONG time since I read it, but The Free Lunch by Spider Robinson was the first sci fi adjacent book that I read. I still have my battered thrift store copy and plan to read it again. I'll add this to my list too!

    2 votes
  11. Comment on What are your food aversions? in ~food

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    Shellfish, mushrooms, eggs, some melted cheese and melted butter situations, peanut butter, some tofu textures...

    Shellfish, mushrooms, eggs, some melted cheese and melted butter situations, peanut butter, some tofu textures...

    1 vote
  12. Comment on Tildes Book Club - February 2026 - The Truth by Terry Pratchett - Have you started? in ~books

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    I believe I acquired the ebook of this. I'll try to get to it!

    I believe I acquired the ebook of this. I'll try to get to it!

    3 votes
  13. Comment on What are you reading these days? in ~books

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    I just finished The Scald-Crow. Five stars. Left a review on every platform I could and now I have a reading hangover. Dang.

    I just finished The Scald-Crow. Five stars. Left a review on every platform I could and now I have a reading hangover. Dang.

  14. Comment on What are you reading these days? in ~books

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    Currently reading: The Scald-Crow by Grace Daly. Y'all. I needed this book. I feel so seen. "This self-deprecating horror novel shot through with gallows humor explores medical trauma through...

    Currently reading: The Scald-Crow by Grace Daly. Y'all. I needed this book. I feel so seen. "This self-deprecating horror novel shot through with gallows humor explores medical trauma through Irish folklore, asking 'Can a sick woman ever be trusted?'" I only started reading horror in the last year or so and I'm enjoying this greatly.
    Also reading The Seven Rings by Nora Roberts. Conclusion to a trilogy about a haunted/cursed mansion and the gal who inherits it. I've joked before that her books are half cookbook. This continues to be true. It's nice to see characters take joy in ordinary tasks that I hate lol.

    It's been a while since I posted so I won't post all my "recently finished" stuff, but the highlight was One Good Knight by Mercedes Lackey (5 stars).

    Edit: accidentally hit post. Up next is Swordheart by T Kingfisher and I'm not sure what else.

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  15. Comment on Google removes some of its AI summaries after users’ health put at risk in ~tech

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    I've had it contradict itself in the same sentence, which is super fun.

    I've had it contradict itself in the same sentence, which is super fun.

    10 votes
  16. Comment on Google removes some of its AI summaries after users’ health put at risk in ~tech

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    I hope I didn't trust the AI overview but I have literally searched something along these lines (liver levels) in the last six months. Ugh. I hate what Google is doing to its own product.

    I hope I didn't trust the AI overview but I have literally searched something along these lines (liver levels) in the last six months. Ugh. I hate what Google is doing to its own product.

    9 votes
  17. Comment on What's something you're "in too deep" on? in ~talk

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    They're not alone! The polish world is a lot bigger than I thought it was when I started this. My first (and only intended) Holo Taco has been circling my house for three days with the postal...

    They're not alone! The polish world is a lot bigger than I thought it was when I started this. My first (and only intended) Holo Taco has been circling my house for three days with the postal service, ha!

    The tough thing with collecting is that it's hard to stop or slow down when it's a consumable good and there are a lot of options. I found a brand yesterday that is a much cheaper alternative to the recent stuff I've been buying, so I'm going to try a few of theirs out and see if it scratches the itch. I don't love feeling frantic about getting stuff before it's gone.

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  18. Comment on What's something you're "in too deep" on? in ~talk

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    It wasn't fully intentional, but it seemed like a fitting metaphor to me! I can't say I've had that feeling when it comes to nail polish, as I've had it applied to my nails every once in a while...

    It wasn't fully intentional, but it seemed like a fitting metaphor to me!

    I can't say I've had that feeling when it comes to nail polish, as I've had it applied to my nails every once in a while for as long as I can remember. My mom and I would do our nails, or maybe she would just do mine... I remember these mini polish bottles kicking around forever, but I think she probably had some for herself, as well. I don't actually remember ever doing that or wearing polish, though. It's probably just normalized for me, as a she/her/AFAB person. However, I shaped my nails for the first time yesterday, and that is definitely giving me the "whose hands are those" feeling. The different nail shape makes my fingers look different, as well. I'm hoping I'll get familiar enough with it that it goes away, or change them up enough that my brain is less attached to what my nails "should" look like and becomes more adaptable to what it sees.

    I hope you and your daughter enjoy nail time! In my experience, it takes some time and energy and concentration, which means you are living in the present for those moments with her :)

    4 votes
  19. Comment on What's something you're "in too deep" on? in ~talk

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    Hi, it's me, the nail polish person. I started this journey in August or September, and now have spreadsheets for my inventory and polishes worn. The spreadsheets interact with each other to help...

    Hi, it's me, the nail polish person. I started this journey in August or September, and now have spreadsheets for my inventory and polishes worn. The spreadsheets interact with each other to help me keep track of everything. I have barely dipped a toe into the nail polish world, and I already feel like I'm heading in the "in too deep" direction. I spent a respectable amount of money on getting into the hobby, as many do when first getting into something, getting tools and supplies, etc. I'm cutting down on buying stuff now, but this is so fun. It's absolutely bewildering to my parents. Mr. Alpaca is a good sport and occasionally assists with picking colors. The cat has also been known to help pick colors.

    Note: this is not "gel polish." We're talking regular nail lacquer. Untrained folks doing gel manicures at home are likely to make themselves allergic to the ingredients, which is a big nope to me.

    It started with picking out a nail polish for my wedding with the help of my coworkers - and then I found out how much nail polish they own and what variety exists out there. They have ways of keeping organized (swatch sticks and filing cabinets and display shelves, oh my). They have favorite brands. They have magnetic polish, thermal polish, polish with glitter and iridescent flakes and shimmer so bright it glows. I've adopted some of their habits (swatch sticks) and begun forming some of my own.

    Now, while my collection is comparatively small (it's not unusual for people to have 300 polishes), I have gotten pretty ensconced in the knowledge of the nail polish world. I've joined a nail polish discord, and I've looked into making my own polish. I'm figuring out what I like and don't like, and I'm coming up with new ways to use my polish. For example, I just figured out a way to do the "fridge magnet look" tonight, without making my nail polish into decals to stick to my nails, which is usually how it's done. This effect was done directly on my nail with the help of a fridge magnet and a laptop stand. I'm doing a lot of trial and error. Error: allowing the furnace vents to blow in your general direction while painting your nails.

    I own about 40 polishes, 8 of which are on their way to me. My original goal was to have a jewel tone of each shade and just live on those 10 or so polishes. I started with ordering most of a drugstore collection that I liked that came in a variety of colors and finishes. But then I discovered pharmacy coupons would let me get polish for free. I have now given these up because I ran out of polish I wanted from there. Then, I discovered some boutique brands and indie brands. This is where I'm at now - trying not to buy too many things. Where can I go from here? Supporting indie brands that do charity polishes, maybe making my own polish. Discovering what types and colors of polish I like, vs. what I will actually wear. I just started shaping my nails, which is a whole separate aspect of this. My goal for the moment is to work my way through my drugstore polish (which are surprisingly delicate flowers when it comes to the environment in which I apply them) and my thermal polish (which stop functioning 1-2 years after first use). Honestly, at this point, I think polish is around to stay. My spreadsheet says I already have at least five years' worth of polish, which is probably an underestimation. I'm looking forward to emptying my first bottle sometime in the next year, lol.

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  20. Comment on Want to get in the gym? Here are some tips from a beginner.* in ~health

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    Thank you for sharing this. I've intended to look for YouTubers for a long time but I tend to get overwhelmed by choice. These videos seem great (probably going to have to write down some...

    Thank you for sharing this. I've intended to look for YouTubers for a long time but I tend to get overwhelmed by choice. These videos seem great (probably going to have to write down some sequences to actually follow them, though - he's so fast!).

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