How to allow another person to sink their claws into your heart?
I've gone through heart break a lot and I just recently met someone that I really like. We haven't even been hanging out for 2 weeks and we both really feel strongly about each other already. Honestly it's pretty scary becoming this vulnerable to another person. My last gf I didn't feel this way with like when it was over I was like meh but this gf is like... I don't know if I want it to end. Not for now at least.
Sorry I'm just sorta typing my thoughts out etc etc if anyone has any input feel free to comment.
I'll be moving out of state in Nov so the longest it will probably last is until then because I'm not sure if I want to do long distance. Like, I just had a buddy come home to a gf that was sleeping with another dude IN THIER HOUSE soooo I just don't want anything like that to happen to me but I also know when it comes to leave I might not be willing to break it off. Plus, I think she already wants to last longer than November but she hasn't explicitly said so.
Idk life and stuff and bullshit and yea... anyone out there feel me?
Take it slow and let it play out naturally. Don't force it, don't let it over come you. If you both find that you can't stop talking to each other or thinking about each other after moving, that's a great sign. If it fizzles out, it's not the end of the world - you will have had a great relationship to remember and learn from as you move forward.
true. I guess it will stay a thing naturally if it does and if not then hey.
Ah thanks for the advice. I've read the subtle art of not giving a fuck by him so I'll def pick that up.
bet. let me know what you think!
My opinion:
Honestly, if you're only around until November, tell her and make it a time to remember if she's up for it. This comic artist normally deals with polyamory, but I think this comic applies. Don't feel pressured to put a name on something if you don't have to and/or don't want to. Just enjoy each other's company. Communicate 100% 200% of the time and enjoy it while it lasts.
I did the long distance thing for about 4 years and it worked out for me. Having said that, I know lots of people it didn't work out for, and that's a reality. However, if you're partner's going to cheat on you, they don't need distance to do it.