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  1. Comment on Are you using WiFi 6E in a home/home office setting? Have you seen any benefit to the 6GHz channel? in ~tech

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    I had to disable all the dfs channels as I live near an air force base and anytime they used radar it would change to a non dfs channel.

    I had to disable all the dfs channels as I live near an air force base and anytime they used radar it would change to a non dfs channel.

    1 vote

  2. Comment on Are you using WiFi 6E in a home/home office setting? Have you seen any benefit to the 6GHz channel? in ~tech

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    That's what I'm waiting on, the highest I can get is 1g down/35m up. Once the fiber is installed I could go up to 8gig symmetrical but will probably only do 1 or 2 gig.

    That's what I'm waiting on, the highest I can get is 1g down/35m up. Once the fiber is installed I could go up to 8gig symmetrical but will probably only do 1 or 2 gig.

    1 vote

  3. Comment on Trans identity and the gender binary in ~lgbt

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    That button phrase is always on my mind. I said it almost a decade before I figured out I was trans lol

    That button phrase is always on my mind. I said it almost a decade before I figured out I was trans lol

    1 vote

  4. Comment on Trans identity and the gender binary in ~lgbt

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    I'm 8 days post op for gcs, I hear yeah. I was so dissociated from my genitals that pain just didn't register as a worry. That was until I started associating my genitals with me after surgery....

    I'm 8 days post op for gcs, I hear yeah. I was so dissociated from my genitals that pain just didn't register as a worry. That was until I started associating my genitals with me after surgery. Then it became a big deal, I got shy about them, I was worried about taking care and had to stonewall my mind before anyone touched it during checkups.

  5. Comment on Insomnia 8 forces users to login and use cloud storage in ~comp

  6. Comment on Trans identity and the gender binary in ~lgbt

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    That's how I feel, I was always very effeminate, didn't. Ex wife even praised it until we started trying to have a baby. She changed when she was 4 months pregnant and wanted a manly man, I tried...

    That's how I feel, I was always very effeminate, didn't. Ex wife even praised it until we started trying to have a baby. She changed when she was 4 months pregnant and wanted a manly man, I tried and got super depressed, she withheld affection and i suggested marriage counseling but she wouldn't go.

    I went and ended up talking about trans identity, how I was told by girlfriends I used my penis as a strap-on, how it reminded them of having sex with a lesbian. My ex took me questioning myself as a free pass for divorce without her getting in trouble with her parents for leaving so a few months after she left with our 4 month old I went to my Dr to talk about hrt.

    My levels were already mixed up before starting. 275 for testosterone, and 250 for estrogen. Once I got the t lowered I was seeing changes rapidly. I worked thru therapy all the coping skills I was using to temporarily get rid of my gender and sex issues. The disassociation during sex just to have it.

    No I'm sitting in a skilled nursing facility 8 days post op right now and while there is some pain right now, I feel like myself. My testies were always testy, causing physical pain at the slightest inconvenience, while getting an erection was at best an annoyance or worse I would hide away in my headspace to get away from it. Even before I knew I was trans it was easier masterbating with a magic wand than whatever jerk off motion I saw.

    5 votes

  7. Comment on US military will review 2,000 ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ discharges in ~lgbt

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    Which is weird as it was still banned, as if they were outed they still got kicked out, like how is that better than the old policy.

    Which is weird as it was still banned, as if they were outed they still got kicked out, like how is that better than the old policy.

    1 vote

  8. Comment on Gen Z falls for online scams more than their boomer grandparents do in ~tech

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    That last one rings true for me, not that other don't happen but I have been involved in volunteer efforts to teach children about online safety. Most never thought about teaching them about...

    That last one rings true for me, not that other don't happen but I have been involved in volunteer efforts to teach children about online safety. Most never thought about teaching them about financial scams, mostly related to don't take pictures of yourself nude, even for your same aged partners as the law can hit both and once it's online it is very hard to get rid of.

    9 votes

  9. Comment on How to argue against identity politics without turning into a reactionary in ~misc

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    Because othering people can bring people to do harm against themselves. Republicans don't have a policy to help people so they use this to get votes.

    Because othering people can bring people to do harm against themselves. Republicans don't have a policy to help people so they use this to get votes.

    1 vote

  10. Comment on US military will review 2,000 ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ discharges in ~lgbt

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    Great place to start undoing the damage that caused. Discharges can be used on employment checks.

    Great place to start undoing the damage that caused. Discharges can be used on employment checks.

    13 votes

  11. Comment on Microsoft Cloud hiring to "implement global small modular reactor and microreactor" strategy to power data centers in ~tech

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    Great, I have been hoping places would start implementing these.

    Great, I have been hoping places would start implementing these.

    4 votes

  12. Comment on How to argue against identity politics without turning into a reactionary in ~misc

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    That seems incorrect from what I have seen, how would a "radical" leftist go to the alt right

    That seems incorrect from what I have seen, how would a "radical" leftist go to the alt right

    2 votes

  13. Comment on How to argue against identity politics without turning into a reactionary in ~misc

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    Race issues are still happening today.

    Race issues are still happening today.

    5 votes

  14. Comment on What did you do this week (and weekend)? in ~talk

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    Had bottom surgery on Wednesday.

    Had bottom surgery on Wednesday.

    3 votes

  15. Comment on iOS 17 could break crucial diabetic glucose monitor alerts, manufacturer warns in ~tech

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    Maybe a notification permission setting?

    Maybe a notification permission setting?

    1 vote

  16. Comment on We have heard you - Unity says in ~games

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    Actually, I agree with all of that. I forget they bought marvel sometimes.

    Actually, I agree with all of that. I forget they bought marvel sometimes.

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  18. Comment on UN Security Council: Should Germany be a permanent member? in ~misc

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    Yeah, I thought the same thing, like they should be excluded for being bad. Wasn't until I read about what they really do, along with the friendly groups like five eyes and the like that we have...

    Yeah, I thought the same thing, like they should be excluded for being bad. Wasn't until I read about what they really do, along with the friendly groups like five eyes and the like that we have other groups chats for talking amongst the other governments.

    4 votes

  19. Comment on Hyprland is a toxic community in ~lgbt

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    Yep, white or political, man or political, christian or political. Republicans can talk about politics but if someone says something against, you're rocking the boat.

    Yep, white or political, man or political, christian or political. Republicans can talk about politics but if someone says something against, you're rocking the boat.

    5 votes

  20. Comment on Hyprland is a toxic community in ~lgbt

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    Yea, with the amount of furries and alt life people I have meet in government IT it's always a shock when tech forms are infested with alt right slime.

    Yea, with the amount of furries and alt life people I have meet in government IT it's always a shock when tech forms are infested with alt right slime.

    8 votes