- Depending on how you define 'celebrate' somewhere between my mid teens, mid twenties or maybe as late as my mid fifties.
- Initially because I was not Christian, despite my mother's expectation, and was not in sympathy with the whole capitalist splurge side of it but also I just wasn't really organised enough to do anything that could be considered actively celebrating it. Later because I discovered that pagan was the best word to describe my beliefs, and more recently because my wife decided that she no longer wanted to.
- I think that my family had come to expect it from me anyway and, at that point, I would go along with it if they were doing things for it so it didn't make a great deal of difference. Later, the majority of my close friends were also pagan, so no issues there. More recently - well all my friends have long been aware of my beliefs, so no significant change really.
- I celebrate Brumalia (starting Nov 24th, Vives Annos!. We have an advent- style calender, and progressively devorate the house with holly, ivy, cones etc) Saturnalia (Io Saturnalia!) and the solstice itself, which we are doing this evening and tomorrow.
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Comment on A survey for those who don’t celebrate Christmas in ~life
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Comment on How often do cook/order out/ eat pre-made food/ throw together food in ~food
Greyshuck From scratch the great majority of the time for evening meals - my SO is very keen on doing this. I would go for pre-made much more often if living alone. Eating out: maybe once or twice a month...From scratch the great majority of the time for evening meals - my SO is very keen on doing this. I would go for pre-made much more often if living alone.
Eating out: maybe once or twice a month for evening meals or Sunday lunch etc, and maybe a little more often for ordinary lunch or even breakfast at the weekends. Just at the moment, we very seldom have takeaways.
I will eat pre-made or slightly modified pre-made lunches at the weekend if at home: soup or beans on toast (with some chilli sauce, and a little cheese or maybe an egg) etc. My SO very seldom does.
Thrown together: well if sandwiches count, then I will have some for lunch most working days.
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Comment on What's the most enjoyable part of your work? in ~talk
Greyshuck What gets me out of bed and what I enjoy about my job are separate things really. What gets me out of bed is that I believe that the charity for which I work is doing something worthwhile and that...What gets me out of bed and what I enjoy about my job are separate things really. What gets me out of bed is that I believe that the charity for which I work is doing something worthwhile and that I need to do my job in order for them to operate successfully.
What I enjoy though is very different. I enjoys the beautiful places in which I work. Even if I am having a terrible day, I can always look up over some great landscapes and take a break and get out into them. Some are at their best in the summer, but one in particular peaks in the winter – it is a truly wild place and thrives on the drama and bleakness of winter.
I enjoy the people I work with: mostly intelligent, positive and committed and who work as a team. I grew up with Star Trek as a model for the working environment, but was so often disappointed with the actual environments that I found myself in – until I began working in conservation and for a charity, when it all began to align.
I enjoy the varied problem solving: things break is so many unique ways and for so many unexpected reasons and there are so many possibilities for improvement: the universal pleasures of anything approaching an engineering role (which is where I am at the moment).
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Comment on What was the first comic you can remember reading? in ~comics
Greyshuck As a very young kid in the UK in the 60s and early 70s I was given things like Pippin and then later The Beezer and The Topper and would occasionally receive boxes of other mixed UK s/h comics...As a very young kid in the UK in the 60s and early 70s I was given things like Pippin and then later The Beezer and The Topper and would occasionally receive boxes of other mixed UK s/h comics from assorted relations, but the world of American superhero style comics really didn't cross my radar as a kid at all.
I did get a Star Trek annual featuring reprints of the Gold Key comics - a couple of which made an impact (especially my first encounter with what was essentially Cthulhu, who managed to scare Spock. Obvs I had no idea about Cthulhu otherwise until some time later...). Whilst visiting an older cousin on one occasion I got my hands on what I believe to be some early copies of Creepy, which featured an adaptation of Bram Stoker's The Squaw and Poe's The Cask of Amontillado - although, again, I had no idea of their authorship or significance at the time.
Anyhoo, the first comics that I actually chose were Warlord (issue 1), then Battle, which became Battle-Action and then I discovered 2000AD (Issue 32, I recall) and there was no going back.
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Comment on Without saying where you live, where do you live? in ~talk
Greyshuck I have not read Warlight - but I understand that a section is based around 'The Saints' - a group of villages just into the boulder clay areas, but still East Suffolk - and nowadays with strong...I have not read Warlight - but I understand that a section is based around 'The Saints' - a group of villages just into the boulder clay areas, but still East Suffolk - and nowadays with strong Green party presence. I used to assist with the Greenpeace festivals there in the '90s for example.
The 'standard' literary work set in the coastal area is Sebald's The Rings of Saturn. A number of M. R. James' ghost stories are also set on the coast here. The Essex Serpent is - clearly - set over the border in Essex, but includes very similar salt marsh.
There are certainly areas left - and others being restored and recreated - much of the surviving heath and saltmarsh is heavily protected now. The Suffolk Coasts and Heaths has been designated as an Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty since the '70s with the aim of providing funding and resources to protect it - although the protection lacks serious teeth in many respects. The Sandlings (another name for the coastal heathland) Walk runs most of the length of the coast and includes some wonderful sites.
I thoroughly enjoy living here. It has both the cosy bucolic atmosphere that Detectorists captures well and the wilder, bleaker, more ragged coastal experience too to offset too much cosy complacency.
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Comment on Without saying where you live, where do you live? in ~talk
Greyshuck There are areas of saltmarsh, certainly, although they are all under pressure from coastal development and rising sea level. Coastal realignment - the moving of sea defences further inland and the...There are areas of saltmarsh, certainly, although they are all under pressure from coastal development and rising sea level. Coastal realignment - the moving of sea defences further inland and the creation of new saltmarsh on the seaward side of them - is an ongoing process around here.
Otherwise, acid grassland and lowland heath on very light sandy soil used to dominate the area, but over 90% of the heath has gone. It is now heavily irrigated arable, pig farms and confer plantations dating from after WW1 - which are slowly being turned to broadleaf or occasionally reverted to acid grassland and heath again. Further inland you get into the boulder clay of 'high' Suffolk - which continues over to the west.
It is all post-glacial: the boulder clay was brought down by the glacier and the sandy soil was the alluvial outwash from it. Go down far enough under those and you hit chalk.
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Comment on Without saying where you live, where do you live? in ~talk
Greyshuck East Suffolk - in answer to both parts of that question.East Suffolk - in answer to both parts of that question.
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Comment on Without saying where you live, where do you live? in ~talk
Greyshuck Further north. Some of the Detectorists scenes were shot in Essex, but most locations were in the next county up - where I am.Further north. Some of the Detectorists scenes were shot in Essex, but most locations were in the next county up - where I am.
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Comment on Ticket for one: The joy of going to the movies alone in ~life
Greyshuck The headmaster of my primary school identified me as a loner in a school report on one occasion - I had not encountered the word before except as the title of a WWII comic strip that I enjoyed, so...The headmaster of my primary school identified me as a loner in a school report on one occasion - I had not encountered the word before except as the title of a WWII comic strip that I enjoyed, so it had a fairly positive association for me. He was spot on.
Skip forward to my teens and I routinely went to the cinema alone. I had no conception of it being seen negatively. I was in the process of embracing my geekdom and weirdness anyway, but didn't consider that merely going to the cinema alone would qualify as "weird". This was long before the internet, of course, so I didn't have that as a measure of 'normality', for which I am quite grateful, although I would have found plenty of other geeks, but that's another story...
Anyway, it is seldom that I go to the cinema alone these days: it is normally with my SO, but clearly I still would, without a second thought.
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Comment on Without saying where you live, where do you live? in ~talk
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Comment on <deleted topic> in ~arts
Greyshuck I find myself being drawn to expressionism - and styles derived from it such as film noir etc - repeatedly, so I could go for that as a favourite, although I also have a fondness for the...I find myself being drawn to expressionism - and styles derived from it such as film noir etc - repeatedly, so I could go for that as a favourite, although I also have a fondness for the pre-Raphaelites, fauvism, vorticism, surrealism and others.
I don't think that I have a single enduring favourite work, but my favourite du jour could perhaps be The Garden of Earthly Delights - which is none of those in origin, of course, although is distinctly surreal anyway.
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Comment on Ancient Roman temple complex, with ruins of building where Caesar was stabbed, opens to tourists in ~humanities.history
Greyshuck (edited )Link ParentThis was a clear inspiration for a section in one of Lord Dunsany's short stories: "The Idle City". It is the third of the embedded stories.This was a clear inspiration for a section in one of Lord Dunsany's short stories: "The Idle City". It is the third of the embedded stories.
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Comment on What's your favorite cult classic movie? in ~movies
Greyshuck Since it is currently on a 50th anniversary release, I say The Wicker Man (1973), which is peak folk-horror. Any cult list has to include Repo Man (1984) and it is another favourite for me and I...Since it is currently on a 50th anniversary release, I say The Wicker Man (1973), which is peak folk-horror.
Any cult list has to include Repo Man (1984) and it is another favourite for me and I will also go with The Rutles: All You Need Is Cash from (1978). I have the soundtrack among my regular plays for road trips.
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Comment on What's your after-work routine? in ~talk
Greyshuck Get changed and 'recombobulate' - typically catching up on reddit/lemmy etc - for half and hour or so. Eat, then probably watch an episode of something on my Plex. Maybe a short chore of some kind...Get changed and 'recombobulate' - typically catching up on reddit/lemmy etc - for half and hour or so. Eat, then probably watch an episode of something on my Plex. Maybe a short chore of some kind then, and maybe another Plex view after that. Sometimes we will just read separately for the evening though - or listen to an audio drama or similar.
Then put the dishwasher on, make lunch for the next day and then a bit more reddit/lemmy and read for up to an hour or so in bed.
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Comment on We use sports terms all the time. But where do they come from? in ~humanities.languages
Greyshuck I feel that attributing the origin of 'wheelhouse' to baseball (in which sense it is only attested from 1990 onwards, apparently) rather than to its nautical derivation is a little unwarranted here.I feel that attributing the origin of 'wheelhouse' to baseball (in which sense it is only attested from 1990 onwards, apparently) rather than to its nautical derivation is a little unwarranted here.
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Comment on Monday Morning Thread in ~talk
Greyshuck He's had a good rummage, and tried calling both the phone and walkie-talkie, but the gods are jealous for their tributes, and it's not looking promising so far. I think that this will be the...He's had a good rummage, and tried calling both the phone and walkie-talkie, but the gods are jealous for their tributes, and it's not looking promising so far.
I think that this will be the second walkie-talkie that they have received. There is still one somewhere at the bottom of the year-before-last's waste hay stack, that we are slowly burning through. I doubt that it'll be usable if and when we do ever find that one again.
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Comment on Monday Morning Thread in ~talk
Greyshuck For me the highlight on Saturday was the BBQ for the volunteers (who work at the wildlife site for which I am a ranger). Good weather, so we weren't all huddled out of the rain as last year, and...For me the highlight on Saturday was the BBQ for the volunteers (who work at the wildlife site for which I am a ranger). Good weather, so we weren't all huddled out of the rain as last year, and not too much left over this time - just some cocktail sausages and lemon meringue pie which I will make good use of for the next couple of days.
This morning, however, it turns out that my colleague has managed to bail his phone and walkie-talkie in to one of the first of the seasons hay bails. He was repairing the bailer, and then started it up again before realising that the gadgets were no longer in his pocket...
Also, the Coastguard and EOD (bomb squad) were evidently alerted to a (probably WWII vintage) UXB in a remote area somewhere around here by someone on Facebook last night (because that's obviously the best way...) but the GPS coordinates were evidently wrong, so they are wandering around guessing now.
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Comment on What are your thoughts on wholesomeness? in ~tildes
Greyshuck As others have said, the commodification of wholesomeness – perhaps inevitable with any trend, once it has been labelled – is not a step that I welcome overall. It detracts from the authenticity...As others have said, the commodification of wholesomeness – perhaps inevitable with any trend, once it has been labelled – is not a step that I welcome overall.
It detracts from the authenticity of the moments when and where they do occur, of course.
However the one redeeming factor of the high profile that the trend has at the moment is that it does perhaps prompt the mind to be receptive to genuine instances when one does encounter them, and not to react with the all-too-common defensive cynicism.
As to its place on Tildes – recognition through tagging, perhaps, but I’m not sure that I’d want anything more prominent.
As an aside, I wonder how the current trend is perceived across the political spectrum? (Commodified) Wholesomeness of one kind or another has been embraced by states and movement at both extremes in the past, and it is easy to see that it appeals to the purity driver common among right-wingers.