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  1. Comment on Murderbot | Official trailer in ~tv

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    Right, so as long as the character resists being called a "him" and honors the genderless identity in the show, I can roll with Skarsgard as the lead. The narration is certainly more "animated"...
    1. Nonbinary and agender folks aren't necessarily androgynous and don't owe society a particular gender presentation. So, while the lead is not, the character still explicitly is non-binary regardless of how it presents at any given time.

    Right, so as long as the character resists being called a "him" and honors the genderless identity in the show, I can roll with Skarsgard as the lead. The narration is certainly more "animated" than I got used to in the audio books but I understand the need to emote more because we will be losing a lot of its internal voice.

    As far as the origins of cyborg-humans, they're vague and mysterious and not explicitly said to be one thing or another. We just know they're a combination of biological human bits and mechanical bits in varying proportions based on purpose. We also know that in that universe, memories can be directly manipulated, edited, deleted and implanted into cyborg humans. I suppose the way I imagined it is that if a human suffered a catastrophic event that otherwise killed their body, they could be "salvaged" by using cybernetics and have enough bits replaced to become functional again. Because the corporation rim has many, many opportunities for terrible things to happen to human bodies, this made sense to me because it could be "cheaper" to find "donors" than to grow needed parts in a lab. Any memories of a previous life could be deleted or overwritten to start with a clean slate and a governor module implanted. But again, it's never explicitly said, so it's all speculation on my part.

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  2. Comment on Murderbot | Official trailer in ~tv

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    Based on the trailer they have multiple scenes and lines that are taken straight from All Systems Red. There have been some "based on" series and movies recently that don't even have that through...

    Based on the trailer they have multiple scenes and lines that are taken straight from All Systems Red. There have been some "based on" series and movies recently that don't even have that through their whole runtime haha. Of course we need to actually see to judge but I'm optimistic that this was made by people who actually read and liked the books, which seems like a lot to ask these days.

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  3. Comment on Murderbot | Official trailer in ~tv

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    If they keep the character genderless and neutral in action and personal voice, I can see myself getting used to it. It WOULD be somehow more likely in my head canon that men would be turned into...

    If they keep the character genderless and neutral in action and personal voice, I can see myself getting used to it. It WOULD be somehow more likely in my head canon that men would be turned into sec units in the corporation rim, and they did otherwise keep the body lean and trim (to save on bulk shipping costs of course). I'm bummed because an NB/agender/androgynous lead in ANY major media would be a huge win, but I also get where they must have felt they needed a major name in action to headline it. I'm cautiously optimistic even if it doesn't fit my imagination.

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  4. Comment on Megathread: April Fools' Day 2025 on the internet in ~talk

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    Arenanet and Guild Wars always does something for April Fools, ranging from making everyone have bobbleheads, or see giant cats in every city, to an entire 8 bit inspired adventure with elaborate...

    Arenanet and Guild Wars always does something for April Fools, ranging from making everyone have bobbleheads, or see giant cats in every city, to an entire 8 bit inspired adventure with elaborate new maps and different combat and item system. This year's iteration is a bunch of achievements which involve doing things like a challenging end game dungeon as a small vicious cactus creature, partipate in a fashion show, or open your own cat cafe.

    3 votes
  5. Comment on What long standalone book is worth its page count? in ~books

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    I loved Jonathan Strange and Mr Norrel. One of the only books I downloaded as both an ebook and an audio book so I could read constantly across both mediums when one wasn't an option. It's unique...

    I loved Jonathan Strange and Mr Norrel. One of the only books I downloaded as both an ebook and an audio book so I could read constantly across both mediums when one wasn't an option. It's unique and compelling with a very distinct charm and style. I picked it up because I adored the mini series, and now I just love both for being their own things. I plan on reading more Susanna Clark books for sure.

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  6. Comment on Follow up on the username thread: What Tildes users do you recognize when browsing and, without being rude or inflammatory, what is your impression of them? in ~tildes

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    Yes, and I keep soapy water handy at all times, even in a spritz bottle in my car 😉 (But I also have a toddler so it comes in handy for that, but I always refill it, for the wizards)

    Yes, and I keep soapy water handy at all times, even in a spritz bottle in my car 😉

    (But I also have a toddler so it comes in handy for that, but I always refill it, for the wizards)

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  7. Comment on Follow up on the username thread: What Tildes users do you recognize when browsing and, without being rude or inflammatory, what is your impression of them? in ~tildes

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    Whenever I see @Mendanbar it always reminds me of the Enchanted Forest Chronicles. They were the first novels I read as a kid and they hold a special place in my heart. I reread them so many times...

    Whenever I see @Mendanbar it always reminds me of the Enchanted Forest Chronicles. They were the first novels I read as a kid and they hold a special place in my heart. I reread them so many times the spines fell apart and I still remember a lot of the content fondly after so many years. So my impression of them is that they have good taste in nerdy fiction books 👍

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  8. Comment on How do I trick my brain into accepting eating less? in ~health

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    That sounds like a good idea, I don't make bread often enough for that to work for me but I would certainly try it! You might need to up the moisture in any recipe you use though

    That sounds like a good idea, I don't make bread often enough for that to work for me but I would certainly try it! You might need to up the moisture in any recipe you use though

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  9. Comment on How do I trick my brain into accepting eating less? in ~health

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    It's unfortunately a lot like eating saw dust. It's absorbent, so you can mix it in to other foods and it isn't grainy or gritty, but then it's like soggy saw dust. I tried adding it to a few...

    It's unfortunately a lot like eating saw dust. It's absorbent, so you can mix it in to other foods and it isn't grainy or gritty, but then it's like soggy saw dust. I tried adding it to a few things and found apple sauce, oatmeal and rice porridge the least offensive carriers for it.

  10. Comment on US election results (other than presidential) thread in ~society

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    Pretty pleased that a referendum measure limiting PAC donations to $5000 passed in Maine with an overwhelming majority.

    Pretty pleased that a referendum measure limiting PAC donations to $5000 passed in Maine with an overwhelming majority.

    15 votes
  11. Comment on In need of new bedding in ~life.style

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    I've been pretty happy with Bedsure bamboo rayon sheets. For a comforter, it might be worth checking a second hand shop. I keep seeing comforters at Goodwill and Savers from decent brands that are...

    I've been pretty happy with Bedsure bamboo rayon sheets. For a comforter, it might be worth checking a second hand shop. I keep seeing comforters at Goodwill and Savers from decent brands that are 100% cotton and under $15. I know it varies regionally but you might as well look before dropping a hundred + dollars on one.

  12. Comment on Tildes Book Club discussion - This is How You Lose the Time War by El - Mohtar and Gladstone in ~books

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    Thanks! I'll decline, I usually follow my own reading list, I just hopped in since I had read this particular book in the past year.

    Thanks! I'll decline, I usually follow my own reading list, I just hopped in since I had read this particular book in the past year.

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  13. Comment on Tildes Book Club discussion - This is How You Lose the Time War by El - Mohtar and Gladstone in ~books

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    I read the book recently and it wasn't for me. It was florid to the point of obfuscation. I like a clever turn of phrase and I can appreciate poetic prose in the service of story telling but it...

    I read the book recently and it wasn't for me. It was florid to the point of obfuscation. I like a clever turn of phrase and I can appreciate poetic prose in the service of story telling but it felt so heaped in flowery language it became meaningless to me. I was numb to it by the end. I finished the book and just thought "ok then". It was quite surreal and fanciful, and I can see how other people might like to just get lost in it, but to me it felt hollow and substanceless.

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  14. Comment on How to handle a breakup? in ~life

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    That sucks, but at least lot of people have had that experience and can chime in. What's worked for me in the past: Keeping busy, working on projects or playing engrossing video games or getting...

    That sucks, but at least lot of people have had that experience and can chime in.

    What's worked for me in the past:

    Keeping busy, working on projects or playing engrossing video games or getting out with friends.
    Watching Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (when you're ready)
    Having some good cries and letting yourself grieve
    Thinking about times in your life where a big change you were scared of/didn't want turned out for the better

    And of course, as you know, the biggest one is just give yourself time. Hang in there.

    12 votes
  15. Comment on Microplastics are infiltrating brain tissue, studies show in ~health

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    Before the boom of plastic packaging there was glass, foil, cardboard, waxed paper, and cloth. These things are all still used but to lesser degrees because of how light and cheap and variable oil...

    Before the boom of plastic packaging there was glass, foil, cardboard, waxed paper, and cloth. These things are all still used but to lesser degrees because of how light and cheap and variable oil based plastics can be. So do alternatives have to be inorganic? There are plastics made from corn, pineapple leather, algae and all sorts of biological matter. Unfortunately, these are all more expensive options to oil plastics which means that public demand and support for alternatives needs to overwhelm the profit motive and spur governments to do the right thing.

    10 votes
  16. Comment on What are your ten favourite movies of all time? in ~movies

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    I have favorites that I will always watch if I have the opportunity, and favorites that resonate with me on an emotional level. I feel deeply connected to: The Fall by Tarsem Singh, it's...

    I have favorites that I will always watch if I have the opportunity, and favorites that resonate with me on an emotional level.

    I feel deeply connected to:

    The Fall by Tarsem Singh, it's stunningly beautiful in multiple ways.
    The Barbie Movie for message and nostalgia
    Moana, beautiful and optimistic
    The Muppet Christmas Carol, for nostalgia and timelessness

    I will always watch:

    The Princess Bride
    5th Element
    Puss in Boots: The Last Wish
    D&D: Honor Among Thieves
    Pirates of The Caribbean: Curse of the Black Pearl
    Edge of Tomorrow

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  17. Comment on What are your ten favourite movies of all time? in ~movies

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    I love Song of the Sea. It's so beautiful and does such a good job illustrating a sibling relationship.

    I love Song of the Sea. It's so beautiful and does such a good job illustrating a sibling relationship.

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  18. Comment on What shampoo/conditioner do you use? in ~life.style

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    Have you ever considered using henna to color your hair? It's very limited in the shades it produces but it's truly permanent hair color. The hennotanic acid reacts with and binds directly to the...

    Have you ever considered using henna to color your hair? It's very limited in the shades it produces but it's truly permanent hair color. The hennotanic acid reacts with and binds directly to the keratin that makes up your hair, so it doesn't ever fade or bleed color. When my grays got too much for me I gave it a shot and I'm so glad I did. 100% natural henna will tint whatever your natural hair color is with a warm orangey red. In my case my hair becomes a medium dark saturated auburn. It's a beautiful color that I love and don't have to think about until my roots and grays start peeking. There are also formulations of henna with indigo that give you darker browns and blacks but I can't speak to those personally. It's much gentler on your hair than chemical hair dyes so it might be a good option for you. Let me know if you want more info, I'm happy to share.

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  19. Comment on What shampoo/conditioner do you use? in ~life.style

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    That would be nice to try, I've been using what's available at the grocery store. Thanks for the suggestion.

    That would be nice to try, I've been using what's available at the grocery store. Thanks for the suggestion.

  20. Comment on What shampoo/conditioner do you use? in ~life.style

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    I've tried the dusting thing, using it like a dry shampoo, and it does not work without rinsing unfortunately. It just kind of sits in the hair and is even harder to get the grains out. You asked...

    I've tried the dusting thing, using it like a dry shampoo, and it does not work without rinsing unfortunately. It just kind of sits in the hair and is even harder to get the grains out. You asked how my hair looks, well not to brag but it looks great. Lustrous and shiny, not greasy but it has a healthy "weight" to it and moves like the hair in conditioner commercials. The woman who cuts my hair complimented me on how soft and tangle-free it is. I credit the health of my hair to the rye flour "shampoo" and it's definitely worth it, to me at least, to deal with its quirks and inconveniences for the results.

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