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What are your favorite simple pleasures?
For me:
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Cutting through an ice block with a stream of running water
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Going outside and it's the perfect temperature, or it's just a bit warmer but a breeze brings you back down to where you want to be.
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The satisfaction of completing a project.
Sitting by the woodstove on a miserable day.
Watching the cats scamper about.
Walking through a forest.
Thank you, for posting this topic and reminding me that I should think about these things every now and then.
The first coffee in the morning combined with putting on an album
Cycling
Im starting to enjoy writing.
Tea that has hot the perfect level of heat, just shy of tolerable, and you can just feel it crawling down your esophagus.
Hitting a warm bed on a chilly night. Getting your blanket and pillow situation just right. Waking up and realizing you don't have to get out of bed. A really good stretch after a reallu restful sleep.
Not everyone's cup of tea, but I also enjoy a perfectly timed joint - like after a day of working hard outside, then enjoying a joint at sunset.
Any situation where I'm more or less impossible to interrupt. Shower, bathroom, everyone has gone in a road trip and there's no physical way for them to interrupt me earlier than the next hour.
Sipping my morning coffee while playing MTG Arena.
My cat curling up on my lap and going rumble-purr. Similarly: every night when I go to bed she walks up on my side and makes paw-biscuits on me while purring for a few minutes before laying down to sleep on top of me. Adorable.
Portal-Isekai webfiction and audiobooks. (escapism junk food for the brain).
Being in my home office with my electronics lab - it's my happy place.
This one may be a bit more oddball: watching and chatting during one of Computer Booter's gaming console repair streams. It's a fun little portion of the electronics nerd community.
Oof, amazing feeling. Also the smell that comes in.
petrochor right?
Aww yiss
We went to Florida for vacation, and I swam in the ocean for the first time in pretty heavy swell, and I still think about that feeling of being in the vastness. I wouldn't call it a "simple pleasure" because it bordered on agoraphobia, but it was amazing.
when you get into a comfy position before the cat snuggles up
when the cat returns a long blink
opening a yoghurt and getting a clean lid. bonus points if theres an intact plane of yoghurt bridging the gap
trying a new food / flavour / ingredient haphazardly and it not ruining the meal
Hearing a song I love on the radio that I haven't heard in years.
When I finally get into "the zone" when playing a game and everything else in life just melts away to the background.
Reading a really good book before going to bed and being excited to continue it again the next evening.
Are you actually aware of when you're getting into the zone? I don't think I did in the past, and as I get older I just start to feel weird and uncomfortable after I notice I've been in the zone (mostly because of soreness from staying still too long).
It's always impossible IMO to notice you're in flow and continue to be in flow. The pleasure is in noticing everything is going perfectly without coming out of that feeling. Words fail me.
Yes, it doesn't often last very long but everything in the game just seems to click as I get into a rhythm and there's a slight sense of euphoria from all the stress of life fading back.
As that wiki article mentions I can see how people might confuse it with hyperfocus which can be a lot more uncomfortable.
Definitely happening upon an old beloved song yes! Hello again, young Chocobean
The color of the leaves this time of year (in the Northern Hemisphere): they turn to brilliant shades of red, yellow, and orange that eventually looks like the embers of the coals of a long-burning fire before finally falling off and painting the ground in its colors.
As someone obsessed with coffee, it has to be opening a new bag of coffee. Whether it's more traditional beans that's natty/washed or newer coferments/thermal shock/carbonic maceration, any time I get to open a new bag and brew my morning coffee, I get excited.
Other things include dropping from sixth gear to fifth to pass someone on the highway or crawling into bed at night.
From today:
Remembered
When my cat comes and cuddle with me in bed. I like feeling her fur and her weight against me. It's like a tiny weighted blanket. I also like feeling her breathe? As the chest/body goes up and down while she's breathing.
I basically focus on all that while we cuddle and it helps keep bad thoughts away.
That first hit of a fizzy drink after eating salty food.
Nachos.
Playing card games on the back porch with my daughter and losing track of the time.
When I find the perfect architecture/design for my code.
No matter what kind of day I've had, seeing the total joy in my dog when I come home to her after work.
Pack it up boys. We have a winner. 😁
I love this thread, a few more:
Being warm under a blanket when its cold.
Hyper specific
When your band mate does unexpectedly does something sick, it takes you a second to process but then you get hype. (basically what happens at 7:03 to the bassist when the pianist hits a borrowed chord (?))
Walking through a quiet forest
A cozy fire - reading by or just watching the flames while drinking tea or hot chocolate
Listening to it rain and thunder (combine this with a cozy fire or rain with a forest is even better)
On a sunny days, floating downstream, eyes closed facing the warm sun as the waves gently splash against the hull of my Kayak.
Immersing myself in video game worlds...
Just running around for the sake of running in video games with parkour physics.
Wandering around in well made game worlds, ignoring the game (quests, awards, chat, etc...)
Flying in games (example: I'd just fly in bird form as a druid in WOW)
Oooh walking through forests is so nice. Like bathing in green, or more colours if it's autumn/white if it snowed.
Cycling to and from work. It's a nice day to start and end my day.
Playing 90s dance music and dancing wild with my daughter.