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  1. Comment on Good News Everyone! - the coping with everything edition in ~talk

  2. Comment on World's strongest and kindest cartoon bear turns 60 – Bamse's anniversary is being celebrated in Sweden by establishing a new kindness award in ~comics

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    Congratulations Bamse! We need you now like never before.

    Congratulations Bamse! We need you now like never before.

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  3. Comment on What are your favorite simple pleasures? in ~talk

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    Sitting in silence near my beloved.

    Sitting in silence near my beloved.

    3 votes
  4. Comment on Career mentorship: How does one find a mentor? in ~life

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    I am an introverted, “socially challenged” female scientist. I’ve received amazing mentorship. Partly my field has a strong culture of mentorship. The things I’ve done to help myself mostly boil...

    I am an introverted, “socially challenged” female scientist. I’ve received amazing mentorship. Partly my field has a strong culture of mentorship. The things I’ve done to help myself mostly boil down to being openly mentorable. I ask questions, I actively avoid trying to appear like I know it all. I express enthusiastic interest in how people I admire do what they do and get where they are. I say my ideas and ask for feedback. I treat people more advanced than me with respect, but also as equals. I’m not resistant to learning from people more junior to me. I talk nice about everyone and I help everyone.

    5 votes
  5. Comment on What did you do this week (and weekend)? in ~talk

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    My spouse and I got vaccinations (what a fun date!). Now we both feel like we’ve been beaten by 6 angry men with sticks.

    My spouse and I got vaccinations (what a fun date!). Now we both feel like we’ve been beaten by 6 angry men with sticks.

    2 votes
  6. Comment on Former PM Katrín Jakobsdóttir has said the Icelandic language could be wiped out in as little as a generation due to the sweeping rise of AI and encroaching English language dominance in ~humanities.languages

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    Icelanders have a long and impressive history of protecting their language from outside influence. I love their tradition of creating an Icelandic word for new ideas rather than importing a word...

    Icelanders have a long and impressive history of protecting their language from outside influence. I love their tradition of creating an Icelandic word for new ideas rather than importing a word with the concept (like “computer”). I hope they respond to this call to battle!

    6 votes
  7. Comment on I ran a 50k today, please clap in ~sports

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    Amazing! I am delighted for you. I run just short distances due to a funky knee. I imagine this kind of run must feel soooo free!

    Amazing! I am delighted for you. I run just short distances due to a funky knee. I imagine this kind of run must feel soooo free!

    1 vote
  8. Comment on What did you do this week (and weekend)? in ~talk

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    So much! Need to buy furniture, rugs, some construction projects—we want to put a door to outside in the primary bedroom, fence in a dog area. But these will be slow. We will save, do, save, do at...

    So much! Need to buy furniture, rugs, some construction projects—we want to put a door to outside in the primary bedroom, fence in a dog area. But these will be slow. We will save, do, save, do at a rate that doesn’t incur debt.

    2 votes
  9. Comment on What did you do this week (and weekend)? in ~talk

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    Just started an awesome new job. Just bought a new house. I’m surrounded by boxes and can’t find anything and just had my first overnight guest in my new space. I made very yummy food for her and...

    Just started an awesome new job. Just bought a new house. I’m surrounded by boxes and can’t find anything and just had my first overnight guest in my new space. I made very yummy food for her and my spouse last night.

    3 votes
  10. Comment on Tilderinos in ~talk

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    Hi Tidemonians, I’m one of those people who disappeared. My departure was unnoticed as it followed my habit of posting very little! But this morning I thought I’d check in and saw this thread and...

    Hi Tidemonians, I’m one of those people who disappeared. My departure was unnoticed as it followed my habit of posting very little! But this morning I thought I’d check in and saw this thread and tasted a sweet drop of relief from my general sense that the internet (read: world) is just dreadful. I might need to spend more time with you lovely Tilders.

    15 votes
  11. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    Chicken tandoori. I used boneless thighs, marinated for ~4 hours then short, hot roast followed by enough broiling to char a bit. It was exquisite! Very tender and juicy. Also roasted chunks of...

    Chicken tandoori. I used boneless thighs, marinated for ~4 hours then short, hot roast followed by enough broiling to char a bit. It was exquisite! Very tender and juicy. Also roasted chunks of Asian pumpkin (kabocha), just lightly sprayed w olive oil. Also excellent.

    1 vote
  12. Comment on The misplaced incentives in academic publishing in ~science

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    This is a tricky issue. As a research scientist, my, nearly exclusive, motivation to review is “because I should”. When I am desperate to move my own publications, not to mention funding, forward,...

    This is a tricky issue. As a research scientist, my, nearly exclusive, motivation to review is “because I should”. When I am desperate to move my own publications, not to mention funding, forward, this moral obligation is just not sufficient. I’m not sure what the solution is, but government funding to pay reviewers would be an interesting option.

    6 votes
  13. Comment on Higher education teaching career advice in ~life

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    I have taught at both community college and large 4-year university. However, (though I love teaching) my primary career focus is research. So the university route was a no-brainer in my case. It...

    I have taught at both community college and large 4-year university. However, (though I love teaching) my primary career focus is research. So the university route was a no-brainer in my case. It looks like you have done a thorough and responsible job of acquiring and comparing the hard data. I cant think of much that you haven't considered especially since you have some experience in both types of institution. At that point, it really comes down to heart stuff. Can you feel an inward tug? Does your partner have a strong leaning? If one of the opportunities was suddenly unavailable, which one would hurt more to lose? Of course I cannot predict the future or outcomes of specific scenarios, but my sense is that the CC work shouldn't lock you out of university opportunities in the future. When evaluating faculty recruits at my university, a stint in community college just makes me think, this person is passionate about teaching. Also, although the decision feels enormous, ultimately if it doesn't work out like you thought, you can change almost certainly change course with out much loss. Best of luck, I am pulling for you!

    5 votes
  14. Comment on Why flying insects gather at artificial light in ~science

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    This is cool. So it seems like the old “moon navigation” theory is sort of right. But insects use light from the sky is an indicator of “up”. So if you tilt your top toward the light, you will on...

    This is cool. So it seems like the old “moon navigation” theory is sort of right. But insects use light from the sky is an indicator of “up”. So if you tilt your top toward the light, you will on average tend toward the light source if it is not, in fact coming from true the sky.

  15. Comment on Utility by Jack Nicholls - fun sci fi short in which a super powerful future human tries very hard to impress and reassure a 21st century human in ~books

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    Really delightful!

    Really delightful!

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  16. Comment on <deleted topic> in ~life.women

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    I had one kid in a hospital due to mild complications during labor, and two at home with a midwife. I found unmedicated birth to be painful and difficult but not excruciating or awful. The home...

    I had one kid in a hospital due to mild complications during labor, and two at home with a midwife. I found unmedicated birth to be painful and difficult but not excruciating or awful. The home births were far more to my liking. BUT I live a short drive to a hospital if things went wonky (like with the first). Everyone’s experience is different. I like what the author seems to be getting to: how about dropping the judgement (natural birth movement) and the control (the doctor will take over now, Dear) and let the “birthers” do what seems best to them?

    4 votes
  17. Comment on <deleted topic> in ~tv

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    Tragic loss. Absolute genius of an actor.

    Tragic loss. Absolute genius of an actor.

    4 votes
  18. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    I made a simple quinoa bowl that was surprisingly yum. Well steamed collard greens with a drizzle of bacon grease Sautéed mushrooms to just a bit of brown add little powdered garlic, salt pepper...

    I made a simple quinoa bowl that was surprisingly yum.
    Well steamed collard greens with a drizzle of bacon grease
    Sautéed mushrooms to just a bit of brown add little powdered garlic, salt pepper
    Cooked quinoa (I cooked in chicken stock)
    Soft boiled egg
    Stack in a bowl in that order starting w. greens
    Salt/pepper to taste.

  19. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    Oh my! I will definitely be trying that.

    Oh my! I will definitely be trying that.

  20. Comment on I made a majestic (reverse) centaur in ~hobbies

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    Truly magnificent

    Truly magnificent

    2 votes