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Comment on There is no epidemic of loneliness, but there is an epidemic of social scurvy in ~life
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Comment on Behind the scenes at the Blackwing pencil factory in ~creative
Alphalpha_Particle LinkThe graphite making process was incredibly satisfying to watch. Did not consider that graphite core is clay based and therefore can be manipulated/cut/extruded like clay.The graphite making process was incredibly satisfying to watch. Did not consider that graphite core is clay based and therefore can be manipulated/cut/extruded like clay.
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Comment on What made that wedding that you attended particularly memorable? in ~life
Alphalpha_Particle Link ParentSimple, comfortable and enjoyable is what I'm going for!!Simple, comfortable and enjoyable is what I'm going for!!
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Comment on What made that wedding that you attended particularly memorable? in ~life
Alphalpha_Particle Link ParentWow that is amazing a church slumber party, I would love to be invited to something like thatWow that is amazing a church slumber party, I would love to be invited to something like that
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Comment on You Can See Everything | Official teaser in ~movies
Alphalpha_Particle LinkMy first instinct was that this was a horror film with those womans eyes! Creepy! And then Nathan Fielder?? Horror comedy? And then I read the comments it's literally Elizabeth Holmes?? Looking...My first instinct was that this was a horror film with those womans eyes! Creepy!
And then Nathan Fielder?? Horror comedy?
And then I read the comments it's literally Elizabeth Holmes??
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Comment on What made that wedding that you attended particularly memorable? in ~life
Alphalpha_Particle Link ParentHonestly I would love to incorporate mass hand made products into my table decorations as favors, I'll have to think about this one too... Thanks!!Honestly I would love to incorporate mass hand made products into my table decorations as favors, I'll have to think about this one too... Thanks!!
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Comment on What made that wedding that you attended particularly memorable? in ~life
Alphalpha_Particle Link ParentOur afternoon reception will probably lean more towards this low key style (without the dancing). Thanks for sharing about your day and no I appreciate the advice too :)Our afternoon reception will probably lean more towards this low key style (without the dancing). Thanks for sharing about your day and no I appreciate the advice too :)
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Comment on What made that wedding that you attended particularly memorable? in ~life
Alphalpha_Particle Link ParentYes I plan on having many bud vases and offering the guests to take them home! Makes clean up easier too hahaYes I plan on having many bud vases and offering the guests to take them home! Makes clean up easier too haha
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Comment on What made that wedding that you attended particularly memorable? in ~life
Alphalpha_Particle Link ParentHmm may consider incorporating something similar!Hmm may consider incorporating something similar!
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Comment on What made that wedding that you attended particularly memorable? in ~life
Alphalpha_Particle Link ParentWe plan on family staying together in one house rental that has property and spaces to lounge and walk which will be nice! For sure a good venue helps create a special vibe. I would have loved to...We plan on family staying together in one house rental that has property and spaces to lounge and walk which will be nice!
For sure a good venue helps create a special vibe. I would have loved to have a reception at a botanical garden but it's pricey... We don't have the budget to rent a fancy venue or create a whole reception in an outdoor venue. So we have to find ways to make an indoor venue special.
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Comment on What made that wedding that you attended particularly memorable? in ~life
Alphalpha_Particle Link ParentWe don't dance so we are cutting that part out completely! Our reception will be short (~2hrs) cocktail style but do need to figure out other activities to incorporate that encourage guests to...We don't dance so we are cutting that part out completely! Our reception will be short (~2hrs) cocktail style but do need to figure out other activities to incorporate that encourage guests to mingle and enjoy themselves...
Yeah definitely have to consider incorporating hot food/hor d'ourvres though increases costs... -
Comment on What made that wedding that you attended particularly memorable? in ~life
Alphalpha_Particle Link ParentThanks for your advice! It's hard to plan when I never had an ideal wedding in mind and I'm figuring out what I want as I plan, haha. We already decided to have a two part reception where directly...Thanks for your advice! It's hard to plan when I never had an ideal wedding in mind and I'm figuring out what I want as I plan, haha.
We already decided to have a two part reception where directly after the ceremony we have an afternoon cocktail style reception in the same location, and only the family will gather for proper dinner at a separate location. We both don't dance so we cut that part out completely. But because there's no dancing I have to consider other activities to encourage mingling and have fun in other ways.
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Comment on What made that wedding that you attended particularly memorable? in ~life
Alphalpha_Particle Link ParentWow that sounds beautiful! Would be my cup of tea though not realistic for us as we wouldn't be able to keep our party that small-- as you had 9 people total? Cheap and easy is ideal is but we...Wow that sounds beautiful! Would be my cup of tea though not realistic for us as we wouldn't be able to keep our party that small-- as you had 9 people total?
Cheap and easy is ideal is but we live in a big city and want to stay local so it doesn't work out that way :')
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What made that wedding that you attended particularly memorable?
I'm in the midst of wedding planning and would like to hear your experiences, as I have only been to one wedding. I'm curious about if you've picked up on any unique considerations that went into...
I'm in the midst of wedding planning and would like to hear your experiences, as I have only been to one wedding.
I'm curious about if you've picked up on any unique considerations that went into the structural/event design as well as the emotional takeaway from attending the event:
What made that wedding distinct from the others?
What aspects of the wedding did you find thoughtful and memorable?
How did that wedding make you feel as a guest?
How do you want to feel as a guest at a wedding?33 votes -
Comment on Comictree: A collaborative webcomic in ~creative
Alphalpha_Particle Link ParentMade a panel, but drawing function was definitely difficult to use on mobile... Some recommendations: *Warning before before exit screen: I had to redo it so many times because I'd accidentally...Made a panel, but drawing function was definitely difficult to use on mobile...
Some recommendations:
*Warning before before exit screen: I had to redo it so many times because I'd accidentally swipe out or tap the reference photo and lose my original image.
*Palette bar should save some colors used/color history
*Custom color choosing shouldn't start with black
*needs zoom controls
*need erase tool
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Comment on Has anyone tried making their own font? in ~design
Alphalpha_Particle Link ParentLove this! Handwriting is so unique to each person and I personally am attentive to people's handwriting styles. Here's a way to make a font per literate human. (Caveat is that it doesn't reflect...Love this! Handwriting is so unique to each person and I personally am attentive to people's handwriting styles. Here's a way to make a font per literate human.
(Caveat is that it doesn't reflect real handwriting as it's per letter and mixed cursive writers like me won't naturally reflect in this) but still enjoy this project of yours! -
Comment on Comictree: A collaborative webcomic in ~creative
Alphalpha_Particle LinkLove these collaborative art projects, thanks for sharing! Looks interesting-- will have to contribute a panel!Love these collaborative art projects, thanks for sharing! Looks interesting-- will have to contribute a panel!
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Comment on What have you been listening to this week? in ~music
Alphalpha_Particle LinkI'm enjoying Brandon Flowers new country album THRASHER! I don't really listen to country music and this album is not super heavy country sounding but has the country flairs and some songs can...I'm enjoying Brandon Flowers new country album THRASHER!
I don't really listen to country music and this album is not super heavy country sounding but has the country flairs and some songs can hear more of the southern accent. I enjoyed the killers Pressure Machine a lot and see this album as an extension to that. -
Comment on Gift ideas for niece who’s into sewing? in ~life.women
Alphalpha_Particle LinkSewing hobbiest here! Adding to the others, 100% quality fabric scissors are a must (do not need a rotary cutter as a first round purchase imo, scissors >rotary cutter. I barely use my rotary, but...Sewing hobbiest here! Adding to the others, 100% quality fabric scissors are a must (do not need a rotary cutter as a first round purchase imo, scissors >rotary cutter. I barely use my rotary, but will come in handy at times).
Depending on her current supplies these basics I consider necessary:a set of needles and pin, pin cushion, seam ripper. Assorted thread/bobbin colors. Sewing machine needles of varying gauges (when starting out might break them often xD), tape measure, extra blank bobbins (that fit her machine! There are different types)Other useful tools: seam gauge ruler!! , sewing ruler (or clear plastic ruler is an acceptable sub ), and sewing clips (do not replace pins but very helpful), tailors wax/chalk.
Your niece is lucky to have an uncle supporting her sewing hobby journey :)
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Comment on Test your medical knowledge with daily clinical scenarios in ~health
Alphalpha_Particle LinkGot today's correct on my first guess! Went back to the archives and oh boy, confirming these are out of my scope of my practice (as a nurse). Fun though!Got today's correct on my first guess! Went back to the archives and oh boy, confirming these are out of my scope of my practice (as a nurse). Fun though!
This is a very interesting read and perspective. The aspect of the body not realizing it's social depravity and the analogy to scurvy is interesting.
However I would disagree that we don't recognize our isolation, it just takes longer. Social isolation can be compared to feeling starved but not necessarily to the degree of it. Humans can survive longer in isolation than without water or food so the study comparing hunger to social loneliness in a 10 hour span only shows that humans have a higher tolerance for being alone. Not that we can't get lonely or want human interaction. Tolerance =/= lack of desire.
Scurvy is also caused by a forced diet, forced conditions. Sailors may have craved fresh fruits/vegetables but they were not available or accessible at the time. The sea is a barrier. I mean I personally crave fresh produce if my meal or diet has been recently protein carb heavy? The sailors on the USS Lincoln complained about the poor quality of food at some point due to lack of fresh produce for months. Isn't that a sign of craving, desire for fresh foods?
I can't speak to whether loneliness is actually increasing/decreasing, but it still exists.
Loneliness or alone-ness is also "forced" in a way, caused by structural factors in the separation/isolation of individuals in modern society. Whether it's due to social anxiety due to higher social expectations (in physical appearance, social aptitude, likability) encouraged by social media. Or due to reduced opportunities to socialize in accessible affordable ways. Or car-centric built communities. These are barriers.
Perhaps instead of loneliness, the desire to socialize should be measured, like a desire for quality relationships: Are people alone yet want to have friends? Are people alone but want to enjoy shared experiences with others? Are people alone but open to meeting new people? Are there barriers to socializing?
I can't speak for everyone but I recognize feelings of depression when I am more socially isolated. I am content being alone a lot of the time. And I have friends to hang out with but when I don't hang out with them for weeks on end, I'll start to feel depressed and think that I don't have enough friends, need to make friends and be more open to social experiences. I do have social anxiety and feel nervous about going out but I usually have to push myself because I recognize that despite this fear I most often benefit from going out than staying in alone.