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  1. Comment on What quotes inspire you? in ~talk

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    "You are not the darkness that tried to consume you. You are the light that refused to surrender." "Life is not about 'finding' yourself, it's about 'creating' yourself. We are all works in...

    "You are not the darkness that tried to consume you. You are the light that refused to surrender."

    "Life is not about 'finding' yourself, it's about 'creating' yourself. We are all works in progress."

    "Normal is a setting for the washing machine."

    4 votes

  2. Comment on What are your favorite books with an unreliable narrator? in ~books

  3. Comment on What are your favorite books with an unreliable narrator? in ~books

  4. Comment on What are your favorite books with an unreliable narrator? in ~books

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    Thank you, I did think of Memento based on your description.

    Thank you, I did think of Memento based on your description.

    9 votes

  5. Comment on What are your favorite books with an unreliable narrator? in ~books

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    I'm not entirely sure I understand the question? Is this a genre or books I am unaware of? Or a particular narrative quirk? Can you explain what is meant by "unreliable narrator"?

    I'm not entirely sure I understand the question? Is this a genre or books I am unaware of? Or a particular narrative quirk? Can you explain what is meant by "unreliable narrator"?

    2 votes

  6. Comment on <deleted topic> in ~society

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    Less than he thinks and more than I would like.

    Less than he thinks and more than I would like.

    15 votes

  7. Comment on <deleted topic> in ~transport

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    "Regulations are written in blood." Why do you have to keep learning the same lessons? It's only a matter of time before something goes wrong worse than water pouring onto the street.

    "Regulations are written in blood."

    Why do you have to keep learning the same lessons? It's only a matter of time before something goes wrong worse than water pouring onto the street.

    23 votes

  8. Comment on What were your favorite games that you played this year, and why? in ~games

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    Stray. Perfect mix of cute and horrifying.

    Stray. Perfect mix of cute and horrifying.

    8 votes

  9. Comment on Tips for increasing online privacy (without going insane)? in ~tech

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    Nice, Thanks! I've got every single built-in list selected, so I think I'm good then haha.

    Nice, Thanks! I've got every single built-in list selected, so I think I'm good then haha.

  10. Comment on I was brusque with my family today in ~society

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    People do be complicated haha. Either way, sorry you have to deal with that, and good luck for future family gatherings.

    People do be complicated haha.

    Either way, sorry you have to deal with that, and good luck for future family gatherings.

    1 vote

  11. Comment on I was brusque with my family today in ~society

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    You cannot reason someone out of a position that they did not reason themselves into. You have remarkable restraint and I'm frankly surprised at your willingness to even be in the same room as...

    You cannot reason someone out of a position that they did not reason themselves into. You have remarkable restraint and I'm frankly surprised at your willingness to even be in the same room as those people. Family or not.

    If my family were that toxic, I would not socialize with them and I would tell them very bluntly why. I do not tolerate bigotry.

    7 votes

  12. Comment on Tips for increasing online privacy (without going insane)? in ~tech

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    Thanks for the info. I was running on old data. Any chance you have trusted resources for configuring uBO to take the place of privacy badger? I see a lot of "it can" but not much by the way of...

    Thanks for the info. I was running on old data.

    Any chance you have trusted resources for configuring uBO to take the place of privacy badger? I see a lot of "it can" but not much by the way of "here's how."

    3 votes

  13. Comment on Tips for increasing online privacy (without going insane)? in ~tech

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    I use several things without fully de-goggling. PiHole DNS setup on a RPi at home NetGuard firewall from FDroid on my phone in whitelist mode and IP filters using a similar ruleset to my PiHole...

    I use several things without fully de-goggling.

    1. PiHole DNS setup on a RPi at home
    2. NetGuard firewall from FDroid on my phone in whitelist mode and IP filters using a similar ruleset to my PiHole for when I'm away from my home WiFi
    3. Firefox+uBlock origin+privacy badger on both my phone and desktop
    4. No twitter, Facebook, Instagram, or Reddit
    5. Refrain from the use of unnecessary apps. McDonalds, coffee shops, etc. None of them need to be on my phone hovering up my data thank you very much.
    6. Meticulous permissions management. I don't grant permissions to apps just because they ask. I limit what apps are allowed to access and wherever feasible, I use NetGuard to deny apps internet access. Keyboards and launchers don't need internet access.

    Listed all out like this it seems like a lot, but none of it is a real impediment to my daily activities so once setup, it's mostly unnoticeable. I just have to remember to whitelist new apps through NetGuard if they need the internet.

    7 votes

  14. Comment on Understanding the leftist that didn't vote: "Everybody else gets one, but not me" in ~society

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    Oh, if only the world was a simple as "right" vs "left." It would make things far simpler haha.

    Oh, if only the world was a simple as "right" vs "left."

    It would make things far simpler haha.

    2 votes

  15. Comment on Understanding the leftist that didn't vote: "Everybody else gets one, but not me" in ~society

  16. Comment on Understanding the leftist that didn't vote: "Everybody else gets one, but not me" in ~society

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    This line here: "What I'm saying, I guess, is a very simple democratic process. If you want people to vote for you, you have to take them and what they want seriously, and at the very least make...

    This line here:

    "What I'm saying, I guess, is a very simple democratic process. If you want people to vote for you, you have to take them and what they want seriously, and at the very least make concessions to them."

    This states directly that OP is hoping for politicians to voice that they see and are willing to make concessions to them. And insinuates (reading between the lines) that they would be more likely to vote for the candidate who does that.

    But again, if OP's opinions are as wildly unpopular as they claim, then that will actively cause the politician doing so to LOSE other votes. Even if it gains them OP's. There is nothing to be gained for the politician to do that.

    This is why I am still advocating to ALWAYS vote. Go be heard at protests, write letters, write opinion pieces in media, do all the things, but also vote. If all you do is protest, but don't vote, that's like running only 50% of the marathon. Maintaining a democracy is a marathon, it's not a sprint where a single vote is enough, nor is just going out to protests enough. You have to do ALL the things.

    7 votes

  17. Comment on Understanding the leftist that didn't vote: "Everybody else gets one, but not me" in ~society

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    No worries, I totally understand. Canada is a very close trading partner with the US so your elections actively affect us and we follow your elections closely because of it. No need to apologize...

    No worries, I totally understand. Canada is a very close trading partner with the US so your elections actively affect us and we follow your elections closely because of it. No need to apologize for keeping it US-centric.

    I 100% agree with you. Action and change is more than just voting day. It's also more than just protests. It is about doing it ALL. Maintaining a democracy takes WORK. Like a lot.

    You can't just go out and protest a bunch, and then not vote. You also can't just go vote once and call it a day. You have to work at it, from all angles, all the time. You have to use EVERY avenue available to you. That means doing all of the above. Protests, voting, writing to your elected officials, writing opinion pieces in local media, etc. ALL of it contributes to getting voices out there and heard.

    I agree that Kamala was fighting a losing game. She didn't have the ability to make the systemic changes required, nor do I think that alone would have won her the election. Trump catered hard to the crowd who wanted to blame everyone else for their troubles. He's very much stoked the "YOU vs THEM" arguments and it won him the election.

    It sucks for Canada because as US is our largest trading partner, Trump's ideas of "America first" are going to screw us over big time.

    5 votes

  18. Comment on Understanding the leftist that didn't vote: "Everybody else gets one, but not me" in ~society

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    I am not being "dismissive," I am confused. It feels like OP doesn't understand how many millions of people that politicians have to cater to. OP Explicitly states that they hold "wildly unpopular...

    I am not being "dismissive," I am confused. It feels like OP doesn't understand how many millions of people that politicians have to cater to.

    OP Explicitly states that they hold "wildly unpopular opinions" (middle of the second paragraph) because they are just so far, far, far, left.

    Then they state that they want politicians who hear them specifically. Sometimes they choose not to vote because of this. But they themselves admitted to being a small niche portion of the population.

    Politicians have to try to strike a balance for literally millions upon millions of people. They aren't going to talk specifically to those small niche pockets of hyper-leftists when there's little chance of that winning them any significant electorate. And if OP's opinions are as "wildly unpopular" as they claim, then voicing those hyper-left opinions to cater to people like OP will actually LOSE them votership.

    It SUCKS. It sucks hard. I get it. I hate feeling unheard. I am in the same boat in my province. But we have to work with the systems we have because it's all we have.

    Not voting is functionally not voicing a choice.

    “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.”

    I will always vote, and I will always advocate for others to vote.

    14 votes

  19. Comment on Understanding the leftist that didn't vote: "Everybody else gets one, but not me" in ~society

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    Ya, I hope so. The right definitely doesn't suit me.

    Ya, I hope so. The right definitely doesn't suit me.

    2 votes

  20. Comment on Understanding the leftist that didn't vote: "Everybody else gets one, but not me" in ~society

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    "All it takes for evil to succeed is for good men to do nothing." Not voting is not helping.
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    "All it takes for evil to succeed is for good men to do nothing."

    Not voting is not helping.

    15 votes