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What quotes inspire you?
I loved the notes app post (h/t @kwfyre) and that led me to think about the motivational or inspiring quotes that mean something to you whether they're well known or more obscure, whether said IRL or in fiction!
"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle" - unknown
"Preach the gospel at all times, and when necessary, use words" - St. Francis of Assisi
"'-Unknown' means 'I'm too lazy to look it up' and '-Anonymous' means '-Me.'"
-Anonymous
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ian_Maclaren#:~:text=It%20is%20thought%20that%20Maclaren,Plato%20or%20Philo%20of%20Alexandria.
No, I looked it up. But its origin is disputed so rather than wrongly attribute it, I put unknown.
But you're also not the first person to attribute the quote to Unknown. Perhaps it was quite well known to be him until then.
Becky Chambers, A Psalm for the Wild-Built (Monk & Robot, #1)
Ann Leckie, Ancillary Sword (Imperial Radch, #2)
Audre Lorde
bell hooks
Sir Terry Pratchett, Carpe Jugulum (Discworld )
Edit: fixed a typo and capitalized Audre Lorde because I thought she was like bell hooks and I was wrong
It is better to start somewhere than nowhere
Useful at work as well as in private. I am generally one that is better than finishing things than starting them, so this quote is helpful.
My first reaction to the question was
And it kinda feels appropriate as an extension of yours. I'm the type to get discouraged easily when I'm trying to learn a new skill or technique but it's valuable to remember that most do not start off as experts or even with competency. Many skills are only developed with experience and repetition
I feel like this thread was made for me. Here are my favorites, pulled deep from the Crandiboot archives:
Because I love this sort of thing
https://www.reddit.com/r/etymology/comments/flmbl1/where_does_the_phrase_a_little_nonsense_now_and/
A bunch of possibilities for origins
— Junji Ito, The Enigma of Amigara Fault
None of these are really "quotes" so much as things I've been told that really stuck and served me well:
"Pay attention to the toilet paper": this is a reminder to check for waste in places that we usually ignore. It comes from a senior business leader recounting his experience being sent to manage a recent acquisition. The facility was overstaffed but missing production targets. He noticed that the toilet paper costs were unusually high based on his experience running other facilities. Turns out people would go into the bathroom, shove toilet paper in the cracks in the stall and take naps, watch movies, etc. Obviously this was a delicate problem to solve because you cannot dictate bathroom breaks. But they did eventually get the facility running smoother and now it regularly wins in competitions on safety and retention.
"Computations are the rumble strips on the highway of math.": A reminder to not get lost in theory or process, but just do the thing first. It's a clunky quote (I find endearing) that my advisor told me. A lot of my research was very abstract but often when stuck, just computing the damn thing helped highlight issues.
"The most important thing is being right, the second most important is correcting yourself if you're wrong.": Another good advisor quote. A reminder that as a mathematician people depend on me to be correct and to accurately apply numbers and measures to the world. If I find an error in my work it is my responsibility to update anyone who uses my work.
"Don't say no for someone else": A common thing but something I remember frequently. If there is an opportunity you are interested in you first need to put yourself out there. Don't deny yourself an opportunity because the process appears intimidating or you feel unqualified. That's someone else's decision to make.
In personal relationships, this is a great way to be accused of always having to be right. But fuck 'em.
Yeah, there is some nuance and maturity required with that one. Being right is equal parts not needing to always state what you think and not saying wrong things. When it comes to personal relationships that means not assuming you know what someone else is feeling or thinking and giving space to understand.
But if someone asks your opinion or assessment of affairs, be accurate and provide some useful insight.
Ah, that's not even what I was talking about, but that's true, too. I meant that when someone tells you you're wrong, if you look up the correct information, many people will think you're an ass who always needs to be right.
This is especially true when people wrongly correct you. They're allowed to correct you but you can't look into what they said or else you're the ass.
So you have to just give up if you want to preserve the relationship (which you now no longer know if you want to preserve).
One of the most influential books on my life is "The Moon Is a Harsh Mistress" by Robert Heinlein. While the libertarian stuff has not aged well in my mind, the concept of rational anarchism really stuck with me. They shaped the core of my moral compass for the better over the course of 20 years. These two quotes by Prof really hammer it home for me:
This really provided a nice guidance toward examining my own moral framework, which lead me away from bigotry and ironically libertarianism later.
This is why ACAB, until such time that all cops root out the bad actors. Why the leaders of giant multinational corporations must be held accountable to the wrongdoing of those corporations, regardless of their personal knowledge of these wrongdoings. Why the Republican voter is morally equivalent to the fascist they elect to represent their interests.
And why do I find this inspiring? Because it inspired me to better myself. It made me reflect upon the world around me, my place in it, and how to reconcile the feeling of helplessness when faced with the consequences of giant systemic failings around us.
There’s some kind of leap here that I can’t grasp. How do we get from all people are responsible for their own actions to what seems like the exact opposite: all people are responsible for all the actions of any group they are associated with?
Two ones to live life by
And
So, depending on the morning, you've always got a thought to keep you sane.
There was a similar piece of advice I've heard before, something along the lines of
I take the Djikstra quote with a similar meaning, but applied to yourself as an individual; it's not a lamentation for our inabilities, it's just a reminder never to make plans based on false perceptions of yourself.
I really like this!
"Life is this crazy, mystical thing, and sometimes you just go out like a buster, and there is nothing you can do about it." - an ancient philosopher, 2016
"You’re thinking I’m a tramp, aren’t you? Well, I’m not. It’s hardly my fault that the world is full of wonderful, lovable people. Such a thing really motivates one to get out there and save it." - Leon, Fire Emblem Echoes
I may have more to share later, but that one's stuck with me for decades.
From the film Adaptation.
Also,
From the film Mr Nobody.
Or, for one from literature,
From A Happy Death by Camus.
Yiannis Chryssomallis, fulfilling a lifelong dream at The Acropolis in Greece, September 25th, 1993.
"You are not the darkness that tried to consume you. You are the light that refused to surrender."
"Life is not about 'finding' yourself, it's about 'creating' yourself. We are all works in progress."
"Normal is a setting for the washing machine."
I like that one. I'm not a fan of "normal", none of us are normal even if some of us stray farther from it than others. The sooner people realize this, the more accepting people will be without a standard to force everyone to.
There is no normal, just people pretending to be normal until they've convinced themselves that normal is what they prefer.
I think normal is something more than that. It's a result of humanity's innate, evolved, need to fit in. Once upon a time, for a very long time, getting kicked out of the group more often than not meant the end of your genetic line. Which is pretty strong selective pressure.
I reject the idea of normal too, but it's not a conspiracy of oppression, it's just an imperfect manifestion of ancient drives that predate our modern forebrains.
There's great comfort (even if it's subconscious) in feeling so well within the lines that there's no danger of accidentally slipping outside of them and into the dark.
I like to think that someday we'll collectively understand the drives which inform our behavior better and, as a result, be more intentional about how we let them manifest.
"You are not the darkness that tried to consume you. You are the light that refused to surrender."
Wow. I really love this one, thanks for sharing. Really speaks to my depression-leaning mind. I'm going to add it to my own personal collection.
Kind of like "The majority is always sane." (Heinlein, I think)
It's a bit cheesy but the IDLES song "Television" has a good lyric:
It's pretty obvious and is a interesting way to put down negative self talk.
The comparison of how one talks to oneself vs others is one I use a lot with my students
You must go on. I can't go on. I'll go on.
Samuel Beckett, The Unnamable
When I need to dig deep.
Try so hard that one day you won't have to try is a phrase I picked up while I was getting ready for state competitions in high school, and it's helped motivate me since then through a lot more than I would've thought.
A quote I can actually attribute to a source off the top of my head would be Proverbs 5:11 - And thou mourn at the last when thy flesh and thy body are consumed, which I've kept in my head to check my ego whenever I feel like acting against my best interests.
"A man hears what he wants to hear and disregards the rest." Paul Simon
I don't know if this inspires me so much as it helps me understand situations that otherwise baffle me.
These use some space in my brain, and either I or my wife often mention them to each other. They are part of our shared language. Like memes, but motivational.
Internet?
This one is either from Arnold Schwarzenegger documentary or biography. And I believe he is quoting an AT&T CEO.
Internet??
Charlie Munger
Lyrics from Frozen
Václav Havel, slightly edited by me.
I framed a greeting card that I keep by the bathroom mirror:
"It'll all be OK in the end.
If it's not OK, it's not the end"
(there is no attribution)
This doesn't inspire me the way you might imagine.
It reminds me of an episode of The Walking Dead, when Carol, who believes she is dying, is lying on the road, laughing. Because she cannot be threatened or hurt any more and all of her burdens are lifted. (She didn't actually die then, but...)
The quote reminds me that in the end, I will have to let go of everything. Everything. And that will be OK. I find that comforting.
This is a dialogue, but I think about this frequently.
In particular, I like this film adaptation that illuminates the point a little more clearly with Death's last line. "YOU NEED TO BELIEVE THINGS THAT AREN'T TRUE. HOW ELSE CAN THEY BECOME?" It's really changed my perspective on looking at things that might feel impossible with our current systems.
I love that Pratchett quote. Also this one:
The other one reminded me of:
Man, Pratchett wrote so many good lines.
And I like that other quote. It definitely resonates with my general outlook of the world, and seems very well matched with Miyazaki one. Thanks for sharing them with me.
Oh, I have over 1000 in my collection. Here is a selection:
Sir Terry Pratchett - Thief of Time
I just remembered one other quote that continues to influence me. It's from The Hagakure by Yamamoto Tsunetomo.
For me, it relates to identifying what's coming and understanding that regardless of what happens, you're about to be in it. Even with your best preparations and plans, you're going to find yourself in that rainstorm, in that coming situation. Instead of lamenting how nice it would be to be dry, or how nice it would have been for things to have turned out differently ... you're still going to get soaked, you're still going to be in that situation. So identify it, understand it, and accept it.
You don't necessarily have to like where you're at, what you're experiencing. But you should be clear-eyed about it.
A bit terrifying to think that no one will ever see the world exactly from our perspective. But it's also inspiring, to me, that our experiences are truly our own.
Wow, some awesome quotes here - I love quote sharing threads. I still have a few old reddit ones I saved - though of course most of the best comments have been deleted. Here are a
fewmany of my favourites:"Fairy tales are more than true - not because they tell us dragons exist, but because they tell us dragons can be beaten." - G.K. Chesterton
“Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the conquest of it.” - No source
“The justice of the world is in its creativity, in solving problems, in our activity and struggle. While I am alive there is the possibility to act, to strive for happiness; this is justice.” – Simon Soloveychik
"Aut viam inveniam aut faciam. - I will either find a way, or make one." - Hannibal Barca
"I do not think I can win. I know I will." - From Mirumoto in the mildly popular Legend of 5 Rings tabletop RPG. A little arrogant, but it gives an important reminder for me: you have to believe in yourself if you want to get things done.
“A man should be upright, not kept upright.” – Marcus Aurelius (If my old source was right)
"Live a good life. If there are gods and they are just, then they will not care how devout you have been, but will welcome you based on the virtues you have lived by. If there are gods, but unjust, then you should not want to worship them. If there are no gods, then you will be gone, but will have lived a noble life that will live on in the memories of your loved ones." - Often attributed to Marcus Aurelius but I've seen that this is incorrect. I never have found a solid source.
"We read fantasy to find the colors again, I think. To taste strong spices and hear the song the sirens sang. There is something old and true in fantasy that speaks to something deep within us, to the child who dreamt that one day he would hunt the forests of the night, and feast beneath the hollow hills, and find a love to last forever, somewhere south of Oz and north of Shangri-La. They can keep their heaven. When I die, I'd sooner go to Middle Earth." - George R. R. Martin
“It is our failure to become our perceived ideal that ultimately defines us and makes us unique. It's not easy, but if you accept your misfortune and handle it right, your perceived failure can become a catalyst for profound re-invention.” – Conan O’Brien
“Between safety and adventure, I choose adventure.” – Craig Ferguson
“And do you know what I like about comedy? You can’t laugh and be afraid at the same time—of anything. If you're laughing, I defy you to be afraid.” – Stephen Colbert (yes, I do love me some comedians)
“Don’t be afraid to be a fool. ... Young people who pretend to be wise to the ways of the world are mostly just cynics. Cynicism masquerades as wisdom, but it is the farthest thing from it. Because cynics don’t learn anything. Because cynicism is a self-imposed blindness, a rejection of the world because we are afraid it will hurt us or disappoint us. Cynics always say no. But saying yes begins things. Saying yes is how things grow. Saying yes leads to knowledge. "Yes" is for young people. So for as long as you have the strength to, say yes.” – Stephen Colbert
And finally, one that really speaks to me in today's world:
“Duty, assuming all tasks, can betray arrogance. The idea that we can know what must be done, and do it properly. We cannot know the future, my friend. It claims so much to imagine we can. And the world is not broken any more than it always, always is.” – From Under Heaven, by Guy Gavriel Kay
The Guy Gavriel Kay one reminded me of:
And the comedy ones: