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  1. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    I want to make curry but garam masala is intimidating and my partner isn't a fan so I end up chickening out and making other things and ordering Indian as a treat instead. ETA: I should have asked...

    I want to make curry but garam masala is intimidating and my partner isn't a fan so I end up chickening out and making other things and ordering Indian as a treat instead.

    ETA: I should have asked what kind of curry? Indian? British? Thai? Japanese? Something else?

  2. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    Note: this is not about an eating disorder but it is about struggling with hunger/appetite. I'm struggling to both enjoy and cook food recently. It's a mix of Adderall and exhaustion and I would...

    Note: this is not about an eating disorder but it is about struggling with hunger/appetite.

    I'm struggling to both enjoy and cook food recently. It's a mix of Adderall and exhaustion and I would love ideas for "anytime" foods - Foods I feel like I can eat anytime even when it's not appetizing but not just desserts.

    Cheese is almost always a win for example and relatively good for me, and cereal, while less optimal, is usually ok. Sometimes I can put together a "girl dinner" or bread/cheese/meat because that's basically a sandwich, but when my meds are still working at home after work I get things done and don't want food or water and I end up sipping ice water and not eating much.

    Tonight is a pot pie but I'm sort of staring at it because while I'm hungry, I don't want food, ya know?

    1 vote
  3. Comment on The populist revolt against cognitive elites in ~society

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    That was the pledge. Plus, people buying food in food deserts are typically buying from more expensive convenience stores rather than a traditional grocery store. The costs and margins there are...

    That was the pledge. Plus, people buying food in food deserts are typically buying from more expensive convenience stores rather than a traditional grocery store. The costs and margins there are different and a public entity would have some collective buying power as well ( personally I'm curious if Whole Foods and Walmart have the same margins)

    My kindest read is that the author is the victim of the telephone game of news blurbs and pundits talking about Mamdani's promises, especially not being in NYC or the US. A less kind one would suspect the author of intentional misrepresentation.

    ETA I will add a few things - the five stores have been described as a pilot and the intent is that they would have significantly reduced overhead and collective buying power leading to lower prices. Opinion writers seem to focus on the idea that grocery stores are being perceived as greedy price gougers when I believe Mamdani has been focusing on access to cheaper groceries.

    9 votes
  4. Comment on Want to get in the gym? Here are some tips from a beginner.* in ~health

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    FYI for folks who haven't seen the term "physiotherapist" it's the same as a Physical Therapist This has been your Canadian/UK/etc to United States translation service. Thank you for your time.

    FYI for folks who haven't seen the term "physiotherapist" it's the same as a Physical Therapist

    This has been your Canadian/UK/etc to United States translation service. Thank you for your time.

    6 votes
  5. Comment on Statement from Mozilla's new CEO in ~tech

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    I assume so, but my telling them is so they know to fix it for clarity not because I doubted what they meant.

    I assume so, but my telling them is so they know to fix it for clarity not because I doubted what they meant.

    3 votes
  6. Comment on Statement from Mozilla's new CEO in ~tech

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    I think you phrased this in a way that contradicts your intended point as those sound the same to me

    There's a difference between implementing AI features that users can't easily opt in or out of and shoving AI down their throats.

    I think you phrased this in a way that contradicts your intended point as those sound the same to me

    2 votes
  7. Comment on Gift recommendations in ~life

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    It does not form a screw top, scent resistant seal like other things that grind. Just you know, if that matters.

    It does not form a screw top, scent resistant seal like other things that grind. Just you know, if that matters.

    4 votes
  8. Comment on Gift recommendations in ~life

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    If you like OTOTO kitchen products may I recommend the vampire shaped garlic crusher....Gracula And the Nessie family of colander spoon, ladle and tea infuser The Gracula has been a delight for...

    If you like OTOTO kitchen products may I recommend the vampire shaped garlic crusher....Gracula
    And the Nessie family of colander spoon, ladle and tea infuser

    The Gracula has been a delight for folks who don't want their hands to smell like nothing but garlic or if your hands struggle to chop/crush, and it's way easier to clean than the old school crushers.

    I don't have my Nessie ladle anymore but I've always wanted the full set. They stand up and are cute.

    The brand does a good job of being cute and functional, sometimes creatively so!

    4 votes
  9. Comment on Cato Institute - The Government unconstitutionally labels ICE observers as domestic terrorists in ~society

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    The conservative claim is really pretty simple. The left is lying. The left claims that the org isn't real despite countless violent incidents. The group "pitches itself" as antifacist. Most of...

    The conservative claim is really pretty simple. The left is lying.

    The left claims that the org isn't real despite countless violent incidents. The group "pitches itself" as antifacist.

    Most of them would still be anti-fascism in the sense of being anti-Third Reich. But if they don't consider their team to be fascist and antifa is protesting attacking "them" then clearly antifa is not antifacist.

    An example

    Trump designates Antifa terrorists as critics dispute if group exists | Fox News

    13 votes
  10. Comment on Cato Institute - The Government unconstitutionally labels ICE observers as domestic terrorists in ~society

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    In the voice of Ted Danson: "The Cato Institute figured it out? The Cato Institute?!" I'm being facetious, but also... DUH. Yes. Precisely. The whole "antifa" being the number one domestic...

    In the voice of Ted Danson: "The Cato Institute figured it out? The Cato Institute?!"

    I'm being facetious, but also... DUH. Yes. Precisely. The whole "antifa" being the number one domestic terrorist "organization* is absolutely ridiculous. I watched a shorter version of this clip where Mississippi Representative Bennie Thompson deflates the whole argument. There's no HQ, no membership, etc. and the literal operations director of the FBI's National Security Branch looks like a fool.

    "Sir you wouldn't come to this committee and say something you couldn't prove..."

    25 votes
  11. Comment on Your grocery store is a bewildering sea of overly processed food. Here’s why and what to do. in ~health

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    One of the things that got me was the link the article provided to pre-cut veggies which basically linked to something with a highlighted section that literally mentioned how washing the soil off...

    One of the things that got me was the link the article provided to pre-cut veggies which basically linked to something with a highlighted section that literally mentioned how washing the soil off root veggies lost 10% of the iron on it. It also mentioned that trimming can lose mineral rich parts of a vegetable and talked about freezing and canning.

    Pre-cut veggies are more expensive and add to packaging waste but allow for much greater accessibility of fresh foods to busy and disabled people. Frozen veggies are a way to get in-season vegetables year round and canned allows them to be shelf stable and be usable by people without kitchens/homes or who rely on pantries.

    None of those are the reason diets are unhealthy and theres a sense of the letting the perfect be the enemy of good.

    And that was one claim in half a sentence with a single link.

    14 votes
  12. Comment on Brown University shooting leaves two dead, nine injured as police search for killer in ~news

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    Agreed wholeheartedly. We just had a small safety audit for our offices. I appreciate our emergency management team and police both don't fearmonger. Like giving us some basic changes that could...

    Agreed wholeheartedly.
    We just had a small safety audit for our offices. I appreciate our emergency management team and police both don't fearmonger. Like giving us some basic changes that could help in a variety of emergencies without focusing on a mass shooter which is one of the least likely.

    But it's still dystopian, even just for staff.

    4 votes
  13. Comment on Brown University shooting leaves two dead, nine injured as police search for killer in ~news

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    Agreed, it's just the current reality.

    Agreed, it's just the current reality.

    2 votes
  14. Comment on Brown University shooting leaves two dead, nine injured as police search for killer in ~news

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    It makes this feel more like a targeted shooting than a typical mass shooting. As if the two people killed were maybe the specific targets. I'm not sure the last time it happened with a school...

    It makes this feel more like a targeted shooting than a typical mass shooting. As if the two people killed were maybe the specific targets. I'm not sure the last time it happened with a school shooting but I'm thinking about the manhunt after the Minnesota assassinations or after am the insurance executive's murder rather than the people who are seeking attention and death themselves.

    We probably won't know motive though until they catch the shooter.

    4 votes
  15. Comment on Eleven killed in shooting targeting Jewish community at Australia's Bondi Beach, police say in ~news

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    Additional info: Gift link Live Updates: Police Say They Plan to Charge Suspect in Hanukkah Shooting in Sydney Two unnamed attackers - father and son. The father was killed, the son is injured but...

    Additional info: Gift link

    Live Updates: Police Say They Plan to Charge Suspect in Hanukkah Shooting in Sydney

    Two unnamed attackers - father and son. The father was killed, the son is injured but likely to survive and will be charged. The father was a shooting club member with a hunting license giving him the right to possess a long arm weapon. He owned six guns.

    There were two improvised explosive devices that were disabled. The son was "known" to police but not in any way that made them suspect a terrorist attack.

    The hero who tackled one of the gunmen is having surgery for his injuries.

    The prime minister stated they will be reviewing the gun clubs and hunting licenses laws. The head of NSW wants guns to be harder to import.

    9 votes
  16. Comment on Jeffrey Epstein emails show close connection with MIT's Noam Chomsky in ~society

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    He was convicted of soliciting a child for prostitution in 2008 and the emails were from 2017ish. We could assume that people who are otherwise considered very intelligent, educated and informed...
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    It certainly looks bad in retrospect, but how much anyone knew about Epstein at the time probably depends a lot on circumstances that aren’t revealed in the article.

    He was convicted of soliciting a child for prostitution in 2008 and the emails were from 2017ish. We could assume that people who are otherwise considered very intelligent, educated and informed were oblivious... or that they chose to overlook sexual violence or coercion the way they have in basically every single other case among the wealthy.

    Of course we could just take his own words and not assume at all:

    “Like all of those in Cambridge who met and knew him, we knew that he had been convicted and served his time, which means that he re-enters society under prevailing norms — which, it is true, are rejected by the far right in the US and sometimes by unscrupulous employers,” Chomsky wrote. “I’ve had no pause about close friends who spent many years in prison, and were released. That's quite normal in free societies.”

    Jeffrey Epstein Met With Harvard Professor Martin Nowak and Noam Chomsky in 2015 in Harvard Office | News | The Harvard Crimson

    He was also charged in 2006 with the same crime with charges dropped, charged in 2019 with sex trafficking and Chomsky 's statements are from 2023.

    This information was commonly and publicly known among people who were meeting him, traveling with him, and accepting his money.

    26 votes
  17. Comment on Good News Everyone! in ~news

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    I appreciate how she highlighted the donations of others and that she doesn't put restrictions on her donations. She seems quite genuine in donating her wealth in significant amounts.

    I appreciate how she highlighted the donations of others and that she doesn't put restrictions on her donations. She seems quite genuine in donating her wealth in significant amounts.

    8 votes
  18. Comment on Gift recommendations in ~life

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    I love my African net sponges. They're so good. Glad you enjoy yours.

    I love my African net sponges. They're so good. Glad you enjoy yours.

    7 votes
  19. Comment on Good News Everyone! in ~news

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    So we're basically doing Armageddon right? /J I've heard about it but only a little so thanks!

    So we're basically doing Armageddon right? /J

    I've heard about it but only a little so thanks!

    8 votes
  20. Comment on Brown University shooting leaves two dead, nine injured as police search for killer in ~news

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    For sure, I just work at a university so those specific things hit me more, as does how today's college students have grown up learning how to run/hide/fight, literally how to die while slowing...

    For sure, I just work at a university so those specific things hit me more, as does how today's college students have grown up learning how to run/hide/fight, literally how to die while slowing down a shooter so others might live.

    It is everywhere though.

    8 votes