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  1. Comment on Fallout London | Official launch trailer in ~games

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    Well, due to it's size and the fact that FO:L's website seems to be down the way to get it is their giveaway it seems. Plus, GOG specifically uses the 'giveaway' language.

    Well, due to it's size and the fact that FO:L's website seems to be down the way to get it is their giveaway it seems.

    Plus, GOG specifically uses the 'giveaway' language.

    4 votes
  2. Comment on 'Skibidi Toilet' film & TV franchise in the works from Michael Bay in ~movies

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    Desperate or bored? I mean, if I had his money I'd be messing around like Daniel Radcliffe. Someone comes along and says "Here's a dump truck of money. Make a movie about evil toilets." and I'd...

    Desperate or bored? I mean, if I had his money I'd be messing around like Daniel Radcliffe. Someone comes along and says "Here's a dump truck of money. Make a movie about evil toilets." and I'd say "Sure."

    No, he's probably not the film snobs choice to direct Citizen Kane 2049 but he's got money and gets to do creative things. He doesn't have to understand it, just make your kids want to go see it

    8 votes
  3. Comment on IT professionals and therapists in ~health.mental

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    I hate to say "vibes" but it comes down to a few things - openness, understanding, and general empathy. Hit them with some light trauma that I've already resolved or worked through and see what...

    I hate to say "vibes" but it comes down to a few things - openness, understanding, and general empathy.

    Hit them with some light trauma that I've already resolved or worked through and see what they suggest. See if they come to the problem with an actual angle or idea or if they get hung up on something stupid. The old "if you can't handle my smallest problem, how do I trust you with the bigger ones?"

    Also, I'm decently paranoid and if I don't get a good feel right off the bat, I won't feel comfortable being open.

    4 votes
  4. Comment on IT professionals and therapists in ~health.mental

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    Let's look at this two ways, a lot of other comments have covered the same ground, but let's do it anyway. and The therapist will pick up on frustration at others not understanding capabilities...

    Let's look at this two ways, a lot of other comments have covered the same ground, but let's do it anyway.

    Other managers expect me to snap my fingers and resolve host errors while simultaneously fixing all the VPs computer problems at their home setup remotely! It's like "Do they even understand that I can't help them if they don't give detailed ticket notes?"

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    The client messages me for a photo shoot and when I arrive they ask about video instead! I brought a 50mm portrait lens not my C100! What, do they want me to shoot at 3200 ISO? Then the boss gets mad at me because the client said I was unprepared. It's like "Do they even understand the different needs for a night time video shoot and a portrait session?"

    The therapist will pick up on frustration at others not understanding capabilities and requirements - not all the jargon. Trust me, there's plenty of bad therapists out there. I've met plenty (for one session). Don't worry about them not understanding the technical aspects.

    12 votes
  5. Comment on The magic of tabletop crowdfunding is dying in ~games.tabletop

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    Time has got to be the biggest one for me. I'm far from a prolific collector but I've got a good 30+ board games in my house and the most played ones have short set up and play times. Every time I...

    Time has got to be the biggest one for me. I'm far from a prolific collector but I've got a good 30+ board games in my house and the most played ones have short set up and play times. Every time I look at KS for new board games I see a lot to love but also a lot I know I won't have the time for. DRG, Gloomhaven, FrostHaven, big complex games usually get beaten by Sequoia, Ticket To Ride or Catan Jr. I'm hard pressed to even get a game of Carcassonne on...

    Why buy more when I can only get players for something shorter or more simple?

    5 votes
  6. Comment on What games have you been playing, and what's your opinion on them? in ~games

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    Fellow owner of six Joycons as well, I've taken to doing the repairs for anyone who asks for the price of parts. The last Switch Lite I did was almost a two hour affair because a rubber membrane...

    Fellow owner of six Joycons as well, I've taken to doing the repairs for anyone who asks for the price of parts.

    The last Switch Lite I did was almost a two hour affair because a rubber membrane would slip every time I closed it.

    Still, I think it's fun and I hate the fact that they make you wait and pay anything at all.

  7. Comment on You don’t need a pickup truck, you need a cowboy costume in ~transport

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    I drove a (rented) Jetta down trails designed for military vehicles before. Are there things it can't do? Yes, but I've gotten a Dodge Durango stuck more times than an Impreza. If there were more...

    I drove a (rented) Jetta down trails designed for military vehicles before. Are there things it can't do? Yes, but I've gotten a Dodge Durango stuck more times than an Impreza.

    If there were more wagon/estate options, I'd take them but when a small lift (Crosstrek) nets a few grand extra than otherwise (Impreza) companies sure as hell aren't going to let you have a Station Wagon when they can upcharge you into a full size SUV.

    2 votes
  8. Comment on You don’t need a pickup truck, you need a cowboy costume in ~transport

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    What's the average city mileage of your sedan vs a full size truck? Yes, most people "should" be driving Smart Fortwos but they're not going to. If you're taking about 28mpg vs 15mpg, you can go...

    What's the average city mileage of your sedan vs a full size truck? Yes, most people "should" be driving Smart Fortwos but they're not going to.

    If you're taking about 28mpg vs 15mpg, you can go twice the nearly twice the distance while being just as "wasteful" with your travel... Except you're wasting less space, less fuel, etc too.

    If you have to be perfect to criticize anything else, we'll never get anywhere.

    5 votes
  9. Comment on You don’t need a pickup truck, you need a cowboy costume in ~transport

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    If you polled the North East, you'd have a high number of "off roaders" because most Americans consider a dirt road "off road." Most Jeep owners don't even go truly off road, just unimproved...

    If you polled the North East, you'd have a high number of "off roaders" because most Americans consider a dirt road "off road." Most Jeep owners don't even go truly off road, just unimproved roads.

    All that to say - there's not many places to go truly off road with any car, let alone take your car to one of the three tracks in any given state that haven't been shut down yet. It's perfectly valid to criticize a vehicle that has a much larger footprint, carbon and literal, for being an extravagance than a smaller option that's not utilized to it's full potential.

    But, yeah, everyone either buys the car they have to buy or buys the car they want to be. For most it's a bit of both.

    13 votes
  10. Comment on Jack Black ends Tenacious D tour after bandmate’s Donald Trump shooting comment in ~misc

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    If I recall from when I saw the Post Apocalypto tour, they have a whole segment about Don Jr. being an evil tyrant who literally has the KKK guarding the white house and they defeat him and for a...

    If I recall from when I saw the Post Apocalypto tour, they have a whole segment about Don Jr. being an evil tyrant who literally has the KKK guarding the white house and they defeat him and for a moment it seems like he's gonna turn but then he belts out "And one last time, you're gonna fuckin' die" and there's a Terminator and KG's kid is the bad guy.

    So, as long as Kyle would've threatened his kid it maybe would've been okay I guess?

    4 votes
  11. Comment on Donald Trump whisked off stage in Pennsylvania after apparent gunshots rang through the crowd in ~news

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    I mean, if he did it, it's official and no big deal.

    I mean, if he did it, it's official and no big deal.

    22 votes
  12. Comment on Does anyone have any advice for new dads? in ~life.men

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    Also, I should add based on your username, don't go fight in the Trojan war. The war won't be too bad for you but getting home will be a pain.

    Also, I should add based on your username, don't go fight in the Trojan war. The war won't be too bad for you but getting home will be a pain.

    5 votes
  13. Comment on Does anyone have any advice for new dads? in ~life.men

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    1.) Create a sleep schedule. You and your partner get four hours a piece. Say 'bedtime' starts at 8pm. First sleep shift. Then at midnight, you swap. 4am, swap again. Not to say you can't nap but...

    1.) Create a sleep schedule. You and your partner get four hours a piece. Say 'bedtime' starts at 8pm. First sleep shift. Then at midnight, you swap. 4am, swap again. Not to say you can't nap but having a bassinet downstairs or in the living room and making the bedroom a sleep palace will vastly improve the quality of the limited hours of sleep you and your partner get.

    2.) Sorry, your life is the baby's now. Any time you choose to prioritize yourself is taking time from your partner. Be very clear when you need things. And, if you need to, the 12am - 4am baby shift is a great time to game quietly. You and your partner have to do the rest of the temporal budgeting together - be clear and honest and what time you need and are using it for.

    3.) Babies are kind of potatoes for a while. They need constantly but just the same three things - food, cleaning, and sleep. Worry about language later, you've got tiresome work ahead for the next... Eighteen years.

    4.) Nothing is a cure all. All babies don't respond to the same stimuli. All of YOUR babies won't respond to the same stimuli. If anyone has advice, answers, or comments just thank them and drive on... Unless it's a doctor, listen to them.

    5.) Nothing is important, everything is. The best times sneak up on when you don't have your camera or are reading an article on your phone. Nothing will break your heart like the first time they don't want to do something you've done every night for years. The bad times will end. The good times will end. To a kid, going to the store can be the most exciting day of their life. Little scientists, exploring which drawers make the best clanging sounds and why putting your knee there makes daddy squeal like that.

    12 votes
  14. Comment on The American elevator explains why housing costs have skyrocketed in ~engineering

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    So, Overly simplifying the opinion I basically see "regulation bad" and "more migrants to do the work for wages that'll reduce the cost more" and from that point of view, sure, he's got a point....

    So, Overly simplifying the opinion

    Elevators in North America have become over-engineered, bespoke, handcrafted and expensive pieces of equipment that are unaffordable in all the places where they are most needed. Special interests here have run wild with an outdated, inefficient, overregulated system. Accessibility rules miss the forest for the trees. Our broken immigration system cannot supply the labor that the construction industry desperately needs.

    I basically see "regulation bad" and "more migrants to do the work for wages that'll reduce the cost more" and from that point of view, sure, he's got a point. Are elevators really more expensive than square footage? With the spiraling cost of everything, we'll likely reach the break even eventually.

    But, from his own research which he linked in the piece...

    High-income countries with strong labor movements and high safety standards from South Korea to Switzerland have found
    ways to install wheelchair-accessible elevators in mid-rise apartment buildings for around $50,000 each, even after adjusting for America’s typically higher general price levels. In the United States and Canada, on the other hand, these installations start at around $150,000 in even
    low-cost areas.

    He points out that American crews take twice as long to do the job as well, increasing costs. So, open your elevator firm and undercut the competition! He's done the whole paper, he opened the non-profit to study this, he's just gotta pull the trigger! Yeah, he points out valid problems with the ADA but just make the IKEA of elevators already.

    I wasn't feeling the article but reading his paper felt like the Snyder cut of the article.

    19 votes
  15. Comment on 'I want her to worry about who’s waiting on the corner’: How one man uses Facebook to frighten his children’s mother and why police do nothing in ~life

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    Let's see, ways to show the courts that you're an involved parent who deserves to see their kids. Pay your child support Don't threaten the other parent Don't hire stalkers from the Internet Ways...

    Let's see, ways to show the courts that you're an involved parent who deserves to see their kids.

    1. Pay your child support
    2. Don't threaten the other parent
    3. Don't hire stalkers from the Internet

    Ways to seem like an unstable loser.

    1. Photoshop the other parent in a prison jumpsuit
    2. Hire stalkers from the Internet and admit it publicly

    Yeah, I'm glad he threw in the line about making "nerds" mad because he clearly stopped developing when he saw Revenge of the Nerds. His comment about most of the pictures coming "from women" reeks of "I can't be racist" vibes and, even if he was somehow in the right, all of his actions make him seem unhinged.

    Maybe spend some of your spy money on your child support, Charlie, and the courts will arrange visitation time. Dude needs mental help, not an audience.

    10 votes
  16. Comment on Please convince me to like Fallout 76, I beg you in ~games

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    You can play them on a 3DS if you have the inclination.

    You can play them on a 3DS if you have the inclination.

    1 vote
  17. Comment on Tildes Game Giveaway: June/July 2024 in ~games

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    Could you please put one on Prey (2017) and four on Risk of Rain 2 for me? Thank you.

    Could you please put one on Prey (2017) and four on Risk of Rain 2 for me?

    Thank you.

    1 vote
  18. Comment on Ballkids? No thanks, we’ll stick to boys and girls says Wimbledon – Change comes slowly at the All England Club, which will not follow the other Grand Slams by scrapping the gender-specific titles in ~sports

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    Look, I'm ambivalent on the whole issue here but "Ball kids? No thanks, we'll stick to boys and girls." has got to be the nonce-iest title I've read this year.

    Look, I'm ambivalent on the whole issue here but "Ball kids? No thanks, we'll stick to boys and girls." has got to be the nonce-iest title I've read this year.

    10 votes
  19. Comment on Steam users have spent $19 billion on games they’ve never played in ~games

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    The impressive just makes me think we're going to ask to look at Paul Allen's Steam profile next.

    The impressive just makes me think we're going to ask to look at Paul Allen's Steam profile next.

    1 vote
  20. Comment on Steam users have spent $19 billion on games they’ve never played in ~games

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    Do I want to admit to beating any of those metrics? 47% of 2,540 games played for a price per hour of $0.72 USD. I'm currently working through the Yakuza series and Fire Emblem on my Switch (have...

    Do I want to admit to beating any of those metrics?

    47% of 2,540 games played for a price per hour of $0.72 USD.

    I'm currently working through the Yakuza series and Fire Emblem on my Switch (have to beat that one before I can move on to the Persona series.)

    2 votes