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  1. Comment on I was brusque with my family today in ~society

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    You’ve had amazing restraint with people who are unwilling to do the same for you. I have no real insight for you. People will always find a way to be right, ever moving the goalpost. At this...

    You’ve had amazing restraint with people who are unwilling to do the same for you. I have no real insight for you. People will always find a way to be right, ever moving the goalpost. At this point, goalpost has been moved so many times that I can no longer see the starting point. Watching my country hurtle to this fiery end breaks my heart. I see what fear has wrought and am sorry your family has decided to idolize it. Be safe.

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  2. Comment on 9/11 attacks in realtime (dashboard) 7:46am-12:00pm in ~humanities.history

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    Same. It was horrifying enough the first time. I don’t need to relive that day.

    Same. It was horrifying enough the first time. I don’t need to relive that day.

    3 votes

  3. Comment on Just passed my PhD defense :) in ~talk

  4. Comment on My dad is dying soon in ~talk

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    When my mom died, I was destroyed. I cried so loud that they closed the door to the room at the hospital. It took me years to get over the grief. It still makes me sad, but I am ok. I hold my hand...

    When my mom died, I was destroyed. I cried so loud that they closed the door to the room at the hospital. It took me years to get over the grief. It still makes me sad, but I am ok. I hold my hand over my heart, thank her for the love that she gave me and go on everyday. You’ll get there, there’s no timeline. Just keep getting up everyday, look for the small things that make you happy and keep walking forward. You will never be alone, he will always be walking by your side.

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  5. Comment on Tylenol: Six more years of failure in ~health

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    APAP/IBUP is my go to combo for my headaches. If that doesn’t completely do it, I have a little bit of Coca Cola. It gives me the caffeine and helps with nausea.

    APAP/IBUP is my go to combo for my headaches. If that doesn’t completely do it, I have a little bit of Coca Cola. It gives me the caffeine and helps with nausea.

  6. Comment on I love you, Hank. Happy Esther Day. in ~life

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    This video hit all the feels. I really loved it. I have so much respect for both of them and the love they have for each other. Happy Esther day!

    This video hit all the feels. I really loved it. I have so much respect for both of them and the love they have for each other. Happy Esther day!

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  7. Comment on What are your favourite bean recipes? in ~food

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    The most basic recipe I use is, beans, water and better than bouillon (there’s a vegetable version). I toss everything in my instapot for an hr. Then make some rice and toss them together. I...

    The most basic recipe I use is, beans, water and better than bouillon (there’s a vegetable version). I toss everything in my instapot for an hr. Then make some rice and toss them together. I usually eat it with egg mixed in with hot rice/beans and hot sauce. I usually top with kimchi or whatever veggies I have on hand. I never really like beans, but the instapot has been a game changer. I’d like to say I soak the beans first, but I don’t plan ahead enough to do that.

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  8. Comment on What was the last event that significantly improved your life? in ~talk

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    Yes, for me losing the Ex was probably the best thing that could have happened. My depression and anxiety was unmanageable. I now have a place of my own, depression under control and I no longer...

    Yes, for me losing the Ex was probably the best thing that could have happened. My depression and anxiety was unmanageable. I now have a place of my own, depression under control and I no longer wake up with a 24 hour anxiety attack. And no one judging me about everything. It’s amazing.

    3 votes

  9. Comment on World Health Organization advises against use of artificial sweeteners in ~health

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    Yeah, that’s the big downside of too much xylitol. The other being, if your pet accidentally gets it that it could kill them.

    Yeah, that’s the big downside of too much xylitol. The other being, if your pet accidentally gets it that it could kill them.

    4 votes