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  1. Comment on How rigid/fluid is your LGBT identity? in ~lgbt

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    I’ve stopped questioning it. It’s just, who I am. Like asking a mirror what it looks like. Also I haven’t been introspective spirally since having kids. So that helps!

    I’ve stopped questioning it. It’s just, who I am. Like asking a mirror what it looks like. Also I haven’t been introspective spirally since having kids. So that helps!

    1 vote

  2. Comment on How rigid/fluid is your LGBT identity? in ~lgbt

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    And yet again I’m reminded how privileged I am. That sucks.

    And yet again I’m reminded how privileged I am. That sucks.

    7 votes

  3. Comment on How rigid/fluid is your LGBT identity? in ~lgbt

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    As a fellow ADHDer, you’ve made me wonder if someone could be fluid with their (gestures at thread) based on who they’re with. Like I’m am different people with different people. Would my...

    As a fellow ADHDer, you’ve made me wonder if someone could be fluid with their (gestures at thread) based on who they’re with.

    Like I’m am different people with different people. Would my orientation / identity change with the right crowd? Wild.

    Thank you for sharing!

    Edit: for clarity, I’m cis straight man and never wavered (but haven’t really tried? I know I’m not physically attracted to other men, though).

    4 votes

  4. Comment on How rigid/fluid is your LGBT identity? in ~lgbt

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    That’s so cool. I’m loving this question cause reading the answers is giving me new viewpoints to try out. (Please read that as enthusiastic and not sarcastic) Anyway, I like your answer / story /...

    That’s so cool. I’m loving this question cause reading the answers is giving me new viewpoints to try out. (Please read that as enthusiastic and not sarcastic)

    Anyway, I like your answer / story / perspective enough to tell you with words rather than just a vote. Thank you for sharing!

    3 votes

  5. Comment on How rigid/fluid is your LGBT identity? in ~lgbt

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    Thank you for sharing. This is a story that I (cis straight man) haven’t seen. It’s very intriguing to me to learn that there are trans that don’t want to change (I’m sorry if that sentence was...

    Thank you for sharing. This is a story that I (cis straight man) haven’t seen. It’s very intriguing to me to learn that there are trans that don’t want to change (I’m sorry if that sentence was insensitive or incorrect, I’m very inexperienced in this thread).

    My only other reaction I had was “yeah, women’s bodies are amazing! If i had one I might not want to change it either.” Which was a fun little thought experiment. Thank you again!

    7 votes

  6. Comment on The weirdest computer that has ever lived (ASUS V500MV Mini Tower) in ~comp

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    Hello there fellow Pamela’s enjoyer!

    yinz

    Hello there fellow Pamela’s enjoyer!

  7. Comment on Yeti audio-animatronic coming back to life inside Expedition Everest at Disney's Animal Kingdom in ~movies

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    My brother in law and I complain about this weekly! (We haven’t been to Disney world in over 5 years lol)

    My brother in law and I complain about this weekly! (We haven’t been to Disney world in over 5 years lol)

  8. Comment on Suggestions for a LAN party in ~games

  9. Comment on Supersonic trebuchet in ~engineering

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    I saw this on TikTok the other day. So cool to hear the Sonic boom when it finally gets there. Just such a wild idea to begin with let alone execute on.

    I saw this on TikTok the other day. So cool to hear the Sonic boom when it finally gets there. Just such a wild idea to begin with let alone execute on.

    3 votes

  10. Comment on The US is recruiting gamers to solve its air traffic controller shortage in ~transport

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    They also have way better public transit which alleviates air traffic considerably.

    They also have way better public transit which alleviates air traffic considerably.

    4 votes

  11. Comment on Any significant changes to Tildes are extremely unlikely in ~tildes.official

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    Btw, you, Fae and Choco are the three most recognizable (to me) and my consistently favorite members. So also thank you for being here while you were.

    Btw, you, Fae and Choco are the three most recognizable (to me) and my consistently favorite members. So also thank you for being here while you were.

    24 votes

  12. Comment on Any significant changes to Tildes are extremely unlikely in ~tildes.official

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    Will you reveal your alts? (I’m not trying to pressure you into it, just curious)

    Will you reveal your alts? (I’m not trying to pressure you into it, just curious)

    4 votes

  13. Comment on Armin van Buuren - Children (from 'Piano' album) (2026) in ~music

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    It’s nice to see sometime else like Armin. Been a fan since 2008. Some great state of trance episodes back then.

    It’s nice to see sometime else like Armin. Been a fan since 2008. Some great state of trance episodes back then.

    1 vote

  14. Comment on What is your Mandela effect moment? in ~movies

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    I can subscribe to this conspiracy theory. But only for a few months.

    I can subscribe to this conspiracy theory. But only for a few months.

    2 votes

  15. Comment on What is your Mandela effect moment? in ~movies

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    Spoiler rebuttal Now that I’ve read your post, I remember it being gum since he was “on the up and up” after sacrificing himself to save the girl’s soul. The devil heals his lungs to stop him from...
    Spoiler rebuttal

    Now that I’ve read your post, I remember it being gum since he was “on the up and up” after sacrificing himself to save the girl’s soul. The devil heals his lungs to stop him from going to heaven and because of that he switches to gum.

    7 votes

  16. Comment on These twenty-five artifacts explain America (gifted link) in ~life

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    I can’t deny their utility and comfort. They are the minivan of shoes.

    I can’t deny their utility and comfort. They are the minivan of shoes.

    1 vote

  17. Comment on These twenty-five artifacts explain America (gifted link) in ~life

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    I’ve never felt so called out by things I don’t do / have. And at the same time, so comforted by the sight of them. Haha I went to Europe for a month earlier this year, and now that you mention...

    I’ve never felt so called out by things I don’t do / have. And at the same time, so comforted by the sight of them. Haha

    I went to Europe for a month earlier this year, and now that you mention it: I didn’t see any crocs! It was so nice. 😊

    2 votes

  18. Comment on Is there a way to filter out everything posted by a user? in ~tildes

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    Also, today what feels like half of the articles on my front page are from them. Like, slow your role home slice.

    Also, today what feels like half of the articles on my front page are from them. Like, slow your role home slice.

  19. Comment on Is there a way to filter out everything posted by a user? in ~tildes

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    Yeah this is it. I’m not wording it well cause my poor self views are coming off as attacks on OP.

    Yeah this is it. I’m not wording it well cause my poor self views are coming off as attacks on OP.

    5 votes

  20. Comment on Is there a way to filter out everything posted by a user? in ~tildes

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    Shit. No, I’m being genuine. I just don’t like my reasons so I’m being sassy towards myself. I’m sorry.

    Shit. No, I’m being genuine. I just don’t like my reasons so I’m being sassy towards myself. I’m sorry.

    3 votes