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  1. Comment on Who are your favorite LGBT musicians/bands? in ~lgbt

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    Rae spoon - beautiful voice - they /them pronouns against me! - Laura Jane graced transitioned - a few albums have lgbtq and bdsm themes lately too Soccer mom

    Rae spoon - beautiful voice - they /them pronouns

    against me! - Laura Jane graced transitioned - a few albums have lgbtq and bdsm themes lately too

    Soccer mom

    4 votes
  2. Comment on Seed sellers across North America have been overwhelmed by skyrocketing demand in recent weeks in ~enviro

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    Some seeds require the mother plant after so many generations. So buying heirloom seeds is the way to go if you want to grow the same plant for more than one gnerstion.

    Some seeds require the mother plant after so many generations. So buying heirloom seeds is the way to go if you want to grow the same plant for more than one gnerstion.

    3 votes
  3. Comment on Daily coronavirus-related chat, questions, and minor updates - March 20 in ~health

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    Only issue is they're not sure if exposure equals immunity to future exposures

    Only issue is they're not sure if exposure equals immunity to future exposures

    6 votes
  4. Comment on What it’s like to isolate with your girlfriend and her other boyfriend in ~life

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    If all parties get along this can be wonderful (I'm poly)

    If all parties get along this can be wonderful (I'm poly)

    7 votes
  5. Comment on Daily coronavirus-related chat, questions, and minor updates - March 18 in ~health

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    I'm finding information saying that people who were thought to be less at risk (18-40) are starting to show symptoms more often than people thought. Has anyone else found similar or conflicting...

    I'm finding information saying that people who were thought to be less at risk (18-40) are starting to show symptoms more often than people thought. Has anyone else found similar or conflicting information to this?

    I want to know so I can demand my employer give us necessarily supplies to protect me and my coworkers. And would like to gain an accurate assessment of the risk I am putting myself through daily

    4 votes
  6. Comment on NYSE paused after Dow plunges shortly after trading begins in ~finance

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    Actually it resulted in things like psychiatric care, social security and other government led benefits.. It had greater social programs than before the recession at least

    Actually it resulted in things like psychiatric care, social security and other government led benefits.. It had greater social programs than before the recession at least

  7. Comment on NYSE paused after Dow plunges shortly after trading begins in ~finance

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    To be honest I hope the market crashes hard, the stock market is mostly used by people who have money. Maybe this will shift priorities of people to more socialist care especially regarding...

    To be honest I hope the market crashes hard, the stock market is mostly used by people who have money. Maybe this will shift priorities of people to more socialist care especially regarding retirement and ensuring needed resources are funded.

  8. Comment on Las Vegas Democratic Debate Discussion Thread in ~talk

  9. Comment on Signal is finally bringing its secure messaging to the masses in ~tech

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    If my texts could be encrypted even if people don't use signal that would be so helpful. Not many of my friends use it so the encryption is sort of moot unfortunately.. I'm not sure how this would...

    If my texts could be encrypted even if people don't use signal that would be so helpful. Not many of my friends use it so the encryption is sort of moot unfortunately.. I'm not sure how this would be done it's just something I've thought of

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  10. Comment on <deleted topic> in ~space

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    My guess is the budget will be included in military budget and we'll have no idea where the money is going like usual 😕

    My guess is the budget will be included in military budget and we'll have no idea where the money is going like usual 😕

    2 votes
  11. Comment on How rigid/fluid is your gender and/or sexuality? in ~lgbt

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    Privacy, customization, multi platform, encryption

    Privacy, customization, multi platform, encryption

    5 votes
  13. Comment on Meet the anti-woke left: ‘Dirtbag’ leftists Amber A’Lee Frost and Anna Khachiyan on populism, feminism and cancel culture in ~society

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    This article has a few valid points but to me their explanations in the article and little quips like polyamory, pansexuality and nerd culture being synonymous to loving games and rules seem...

    This article has a few valid points but to me their explanations in the article and little quips like polyamory, pansexuality and nerd culture being synonymous to loving games and rules seem really sophomoric to me; it sorta reads like a 20 year old college student who feels they have it all figured out and now looks down on people who fit mainstream narratives except here mainstream is pc culture and women's rights...

    22 votes
  14. Comment on When you’re trans, living with your parents can be complicated in ~lgbt

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    When i moved back in euth my parents after transitioning I gave them an ultimatum. Either they use my correct pronouns and new name or I will make every effort to move out and will not see them...

    When i moved back in euth my parents after transitioning I gave them an ultimatum. Either they use my correct pronouns and new name or I will make every effort to move out and will not see them again, until they make trh changes. I meant it, and explained that literally everybody except them uses my name and correct pronouns; I also discussed how it was embarrassing out on public and made me feel disrespected they they wouldn't even try.

    The next morning they put effort into the changes and we now have a wonderful relationship. They are even advocates to lgbtq rights and challenge people who are outwardly transphobic. I know this isn't the same for everyone but this is what worked for me. When I threatened to move they knew I would (I had moved across the country earlier in life).

    We all put a lot of effort into communicating and rebuilding our relationships. I understood that this wasn't easy for them,, especially with a religious background and how they were raised. Prior to my ultimatum I had given them 6-8 years to make these changes, I felt like I had given then enough tiem to adjust. My family is now a huge support for me and although not easy it was worth it to be candid about my feelings and for all of us to communicate openly.

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  15. Comment on Do you practice any form of meditation? in ~health

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    I used to practice meditation for about 8-10 years and found it incredibly helpful. However, I went through a traumatic experience with living in a new age cult. Since then I have trouble...

    I used to practice meditation for about 8-10 years and found it incredibly helpful. However, I went through a traumatic experience with living in a new age cult. Since then I have trouble meditating because I'm afraid I'll be transported to the many dimensions or worlds or beings that I was introduced to while in the cult.

    I'd love to get back into it but it's so mixed up in my lack of direction and trust in my own beliefs since that experience. I'm working with trauma informed therapists, the work is slow but I'm getting there.

    Do any of you have experience in this tyeo of situation or how to meditate peacefully when I keep being afraid I'll get lost again in someone else's view of reality?

    1 vote
  16. Comment on Google has quietly added DuckDuckGo as a search engine option for Chrome users in ~sixty markets in ~tech

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    I've been using duckduckgo recently and have been trying to protect my privacy more by using Firefox with adons. For those of you well versed in maintaining anonymity what other steps should I...

    I've been using duckduckgo recently and have been trying to protect my privacy more by using Firefox with adons. For those of you well versed in maintaining anonymity what other steps should I take to maintain privacy? I am aware of TOR but am unsure if I can use it on my phone.

    1 vote
  17. Comment on Some small updates over the past week in ~tildes.official

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    Sorry if this is a silly question but how do I enable the dark theme

    Sorry if this is a silly question but how do I enable the dark theme

    1 vote
  18. Comment on Paul Manafort sentenced to forty-seven months in US prison for tax and bank fraud in ~news

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    I woke up to this news, it made me so mad that he got away with funding dictators and breaking numerous laws. The US justice system feels like a joke. Im hoping at his next trial he's given the...

    I woke up to this news, it made me so mad that he got away with funding dictators and breaking numerous laws. The US justice system feels like a joke. Im hoping at his next trial he's given the full amount.

    1 vote