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Comment on “I don’t see how we can save it.” in ~life
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Comment on Do you deliberately overbuy things with the intention to return some of them? in ~life
eggpl4nt LinkThis is how I shop at Home Depot lol. It's gotten to the point where I'd rather buy more things that might fit what I need for home repairs/improvement than have to go back to the hardware store...This is how I shop at Home Depot lol. It's gotten to the point where I'd rather buy more things that might fit what I need for home repairs/improvement than have to go back to the hardware store multiple times in the same day for anything I forgot.
I don't do this for online purchases though, I would feel bad about the waste in shipping. I still prefer to go buy things, especially clothing, at brick & mortar shops. Online is my last resort.
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Comment on <deleted topic> in ~society
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Comment on Apple is killing Swift in ~comp
eggpl4nt LinkGreat article, really informative about the history/trajectory of Swift and also just fun various bits and bobs of tech (like I didn't know Python was named after Monty Python, hah), and I enjoyed...Great article, really informative about the history/trajectory of Swift and also just fun various bits and bobs of tech (like I didn't know Python was named after Monty Python, hah), and I enjoyed the humorous undertones the whole way through. Thanks for sharing!
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Comment on Do our dogs have something to tell the world? in ~life.pets
eggpl4nt Link ParentAw, that's a sweet and funny interpretation.Aw, that's a sweet and funny interpretation.
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Comment on Do our dogs have something to tell the world? in ~life.pets
eggpl4nt Link ParentSavage. 😭 (I assume/wonder if the dog tries to communicate to the owner that it feels the owner is not loving the dog rather than the more funny interpretation that the dog doesn't love the owner...One day, the end of daylight saving time delayed Stella’s mealtime. She asked for food, and Hunger told her to wait. In protest, she stomped over to her buttons and pressed LOVE YOU NO.
Savage. 😭 (I assume/wonder if the dog tries to communicate to the owner that it feels the owner is not loving the dog rather than the more funny interpretation that the dog doesn't love the owner anymore because of a late dinner.)
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Comment on Why US health insurance reform is difficult in ~society
eggpl4nt LinkOkay, so don't do that. Start "small." Instead, propose what Obamacare (ACA) originally wanted to do, which was include a public option. Then there's much less avenue for them to fearmonger with...[A]nyone proposing a radical reform like Medicare for all is in effect saying to large numbers of voters, “We’re going to take away insurance that you like, that you believe works for you, and replace it with something different. It will be better! Trust us!”
Okay, so don't do that. Start "small." Instead, propose what Obamacare (ACA) originally wanted to do, which was include a public option.
Then there's much less avenue for them to fearmonger with claims of "they're going to take away the private plans you like!" because the response can be "no, we're providing another choice Americans can make, we are increasing choices and competition in the healthcare 'market.'"
Don't get me wrong, I'll promote any instances of "healthcare for all" I come across, but I know big sweeping change is "scary" to many people. I want to see proposals for incremental changes, that are easier to explain and justify, that large majorities of the population can get behind. Besides, big changes are composed of many small changes. Rome was not built in a day.
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Comment on Op Ed from UnitedHealth Group CEO: The US health care system is flawed. Let’s fix it. in ~society
eggpl4nt LinkWow, what a puff piece. Nothing of substance. Why did he even bother? (If he even did, could just be a ghost writer.) Thank you for sharing, though. He claims the healthcare system is flawed, yes,...Wow, what a puff piece. Nothing of substance. Why did he even bother? (If he even did, could just be a ghost writer.) Thank you for sharing, though.
He claims the healthcare system is flawed, yes, but doesn't elaborate why. Probably because for-profit healthcare is the flaw and it is his company's entire business model.
He exclaims "let's fix it" and then doesn't elaborate how. How about he fixes it by dissolving his company and using his millions to invest in legislative efforts to create a single-payer system?
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Comment on <deleted topic> in ~life.women
eggpl4nt Link ParentAgain, why is this being turned into a gendered issue? The initial post says "The description of the services for both are the same," so how is it possible that women are getting an extra 15...Again, why is this being turned into a gendered issue? The initial post says "The description of the services for both are the same," so how is it possible that women are getting an extra 15 minutes? Why aren't the pedicures priced per time taken then? Why can't women get the 45 minute pedicure? Why can't men get the 60 minute pedicure? In no way does this change my view that this is a sexist "pink tax"; there are no significant differences between men's nails and women's nails that justifies an upcharge on "women's nail" services.
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Comment on <deleted topic> in ~life.women
eggpl4nt LinkI struggle to consider this anything other than absolute sexism. Nails are nails. I have never heard of such a pricing system for nails, I would be offended and maybe even take a picture of the...I struggle to consider this anything other than absolute sexism. Nails are nails. I have never heard of such a pricing system for nails, I would be offended and maybe even take a picture of the service costs to share with others on like Google Maps so they are aware of this. It's straight-up a "pink tax" in my eyes.
I even think the concept of women's haircuts being charged more than men's is sexist, because it operates off the assumption that women's hair is automatically longer and needs more product/effort than men's, when that wouldn't apply to short-haired women for instance. I have heard long-haired men say that when they go to a salon, sometimes the hairstylist would tell them they're going to be charged for a "woman's haircut", and let's cut the bullshit, it's not because it's a "woman's haircut" it's because it's a long hair haircut.
A gender-neutral barbershop/hair salon near me charges cuts by hair length, not sex. That is what I think is fair.
If this salon wants to charge more for long nails or something, that's fair. But to automatically upcharge all women just because the salon decided to massively stereotype the nails of women is sexist.
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Comment on <deleted topic> in ~society
eggpl4nt Link ParentI think a lot of pro-democracy people are still feeling defeated right now, I know I am in some ways. I hope after some rest and encouragement, we gather our bearings and continue the cause....I think a lot of pro-democracy people are still feeling defeated right now, I know I am in some ways. I hope after some rest and encouragement, we gather our bearings and continue the cause.
There's the phrase "because if you don't laugh, you'll cry," maybe some of us have decided this time it's okay to cry. Sometimes things straight up aren't okay, and it's just not funny anymore. I offered to watch some Jon Stewart with my friend who felt defeated after the election results, because I recall Jon had a segment before the election that pointed out that no matter who wins, we've still got a lot of work to do (and that Trump winning isn't gonna be the end of it all). But my friend, like the Reddit poster, just wasn't feeling it anymore. And that's okay.
If people want to feel defeatist, that's okay. The ones who don't can find each other and start building again. And hopefully more can join in once they feel better.
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Comment on How do I trick my brain into accepting eating less? in ~health
eggpl4nt LinkSeconding psyllium husks. When I was going through some psychiatric medication withdrawals, one of the common withdrawal symptoms was insomnia. It was horrible; I couldn't sleep and my brain would...Seconding psyllium husks. When I was going through some psychiatric medication withdrawals, one of the common withdrawal symptoms was insomnia. It was horrible; I couldn't sleep and my brain would be super active and all that thinking my brain was doing and overall restlessness caused me to be extremely hungry, which made the insomnia feel even worse. I would get out of bed and go drink a glass of psyllium husk powder mixed in water. It helped my stomach feel full, so it would relieve some of the pain of the whole situation. Sometimes I would drink a glass of chia seeds in water instead, but the psyllium husk was lower calorie, so I preferred the husks since I was supposed to be sleeping at that time anyway, not eating. Chia seeds was less gross texture/taste, psyllium husk was lower calorie.
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Comment on Why do you live? in ~humanities
eggpl4nt LinkTrying to leave the world in a better place than I found it because there's not much else I can do. Committing suicide would make friends and family sad. Also my dog wouldn't understand, and that...Trying to leave the world in a better place than I found it because there's not much else I can do. Committing suicide would make friends and family sad. Also my dog wouldn't understand, and that would be heartbreaking. So I can't do that to my dog.
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Comment on Weekly US politics news and updates thread - week of November 4 in ~society
eggpl4nt Link ParentI feel stressed and anxious. I feel very worried about voter apathy/bystander effect, similar to what happened in 2016. "Oh there's no way Trump will win (again), I can just stay home, other...I feel stressed and anxious. I feel very worried about voter apathy/bystander effect, similar to what happened in 2016. "Oh there's no way Trump will win (again), I can just stay home, other people are going to go vote against him, so I don't have to."
I just really, really hope people go out and vote. Talking the talk is one thing, walking the walk is another.
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Comment on Community Check-In: How is everyone doing? in ~life
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Comment on US Food and Drug Administration approves first nasal spray flu vaccine for use at home in ~health
eggpl4nt LinkMe getting excited over this news made me realize how much of my dislike of a yearly flu shot was because of needles/shots. I'm ready to snort some flu!Me getting excited over this news made me realize how much of my dislike of a yearly flu shot was because of needles/shots. I'm ready to snort some flu!
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Comment on <deleted topic> in ~health
eggpl4nt LinkWell that is gonna suck... The article is paywalled so I couldn't see if my question is answered in it, so I'll sheepishly ask here: would the side effects from the vaccine cause similar cognitive...Well that is gonna suck...
The article is paywalled so I couldn't see if my question is answered in it, so I'll sheepishly ask here: would the side effects from the vaccine cause similar cognitive issues? I'm not anti-vaxx, I had my COVID vaccine and as many free boosters that the government offered, I'm just curious and not well-versed in medicine/virology/biology. If not, what causes the vaccine to act differently than the virus? Is it because it's either a weaker form or in the case of an mRNA vaccine, just "virus instructions"?
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Comment on What is a software you wish existed? in ~comp
eggpl4nt Link ParentHave you tried PlantUML? You write up text and it converts it into an SVG diagram for you.Have you tried PlantUML? You write up text and it converts it into an SVG diagram for you.
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Comment on Hey, monthly mystery commenters, what's up with the hit-and-runs? in ~tildes
eggpl4nt Link ParentThat's funny, because that's not what I think at all. I was actually going to write something in my previous post about how I feel like there is a decent amount of "slippery slope" and...This somehow implies to me that you don't see a middle ground in between comments that are only a joke and very long serious comments.
That's funny, because that's not what I think at all. I was actually going to write something in my previous post about how I feel like there is a decent amount of "slippery slope" and "all-or-nothing" thinking in this thread in regards to people saying "I'm not here for 'updoots to the left' and 'narwhal bacon' type comments" when people talk about possibly fixing the perception that "Tildes has a perspective of being for long, serious comments."
Which then means that it is next to impossible to find normal conversations about things.
I really have no idea what subreddits people here had been browsing, but I find a decent amount of normal conversations on Reddit. Yeah, there are jokes and noise, but they're easy to skip past, and sometimes maybe I want some low-hanging-fruit of a joke or "noise." Again, it gives room to breathe.
You are on Tildes, that makes you a Tildes user. I feel like you are doing a similar thing here where it you frame it as one or the other while ignoring that shit is in fact nuanced. Browsing this thread alone shows you that there is no exact consensus on what people on Tildes want.
Sure, by "Tildes users" I should have meant "Tildes regulars," because yes, I suppose I am a "Tildes user," but I am not a "Tildes regular." I find the accusation that I am not being "nuanced" is strange, the fact that I am being viewed as "framing it as one or the other" is particularly ironic since that goes back to the "all-or-nothing" thinking I mentioned noticing in this thread earlier, and the serious and accusatory tone of this discussion is a good revelation to me of why I don't really like frequenting Tildes much in the first place. I seriously feel like I'm just on "reddit but with long, serious commenting." That's what I'm doing right now, long serious commenting. (And then the whole topic this discussion is happening under, the topic of "hit and run mystery commenters"—which I might fall under—make this even more funny to me, since I assume if I didn't reply to this comment, I would possibly reinforce the trope of a "hit and run commenter." Not that I should care about whether or not I fit into such a trope.)
All I have been saying in this particular comment thread is why I think Tildes has this image, from my perspective. The reason I emphasize "if Tildes users (by that I meant regulars) like it the way it is, then keep it" is because I just am stating my opinion and observations as someone who is not a regular, that no one has to agree with or accommodate, since my opinion isn't really worth that much here. 🤷♀️
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Comment on Hey, monthly mystery commenters, what's up with the hit-and-runs? in ~tildes
eggpl4nt Link ParentTo me, yes. Another user sent me a link explaining how the comment tags work. "Joke" scales ratings by 50%. "Noise" collapses comments and makes them the last in the list of comments. I didn't...- Exemplary
Is that the implication?
To me, yes. Another user sent me a link explaining how the comment tags work. "Joke" scales ratings by 50%. "Noise" collapses comments and makes them the last in the list of comments. I didn't know that labeling something a joke would scale down the rating by 50%, I think that's kind of sad. I feel bad now because I remember using the joke label on a comment that I found funny, thinking it was a friendly way to acknowledge the person was telling a joke. The fact that labeling something a joke actually decreases its value as a comment, implies that jokes are not encouraged, they are literally scored lower than serious comments by the website's own design. This means that serious comments are intended to be "worth" more on this website. As a result, users who want their comments to "matter" better not tell jokes. I find this very strange honestly, if I was part of a real life discussion group that thought humor and jokes were less "worthy" of being said than serious statements, I would no longer be interested in participating. I think humor is an important part of life.
Knowing these comment tag rules now, I feel like I understand why I probably get more fatigued browsing Tildes threads than other social media—there's no breaks. Due to the sorting nature of the joke and noise tags, I am more likely to see a long list of serious comments before I get to a "break" of some joke or "noise." There's no room to breathe, in a sense.
Again, if this is how Tildes users like it, then by all means keep it this way. I am just pointing out how I see this idea that Tildes is "reddit, but with just super long, serious commenting" comes to be, since it was implied by @JCPhoenix that there might be a desire to "fix" that perception.
As a massive tree lover, this is so heartbreaking to read. That is so utterly unfair.