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  1. What do you leave out for Father Christmas?

    My partner and I were talking about how buzzed Santa must get from his light-speed jaunt around the world, drinking up everyone's booze, but it didn't occur to me that maybe leaving him alcohol is...

    My partner and I were talking about how buzzed Santa must get from his light-speed jaunt around the world, drinking up everyone's booze, but it didn't occur to me that maybe leaving him alcohol is not a typical tradition outside of the UK!

    If you celebrate Christmas, and leave (or have left) a drink and/or snack for Father Christmas, where are you from, and what do you leave?

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  2. Comment on How do you keep your life organized? What tools & systems do you use? in ~talk

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    I have had a lot of mileage out of TickTick for my to-do list needs. I dump just about any kind of to-do into it, and have some filters to pull out things that I need to do based on date,...

    I have had a lot of mileage out of TickTick for my to-do list needs. I dump just about any kind of to-do into it, and have some filters to pull out things that I need to do based on date, location, and context. Some of that is quite manual, and some is more automated.

    I like the Folder > List > Task hierarchy which TickTick encourages, and I try to make sure every item in my list has a specific list that it lives in. It also comes with an Inbox, which I treat as a dumping ground for thoughts to come back to every week or so.

    I have recently started trying to categorise things in TickTick more, alongside a greater focus on keeping my digital files organised along a similar structure. As have a metric ton of Lists in TickTick (I pay for premium so I can blow past the free-tier limit of 20), and I sort them into Folders such as Life Admin, DM'ing, and Homelabbing. There are few Folders, and massively more Lists beneath them, which each contain an arbitrary number of Tasks (with optional sub-tasks). For example, Life Admin has a List called "Cleaning and Tidying" which contains all of my recurring reminders to do things like deep clean the kitchen, change bedsheets, etc.

    I like it a lot, and there's a fair amount of flex within the app. Depending on how unopinionated you like your digital services, you may like that. I tried a different app for a year or so after TickTick started getting unwieldy, and eventually found my way back. The first time I tried, I barely bothered with folders or tags, or priorities. Now I have a fair whack more structure to the way I use it, although each time I open it up I do consider if I'm doing the best thing for me.

    In terms of discipline and follow-through... Let me know when you figure something out! I feel increasingly unable to check things off my to-do lists, from a combination of exhaustion and of lack of time. I am debating whether or not a digital system is for me at all, and wondering whether or not to return to something pen & paper based like Bullet Journal. For example, I like the simplicity of not having to always recreate recurring to-do items in a digital system, but dislike the ease with which they can be ignored and left for the next recurrence. When I used to Bullet Journal, I was a lot more brutal about ejecting things that I wouldn't have time for, and I think that lent a certain clarity of focus. Having to manually write it out forces you to think about it. This isn't to say you should ditch the idea of a digital system! More of a personal musing as to their efficacy for me, and whether or not I should try something different next year... Or let go of the idea of "Getting Things Done®" altogether.

    Edit because I just remembered: Have a look into Johnny Decimal if you fancy really going absolutely ham on categorising your entire life and having ID'd, unique locations for all things.

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  3. Comment on Scheitan – A Kiss Of Death (2025) in ~music

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    This was fun! I’ve never heard of the band before, but I enjoyed this track. Are there any other good bands in a similar vein that are worth listening to? This feels like a big itch in need of...

    This was fun! I’ve never heard of the band before, but I enjoyed this track. Are there any other good bands in a similar vein that are worth listening to? This feels like a big itch in need of scratching right now

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  4. Comment on How do you want to define 2026 for yourself? in ~talk

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    This really resonates with me. I tend to pick “themes” for the year, which are very similar in nature. They are guiding stars to keep in mind for each and every choice. 2025 was my “Year of...

    This really resonates with me. I tend to pick “themes” for the year, which are very similar in nature. They are guiding stars to keep in mind for each and every choice. 2025 was my “Year of Clearing the Decks” which felt very freeing; I’ve questioned a lot of assumptions and ideas about myself and how I spend my time. I feel much more able to identify what is right for me in a given situation now than I did before, with all the physical, mental, social, and emotional clutter that I was hanging on to. It was super cleansing, and I’m excited to meditate of what 2026’s theme will be

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  5. Comment on I need to tell you why coffee makes you poop in ~food

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    Honestly I still watch the Bripe video from time to time. Do I want one? Questionable. Do I get a real kick out of James Hoffman's review? You bet!

    Honestly I still watch the Bripe video from time to time. Do I want one? Questionable. Do I get a real kick out of James Hoffman's review? You bet!

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  6. Comment on I need to tell you why coffee makes you poop in ~food

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    I love the way he presents his videos. There's something intimate and gentle about them, almost like he's having a hushed conversation with you in a coffee shop. I really enjoy his content, and...

    Love James Hoffmann, what a gem. His YouTube channel is practically the sole reason why I’ve become a Weird Coffee Person™️. This is a fun intro video all the same, but if you have any desire to learn anything about coffee, or even everything about coffee, James is your guy.

    I love the way he presents his videos. There's something intimate and gentle about them, almost like he's having a hushed conversation with you in a coffee shop. I really enjoy his content, and yes I too have become a coffee maniac as a result.

    If you haven't already, you should check out Hames Joffman. It's an unaffiliated channel, and they don't make videos any more, but they're a bit of old school Internet humour, and they're delightful.

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  7. Comment on Your grocery store is a bewildering sea of overly processed food. Here’s why and what to do. in ~health

  8. Comment on You're not crazy. The bugs are disappearing. in ~enviro

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    Are you my neighbour? If so, apologies. We've been doing battle with the ants every summer for years, and they still get in.

    Are you my neighbour? If so, apologies. We've been doing battle with the ants every summer for years, and they still get in.

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  9. Comment on How do you design your campaigns? in ~games.tabletop

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    I’m currently running a game set in a capital city during a tournament called The Choosing. This is a week-long competition to decide on the next leader of the country. It’s a sort of playground...

    I’m currently running a game set in a capital city during a tournament called The Choosing. This is a week-long competition to decide on the next leader of the country. It’s a sort of playground sandbox affair with a bunch of NPCs plotting at their own things. The idea was to give my players enough hooks to choose their own adventure and to pick on the threads that are most meaningful. We’ve ended up with some really fantastic character moments, including my all time best moment as a GM; bypassing an entire boss fight with some absolutely excellent roleplay and emergent storytelling.

    In terms of prep for this game, I loosely sketched out a setting and a world history (I even wrote a creation myth). Then I drew up a city map, and then came up with major 12 NPCs, 4 factions, and a handful of intrigues. I sketched out a vague “this is what happens if the players do nothing” schedule for each character and then just sort of pantsed the rest. It’s been really nice playing a sandbox where I’m guided by the players as to the session-to-session prep I need to do. Whole subplots have been ignored that I can save for another time.

    The downsides are a rapidly waning sense of interest in the game. I think this is a combination of factors including the final boss of all TTRPGs, but also that I’ve had a new idea for a campaign that I want to explore. I’ll try a different approach for that, more along the lines of a hexcrawl.

    My main struggle is knowing just how much to railroad. I don’t want to take up too much charge of the story’s direction, but equally if I know there events ahead that are important to the plot then I want to guide my players toward that.

  10. Comment on What programming/technical projects have you been working on? in ~comp

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    I'm just working my way through the Advent of Code (in Python). I'm having a great time doing it, and despite having done very minimal coding over the year, I'm finding it much more within my...

    I'm just working my way through the Advent of Code (in Python). I'm having a great time doing it, and despite having done very minimal coding over the year, I'm finding it much more within my grasp than previous years. So that's a good feeling :)

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  11. Comment on Modern Christmas carol renditions that aren't mediocre CCM? in ~music

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    English traditional folk artists could potentially be up your alley! Christian carols and folk music have a lot of overlap here, but they needn't be dreary. Kate Rusby is putting out a Christmas...
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    English traditional folk artists could potentially be up your alley! Christian carols and folk music have a lot of overlap here, but they needn't be dreary. Kate Rusby is putting out a Christmas album this year. I saw her live in concert a couple of years ago, and she's such a delight. These go really traditional though, so there are a bunch of songs in there that you may not have heard of. Sometimes the tunes are familiar, or the lyrics seem to overlap with existing carols. But she's got a lovely voice, and the arrangements (at least in a live setting) are delightful.

    Glad Christmas Comes by Eliza Carthy and Jon Boden is in heavy rotation for me at the moment. This album veers a lot more traditional, and that might not be to your taste. Solo vocal performances in the folk milieu can be... interesting. There's definitely a few tracks I'm less keen on on this album, but I cannot stop listening to The Good Doctor; it's so good!

    Jon Boden also did a project a few years back called "A Folk Song A Day" in which he recorded and put out 365 folk songs. Most, if not all of December in that collection are Christmassy. The delivery is once again quite traditional, but I enjoy it a lot! I can't find a working link, but you might have some joy finding it on a streaming service.

    Bonus recommendation: O Holy Night by Ben Caplan. It's a fabulous rendition of a traditional carol, and I love it. It's dark and moody and gravelly. It's very fun, give it a try :)

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  12. Comment on Over 120,000 home cameras hacked for 'sexploitation' footage in ~tech

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    Yep. As ever, the S in IOT stands for security.

    Yep. As ever, the S in IOT stands for security.

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  13. Comment on Advent of Code starts tomorrow/tonight! Are you participating? Do you have any specific plans for this year? in ~comp.advent_of_code

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    My only goal is to try and actually finish the challenge for the first time. I'm a complete amateur when it comes to coding, and all of my Python scripting is scaffolded by heavy use of Stack...

    My only goal is to try and actually finish the challenge for the first time. I'm a complete amateur when it comes to coding, and all of my Python scripting is scaffolded by heavy use of Stack Overflow (I don't know enough to be able to look at whatever ChatGPT generates and assess if it is good or not). That said, I do enjoy the challenge, and the rush of excitement when I generate a correct answer is second to absolutely none! It being shorter this year will be good for my ability to actually complete the challenge, I think :D

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  14. Comment on After my dad died, we found the love letters in ~lgbt

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    Reading this makes me feel glad to live as part of a socially liberal culture and family, where I did not need to fear coming out in the same way that the author’s father did. Not being part of a...

    Reading this makes me feel glad to live as part of a socially liberal culture and family, where I did not need to fear coming out in the same way that the author’s father did. Not being part of a diaspora, I couldn’t possibly know, but I do wonder how living abroad might have increased the strength of conviction in “traditional values.”

    What an achingly sad story. There are no winners here. Not Edward, not the author, certainly not the mother or father. I’m glad he got to spend at least a few years with his own xin fu, however snatched those moments of happiness must have felt. I wish he had had the courage to spare his family this trauma.

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  15. Comment on Some people can't see mental images. The consequences are profound. in ~health.mental

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    Yeah, it honestly sounds exhausting. My fiancée sometimes refers to me as having "a void brain" but I would find her constant stream of monologue and imagery utterly exhausting. One thing my brain...

    Yeah, it honestly sounds exhausting. My fiancée sometimes refers to me as having "a void brain" but I would find her constant stream of monologue and imagery utterly exhausting.

    One thing my brain does constantly have is music. Melodies I've heard, ones I'm writing, whole songs, snippets of lyrics. Sometimes one at a time, and sometimes all at once. I've no doubt that sounds exhausting to some, but I love always having a little bit of my own mental soundtrack going on.

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  16. Comment on Posts vs. comments. Where do you fall and why? in ~tech

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    I think it's more that I get to a point where the scope of my reply feels more relevant as a top-level comment to the OP, rather than a reply to a comment, if that makes sense? If there's OP a...

    I think it's more that I get to a point where the scope of my reply feels more relevant as a top-level comment to the OP, rather than a reply to a comment, if that makes sense? If there's OP a with comment b, I often get to a stage where it feels like my reply starts to feel like it's more about a than about b, so I change where it goes to with any relevant edits.

    I guess I could post two comments, one in reply to b and one to a, but there's some part of my brain that doesn't like the idea of that.

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  17. Comment on Posts vs. comments. Where do you fall and why? in ~tech

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    I tend to find that my comments are mostly top-level as well, though often they begin life as draft replies. Once they grow beyond a response to another user's comment, incorporating other...

    I tend to find that my comments are mostly top-level as well, though often they begin life as draft replies. Once they grow beyond a response to another user's comment, incorporating other thoughts about the OP or whatever else might happen to increase the scope of relevance, I tend to redraft it as a top-level comment and post that way.

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  18. Comment on What creative projects have you been working on? in ~creative

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    I am very slowly putting together a hard rock/heavy metal album exploring some of the feelings and experiences I've had in my transition so far. The intention is to write about 8 songs, of which 2...

    I am very slowly putting together a hard rock/heavy metal album exploring some of the feelings and experiences I've had in my transition so far. The intention is to write about 8 songs, of which 2 are very nearly almost finished, just polishing lyrics and instrumentation left to do. The remaining 6 are in varied states from "instrumentation pretty much written, and in need of lyrics" and "haven't even begun to conceptualise what this is going to sound like yet." I'm finding it hard to generate space for writing music at the moment. I swing wildly from my day job into parenting and housework, so I'm invariably knackered by the time it's 9pm and unable to find the energy to pick up a guitar, much less write. Despite those setbacks, and a nasty bit of writer's block, I'm enjoying the process of writing music just for my own amusement, and I'm looking forward to the recording process very much.

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  19. Comment on The ten best board games we played at Spiel Essen 2025 in ~games.tabletop

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    Can I interest you in some fish (Finspan) or dragons (Wyrmspan) instead?

    Can I interest you in some fish (Finspan) or dragons (Wyrmspan) instead?

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  20. Comment on V for Vendetta - 20th anniversary | Announcement trailer in ~movies

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    I've been watching this film for years, and I had no idea that it was by the Wachowskis!

    Adapted by the Wachowskis

    I've been watching this film for years, and I had no idea that it was by the Wachowskis!

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