BeardyHat's recent activity
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Comment on What did you do this week (and weekend)? in ~talk
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Comment on Girlfriend and I bought plan B at Costco yesterday, pharmacist said they'd already sold more than 100 since the election in ~health
BeardyHat It certainly doesn't look like a good time the three times I've seen my wife go through it in the past 17 years. That said, my wife loves it because she also feels like it really helps with her...It certainly doesn't look like a good time the three times I've seen my wife go through it in the past 17 years. That said, my wife loves it because she also feels like it really helps with her hormones; she likes that she doesn't really have a period anymore and her mood is more consistent.
Not to push anyone into anything, just sharing my wife's experience with it.
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Comment on Girlfriend and I bought plan B at Costco yesterday, pharmacist said they'd already sold more than 100 since the election in ~health
BeardyHat It's expensive and painful for your partner, but I highly recommend the IUD to prevent unwanted pregnancy. My wife and I used it for years and years, it never failed. My recommendation: pay for...It's expensive and painful for your partner, but I highly recommend the IUD to prevent unwanted pregnancy.
My wife and I used it for years and years, it never failed.
My recommendation: pay for half, especially if you view this as a long term, committed relationship and be there to hold your partners hand during the procedure.
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Comment on Thoughts on Donald Trump, America and what this all means in ~talk
BeardyHat We've always been a country for the wealthy, by the wealthy. To give so much credit to Founding Fathers feels a bit disingenuous, given they were writing laws to protect their own rights and damn...We've always been a country for the wealthy, by the wealthy. To give so much credit to Founding Fathers feels a bit disingenuous, given they were writing laws to protect their own rights and damn the little man.
We had the poors fighting a Civil War for the wealthy elites who wanted to maintain their status quo.
The Gilded Age, rhyming with our current where we had wealthy industrialists influencing the direction of popular opinion with their Yellow Journalism.
The New Deal, a victory for Socialism, never extended any of those benefits to Black Americans. Later when it was discovered that Black Americans were benefitting, suddenly social programs were a bad word and they were cut for everyone.
Then wealthy corporate oligarchs flirting with Naziism and taking over the US government and appealing to Hitler.
When people were fighting for rights in the 1960s, they were suppressed, put down and killed by the authorities en masse, which also wasn't a new thing at the time.
Piggybacking on that, we had the FBI telling Martin Luther King Jr. to kill himself. Posthumously, the man has been leveraged as a weapon of the state, manipulating his message from also including worker rights and socialism, to being exclusively about Black liberation.
Police killings, without repercussion, have been a thing as far back as we can remember.
My boy, it's fascism all the way down and always has been.
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Comment on Why US Democrats won't build their own Joe Rogan in ~misc
BeardyHat I had several strong female figures in my life, which I credit for being the person I am today. Those female figures believe in a women's right to choose. They are very concerned with waste, they...- Exemplary
I had several strong female figures in my life, which I credit for being the person I am today.
Those female figures believe in a women's right to choose.
They are very concerned with waste, they are very diligent on cutting down on it, recycling what they can and buying second hand.
They care about their communities and families, going out of their way to donate items, food and their own time to those of lesser means, doesn't matter their race, creed or sexual orientation.
They're also long time Republicans, having voted for Trump three times now.
People are multifaceted and these people absolutely do have their pitfalls, oversights and issues, but they ultimately care about a lot of the same shit I do. When we spend time together, I'm reminded how much more we have in common and how silly it is to say something like, "well all Right Wingers do x" and they the same about liberals.
But we're all silo'd these days. If not by distance, then by the Internet algorithms were shoveled into and we get caught in our own little bubbles, getting more and more radical, no longer being tempered by different opinions.
One of the other big helps for me in realizing a lot of this was becoming active in my community. I was elected twice as President of my community association and dealt with a huge swath of different types of people in my community. I've had to divert and temper people in my meetings who came in and started ranting about Trans people, I've had to deal with people who are ok with police shooting unarmed black men. I don't agree with any of this, but I'm able to work through all that and find our common ground as Americans and neighbors, which I've been able to do because I'm mixed with all different kinds of people in my community and actively trying to unsilo myself.
I'm not trying to say everything will be ok, I have no idea and the past two nights I've woken up every hour with a flood of anxiety over the results of the election. But I am saying we can try and give each other a little grace and remember that we generally agree on more than we don't.
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Comment on Why US Democrats won't build their own Joe Rogan in ~misc
BeardyHat It does often come back to that stuff, but building common ground in the first place is important if you ever want to have any influence over a person's opinions. For my money, every time I talk...It does often come back to that stuff, but building common ground in the first place is important if you ever want to have any influence over a person's opinions.
For my money, every time I talk to these people, we generally have similar positions, it's just that their well has been poisoned by age, right wing news, etc.
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Comment on Why US Democrats won't build their own Joe Rogan in ~misc
BeardyHat The thing to remember is that you probably have more in common with them than you don't. My parents are supporters and whenever I talk to my Mom, we both have similar concerns. Corporate power,...I've taken it upon myself lately to discuss some things with people who voted for trump.
The thing to remember is that you probably have more in common with them than you don't. My parents are supporters and whenever I talk to my Mom, we both have similar concerns. Corporate power, high COL, crime, etc, etc. We agree on a lot, we just don't agree on the causes or the solutions.
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Comment on What creative projects have you been working on? in ~creative
BeardyHat Just painting miniatures. I kind of turned my gaming group back on to Warhammer 40k, as I was just in the mood for it and so we're starting with some small games as to not overwhelm ourselves with...Just painting miniatures. I kind of turned my gaming group back on to Warhammer 40k, as I was just in the mood for it and so we're starting with some small games as to not overwhelm ourselves with rules and long games again; which has the added benefit of using much smaller forces, so we can focus on painting a small group of miniatures rather than hundreds at a time.
So, I've been in the process of painting 5 different ones and so far, I have two finished and three partially painted. I did take a break today, however, as I needed to organize my paints, so I put up some nail polish shelves and got my paints on them. I discovered several colors I had no idea that I owned, so it's already paying dividends.
edit: here are a few pictures
I'm happier with the first guy, having tried a new recipe for my skin tones. That said, I prefer the brighter skin, so I may try to do something a little different and blend both recipes to come up with something I like.
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Comment on Breaking down my dislike of strategy games | Semi-Ramblomatic in ~games
BeardyHat It might not be just that, I think he's just thinking out loud about why he doesn't care for the series. I feel the same, but I don't think it's Fog of War for me. I do generally like strategy...It might not be just that, I think he's just thinking out loud about why he doesn't care for the series.
I feel the same, but I don't think it's Fog of War for me. I do generally like strategy games, but every Fire Emblem game I've played bores me to tears and I think that may have something to do with all the dialogue; theoretically I should love the fact that I'm taking characters and building them up from battle to battle, as I adore XCOM 1/2, but I just find everything about the series so boring. Again, weird because I Advance Wars is one of my favorite series and I've put many hours into the first Shining Force.
I feel like I should love Fire Emblem, but I just never make it very far in any of them.
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Comment on US election results (other than presidential) thread in ~news
BeardyHat 127 seemed unnecessary to me and something put on the ballot by good intentioned Animal Rights people, but not necessarily well considered. Hunting big cats already requires a license and I trust...127 seemed unnecessary to me and something put on the ballot by good intentioned Animal Rights people, but not necessarily well considered.
Hunting big cats already requires a license and I trust our wildlife management to figure out what's an acceptable amount of hunting to maintain a population. Lynx are endangered still, so they're already off the menu.
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Comment on US election results (other than presidential) thread in ~news
BeardyHat Thanks for the breakdown, I couldn't find this when I was looking for it on CPR this morning. I did find the general Pass/Fail, but it didn't break down what each measure was and I couldn't...Thanks for the breakdown, I couldn't find this when I was looking for it on CPR this morning. I did find the general Pass/Fail, but it didn't break down what each measure was and I couldn't remember.
My city also repealed its pitbull ban, which I'm thankful for, as my old guy has something of that in him.
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Comment on US election results (other than presidential) thread in ~news
BeardyHat Seems that both times we've run women candidates, they've lost. A huge proportion of white dudes that voted for Biden last time just stayed home this election and while I can only gesture at the...Seems that both times we've run women candidates, they've lost. A huge proportion of white dudes that voted for Biden last time just stayed home this election and while I can only gesture at the implications given 2016, it seems pretty obvious that Candidate White Dude(TM) is the winning strategy.
I would have loved to see Harris elected, but it seems we are far more sexist than racist in this country.
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Comment on American election mental health thread in ~health.mental
BeardyHat This is kind of where I'm at. What's done is done and I'm not feeling like I can worry about things anymore. I hope everything turns out fine in the long run, I do fear for my children, but that's...This is kind of where I'm at.
What's done is done and I'm not feeling like I can worry about things anymore. I hope everything turns out fine in the long run, I do fear for my children, but that's a constant concern either way.
Facts are facts and I cannot change them, so I'm going to continue on as I did yesterday and the day after, the day after.
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Comment on US Election Distractions Thread in ~talk
BeardyHat Do you find yourself distracted by the noise? Just wondering, as I do find myself easily distracted in instances where I'm trying to focus, but a humm from speakers or buzzing of case fans just...Do you find yourself distracted by the noise? Just wondering, as I do find myself easily distracted in instances where I'm trying to focus, but a humm from speakers or buzzing of case fans just fades into the background for me and I never notice those noises.
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Comment on US Election Distractions Thread in ~talk
BeardyHat I share personal anecdotes and stories, but try to keep things generally vague or at least, unspecific. Not exactly sure why, I don't feel that I have much to hide or gain from anyone figuring out...I share personal anecdotes and stories, but try to keep things generally vague or at least, unspecific. Not exactly sure why, I don't feel that I have much to hide or gain from anyone figuring out who I am.
Just seems reasonable, I suppose?
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Comment on What games have you been playing, and what's your opinion on them? in ~games
BeardyHat Thanks for the heads-up on this! The name was weird enough that it gave me the poke to check it out and it's definitely up my alley. The art style isn't my favorite and I'm not a huge fan of...Thanks for the heads-up on this!
The name was weird enough that it gave me the poke to check it out and it's definitely up my alley. The art style isn't my favorite and I'm not a huge fan of isometric (although this almost looks more like an Ultima viewpoint, whatever you'd call that) exploration, this one is hitting the right vibes as a huge fan of Piranha Bytes games. I picked it up last night and have so far been able to play about 90-minutes (just hit level 3, completing some quests around the Woodcutters Camp) and I am liking it, especially for the fact that it runs and plays fantastic on Deck.
Hopefully I'll have some more time to put into it this evening, but that's seeming unlikely, but I definitely want to explore it some more.
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Comment on US Election Distractions Thread in ~talk
BeardyHat If there's one thing I've learned in my years of automotive repair, it's that it's worth it just to take the pieces off that are in the way. Rather than struggle, trying to save yourself and extra...If there's one thing I've learned in my years of automotive repair, it's that it's worth it just to take the pieces off that are in the way.
Rather than struggle, trying to save yourself and extra work and inevitably begin swearing, breaking shit and cutting up your arms and hands, just remove the parts in the way so you can get the work done. It's less work to take them off and put them back on than it is to to try and work around them (not to mention, figure out where the hell your dropped something while working around the thing in question.)
I sure as shit didn't want to remove my wiper assembly to do my plugs and wires (not to mention my struts), but it sure as shit saved me a lot of ass pain.
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Comment on Mouthwashing | Launch trailer in ~games
BeardyHat I'm thinking this one over. They had been talking about it on one of the last podcasts I listened to and mentioned they really loved it up until about the last 1/4 of the game. It looks weird...I'm thinking this one over. They had been talking about it on one of the last podcasts I listened to and mentioned they really loved it up until about the last 1/4 of the game. It looks weird enough to be up my alley, but not so totally weird and offputting that I wouldn't play it at all.
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Comment on What games have you been playing, and what's your opinion on them? in ~games
BeardyHat I finished Killer Frequency the other day, which I enjoyed, but wasn't...amazed, I guess, by. I'm thankful it was a nice compact experience at 7-hours and I really enjoyed exploring and picking up...I finished Killer Frequency the other day, which I enjoyed, but wasn't...amazed, I guess, by. I'm thankful it was a nice compact experience at 7-hours and I really enjoyed exploring and picking up everything, but the story was either very predictable or very telegraphed, as I had worked it out pretty handily before the final hour or two and I am not a smart guy or anything; I almost never work these things out, so I'm not sure what was going on there. Would I recommend it? Eh. It was hitting right for me at the moment, where I wanted something fairly chill, mostly story driven without any real challenge or fail state, so I'm happy with it in that regard. I'm not sad I bought and played it.
I picked-up Pacific Drive in a bundle with Killer Frequency and I'm strongly considering returning it. I've been avoiding it for awhile due to the fact that it has zero mid-mission saves, which is generally a deal killer for me, but I am still pretty intrigued by the game, especially for the fact that I am a car person, so the fact that the car is a main character sounds intriguing. Plus I loved Jalopy, which is a similar game without mid-mission saves where you're constantly fixing up various components of your car.
Now that said, of the 90 or so minutes I've played, I am completely unimpressed and overall quite annoyed with it, mostly due to it's incredibly awful performance for it's fairly mediocre looking graphics. I picked it up in the hopes that I could mitigate the mid-mission stuff by playing it on my Steam Deck, but it struggles to maintain 30-FPS on the lowest settings and just looks atrocious to boot. Running on my laptop with a 5500XT eGPU produces similar results whether I'm running it at 2160x1350 or 1280x800, no real performance gains for dropping the resolution. It's frustrating, especially when I can get Cyberpunk running at a solid 30 and looking great on Deck; Pacific Drive has no room to run this terribly. I may ultimately return it before my 2-hour demo is fully up.
Mostly what I've been playing since completing Killer Frequency is Advance Wars: Dual Strike, running it on emulation with a single screen handheld; one of those DS games that doesn't really make use of the second screen, so it works very well. In the last couple of years I've run through and completed the GBA Advance Wars games, but it's been years since I played the DS version and I'm really stuck into it again. There's nothing quite like this series, I find Fire Emblem utterly boring and uninteresting and all the spiritual successors to AW have never really hit the mark for me, so I'm not looking forward to finishing out the series I get around to playing Days of Ruin. I'll just have to start playing the GBA versions again.
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Comment on Weekly US politics news and updates thread - week of November 4 in ~news
Tuesday evening we had a game night with family and friends, playing a few games of Sushi Go after dinner and dessert. I was pretty tired after cooking and just the general wear of the day, so I didn't engage too extensively, but did end-up playing the second game of Sushi Go.
Wednesday night I got very drunk at home and tried to play more Dead Space Remake with my wife, which was partially successful, but the game crashed, so my wife and I decided to call it a night.
Thursday we went to a friends house for dinner and a general hangout. It was nice to hang out and have some exclusive time with them, especially considering they're about to be new parents, so my wife and I get to share some of the things we've learned over the course of two children.
Tonight, my wife and I will probably play some more Dead Space and maybe I can convince her to pick-up our watch of Star Trek TNG. We left off somewhere in Season 4, so I need to figure out the last episode we watched.
Saturday I have a buddy coming over and we're going to start our first game of our new Warhammer 40k Crusade, so that'll be a day of bullshitting and drinking beer. Though funny, since I got my friends all hyped to play 40k again (it's been a couple of years for us) and I've been painting my small force, I'm actually starting to feel much more interested in playing my World War 2 games and painting my soldiers again. I'm going to try and maintain enthusiasm for 40k right now though, as I did get my friends excited about it and we all spent a bunch of money on new stuff for it.