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5 votes
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Growing up as a living goddess
12 votes -
Father-daughter relationships strengthened with these three connectors
5 votes -
A new "short film" by razor company Gillette has called for men to be the best they can be, sparking a significant backlash
42 votes -
IWW helps cafe worker defeat gross misconduct allegations
19 votes -
Mini Stories: Volume 6
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Danish government to improve conditions for prostitutes
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The egg thief - For decades, Jeffrey Lendrum has been snatching unhatched raptors and selling them, investigators believe, to wealthy Middle Eastern falconers
8 votes -
People who “pretend” to be shitty are frequently just shitty
16 votes -
How Millennials became the burnout generation
15 votes -
The “skills gap” was a lie
11 votes -
The relentlessness of modern parenting
12 votes -
Do you use a todo manager or something like a bullet journal? [My story of trying different planners for four months]
[LONG POST - 4 months of trying different planners) I always wanted to use one but I never thought of analog (paper) planners and tried a lot of digital ones - link to a post. About 4 months ago I...
[LONG POST - 4 months of trying different planners)
I always wanted to use one but I never thought of analog (paper) planners and tried a lot of digital ones - link to a post.
About 4 months ago I saw my friend at school using a pocket diary - similar to this image, he was writing down his tasks on it (he didn't use it again). That day I bought a good pocket diary of around 200 pages, till date I've not used more than 10 pages and its still lying around.
I realised that I was not going to use it because it was very thick and I couldn't carry it in my pocket. I bought this pocket diary. This was thin and simple, perfect for me. I've used it the longest before switching.
Initially I used to dump all the tasks and cross it after completion, later I introduced a date system and it was one date for one page. I wrote down tasks for the day and crossed after completion if something was incomplete I migrated it to next day. This worked well but I needed a place to dump tasks that I had to do in future so I made a future section from backside and added tasks to it. This was the final tweak and I used it for like a month. I used it for daily tasks, future tasks, some notes and contacts (I used to make contact.txt before this).
Later IIRC I wanted to change because it was already half full and a mess because I was trying to do a lot with it. Next I mindlessly bought a notebook - something like this but with 5 sections, I didn't know what to do with it. I also don't remember why I bought it so I used it to write down stuff that I learned online and wanted to remember. It replaced my reddit save and I wrote what I wanted to remember, it is still with me and has been changed a lot (usecase).
I made a calendar on a single page of that notebook and tracked down basic stuff on it, I started using small square sticky notes to write down tasks and that's how I left my pocket diary. Not long after I lost interest in that notebook thing and updating calendar daily was not interesting. I left that and searched a lot online. Again tried a lot of digital options but I know it will never work for me so I left it and didn't use anything for like a day before I stumbled across Strikethru.
Strikethru is something like Bullet Journal. If you want to look at strikethru then see this video & this for Bullet Journal.
I took that notebook and turned it into a bullet journal, I used it for ~a week before trying strikethru and then again switching to bullet journal after a week. That was testing period and I chosed bulletjournal (bujo) over strikethru. That book was also thick so not long after I made a new bujo notebook (normal 200 pages). Again it felt like a big task that I had to do daily and I lost interest, I again restarted it with a new design. In this month I switched to different notebooks/design a lot and was never satisfied. I also tried Nextcloud tasks for 3 days before again trying out bujo.
Last year in december around a week before christmas I wanted to change it all so I went to a store and bought a new grid notebook (we used it for doing math in 1st grade). I used it for 10 days and everything broke during the last week of december, I was not at home and we went on a vacation. I took it with me but didn't update it because it was boring. It has been 5 days I was busy organising everything else again and now I've settled on what I started with (slightly better idea).
During that time I read a lot on nosurf, pornfree, internet addiction, sleep cycles, polyphasic society, tulpas, made new friends, tried a lot of todo managers, used different journaling apps and this is what I've decided to stay with.
I went to the store today to buy the same pocket diary that I've used the longest (1 month one). Its cheap, for 15 INR and works well for me. Over there I saw a box that said monthly planner, I took it and it had 13 small pocket diaries (similar to what I've used the longest but more thin) and with that a small case that would hold a notebook. There was one contacts pocket diary (perfect) and 12 pocket diaries one for each month. It was for this year and costed 170 INR, I didn't had money so I asked the storeman (idk what we call them, here we call them uncle) did he have cheaper option. He showed me the same piece that costed 140 INR but was for 2016, he said he would give it to me for 70 INR because he would have to throw it anyways.
I thought that was a great deal and bought it. So now I have 12 mini diaries for each month and one contacts diary that has my big list of 10 friends contacts. After trying a lot of different options I came back to what I used for the first time. Its simple and stupid & fits in my pocket.
It has one page for one day and I just have to cross 2016 and the day (mon, tue, etc.) thing and update it with 2019 days. In the middle it has a big two page calendar for current month, page before it has previous months small one page date list to write down events and on page after it has next months small one page date list. The last page is for notes and the cover has 2017 calender that I won't use and ignore.
Theres little patch work todo but for that price I think I bought a good set and if I actually use this for full year then I would buy a new one next one (for 2020 & not 2017 :|)
I've spent around 300 INR for all these (~ 4.5 USD)
Tl;dr -> Used a lot of systems and in the end switched to what I used for the first time which is simple and fits in my pocket.
# What do you use for managing your tasks? Do you use it daily?
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What is your plan for self-growth in the new year?
Whether you will start it on January 1st or already doing it, what is it that is going to make you a better person? For me, I decided to limit my two biggest timesinks, namely, Youtube and Reddit....
Whether you will start it on January 1st or already doing it, what is it that is going to make you a better person?
For me, I decided to limit my two biggest timesinks, namely, Youtube and Reddit. I started several days ago and won't wisit them at all before I pass all the exams. Before, they were often an excuse for me to spend time basically doing nothing. Time to change that. (And yet, I'm doing the dame thing right now with ~, but oh well, it doesn't have content anyway)
28 votes -
Me and my quarter-life crisis: A millennial asks what went wrong
7 votes -
From Mali: A lesson in tolerance
6 votes -
Why you shouldn't help your coworkers unless they ask
12 votes -
Elizabeth Wurtzel on discovering the truth about her parents
4 votes -
I was a cable guy. I saw the worst of America
42 votes -
Yes, I get lonely, but it's better than the alternative
7 votes -
The threat to Rojava
6 votes -
Where should I move to?
I haven't posted at all on Tildes, but I've been here! I've seen how great of a community it is, even if it isn't that popular yet, so I wanted to ask you kind people for advice on where I should...
I haven't posted at all on Tildes, but I've been here! I've seen how great of a community it is, even if it isn't that popular yet, so I wanted to ask you kind people for advice on where I should move to. Please tell me if this is the wrong group.
I can't decide where to move. I really want to live in a giant city like NYC because I have a degree in CS and computers are popular in big cities, plus I just enjoy them, but (as I'm sure everyone knows) it's super expensive. I also really love rain and snow. If any of you could recommend a relatively inexpensive city that rains and snows a lot, I'd greatly appreciate it. It doesn't have to be in the U.S. Thank you all so much!
19 votes -
I am staying home on New Year's Eve, and I'm totally fine about it
13 votes -
‘I feel invisible’: Native Americans languish in public schools
9 votes -
The best of the Long Read in 2018
10 votes -
Does anyone tip outside of the US?
I get that in America, servers are paid low wages, but does anyone actually tip (servers or otherwise) outside the country?
15 votes -
Specially-trained autism assistance dogs helping change the lives of children
8 votes -
Third-wave anti-racism makes sense, but it’s a dead end
11 votes -
Male disposability and far left hypocrisy
13 votes -
A Texas elementary school speech pathologist refused to sign a pro-Israel oath, so she lost her job
18 votes -
Pornhub Insights - 2018 Year in Review (graphs and NSFW text; no explicit images)
22 votes -
Dear male cyclists, lose the attitude
8 votes -
The case for unionizing comedy: Sketch comics and improv performers can either organize or watch the industry rot
11 votes -
The tale of a fake hitman, a kill list, a darknet vigilante... and a murder
7 votes -
The real roots of American rage - How anger became the dominant emotion in our politics and personal lives—and what we can do about it
22 votes -
What happened next? The survivors of the Genoa bridge collapse: ‘We’ve been abandoned, as if nothing happened’
9 votes -
What happens to charities when the end goal is to become redundant?
6 votes -
In China, a school trains boys to be ‘real men’
12 votes -
Stop buying crap, and companies will stop making crap
30 votes -
What makes a good life? Lessons from the longest study on happiness | Robert Waldinger
7 votes -
Think your cleaners are beneath you?
13 votes -
A non-sensationalized description of China's social credit system as explained by a Yale Senior Research Scholar in Law : Jeremy L. Daum
9 votes -
Do we need to hide who we are to speak freely in the era of identity politics?
20 votes -
'Will I have existed?' The unprecedented plan to move an Arctic city
14 votes -
A week in Xinjiang's absolute surveillance state
14 votes -
30,000 empty homes and nowhere to live: inside Dublin’s housing crisis
19 votes -
Middle-class San Francisco tenants are moving into dorms for reasonable rent
9 votes -
Everything You Know About State Education Rankings Is Wrong
5 votes -
Searching for gold (illegally) in South Africa's abandoned mines
10 votes -
'They ordered me to get an abortion': A Chinese woman's ordeal in Xinjiang
12 votes