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  1. Comment on TEMPdle: Is your next city hotter or colder in ~games

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    The photos not reflecting the actual time really throws me. Obviously it's not easy to get photos for each hour, but having a sunny day when it was 3 AM got me to 9/10 >.>

    The photos not reflecting the actual time really throws me. Obviously it's not easy to get photos for each hour, but having a sunny day when it was 3 AM got me to 9/10 >.>

    3 votes
  2. Comment on Second attempt: Is there a decent brand of USB-c earphones that wont break after 2-3 years but also doesnt cost hundreds of dollars? in ~music

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    Something like that, yeah! You want something that goes over the cable in such a way that the place where it's fraying is at the middle of it - this will prevent strain at the place where it...

    Something like that, yeah! You want something that goes over the cable in such a way that the place where it's fraying is at the middle of it - this will prevent strain at the place where it usually breaks, and it helps prolong cable life.

    Depending on how your cable looks, there's also stuff like this - https://a.co/d/03evZaAQ . They're called "connector boots" . The top ones here look like they'd be perfect for your round cable, maybe? https://www.mcmaster.com/products/cable-strain-relief/strain-relief-connector-boots-2~/

  3. Comment on Second attempt: Is there a decent brand of USB-c earphones that wont break after 2-3 years but also doesnt cost hundreds of dollars? in ~music

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    It looks like the fraying is at the connectors, why not try a strain relief? I'm guessing you need it relatively flexible, since it did strain there, so something like a heat shrink wrap? Edit:...

    It looks like the fraying is at the connectors, why not try a strain relief? I'm guessing you need it relatively flexible, since it did strain there, so something like a heat shrink wrap?

    Edit: that would allow you to keep using the brand and model you're used to

    1 vote
  4. Comment on What games have you been playing, and what's your opinion on them? in ~games

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    I was sick the past week and I spent it mostly playing Fallout 4, specifically the Magnum Opus modlist - highly recommend the list, it's really well put together! Link to the wabbajack gallery...

    I was sick the past week and I spent it mostly playing Fallout 4, specifically the Magnum Opus modlist - highly recommend the list, it's really well put together! Link to the wabbajack gallery info: https://www.wabbajack.org/modlist/wj-featured/magnum_opus

    This time I even managed to lock in and I finished the main quest! Now just a ton of other content and DLC stuff to do! Also Sim Settlements 2, I'm barely into chapter 2 of it... it's very fun

    1 vote
  5. Comment on How do you handle being around other people? in ~talk

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    Friction and conflict is healthy for a good community, yeah. Just needs to be resolved in ways that end up in all parties learning and growing from it... Which isn't easy

    Friction and conflict is healthy for a good community, yeah. Just needs to be resolved in ways that end up in all parties learning and growing from it... Which isn't easy

    5 votes
  6. Comment on #YesAllMen #NotAllMen #MaybeSomeMen How to be better? in ~life.men

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    Could you help me understand what was weird about that chat? Was it the hand under the dress? Admittedly my experience in dating is limited and by the time it got to hands under clothes it was an...

    Could you help me understand what was weird about that chat? Was it the hand under the dress? Admittedly my experience in dating is limited and by the time it got to hands under clothes it was an expected progression of an extended makeout session (and usually not initiated by me), but it doesn't seem weird? It got heated, she said no and it was immediately accepted?

    8 votes
  7. Comment on Help adding LED lighting to bookcases in ~life.home_improvement

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    This is a noname local firm, but Casalux (I think its an Aldi Germany exclusive brand) has good led strips. I have one that I'm using on my balcony, its been out in sun ans weather for 5 years and...

    This is a noname local firm, but Casalux (I think its an Aldi Germany exclusive brand) has good led strips. I have one that I'm using on my balcony, its been out in sun ans weather for 5 years and its still going strong

    2 votes
  8. Comment on Tildes “orphans”, what do you do for Christmas? in ~life

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    Oh this gives me an idea! I've got a bunch of puzzles, but I also have those Lego wall art paintings on my wishlist, I can totally spend a few hours putting one together

    Oh this gives me an idea! I've got a bunch of puzzles, but I also have those Lego wall art paintings on my wishlist, I can totally spend a few hours putting one together

    2 votes
  9. Comment on Tildes “orphans”, what do you do for Christmas? in ~life

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    Videogames! Last year I was dating someone and they had massive family drama around Christmas, I was happy to be on my own, lol Most years I'm at the pc, enjoying a game or reading. A few years...

    Videogames!

    Last year I was dating someone and they had massive family drama around Christmas, I was happy to be on my own, lol

    Most years I'm at the pc, enjoying a game or reading. A few years ago family visited, it was nice but I was also relieved when I had another week on my own after they left before work started again.

    2 votes
  10. Comment on Summer Eternal presents: Red Rooster, an incendiary RPG in ~games

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    Even if done well I'm expecting it to be a chore after the first few times, unless you aren't moving items around very much

    Even if done well I'm expecting it to be a chore after the first few times, unless you aren't moving items around very much

  11. Comment on All eighty books banned in Minnesota last year came from one school in ~books

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    An author I follow (Malinda Lo), has been active in the fight against banning books, and she's shared a lot of the... I guess behind the scenes? stuff, and also what is involved in overturning...

    An author I follow (Malinda Lo), has been active in the fight against banning books, and she's shared a lot of the... I guess behind the scenes? stuff, and also what is involved in overturning decisions like this. Her blog is interesting reading

    https://www.malindalo.com/blog/2026/10/14/the-freedom-to-read

    6 votes
  12. Comment on All eighty books banned in Minnesota last year came from one school in ~books

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    Whenever I read stuff I like this I feel like I'm reading about aliens. How can adults think like this? How can adults who function in the world make decisions like this? How can parents actively...

    Whenever I read stuff I like this I feel like I'm reading about aliens. How can adults think like this? How can adults who function in the world make decisions like this? How can parents actively work to make the world worse for their children?

    5 votes
  13. Comment on There's a new Elder Scrolls MMO in ~games

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    The graphics are a bit too old school for me, but its great that it exists!

    The graphics are a bit too old school for me, but its great that it exists!

    3 votes
  14. Comment on What have you been eating, drinking, and cooking? in ~food

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    I saw that the new redbull winter edition (pistachio + berries) was out and grabbed a couple of cans to try. It's the worst redbull I've ever tasted. Yuck.

    I saw that the new redbull winter edition (pistachio + berries) was out and grabbed a couple of cans to try. It's the worst redbull I've ever tasted. Yuck.

    1 vote
  15. Comment on Popcorn! What's the best way to make it? in ~food

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    As a child, we used to have wood stoves and we had a popcorn tray thing - it was a perforated dish where we put the kernels in and it went on the wood stove and when it started popping we shook...

    As a child, we used to have wood stoves and we had a popcorn tray thing - it was a perforated dish where we put the kernels in and it went on the wood stove and when it started popping we shook it. Salt got added after in the bowl, and it popped most of them - some user skill required in knowing when to take it off the stove.

    These days I just microwave it because I'm lazy and as I prefer just plain salt, I don't really notice a difference :D

    Something I really want to see in person one day is those pressure vessel popcorn makers, they look awesome

    2 votes
  16. Comment on Save Point: A game deal roundup for the week of October 11 in ~games

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    Deep Rock Galactic Survivor is 40% off right now, its definitely worth it. I started a new save recently because my original one was from the early access days, and the start is a lot clearer and...

    Deep Rock Galactic Survivor is 40% off right now, its definitely worth it. I started a new save recently because my original one was from the early access days, and the start is a lot clearer and streamlined. Now just to dig my way back to my previous rank :D

    https://store.steampowered.com/app/2321470/Deep_Rock_Galactic_Survivor/

    4 votes
  17. Comment on What foods are better after a day or two? in ~food

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    In my case its definitely because I burn my tongue tasting the food as it cooks. I always try to remember that I should be more careful, almost never helps

    In my case its definitely because I burn my tongue tasting the food as it cooks. I always try to remember that I should be more careful, almost never helps

    6 votes
  18. Comment on Tilderinos who split after long (10–15 years) relationships: what led to it and how did it happen? in ~life.men

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    Others have mentioned it, but would couples therapy be an option? I guess the very first question is: do you want to repair the relationship? And what does that mean for you and your partner? Does...

    Others have mentioned it, but would couples therapy be an option?

    I guess the very first question is: do you want to repair the relationship? And what does that mean for you and your partner? Does your partner want to repair the relationship? Are they also of the opinion that it's not going so well? From what you mentioned that might be a very difficult conversation to start :(

    3 votes
  19. Comment on Tilderinos who split after long (10–15 years) relationships: what led to it and how did it happen? in ~life.men

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    Not myself, and it doesn't really apply (I really hope it doesn't!!) But my sister divorced her husband after around 15 years of marriage. It came out later that he was abusive towards her and...

    Not myself, and it doesn't really apply (I really hope it doesn't!!) But my sister divorced her husband after around 15 years of marriage.

    It came out later that he was abusive towards her and their child... I never really found out if anyone else in the family knew and didn't or couldn't help. I do remember that there was a long drawn out process and the child lived with us for a couple of years, and my sister moved in with us as well after.

    I was too young at the time to do much more than offer homework help, but I'm happy our parents had the ability to offer that.

    I really hope the situation isn't that bad in your case, OP, and that you can resolve things with your partner in a less traumatic way.

    9 votes
  20. Comment on What foods are better after a day or two? in ~food

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    Chilis, absolutely. Also sarmale (Romanian cabbage rolls) and Stuffed peppers... Actually I think a lot of dishes with a tomato base develop further after they're done cooking

    Chilis, absolutely.

    Also sarmale (Romanian cabbage rolls) and Stuffed peppers... Actually I think a lot of dishes with a tomato base develop further after they're done cooking

    7 votes