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9 votes
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How Japan copied American culture and made it better
7 votes -
A Housing Economy for the Many: To deal with the housing crisis, we need to roll back the financialization of housing.
5 votes -
The Army ignored her warnings about a dangerous colleague. Then he set her on fire.
10 votes -
Thandi Modise, the knitting needles guerrilla
5 votes -
Gun violence has sharply declined in California's Bay Area. What happened?
8 votes -
Many people having affairs consider themselves to be ‘happily’ married
8 votes -
New York is one step closer to becoming first state to ban cat declawing
11 votes -
Fantasies of forced sex are common. Do they enable rape culture?
13 votes -
Poverty makes everything worse
9 votes -
Henry Montgomery Paved the Way for Other Juvenile Lifers to Go Free. Now 72, He May Never Get the Same Chance.
10 votes -
Why we need to bring back the art of communal bathing
28 votes -
These millennials got new roommates. They’re nuns
7 votes -
People who work from home: what you do on your breaks?
Working and studying from home, it's hard not to acquire bad habits. Most of the time I follow the Pomodoro Technique, so I have constant small breaks instead of large ones. But sometimes I just...
Working and studying from home, it's hard not to acquire bad habits. Most of the time I follow the Pomodoro Technique, so I have constant small breaks instead of large ones. But sometimes I just stay on the computer looking at different things such as Reddit and Tildes, and it doesn't feel very restful. At the same time, if I change the context too much, it's easy to lose track of time (yes, even with apps), and I have trouble refocusing on my work, study etc.
This may seem like a trivial problem for some, but not for me!
Summing up: what can I do on my breaks (4 x 5 minutes followed by 1 x 25 minutes) that is both restful and pleasurable, but not excessively engaging?
15 votes -
How the elderly lose their rights: Guardians can sell the assets and control the lives of senior citizens without their consent—and reap a profit from it
9 votes -
'They have become the new religion': Esther Perel says we expect too much from relationships
11 votes -
'If not I, then who?’: Armed with the internet, Russia’s young people want to remake their world
10 votes -
Political confessional: I think private schools should be banned
23 votes -
Gender-segregated swim hours create hot water in some city pools
7 votes -
Get rid of (paper) junk mail | No Sweat Tech
10 votes -
The Permian Basin is booming with oil. But at what cost to West Texans?
4 votes -
A generation is learning how to strike: An interview with Isra Hirsi
6 votes -
Lawyers for Noah’s Ark theme park are suing its insurance company for rain damage
6 votes -
Ex-smokers, what did you do to help you stop?
Edit: meant ex-smokers. Proof reading is not something I tend to do... Some people quit cold turkey, some use something to replace it (thinking sunflower seeds), some make goals like only have 6 a...
Edit: meant ex-smokers. Proof reading is not something I tend to do...
Some people quit cold turkey, some use something to replace it (thinking sunflower seeds), some make goals like only have 6 a day and work their way down.
I personally have been using nicotine products since I was about 16. Cigarettes at first, but switched to vaping at about 18. Been using them for about 6 years now and finally decided it's time to stop. I've been lowering the amount of nicotine in my vape for about 3 months, this last one being 0 nicotine in my vape. Now it's time to break the muscle memory of just mindlessly grabbing it at home and always making sure I know where it is. This last month with no nicotine was a lot harder than I thought it was going to be because I always told myself it was mostly a habit of the action and not the substance... Boy was I fucking wrong.
So what did you do, or are you doing, to help yourself quit? Need a little inspiration.
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Here comes the neighborhood: Many US cities are booming -- and experiencing housing crunches as a result. Here's a look at two cities that tried to do something about it.
6 votes -
Op-eds from the future: It’s 2059, and the rich kids are still winning
9 votes -
People are moving to smaller cities in search of affordable houses that don't exist
13 votes -
How phonies and self-promoters came to rule the world
6 votes -
A botched decolonization: Inside Cameroon’s civil war
6 votes -
When you leave your old job on good terms, you want to ensure a smooth transition to make life easier for your replacement. This succession planning checklist can help you to hand over the reins.
14 votes -
Coming of age in cohousing: Growing up communally brings exposure to the world of adults—and lessons in interdependence
7 votes -
The boring intimacy of the all-day group chat
8 votes -
What it felt like: If “living history” role-plays in the classroom can so easily go wrong, why do teachers keep assigning them?
6 votes -
One Year Off, Every Seven Years: How about this for a demand? You work for six years and you get a whole paid year off to do whatever the hell you want.
18 votes -
Archiving grief five years after the Isla Vista attacks
3 votes -
Removing love locks from bridges and statues
16 votes -
Men have no friends and women bear the burden
27 votes -
What's missing from your life?
A bit of a darker or at least more introspective question than I usually ask, but I think it's a valid one and something worth considering. It's something I've been grappling with recently myself....
A bit of a darker or at least more introspective question than I usually ask, but I think it's a valid one and something worth considering. It's something I've been grappling with recently myself.
As you reflect on your life, is there something which makes its absence known? Something you wish you had, but don't? Do you think you'll ever be able to change, fill, fix, or work around it? Do you think it'll change with time or remain permanent? How does the missing whatever-it-is impact your life?
A final note: given that people are likely going to be sharing some difficult stuff, it's important to remember that empathic listening, particularly online, isn't usually about offering solutions. Questions are often better than answers in conversations of this type.
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Who begs to go to prison? California jail inmates
4 votes -
How Montreal freelancers are organizing
4 votes -
What happened when I met my Islamophobic troll
9 votes -
'The choice is this: if we go we will be killed; if we stay here we will starve'
5 votes -
The curious cons of the man who wouldn’t die
3 votes -
Washington becomes first US state to legalise human composting
12 votes -
Losing Religion and Finding Ecstasy in Houston
5 votes -
My Cousin Was My Hero. Until the Day He Tried to Kill Me
10 votes -
California teachers pay for their own substitutes during extended sick leave
10 votes -
Sex work
22 votes -
The loneliness problem in LA starts with traffic. Could it end with a walk?
6 votes -
Having a library or cafe down the block could change your life
16 votes