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Can we mock and/or threaten people into changing their beliefs? (And more importantly, should we?)
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The internet has spent three years taking care of this guy’s plants: The subreddit r/takecareofmyplant has 11,300 members, all dedicated to, well, taking care of a plant
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What happened after my 13-year-old son joined the alt-right
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The loneliness epidemic
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World health officials take a hard line on screen time for kids. Will busy parents comply?
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Blind people can struggle to understand memes, so they made their own
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When Asian women are harassed for marrying non-Asian men
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Binary skin - Exploring Japan’s virtual YouTuber phenomenon
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The Existential Void of the Pop-Up ‘Experience’
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Cybernetics pioneer Norbert Wiener on the malady of “content” and how to save creative culture from the syphoning of substance
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It’s not about money: we asked catfish why they trick people online
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To which extent do you think it is useful to call bullshit on Facebook posts?
So I have a few high school friends in Facebook who recently have become more radical (islamophobia, racism, sexism, identitarianism, etc.). As I said in a recent thread I have almost everyone but...
So I have a few high school friends in Facebook who recently have become more radical (islamophobia, racism, sexism, identitarianism, etc.). As I said in a recent thread I have almost everyone but family blocked on my feed, but sometimes I make it a point to go to their profiles and see what they have posted. It usually is a lot of disinformation, misdirection, and dog whistling. I try to call them out because younger kids in my town look up to people like them and I'm worried they will become a bad influence. I also hope that, even though they will probably not become anarchists (or even run-of-the-mill conservatives) tomorrow, at least they will be a bit more empathetic to other people's pain.
My question is, do you think it is useful to do this? Will their posts or my rebuttals make any difference at all? How do you react in these situations?
More broadly speaking, is it important to have people calling bullshit when other people say blatant lies? Or is it useless and that energy would be better spent somewhere else?
On the one hand even if it is just for signaling to other people (in my particular example, muslims, the LGBTQ community, etc.) that they are not alone it seems like a good thing to do. On the other hand, I'm finding it less and less likely every day that anyone will change their opinion on anything without a massive investment in bots/shills/astroturfers. Or a good psychedelic trip :-D.I am curious to hear your experiences regarding this and it is something I have discussed in person with other people and I always hear good arguments from both (and more) sides. Hopefully this is the right group/kind of thread and I'm doing the tag thing correctly, it is my first thread here !
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When a stranger decides to destroy your life
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