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"Sound of Freedom" inspiration accused in lawsuits and interviews of sexual predation
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Dr. Ruth, renowned sex therapist and Holocaust survivor, dead at 96
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My birthday gangbang
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Does anyone have the right to sex? [2018]
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‘Mitzvah night is cancelled’. Inside the sex strike that has infuriated husbands and shaken the ultra-Orthodox world.
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The troubling trend in teenage sex (it's strangulation)
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Why do hardly any straight men write about sex and dating?
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The misogyny myth
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A brief history of the Magic Wand
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Matteo Lane & Nick Smith go to the Museum of Sex
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I thought sex parties would free my sexuality. The reality was more dystopian than utopian
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The Deep South’s dames of dildos
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Review: Balldo
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Inside the secret world of India’s adult breastfeeding community
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Nothing to be ashamed of: Sex robots for older adults with disabilities
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When Israel banned Nazi-inspired ‘Stalag’ porn
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Unwanted touch and empty consent
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Sex without consent is rape, but the principle is lacking in many legal frameworks in countries across Europe – Denmark is seeking to change this
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What I learned about male desire in a sex doll factory
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Games for "the flame"
TL;DR: What do you do with your SO (if anything) to spark some fun? Do you have a go-to move, or game that gets interest going for some fun? A lot of us have been sheltering in place for some time...
TL;DR: What do you do with your SO (if anything) to spark some fun? Do you have a go-to move, or game that gets interest going for some fun?
A lot of us have been sheltering in place for some time now due to covid-19. What do you do to keep things from getting stale- to show effort, appreciation, and attraction for your significant other?
I'm trying to keep things relatively fresh, but we don't have much space where we are. It takes, for example "naked billiards" off the table. I think they have a copy of "Twister" somewhere, so I might try to see if they're into a game night for some physical closeness. If you have a deck of cards, you can always do strip poker, but it might be a little underwhelming.
Of course, it doesn't always have to be a competition either, back/foot rubs are always a well received from both sides in my experience. I'm also aware of a concept called "Chore-Play[*]" and I try to do what I can to make sure my SO never feels like they're pulling the weight for both of us.
I obviously had a couple ideas, but I'm looking for some inspiration too! I'd like so have some things on the back-burner to whip out when the occasion calls for it, or when the time is right.
PS: I'm not really sure what to expect for responses to this, I know it's a rather personal topic and sharing information like that can be uncomfortable for some. You don't have to share what you do in your relationship if you're not comfortable (obviously), but maybe you share a link of some cool ideas you found somewhere instead? IDK, let's get creative with it!
[*]: With that being said, there is another definition of choreplay that I don't think is what we're after (collectively). I'm not talking about using sex as a bargaining chip for chores, which is what some perceive it as. I'm talking about taking the actions to make your partner feel like valued and appreciated half of the relationship. With those feelings of appreciation and care, comes romance and intimacy.
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Virtual sex parties offer escape from isolation — if organizers can find a home
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Sales of sex toys in Denmark have more than doubled after Danes were told to stay at home to limit the spread of the coronavirus
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The new breed of sex addicts - who don't have sex
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Why do women fake orgasms – and is it anti-feminist? We asked five women
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'They actually stopped': Women buying sex to ensure safe experience
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Indonesia moving to ban sex outside marriage
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'A human need': Australian disability groups say people on NDIS should have access to sex workers
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Broken sleep: People once woke up halfway through the night to think, write or make love. What have we lost by sleeping straight through?
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'We are sexual beings': Why Australian disability advocates want the NDIS to cover sexual services
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If PornHub wants to support a cause, start with sex worker rights
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Fantasies of forced sex are common. Do they enable rape culture?
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Answer Sheet California is overhauling sex education guidance for schools — and religious conservatives don’t like it
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Sex work
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Sex strikes have a long and controversial history as a tool of women's protest
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Do police know how to handle abuse within kinky relationships?
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Inside the fight for developmentally disabled people's right to sex
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Behind Gor, a ‘slave master’ subculture of sexual deviance
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New York teacher, fired for a years-old topless selfie, claims sex discrimination in $3M lawsuit
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This is what the life of an incel looks like
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Magic sluts with psoriasis
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Indonesian policewomen measured through 'purity and beauty', subjected to virginity testing
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Unprotected: "An acclaimed American charity said it was saving some of the world’s most vulnerable girls from sexual exploitation. But from the very beginning, girls were being raped."
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What do you appreciate about your partner(s)?
In all of the recent talk about incels, gender differentials in home tasks, and domestic violence, there's been little discussion about what makes a good relationship - sexual, psychological,...
In all of the recent talk about incels, gender differentials in home tasks, and domestic violence, there's been little discussion about what makes a good relationship - sexual, psychological, experiential or other compatibilities. There's a great deal of "Psychology Today" material on what makes for successful relationships, but it seems facile and the product of research on young WEIRD participants.
So, dear Tilders, if you have or have had a partner(s) you've been genuinely happy and satisfied with, and felt like your relationship was healthy, please discuss what made you so...
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Women are 75% more likely to watch hardcore videos and 63% more likely to watch rough sex videos compared to men
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‘Just a piece of meat’: How homeless women have little choice but to use sex for survival
11 votes