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6 votes
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In Iceland, traditionally a land of cat lovers, bans and curfews are redefining the human relationship with domestic cats
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Adolescents in the US are chronically sleep-deprived, in part because most schools start too early. This summer, California will become the first state in the nation to require later start times.
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Finland and Russia share more than 800 miles of land border, plus the archipelago sea – a photo journey through the border zone
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Tom Scott plus Alton Towers: Coasterphobia (Fear of rollercoasters)
5 votes -
School police
6 votes -
Uvalde and police "duty"
7 votes -
Subnormality #231 - Zahir
12 votes -
No one said destroying our idols would be easy
9 votes -
A trip to Gee’s Bend, Alabama, where masterpieces hang from clotheslines
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A culture that kills its children has no future
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The reinvention of a ‘real man’: In cowboy country, a father and husband troubled by suicide reimagines American masculinity, one conversation at a time
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You versus a world of stupidity; Advice for angry engineers
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OutHorse your email
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The incredible true story of Jody Harris, con artist extraordinaire. She posed as an air hostess, a psychologist, but most often as a cop. Then she fell in love with one.
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'There's no such thing as a lone wolf.' The online movement that spawned the Buffalo shooting
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My college students are not ok
23 votes -
Netflix alters corporate culture memo to stress the importance of artistic freedom
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Beard expert critiques celebrity beards
6 votes -
I invented Gilead. The Supreme Court is making it real
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Is there a US housing shortage or not?
12 votes -
A day in the life of a music festival medic
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Review: Balldo
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Too many kids show worrying signs of fragility from a very young age. Here’s what we can do about it | Parenting kids with anxiety
23 votes -
A dangerous place to be Latino
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Illinois law bans schools from fining students. So local police are doing it for them.
6 votes -
A look inside the first HBCU police academy
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Nebula Classes
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I tried herding sheep, and the sheep won
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Why being anti-science is now part of many rural Americans’ identity
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Caring for the vulnerable opens gateways to our richest, deepest brain states
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We should all know less about each other
12 votes -
Kane Tanaka: Japanese woman certified world's oldest person dies, aged 119
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Downhill, on a couch, on public roads
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Marathon my age: Running 42.195kms on my 42.195th birthday
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Believe it or not, men who can’t tell the difference between attraction and connection are not unusual
19 votes -
Free happiness ideas
What do you do and where do you go to get some free happiness?
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Tokyo’s Manuscript Writing Cafe only allows writers on a deadline, and won’t let them leave until finished
8 votes -
I have two last names - here is why they both matter
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Danes revel in 'dancing cow day' for first time since Covid outbreak – national event to mark organic dairy cattle's release from winter barns has been online only since 2020
5 votes -
Are you a baby? A litmus test.
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Life advice from NYC chess hustlers
12 votes -
How to remember anything forever-ish
12 votes -
In mainland Iceland's northernmost town, the women who powered the herring industry – and fought for gender equality – are driving a new tourism boom
6 votes -
Let’s please not make “the slap” more than what it is
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How an Ivy League school turned against a student
10 votes -
MIT is reinstating its SAT/ACT requirement for future admissions cycles
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Hannah Gadsby on her autism diagnosis: ‘I’ve always been plagued by a sense that I was a little out of whack’
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What are your thoughts on using a website/blog as a resume?
Like the title says, I'm curious if anyone has experience encountering digital resumes. Whether you're an employer or you've used a digital resume yourself how well did it work? Were you more...
Like the title says, I'm curious if anyone has experience encountering digital resumes. Whether you're an employer or you've used a digital resume yourself how well did it work? Were you more likely to hire a candidate because they had a well-rounded website that showed off their skills or was it an immediate discard because it didn't conform to normal practices.
I'm graduating with my MS in organic chemistry this May, and I'm trying to work my way in the job market. A website/blog sounds appealing to me because I can show off data annotations and analyses from failed reactions that normally aren't discussed in papers, so I think it would be a good fit.
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How do you practice authenticity?
I'm a big believer in the theme system proposed by CGP Grey (discussed in much more detail on the Cortex podcast), and have been thinking about what I would like my theme for 2022 to be. After...
I'm a big believer in the theme system proposed by CGP Grey (discussed in much more detail on the Cortex podcast), and have been thinking about what I would like my theme for 2022 to be. After realigning my financial situation this year through the (imaginitively named) Year of Finance, I want to spend some time focusing on myself as a person and my existence in the world.
Enter the Year of Authenticity. Recent circumstances and some serious meta-cognition have led me to the conclusion that I am not sufficiently honest enough about my values, beliefs, expression, and well, myself. I find myself bending to the various social situations I find myself in, and it feels very dishonest at times. So I plan to spend 2022 thinking more about the person that I want to be, being more true to that desire, and trying to align my various "selves" into an individual who I am confident being in any situation.
I already have a few things in mind that I expect to work on, including my public gender expression and my fear of expressing opinions in unfamiliar groups and situations. But I find myself wondering, how do other people experience the desire to be more authentic? Is this something any of my fellow Tilderen have ever spent time working on? What are your approaches to practicing authenticty? Do you have an idealised version of yourself which you work towards? Do you find yourself acting differently with different groups of people? Is this even something I should be worried about? Lets have a talk about it :)
Edit: The nice thing about a theme (watch the video if you haven't, it gives a good explanation) is that it's fuzzy, and it can mean a lot of things, or even change meaning when necessary.
A few have mentioned the idea of consistency, which is not really what I'm shooting for. I don't believe that there is a core, unchanging, self that I have inside me that I am wanting to unleash on an unsuspecting world. I know and embrace that as humans we are emotional, multi-faceted beings, and that changing social situations necessitate changing mannerisms. I don't expect to behave in the same with with my university professors as I do with my best friends of multiple decades. I haven't yet nailed down exactly what I do mean by authenticity, but I do know that it doesn't mean trying to be the same logical, consistent character to all people.
There's a reason I've started thinking about this journey for 2022 now, even before December: there's a lot of introspection and metacognition required for something like this. Being an intronaut can be scary and difficult, but I'm excited to see where it takes me! This whole process is just beginning, and I'm looking to gain insight into others' experiences to help frame my own view of what this year can/might/should mean for me. Thanks for everyone's responses so far <3
15 votes