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    1. Korean Lesbian couples often have one person dress exceptionally feminine, and the other dress exceptionally masculine, so at first glance they appear to be a hetero couple.

      Korea is rather anti gay. This way they can be together in public without scorn. Is this cover up a common practice in other parts of the world? Whenever I notice a couple like that, I always want...

      Korea is rather anti gay. This way they can be together in public without scorn. Is this cover up a common practice in other parts of the world?

      Whenever I notice a couple like that, I always want to cheer for them, give them a thumbs up, or shout out loving words of support, but I ultimately just do nothing. Otherwise it acknowledges the fact that their cover is not perfect, which will probably cause them more anxiety than relief.

      If anyone out there who did that is reading this, just know : i am rooting for you!

      15 votes
    2. How do you find new LGBT groups?

      So I'm moving soon and I was just curious about how those of you who move around a bit go about finding new people to hang out with. I usually just try to find the nearest gay bar and go from...

      So I'm moving soon and I was just curious about how those of you who move around a bit go about finding new people to hang out with. I usually just try to find the nearest gay bar and go from there. But I'm curious what all you people do.

      8 votes
    3. What’s Pride month like for you?

      Coincidentally checked right after this went up, hi gay friends! As someone living in the South, Pride is actually a fall/spring thing, so I don’t have much to look forward to offline with Pride...

      Coincidentally checked right after this went up, hi gay friends!
      As someone living in the South, Pride is actually a fall/spring thing, so I don’t have much to look forward to offline with Pride this month.
      What stories and events do y’all have?

      12 votes
    4. This one goes out to all of my trans brothers and sisters

      Wow, I was actually kinda shocked to see how many of us were trans over in this thread and thought maybe to create another ~talk to mainly focus on our group as a whole. I know that for some of us...

      Wow, I was actually kinda shocked to see how many of us were trans over in this thread and thought maybe to create another ~talk to mainly focus on our group as a whole. I know that for some of us that being trans isn't how we define ourselves, but I wanted to appreciate that there are already quite a few of us that are trans.

      I remember how several years ago when Voat was new (and before I realized it was full of literal Nazis) there started to be a small group of trans folk that tried to establish themselves before being driven away... But I have a great feels that we're already being wholly accepted here.

      Anyways, I'm @Ten and have been trying to transition since 2011 and while this may technically be my fourth attempt I still have not been able to start HRT due to unfortunate situations in my life, maybe by the time I'm 40 I'll finally start. Are there any of you that have had to face adversity throughout your journey of transition?

      32 votes