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Delaying parenthood via the cryopreservation of live-born children - the unintended consequences of blurring embryonic and human rights
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New US lawsuit claims dating apps designed to turn love seekers into addicts
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DoD updates telework policy for the first time since 2012
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The relative share of Americans living in the West of the US has declined
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Why are there such profound differences in conceptions of masculinity between Denmark and America?
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Inventing the perfect US college applicant – For $120,000 a year, Christopher Rim promises to turn any student into Ivy bait
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Days of darkness: How one woman escaped the conspiracy theory trap that has ensnared millions
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‘Fish Bandit’ arrested for taping fish to ATMs
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Why a big box store started solving violent crimes
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Why American cities are squalid
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Moving to Colorado from Oregon (USA) in late February
Hi everyone! I am moving to Colorado from Oregon late February and will be driving with my cat. I am shipping my belongings separately so it’s just us in the car. We will be traveling through...
Hi everyone!
I am moving to Colorado from Oregon late February and will be driving with my cat. I am shipping my belongings separately so it’s just us in the car.
We will be traveling through Idaho, Utah, and Colorado. I have never been through any of these states, particularly this time of year. My planned route is
Day 1 - Portland, OR -> Boise, ID
Day 2 - Boise, ID -> Salt Lake City, UT
Day 3 - Salt Lake City, UT -> Grand Junction, CO
Day 4 - Grand Junction, CO -> Denver, COBecause of the time of year, I wanted to see if anyone had tips for traveling this route. I have checked average temperatures for the cities I’ll be stopping in for that time of year but I know that’s not the full story. I’m also going to get my car checked out before the long drive to make sure all is well. I have all season tires that are newer and chains already in the car.
I have a first aid kit, will bring a few blankets and some food/water for both me and the cat (Marge), a battery pack, and a few days of clothes for the traveling. That’s all I could think of.
Does anyone have suggestions or tips for this 1200+ mile trip? Also, my cat has only ever been in the car for about 3 hours at most. She’s sometimes anxious and sometimes chill. If anyone has suggestions for traveling with a cat in the car for up to 7 hours per day, that would also be appreciated!
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Why this math professor objects to diversity statements
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The three-decade saga that led to the Crown Heights tunnels
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‘Don’t mess with us’: WebMD parent company demands return to office in bizarre video
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Citing safety, dozens of Jewish families are leaving Oakland public schools
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Scientist cited [by Christopher Rufo to make allegations of plagiarism] in push to oust Harvard’s Claudine Gay has links to eugenicists
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To fight absenteeism, US schools turn to private companies
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Bill Ackman and the crusade against free speech
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Pizza Hut is lying: They’re not firing their drivers because of a minimum wage hike
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I got my IELTS scores back and I need help
Overall band score 8. What's the next step? I am an Indian and wish to pursue a master's program in the US. Should I prepare for the GRE and apply for spring semester? Total newbie about all of...
Overall band score 8.
What's the next step? I am an Indian and wish to pursue a master's program in the US.
Should I prepare for the GRE and apply for spring semester? Total newbie about all of this university stuff.
Thanks in advance.
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Toxic posts on economist job website traced to users from elite universities
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Despite support from corporation, Harvard president Claudine Gay under fire over plagiarism allegations
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How a child's accidental call to a top-secret phone line launched NORAD's Santa Tracker
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What does the oligarch behind the ‘Ivy League antisemitism crisis’ actually want?
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Mark Zuckerberg is building a top-secret compound in Hawai'i
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The myth of the unemployed US college grad
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The death of a gun-rights warrior
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San Francisco and Grants Pass Oregon lawsuits about homelessness highlight this question: Do those who reject shelter choose homelessness?
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Sentenced to life for an accident miles away
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What would Sandra Day O’Connor have thought about affirmative action for men?
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Who determines Kate Cox’s health care
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The red US state brain drain isn’t coming. It’s happening right now.
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America isn’t ready for the two-household child
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Inside the Uvalde response (full documentary)
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Amazon is warning employees they risk undermining their own promotion prospects unless they return to the office (RTO) for three days a week, as was mandated by CEO Andy Jassy months ago
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Diplomas for sale: $465, no classes required. Inside one of Louisiana’s unapproved schools.
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Easton area lights up night sky with bonfire ahead of 116th Thanksgiving football game
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A potentially fatal mystery illness in dogs is spreading in the US. It starts with a cough.
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An enigma who lived frugally left his New Hampshire town millions it never knew he had
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US increased number of limited liability company landlords leads to difficulty requesting repairs, increased evictions
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Inside an OnlyFans empire: Sex, influence and the new American Dream
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Graduated and moving to an apartment in a major city in the US, advice/tips?
I graduated in the spring and spent the last few months at home with family. I'm hoping to find an apartment/job in a major US city working as a legal assistant or paralegal. I've never rented...
I graduated in the spring and spent the last few months at home with family. I'm hoping to find an apartment/job in a major US city working as a legal assistant or paralegal.
I've never rented before, so I have questions, but due to circumstances related to the ones pushing me away from staying at home any longer, I don't have any parents or older siblings to ask for help, so I'm hoping to crowdsource wisdom here. I have specific questions, but also happy to hear any general advice for someone renting an apartment for the first time.
Some relevant context:
- Studio apartment is nonnegotiable. I don't know anyone I trust enough to be my roommate. If that weren't enough, I'm one of the only people still wearing a mask and trying not to get COVID, so it's gotta be a studio for me to be able to relax.
- I'm looking for a walkable neighborhood and good public transit in addition to affordability, so really looking at Chicago and Philly right now.
- I love to cook, but I know studios often have really lackluster kitchens. Hoping to find one with a usable amount of counterspace.
Those questions I had:
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If you offer to pay a landlord the cost of the lease in full, is it typical for the landlord to waive the requirement that you provide proof of employment, or if you asked them to waive that, would they be likely to say yes? I would really like to take some time off, and coming home was intended to be that, but toxic family means I've just been stressed the whole time, so being able to get a place without needing a job right off the bat would be a fantastic setup to make sure this new start goes well. (If I save up part-time earnings for the next 2-3 months, I'll have enough to pay a lease on a $1200 studio in full, furnish it with the necessities, and feed myself.)
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Recently I realized that when apartments are listed as unfurnished, that means no bed or mattress either. (I kind of see now why futons are a thing.) How do people usually address this issue? Do you buy a mattress and bed frame with the expectation that you'll take it with you whenever you move out to the next apartment?
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Since I don't live in the city I'll be moving to, I most likely won't be able to see the apartment in person before committing. Any particular ideas on how I could handle this or what I should be wary of? I've heard of services where you can pay someone to show up to a tour and video call you so you can follow along (https://www.gandertour.com/). $50 doesn't seem too steep, but I don't know if that specific service is trustworthy, or if there's a cheaper or simpler way to deal with this.
Those are my questions, and like I said above, any advice not 100% related to these questions is welcome too!
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Black-owned land is under siege in the Brazos Valley
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San Francisco street inspectors beg city for help to deal with armed stolen-goods dealers
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‘The only way for us to survive’: The life of a New York City candy seller
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70% of US workers lie on resumes, new study shows
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Mike Johnson's 'porn monitoring' remarks spark US national security concerns
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The botched hunt for the Gilgo Beach killer
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This retired pilot went to the hospital but was released subject to legal guardianship of a stranger. Family members were not identified until they found him many months later.
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