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Tenant unions are coming. US landlords aren't ready.
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US government report - The cost of anticompetitive pricing algorithms in rental housing
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What does it mean to you to be a human?
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Weekly thread for casual chat and photos of pets
This is the place for casual discussion about our pets. Photos are welcome, show us your pet(s) and tell us about them!
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How to make friends as an adult
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Whatâs something youâre personally proud of from this year?
Tell us something youâre proud of. Celebrate your successes! Pat yourself on the back! Bragging about yourself is not only allowed but encouraged in this topic. If youâre naturally humble and...
Tell us something youâre proud of.
Celebrate your successes! Pat yourself on the back!
Bragging about yourself is not only allowed but encouraged in this topic.
If youâre naturally humble and donât know what to say: pretend like this is a job interview and you have to sell everyone here on your strengths and successes.
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Starbucks baristas to strike in US on Friday, union says
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Bold solutions to end the homelessness crisis
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Whatâs your âI didnât know I needed thatâ item?
My parents normally give all us adult kids money for Christmas, but this year my mom said she wants to get us actual gifts and asked for wishlists from us. Problem is: I donât know what to ask...
My parents normally give all us adult kids money for Christmas, but this year my mom said she wants to get us actual gifts and asked for wishlists from us. Problem is: I donât know what to ask for!
So, similar to the Gift Swap topic, I thought we could come up with a list of items that are very good/useful/satifying but also less obvious, for the purposes of making a decent gift idea list.
Note: I donât want it to be specific to me and my tastes/interests, since I want the whole community to be able to use it too. Share anything you like and think others might like!
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Lawsuit reveals how colleges really talk about rich applicants
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Lawsuit reveals how United States private colleges talk about rich applicants
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Kenyan single mothers âtrappedâ in Saudi Arabia as exit visas denied to children born outside marriage
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Canada Post strike update: Postal employees back to work
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A few questions about replacing our clothes washing machine
Yesterday, while doing a regular load of laundry, the glass on the front of our washer completely shattered. My current theory is that it was a temperature thing. The washer is in our unheated...
Yesterday, while doing a regular load of laundry, the glass on the front of our washer completely shattered. My current theory is that it was a temperature thing. The washer is in our unheated basement, and I wash my clothes on hot (I know, but it helps with my allergies!), so Iâm wondering if the repeated heating and cooling stressed the glass over time.
Anyway, the washer is about 7 years old, and almost certainly in need of replacement (small shards of glass got in the drum and internal mechanisms because it kept turning for a bit before we ran down to our basement and turned it off).
I have three main questions:
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Weâre potentially looking at an all-in-one washer + dryer machine, but have read mixed reviews. Anyone have hands on experience with these and can speak to them? We do have a working dryer currently, but it is late in its life.
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To avoid the same problem we had with this one, weâre looking at top-loaders instead of front-loaders, but Iâve heard they have balancing issues. Anyone have experience with these?
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Regardless of configuration, does anyone have specific model recommendations/avoids?
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Weekly thread for casual chat and photos of pets
This is the place for casual discussion about our pets. Photos are welcome, show us your pet(s) and tell us about them!
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The market for ânobleâ titles is booming
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She didnât get an apartment because of an AI-generated score â and sued to help others avoid the same fate
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How do you shave your nose and ears?
Yeah, seriously. As someone approaching middle age but in denial, I am bothered by nose and ear hairs. I bought a trimmer but I swear all of them I have seen are garbage, or are at least very...
Yeah, seriously.
As someone approaching middle age but in denial, I am bothered by nose and ear hairs. I bought a trimmer but I swear all of them I have seen are garbage, or are at least very cheap. Is there a trimmer that isnât bad? How do you take care of your nose hair?
Yes, I am aware that women also get hair there, but i havenât heard anything from any women about it ever.
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US jury finds discrimination in H-1B visa tech worker case
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Are DEI programs at work pointless or actually accomplishing the opposite of what they are meant to?
So I get the theory of what they are supposed to do. inform and educate folks on what to do and what not to do. But my viewpoint on their effectiveness has changed since I learnt about Daryl Davis...
So I get the theory of what they are supposed to do. inform and educate folks on what to do and what not to do.
But my viewpoint on their effectiveness has changed since I learnt about Daryl Davis and Nonviolent Communication, my general appreciation for comedy which touches taboo topic as well as watching a DEI meeting that my workplace had before I started working there.
So my understanding of DEI is that it's aim is broadly to help individuals who may not be aware of the nature of the societal and systemic issue that give people of marginalized society a disadvantage so that we can help prop them up better and therefore put them on an equal footing with the rest of society.
And this is a good idea in theory but I have become more convinced overtime that in reality, it's just not appropriate for the workplace unless it undergoes a major reform because of a general uncomfortableness I have noticed.
When I was watching the DEI meeting that my company had had, the DEI advocate they brought in was talking about the issues faced by racialized individuals (she was at the time specifically referring to black people), and some people shared opinions and one white woman shared her perspective that having grown up in a poor household and being ridiculed for that most of her life as she was growing up, that she thinks that society places too much emphasis on helping out racial minorities when its actually people's socioeconomic status that is an indicator of how disadvantaged they are.
And the DEI advocate just did her best to dismiss that opinion and quickly get back to her slides.
And as I was watching this, I got really disappointed. If there is one person who should be trained in how to have those sorts of uncomfortable conversations about how best to tackle handle the issues of racial discrimination vs being unable to provide for yourself in a capitalist society, I really would have expected the DEI advocate to be perfect for such a discussion.
Instead she just stuck to her slides.
She was unable to engage with someone who had a different perspective in a respectful way.
and it got me thinking, let's say I was a bigot or a misogynist. I did think my black colleagues were just diversity hire or that I have a bias against women. I doubt I will be convinced by the cookie cutter slides they present at the DEI meetings why I am wrong and I know that if I voice my opinion, I will be shunned and shamed which leads to me just ignoring the DEI information and not taking anything in and therefore the DEI meetings are just a waste of time.
So what's the point?
I get the argument that if they allow those kinds of uncomfortable discussions at work, it can create tension and can cause a hostile work environment but then, all the company is doing with DEI is pretending to be solving the issue when in fact its just masking the issue and the people who disagree are just gonna continue disagreeing and maybe even double down more cause they're being actively told they are backwards rather than someone having a conversation with them.
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Amazon workers died at New Jersey warehouses and advocates want information about how and why they died
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The women of the West are making political history â and have been for 130 years
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Utah labor safety agency and Northrop Grumman reach cheap deal over worker deaths on job site
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Iceland's international reputation for gender equality comes with a striking caveat â new analysis shows about 40% of women have been sexually or physically assaulted, and many are grappling with PTSD
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Counting the cost of bowling alone. Malign neglect of social capital sowed the seeds of many of our largest problems.
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Weekly thread for casual chat and photos of pets
This is the place for casual discussion about our pets. Photos are welcome, show us your pet(s) and tell us about them!
7 votes -
American parents are stealing their childrenâs identities to access debt
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What chemicals/substances do you keep at home? And what do you do with them?
I've always found this to be a fun conversation topic among geeky, mechanically-inclined, or DIY-enthusiast friends, and it might be interesting to what see bubbles up from the Tildes crowd: Other...
I've always found this to be a fun conversation topic among geeky, mechanically-inclined, or DIY-enthusiast friends, and it might be interesting to what see bubbles up from the Tildes crowd:
Other than standard things like dishwasher detergent or window cleaning spray, what chemicals or other substances do you keep at home? And what do you do with them? And if you need to take any special precautions for storage, use or disposal, what are those precautions?
Mine are not actually all that interesting, but I'll start:
- Powdered citric acid - for descaling plumbing or kitchen appliances
- Acetone - cleaning gunk off of all sorts of tools, labels off glass items, etc.
- WD40 - cleaning greasy car or bicycle parts
- Glycerin - making "fog juice" for a fog machine
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How has your industry changed in the past decade?
The other day I had to get new glasses, and I braced myself for my lenses to be incredibly thick and expensive to boot again - but then I had them made, they look normal, and they barely cost me a...
The other day I had to get new glasses, and I braced myself for my lenses to be incredibly thick and expensive to boot again - but then I had them made, they look normal, and they barely cost me a Benjamin. Clearly, the optometrist crowd has made some major developments in the past decade or so, which leads me to ask - if you're working in an industry most people don't really think about, what's happened in your space in the past ten years?
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The cometâs path: on cycles of presence and withdrawal
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How old age was reborn. âThe Golden Girlsâ reframed senior life as being about socializing and sex. But did the cultural narrative of advanced age as continued youth twist the dial too far?
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Population growth in Latin America and the Caribbean falls below expectations
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I am looking for 100% ad-free apps for older adults with dementia. Things like jigsaw puzzles, coloring and the like. Paid is fine.
I work in IT, and was the caregiver for both my parents as they aged. You'd think I would be the one that people turn to to ask this question, and yet I have been utterly frustrated by my attempts...
I work in IT, and was the caregiver for both my parents as they aged. You'd think I would be the one that people turn to to ask this question, and yet I have been utterly frustrated by my attempts to find such.
I have a few folks who are extended family and friends that are now in the early/mid stages of different forms of dementia, and a real pain point is that they no longer have the capacity to recognize ads, and will unfailingly click and install scam apps via the Apple store. Think things like 'cleaner' apps that have a $50/week subscription fee, and other abusive tactics. The #1 subject I get called about is some ad popping up after they've finished a puzzle, and now they think they're out of space, and in a panic.
This is not a small problem. The coloring and puzzles they can still do bring them happiness and stability through their day; removal of the ipads entirely causes them a lot of stress. (TV is nothing but ragebait, and a non-starter. They do have books on tape, but get tired of listening rather quickly.)
I have been completely unable to locate ad-free, paid versions of these types of apps. I'm not looking for free. I don't care about the cost. I just need apps that only do what they say they do, and don't have unexpected pop-ups, ads, or anything else, and I thought perhaps the folks here might know of some.
Any ideas?
[edit] Only five hours in, and I've already gotten more insightful, helpful responses than anywhere else I've asked. You all are the best.
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Weekly thread for casual chat and photos of pets
This is the place for casual discussion about our pets. Photos are welcome, show us your pet(s) and tell us about them!
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Christmas present swap ideas
In lieu of individual presents this year, my family is doing a present swap/steal. What are things you may want to get in the $50-$75 range? Flying so all my typical ideas would be difficult....
In lieu of individual presents this year, my family is doing a present swap/steal. What are things you may want to get in the $50-$75 range?
Flying so all my typical ideas would be difficult. Looking for inspiration. Also a chance that it comes back home with me...
- Chefs knife
- Bottle of booze
- High quality version of something common
- Flashlight
- Scissors/kitchen shears
- Blanket
- Simple tools
- Pocket Knife
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Z-Library helps students to overcome academic poverty, study finds
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Your boss is probably spying on you: New data on workplace surveillance
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Worldâs oldest known man dies aged 112 in Merseyside
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Amazon workers in twenty countries to protest or strike on Black Friday November 29
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What's on your Christmas wish list?
I know it's not even Thanksgiving yet (for those in the US), but Christmas shopping season has already started. What gifts would you enjoy receiving this year? Large, small, fun, functional, or...
I know it's not even Thanksgiving yet (for those in the US), but Christmas shopping season has already started.
What gifts would you enjoy receiving this year? Large, small, fun, functional, or anything in between. I also acknowledge that some people try not to request anything as part of a minimalist or reduced waste mindset. In that situation, what do you request- money, donations to specific charities on your behalf, something else?
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Private school - worthwhile/good idea for not rich people?
Did you or someone you know go to [edit public private, parent paid] school, esp if the students' parents can't easily afford it? Did their parents actually move to be closer to a prestigious...
Did you or someone you know go to [edit
publicprivate, parent paid] school, esp if the students' parents can't easily afford it? Did their parents actually move to be closer to a prestigious school? Is it worth it for folks who aren't old boys/old girls and in general are neither new nor old money? Does it ever make sense to use the college fund to pay for secondary education?28 votes -
Weekly thread for casual chat and photos of pets
This is the place for casual discussion about our pets. Photos are welcome, show us your pet(s) and tell us about them!
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Annual gift of a Christmas tree from the people of Oslo in Norway to London continues â tree was cut down early yesterday morning in woods in the northern part of Oslo's capital
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Anxious Finns are learning how to survive in the wild in preparation for an invasion by their hostile neighbour â meet the women training for war with Russia
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The productivity paradox: Why doing more leads to less
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Your dishwasher is better than you think
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LIFE with Horace the housebroken hare
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Underrated ways to change the world
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How the heck do you go about moving cross country?
I live in the southeast, and I'm finally in a situation where nothing is really keeping me here, so in the next month or so I'm intending to begin selling everything I can't fit in my car, and...
I live in the southeast, and I'm finally in a situation where nothing is really keeping me here, so in the next month or so I'm intending to begin selling everything I can't fit in my car, and move out west.
Unfortunately, I don't have a job lined up or anything like that, which obviously makes things more difficult. I figure something like offering to put a year of rent into an escrow account can probably cover that?
On top of that though, how are you supposed to get a feel for everything? Like, there are virtual tours and things like that, but it's not exactly the same.
I guess I'm just looking for general advice and tips at this stage. I feel like I don't even really know what I should be asking, but I'm definitely intent on ending up on the west coast.
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