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    1. Speculative fiction recommendations featuring fabric or fiber arts?

      I've decided to try fantasy bingo this year. The most obviously challenging category for me on the reddit list is the challenge to find a book I will enjoy featuring fiber or fabric crafting or...

      I've decided to try fantasy bingo this year. The most obviously challenging category for me on the reddit list is the challenge to find a book I will enjoy featuring fiber or fabric crafting or artistry.

      Does anyone have suggestions?

      I have read and enjoyed Surrender None by Elizabeth Moon which fits but I want to read something new and save rereads for the end of the year if I get stuck. Surrender None fits at least two bingo categories as it is also a story about disrupting systems.

      8 votes
    2. Which challenging book was worth the effort for you?

      "Challenging" is up to your own interpretation: length, word choice, writing style, subject matter, etc. Whatever the challenge, you had to put in more effort than normal to read the book, but you...

      "Challenging" is up to your own interpretation: length, word choice, writing style, subject matter, etc.

      Whatever the challenge, you had to put in more effort than normal to read the book, but you came out on the other side feeling like it was worth it.

      What's that book?

      What makes it challenging?

      And why do you feel it's worth it?

      38 votes
    3. Should I stay with Kingdom Come: Deliverance?

      I've had a lot of extra time on my hands lately, so I decided to take a crack at some highly acclaimed games I never got around to. I love a big RPG and some of my favorite gaming experiences were...

      I've had a lot of extra time on my hands lately, so I decided to take a crack at some highly acclaimed games I never got around to.

      I love a big RPG and some of my favorite gaming experiences were playing Skyrim and FNV on the settings were things like eating, sleeping, and staying warm were an important part of the game. KCD seemed like a good fit, so I bought it on sale and have put in about 30 hours so far.

      I want to like it. I want to enjoy fucking around in a medieval setting and appreciate the many details in this game. The story has me sucked in so far, and like I said, I love the prospect of a gigantic RPG. But wtf is this gameplay? I get that it's not supposed to be easy, and I can look past the weird puppet feeling when I try to fight, but I feel trapped. I'm a broke idiot with no charisma and I get my ass kicked everywhere I go. I thought the whole point of video games was to escape real life. I decided to take a break from the main story, so I tried to go hit up the Miller's daughter to see what my options were. Next thing I know, I'm hunting down flower petals and linen with her like she's Big Boss on a total stealth mission.

      Does it get better? And by better, I mean manageable. I'm worried I stumbled into something that's out of my league as an older, unskilled, semi-casual video game player. I'm not a masochistic Souls-like player that needs punishment in order to feel something. Should I stick with this game, or am I better off learning how to swordfight and pick locks in real life?

      Edit: I'M GOING BACK IN FOR SOME MORE TIME WITH BERNARD! Thank you all for your feedback.

      24 votes
    4. What's an achievement (or achievements) you'll always be proud of?

      I guess I'll start because I don't have much, but I cherish them: I'm proud I got out of poverty "alone". I used to never get anything as a child as my family was very poor. I only had thrift...

      I guess I'll start because I don't have much, but I cherish them:

      • I'm proud I got out of poverty "alone". I used to never get anything as a child as my family was very poor. I only had thrift store clothes until I was maybe 12 or 13. I left my father's home at 17 and today, I have a good career, a car (!), stable finances, and I can buy anything I want and save money! I did all that with pretty much zero support, nor help from my parents or friends (no money, no gifts, no car, no services...).

      • I'm proud of achieving top 100 NA in WoW PvE multiple times, top 200 world on some bosses, as a guild. With my class as a DPS, I got multiple top 10 parses world on multiple bosses. I rode the high of seeing an orange parse on WoL many times.

      • I'm proud to have "beaten" depression and to have a positive outlook in life. Everyone says I'm always happy and the truth is...I am, because I don't care about so many things you're not supposed to care about.

      • I'm proud to have a healthy group of friends on my thirties. I still talk with many people and I always have people I can see or talk to. They do the same with me!

      49 votes
    5. Recommend me a sappy TV drama with preferably >100 episodes

      I like crying to sappy bingeworthy tv dramas. I've just finished Parenthood, and before that I binged a lot of hospital ones like The good doctor, New Amsterdam, etc. The setting isn't really...

      I like crying to sappy bingeworthy tv dramas.

      I've just finished Parenthood, and before that I binged a lot of hospital ones like The good doctor, New Amsterdam, etc.

      The setting isn't really important, except I can't stand law enforcement settings.

      Spoken language doesn't matter as long as I can find it with subtitles.

      The important thing seems to be stories that are reasonably realistic where people live their lifes and care about each other.

      What do you recommend?

      Edit: below is a list of recommendations, mostly for me to have an easy spot to find them

      • Bunheads
      • Friday night lights
      • March Comes In Like a Lion
      • This is us
      • Shitt's creek
      • The crown
      • Brothers and sisters
      • Scrubs
      • Midnight Diner
      • The good place
      • Virgin river
      • Gilmore girls
      • Dawson's creek
      18 votes
    6. TV Tuesdays Free Talk

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any TV shows recently you want to discuss? Any shows you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      9 votes
    7. Seeking new wireless router for high bandwidth streaming

      I've not bought a new router since 2010 because I try to physically wire everything in my house so it's pretty much my phone using Wifi. However, I've found great use for my Steam Deck as a...

      I've not bought a new router since 2010 because I try to physically wire everything in my house so it's pretty much my phone using Wifi.
      However, I've found great use for my Steam Deck as a streaming platform on my TV using Moonlight and I'd like to get a new, good router to support it.
      I think the Steam Deck can support Wifi 6, but I'd like a Wifi 7 router if possible so I can future proof the possibility of getting a new wireless VR headset too. Though I'm not 100% sold to the idea if there's good argument to just buy Wifi 6 today.

      Long story short, I'm finding it really hard to choose what router to buy. There's so much "gamer" junk.
      Reviews are all over the place too, site A will give a router a top recommend and site B will list off a huge range of cons.

      Does anyone have any advice? I just want a good, reliable, high throughput router and I can't be bothered with the returns process to try and buy if possible.

      12 votes
    8. Can anyone recommend a dead simple voice recorder?

      I'm looking for a handheld voice recorder that's as simple to use as possible for my dad. His memory is starting to fail and I'm wondering if this would help ease some tension that that is...

      I'm looking for a handheld voice recorder that's as simple to use as possible for my dad. His memory is starting to fail and I'm wondering if this would help ease some tension that that is causing.

      He has trouble with tech these days so unfortunately using an app on a phone isn't an option. The hurdle of getting the phone out and app open would be too much and that's assuming he remembers to use it and HOW to use it.

      I'm hoping for a device that just has a button that can be pressed or held down for short voice notes. I'm picturing the device being able to be plugged into a computer for saving the audio recordings. It would also be a huge bonus if there is some automatic transcription functionality that makes the notes searchable, though I bet there's software for that that doesn't have to come with or be part of the voice recorder itself.

      I can see lots of cheap options on Amazon but before I just start buying some to try I'm hoping someone here might have some experience in this area.

      I really appreciate any insight anyone is able to give.

      14 votes
    9. What are some examples of media that really captured lightning in a bottle?

      I've been feeling nostalgic and watching some old Top Gear recently. It has got me thinking about how remarkable the chemistry between the three hosts is and how the combination of those three,...

      I've been feeling nostalgic and watching some old Top Gear recently. It has got me thinking about how remarkable the chemistry between the three hosts is and how the combination of those three, the time that top gear ran, and the format they chose created such an incredibly successful and wide-reaching show. Despite many efforts no one has been able to make a car show to rival it.

      What are some other examples of this sort of phenomena? Where the right time, place, people and format come together to create something extraordinary? Doesn't have to be television necessarily, but given the example that spurred this question I figured this wasn't a bad place to post.

      31 votes
    10. The Tiny Soapbox: a platform for small, low-stakes rants

      I've set up a very small soapbox here. It's cute. You can step up on it to rant, but it only supports small rants. Tiny ones. Cute ones. Rants about low-stakes, inconsequential stuff. It can hold...

      I've set up a very small soapbox here. It's cute.

      You can step up on it to rant, but it only supports small rants. Tiny ones. Cute ones. Rants about low-stakes, inconsequential stuff.

      It can hold up the weight of approximately one oxford comma, so please don't get too heavy and crush it.

      Anyone want to step on it and give us your 0.02 cents?

      54 votes
    11. How would I find a good photo printing service?

      It looks like there are a ton of options out there to get physical prints of digital photos - I’m seeing super cheap high volume websites, supermarket co-branded ones that look like a throwback to...

      It looks like there are a ton of options out there to get physical prints of digital photos - I’m seeing super cheap high volume websites, supermarket co-branded ones that look like a throwback to the old film development days, high price boutique services aimed at fine art photographers, and indie print shops attached to exhibition spaces. Problem is, I have no idea how to even begin differentiating between them!

      I’m putting together an album of photos as a gift for someone, and right now everything’s digital (either originally or from scanned negatives). I need about 200 prints, so the price differences between the various options I’m seeing add up pretty quickly - I don’t mind spending on quality, but in my experience that doesn’t necessarily correlate to price anyway.

      So, what hallmarks or hidden tells should I be looking out for that’ll help me find somewhere decent? Specific recommendations would also be great if anyone has suggestions that are in/ship to the UK!

      10 votes
    12. What is the current state of facial recognition or other morphological detections?

      Curious to know if we have a current morphometric based system that can detect with the same accuracy as DNA testing, if two people are related, without a priori knowledge that they are related,...

      Curious to know if we have a current morphometric based system that can detect with the same accuracy as DNA testing, if two people are related, without a priori knowledge that they are related, if that makes sense.

      Meaning, if a system is fed 100 random photos of humans, but is not told "there are definitely related people in here" can it match it as accurately as a DNA test of those same humans' DNA samples?

      context

      I was wondering to myself, "you know, for as dissimilar as our DNA is to our siblings, it's actually quite remarkable that we look so similar." Which lead me to wondering, do we look similar to our siblings, or are our brains so deeply primed to think we look similar to those who are related to us, that we do indeed "look similar," to our brains(or simulations produced by our brains). If that makes sense.

      8 votes
    13. Steam Deck low battery health (% of original capacity) and formatting

      I believe a few of us have Steam Decks, thus I wanted to do this kinda public announcement. TL;DR If your Steam Deck reports low battery health (low % of original capacity) drain the battery until...

      I believe a few of us have Steam Decks, thus I wanted to do this kinda public announcement.

      TL;DR

      • If your Steam Deck reports low battery health (low % of original capacity) drain the battery until it shuts down and then fully charge and check again
      • Use your Steam Deck until it shuts down from time to time (say once every 6 months?) to keep your battery level indicator (and remaining time) precise

      Long version

      I have my Steam Deck since May 2022 and I put certainly over 1000 hours in gaming on it. I would believe if it was even approaching 2000 hours.

      Lately I played demanding game and battery was discharging rather fast with remaining time on full charge being under 1:30 hours, which I wasn't used to just a few months ago when it lasted over 2 hours even in demanding games (I limit to 30 fps and I also limit TDP/power). This weekend I jumped into desktop mode and checked the battery life which showed me what I feared - 65% of original capacity.

      I went on iFixit page and the price for new one is hefty 95€, but since Steam Deck got me so much enjoyment, I was ready to pay for it - if it was in stock, that is. I'm glad it wasn't!

      Since I have a bit of electronics and software background (hobby level), I realized that the charging chip (or whatever keeps the info about state of charge) was running since day 1 on relative data. What I mean: I have never discharged my Steam Deck lower than 10% and most of the times charging anywhere between 30-80%. And since the charging chip likely measures last fully charged capacity (and thus battery health) based on, well, how much it was charged and discharged all over again, it probably skewed its measurements in those three years.

      So I went on a "quest" to play until dead. And I was surprised when Steam Deck reached 3% battery and kept running for another hour (ligthweight game) until it was finally dead. Then I fully charged it and voila - battery health 90%!

      I have already said how it likely happened, but once more and in short: the charging chip needs to reach both limits, 0% and 100% of battery, from time to time = You have to let it drain fully here and there if you want your battery level indicator (and remaining time) to be precise or if you want to get the real state of your battery.

      A bit offtopic: I've had laptop that had 50% of original capacity. I have changed the battery cells inside the battery and let it fully discharge and charge again but the vendor locked the chip from "learning" the real capacity making the new cells useless because the chip still reported 50% thus telling me when I booted it up that the battery has to be changed and also telling me non-relevant remaining time based on this 50% battery health... I'm glad that Steam Deck is capable of re-learning this data and not playing dumb.

      27 votes