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‘Ahsoka’ viewing numbers are well below ‘The Mandalorian,’ ‘Obi-Wan Kenobi’
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How far can you jump from a swing?
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California court dismisses lawsuit over nuclear power plant
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Singapore's Presidential election
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No evidence UK grammar school systems are best for the brightest, study of 500,000 pupils reveals
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Record $100 million settlement reached in lawsuits alleging torture, rape, atarvation at US Christian school
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Anti-abortion activists, including one who kept fetuses, convicted of illegally blocking a reproductive clinic in Washington, DC
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'Like Snoop Dogg's living room': Smell of pot wafts over notorious US Open court
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Crossrail Chicago: The foundation for a modern travel network
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The era of the original streaming movie is over
12 votes -
The mystery of the Bloomfield bridge
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Why Silicon Valley is here. One radio engineer had a plan. And it worked.
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Insulation R-values and diminishing returns?
I'm looking into insulating the attic above a closed-in back porch & the estimate also included adding additional insulation on top of the blown-in in the attic. What kinds of factors can be used...
I'm looking into insulating the attic above a closed-in back porch & the estimate also included adding additional insulation on top of the blown-in in the attic.
What kinds of factors can be used to think about the value of additional insulation?
For reference, I'm in Florida & keep setpoint around 80 degrees F most of the time when home, and 86 when not home. Power bills in the summer are in the $150-$180 USD range.
It's currently R27 and the quote is to add R11 to bring it up to R38. Code here appears to put new construction at R38 as a minimum, but looking at some charts - it looks like I might have already hit diminishing returns?
This chart I found on "Energy Vanguard" seems to suggest that going from 27 to 38 isn't much of a difference.
Does anyone else have any insight on when those diminishing returns are hit, and if it can make any appreciable difference in power bills? The house itself is comfortable enough, without large swings in temperature.
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One Piece creator hopes to defy a history of failure
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Bubble Tea, also called Boba, is everywhere. But who made it first?
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Naomi Klein on following her ‘doppelganger’ down the conspiracy rabbit hole – and why millions of people have entered an alternative political reality
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Finland has finished inventorying its existing bomb shelters in a government effort prompted by neighbouring Russia's invasion of Ukraine – found 50,500
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Apple announces the iPhone 15 launch event
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Studies note higher risk of death, impaired health up to two years after COVID infection
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What your insurer is trying to tell you about climate change
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Applying taxes to beef products could be one way to reduce CO2 emissions, says the Danish Government
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I’m so sorry for psychology’s loss, whatever it is
40 votes -
Google axes bad reviews of tracker exposing Uyghur forced labor
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Sea of Stars, a Chrono Trigger inspired game, has released today
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Lesbians being anti-trans is a lesbophobic trope
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Fortnightly Programming Q&A Thread
General Programming Q&A thread! Ask any questions about programming, answer the questions of other users, or post suggestions for future threads. Don't forget to format your code using the triple...
General Programming Q&A thread! Ask any questions about programming, answer the questions of other users, or post suggestions for future threads.
Don't forget to format your code using the triple backticks or tildes:
Here is my schema: ```sql CREATE TABLE article_to_warehouse ( article_id INTEGER , warehouse_id INTEGER ) ; ``` How do I add a `UNIQUE` constraint?4 votes -
Ottawa looking to drop 24 Sussex and build new home for PM elsewhere
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The end of cool small cars - The Taliban has fresher trucks than us. The Honda Fit is dead. U can’t find a sauced-out 2-door to save your life. How did we get here??
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Air pollution greatest global threat to human health, says benchmark study
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TV Tuesdays Free Talk
Have you watched any TV shows recently you want to discuss? Any shows you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here. Please just try to provide fair warning of...
Have you watched any TV shows recently you want to discuss? Any shows you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.
Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.
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America is using up its groundwater like there’s no tomorrow: Overuse is draining and damaging aquifers nationwide
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Tylenol: Six more years of failure
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github-less-social: Filter list to make GitHub less like a social media platform
16 votes -
Does cancer screening actually save lives?
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The dating app Coffee Meets Bagel has been down for three days now
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Opinion - Antonin Scalia was wrong about the meaning of ‘bear arms’ (2018)
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Gorilla Tuning of Rexburg, Idaho, pleads guilty to criminal conspiracy to violate the Clean Air Act, will pay $1 million in criminal fines, while its owner faces up to two years in jail
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Saudi Arabia: Brother of prominent UK based scholar sentenced to death over tweets
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The Killer | Official teaser trailer
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The world’s oldest cat door has been letting working cats enter the cathedral since the 14th Century
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Bobbi Gibb: The Boston Marathon pioneer who raced a lie that women couldn't run marathons
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California is suing to stop schools from outing trans kids to their parents
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Inside the world of 3D sound
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What is your framework for back of the envelope/ MVP style software design?
I suspect many don’t write anything down and do this largely by intuition/experience but I want to tease out some ideas. when it comes to describing and designing a system from a blank piece of...
I suspect many don’t write anything down and do this largely by intuition/experience but I want to tease out some ideas.
when it comes to describing and designing a system from a blank piece of paper, what are the parameters you think of?
I’m thinking napkin sketch level of software design.
So things like:
Number of users, are they concurrent users, what load dimensions there are (disk IO, network IO etc.), target platform (everything is a web app these days), how do you design/visualise the data model?Any decisions or constraints that impact what and how you build a proof of concept / MVP? How do you document this? How do you test it against the finished software?
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Holger Rune refused to blame his court allocation for his shock defeat to Roberto Carballes Baena in the first round of the US Open
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Ukraine is becoming a country of traumatised people (Polish, translation in comments)
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Which games have you been playing this week? (to 29th August)
Sorry Tabletiddles, couple of days late with the thread as I've been busy on the bank holiday weekend here in UK. What boardgames have you all been playing this week? Please share your...
Sorry Tabletiddles, couple of days late with the thread as I've been busy on the bank holiday weekend here in UK.
What boardgames have you all been playing this week? Please share your experiences,.no matter what you've been playing.
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TSMC blames struggle to build Phoenix plant on skilled labor shortage but workers cite disorganization and safety concerns
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The only man in the maternity ward
For context, this was neither in the US nor Europe. This is not my first language and some terms are direct translations since I am not aware of actual usage. I'm coming from an intense...
For context, this was neither in the US nor Europe. This is not my first language and some terms are direct translations since I am not aware of actual usage.
I'm coming from an intense experience: my first son is born. In the days before that, I cared for my pregnant wife during the passing of her mother, who spent 3 months in the hospital fighting multiple conditions, chiefly neurological.
Two days after the burial, we went to the hospital for several exams. My wife was diagnosed with pre-eclampsia, a potentially dangerous pregnancy complication characterized by high blood pressure.
We spent almost a week in the hospital. My wife did not want a c-section, so our doctor employed multiple methods to induce labor over the course of several days.
There are no men in the maternity ward. Men do not sweep floors, do not take calls, or take any position of care.
I did not see any men in the hallway, although I assumed there were some hidden in the bedrooms.
When the nurses entered the room, they did not look at me. I was not a father, but rather a
"companion"whatever you would use in English for someone who is just kind of there. When they had instructions pertaining to the care of my wife and son, they never addressed me. They only addressed me in matters lacking importance, like "Get me a towel", or "Is there any cotton left?".The tone and body language were of contempt and distrust.
When my wife was soon to go into labor, I decided to go to the bathroom, since I expected to be locked in a room for many hours. When I left the bathroom (which was in the same room where she was), my wife was not there. She was gone. I looked for information and realized she was in the delivery room.
When I was in the bathroom, someone asked me to get something for the doula (a woman), but didn't tell me why. I did. You see, they had time to request me to get something for the doula, but couldn't use the same time to warn me that my wife was being taken to another floor.
That was incredibly traumatizing.
At every step, the message was very clear: "You are not welcome here". "You are not qualified to care for your wife and son". "You are man, and, therefore, a menace to this environment".
Well, fuck them. I was there for my wife since day one. In every contraction, every second she needed me, I was there.
I was the first person to touch my son when he left the womb.
We had to revolt to leave that place as soon as we could. Our personal pediatrician had to intervene because apparently, the maternity ward didn't really trust my wife either -- they just pretended. The kid was slightly underweight. I was convinced that the long stay at the hospital was the main factor impacting breastfeeding. My wife needed to mourn the loss of her mother and required some sense of normality and routine (we are so incredibly happy in our day-to-day, I was confident she would improve!). Turns out that I (and our doctor) were right. We're home now, and the kid's gaining weight again.
At every step of this process, I was invited not to care. "Get out, father, you are not needed here." "That is not a job for men, let the women do it for you".
Earlier today, a neighbor came asking "Are the girls helping you out?". I gotta be honest, I snapped. "No", I said. "This kid has a father". "Oh, but the feminine touch is special!". "It is not", I answered.
Well, fuck them, because I do care for my son, and I will continue to do so. I fully acknowledge and respect the special connection a mother has with their kids. I cannot bear a child, and I lack the ability to produce milk. Other than that, there are no tasks my wife can do that I cannot do as well.
I am not an angry person. Thinking about this makes me very angry and I hate that feeling. I feel a long-lasting trauma is forming. I'm pretty shook-up.
I love my son, I guess that ultimately that is all that matters.
I'm just glad I'm now home, and that I am no longer the only man in a place that considered me a foreign body, trying to eject me at every chance.
59 votes