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    1. Movie of the Week #10 - Four Rooms

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      We begin the new year with a movie that takes place on new year's eve with Four Rooms from 1995. Written and directed by four direcors - Allison Anders, Alexandre Rockwell, Robert Rodriguez and Quentin Tarantino.

      IMDb
      Letterboxd
      Wikipedia

      How was the movie as a whole? Were there any of the four segments that you particularly liked - or hated?


      Rest of schedule for January is:

      • 8th: Planes, Trains, and Automobiles
      • 15th: City Lights
      • 22nd: Marcel The Shell With Shoes On
      • 29th: The Iron Giant
      8 votes
    2. I'm about to start my first ever job as a Software Engineer. I'm terrified about losing it in a layoff.

      I wanted to be a SWE ever since I was a young kid, and now after a undergrad + masters degree I was one of the first people in my batch to get a job. I just moved to a new country for my first job...

      I wanted to be a SWE ever since I was a young kid, and now after a undergrad + masters degree I was one of the first people in my batch to get a job. I just moved to a new country for my first job and I love it here already, it just feels sad imagining if I do get laid off and I'd have to go back to where I was doing my Masters (and even that would be limited time visa before I have to go back to my very under-developed home country). I do want to just mentally let go of the anxiety and just focus on performing good at my job but with all the recent layoffs it feels hard, my own company laid off a lot of people last year and because of that their glassdoor rating is kindof bad. I've been spiralling a bit just reading the glassdoor reviews of people blaming the management of uprooting their lives. Other people who changed cities or countries and were left jobless and were trying to navigate in a extremely bureucratic environment.

      I have a 6 month probation in which I can be laid off pretty quickly, I just need to learn to not worry about the stuff I can't control.

      34 votes
    3. A trip down the UK

      Hey y'all, I was wondering if anyone had any advice/warnings/comments/thoughts/etc. about an anniversary trip (10 years!) my partner and I are planning for late May. For context, I have been to...

      Hey y'all, I was wondering if anyone had any advice/warnings/comments/thoughts/etc. about an anniversary trip (10 years!) my partner and I are planning for late May. For context, I have been to the UK before a few years back but my partner has not. Also, I'm American and I've never driven anywhere but the US. This is the rough and very basic itinerary:

      Day 0: Edinburgh
      • Land in Edinburgh
      • Check in to hotel
      • Wander around the city
      Day 1: Edinburgh
      • Rent car
      • Drive to St. Andrews
      • Drive around in the Scottish Highlands
      Day 2: Edinburgh > Redmire
      • Drive south to a bed and breakfast in Redmire
      • Check out the English countryside
      Day 3: Redmire > Manchester
      • Drive to Manchester
      • Turn in car
      • Check in to hotel
      Day 4: Manchester > Bath
      • Take a train to Bath
      • Wander around Bath
      • Stay at bed and breakfast
      Day 5: Bath > London
      • Take train to London
      • Check in to hotel
      • Do touristy things
      • Eat a lot of food
      Day 6: London
      • Anniversary dinner
      Day 7: London
      • Wander around
      • Eat a lot of food
      Day 8: London
      • Depart from Heathrow

      I fully intend to add plan out the details and activities as we get closer, though I would be grateful for any recommendations for things to do or places to see. It's my partner's real first time out of the country and given it's an anniversary trip I wanted it to be mostly relaxed.

      The first half or so of the trip is predicated on me, an American who drives on the right, driving good distances in the UK. I've plenty of experience doing long distance driving in the US, it's mostly the driving on the opposite side that concerns me. Is this recommended? Would it be better to just use rideshares or transit in the cities and take trains over the longer stretches between instead of a mini-roadtrip? Thanks y'all!

      EDIT:
      Thank you everyone for your thoughtful responses! I will try to get to as many as I can as soon as I can!

      20 votes
    4. Looking for recommendations for sci-fi books with a 'body snatchers' theme of human possession or replacement

      After reading The Body Snatchers and The Puppet Masters, I am almost finishing Blood Music and I am not yet done with that theme. These are all stories about human possession or replacement with...

      After reading The Body Snatchers and The Puppet Masters, I am almost finishing Blood Music and I am not yet done with that theme.

      These are all stories about human possession or replacement with copies by other entities, extraterrestrial or otherwise. As I finish Blood Music, I find myself craving for more. It doesn't matter if it is about invasion or something else that takes over our bodies and minds. Stories that question and entice our attachment to our identities, as well as our desire to conform and dissolve into the collective.

      I wish for stories that are not about just one person undergoing a transformation, but rather a group or a community (family, town, country, the world).

      Ideally, they should be some kind of science fiction (even if science's role is not immediately obvious and overt), but I am open to suggestions if you believe something in other genres deserves my attention.

      References:

      21 votes
    5. Album of the Week #15: Mew - Frengers

      This is Album of the Week #15 ~ This week's album is Mew - Frengers Year of Release: 2003 Genre(s): Dream Pop Country: Denmark Length: 48 minutes RYM | Listen! (Album.Link) Excerpt from Drowned In...

      This is Album of the Week #15 ~ This week's album is Mew - Frengers

      Year of Release: 2003
      Genre(s): Dream Pop
      Country: Denmark
      Length: 48 minutes
      RYM | Listen! (Album.Link)

      Excerpt from Drowned In Sound:

      On the cherub face of it this album is a soaring, triangle tapping, kitten cuddling, debut; Mew have playground innocence down - lunchbox in hand, toothpaste on tie and scabby knees, all set for a day of holding hands with the pigtailed girl. Mew could market this to my 6-year old cousin to dance around to whilst munching her Sugar Puffs, and they'd sell a billion. Pop is Universal... aaaaaaah, that's the cookie, that's what everyone has forgotten!

      Discussion points:
      Have you heard this artist/album before? Is this your first time hearing?
      Do you enjoy this genre? Is this an album you would have chosen?
      Does this album remind you of something you've heard before?
      What were the album's strengths or weaknesses?
      Was there a standout track for you?
      How did you hear the album? Where were you? What was your setup?

      --

      Album of the week is currently chosen randomly (via random.org) from the top 5000 albums from a custom all-time RYM chart, with a 4/5 popularity weighting. The chart is recalculated weekly.
      Missed last week? It can be found here.
      Any feedback on the format is welcome ~~
      8 votes
    6. Tildes Video Thread

      Find yourself watching tons of great videos on [insert chosen video sharing platform], but also find yourself reluctant to flood the Tildes front page with them? Then this thread is for you. It...

      Find yourself watching tons of great videos on [insert chosen video sharing platform], but also find yourself reluctant to flood the Tildes front page with them? Then this thread is for you.

      It could be one quirky video that you feel deserves some eyeballs on it, or perhaps you've got a curated list of videos that you'd love to talk us through...

      Share some of the best video content you've watched this past week/fortnight with us!

      11 votes
    7. TV Tuesdays Free Talk

      Warning: this post may contain spoilers

      Have you watched any TV shows recently you want to discuss? Any shows you want to recommend or are hyped about? Feel free to discuss anything here.

      Please just try to provide fair warning of spoilers if you can.

      5 votes
    8. What is there to do anymore?

      I’ve noticed that when I’m not at work, I’m at the house and even when I think of going out, I can’t think of anything to do. I enjoy going to the movies, but that’s pretty much the only getting...

      I’ve noticed that when I’m not at work, I’m at the house and even when I think of going out, I can’t think of anything to do.

      I enjoy going to the movies, but that’s pretty much the only getting out I do. When I hang out with friends, it’s typically to bars, but I’m feeling unfulfilled drinking to drink.

      What is there to do?

      57 votes
    9. Freebies from the itch.io winter sale

      Fair warning, some of the games are porn. The one of them I've played, the fruit-themed twin-stick rogulike Resistance is Fruitile, is quite charming! https://hot-soup-studios.itch.io/thehouse...

      Fair warning, some of the games are porn.

      The one of them I've played, the fruit-themed twin-stick rogulike Resistance is Fruitile, is quite charming!

      https://hot-soup-studios.itch.io/thehouse
      https://krunchyfriedgames.itch.io/witches-and-bandits-and-swords-oh-my
      https://kosmocat.itch.io/dont-beg-for-help
      https://so-pa.itch.io/the-kitchen-of-sopas
      https://l-a-r-i.itch.io/shape-of-the-circle
      https://virtuaworlds.itch.io/cthulhu-frozen-nightmare
      https://distant-dimensions.itch.io/cupid2-0
      https://distant-dimensions.itch.io/rivet
      https://jdmgames.itch.io/bones-in-the-boneyard
      https://distant-dimensions.itch.io/every-second
      https://daddarulekonge.itch.io/the-handheld-game-console-encyclopedia-vol2
      https://pizzaandgames.itch.io/horror-fan-house
      https://chriv-games-horror.itch.io/6knives-episode1
      https://mydogstolemyliver.itch.io/visionsvol4
      https://distant-dimensions.itch.io/quest-for-the-missing-piece
      https://fiveluska.itch.io/second-wind
      https://airman4.itch.io/hammertime
      https://jarpdzonson.itch.io/mechanical-void
      https://projectyaarj.itch.io/solraid
      https://projectyaarj.itch.io/tank
      https://manstersoft.itch.io/the-mini-game-3-in-1-fun-pak
      https://maximilian.itch.io/inertia
      https://q-les.itch.io/the-whispersmith
      https://kasperv.itch.io/ball-down-hill
      https://retrovr.itch.io/spitfire-dogfight-vr
      https://xyxitchio.itch.io/flowfall
      https://blak-gear.itch.io/uep1
      https://teembeerlay.itch.io/erohina-basics
      https://hippomobil.itch.io/elastic-egg
      https://tonsomo.itch.io/jurl-hd
      https://magnus-froelund.itch.io/the-drifters
      https://kasperv.itch.io/kasperias-arenas
      https://rockodagamer.itch.io/the-decompiled-ultimate-collection
      https://tonsomo.itch.io/mille
      https://kasperv.itch.io/the-simple-life
      https://distant-dimensions.itch.io/area-41
      https://tailot.itch.io/motorized-cake
      https://tailot.itch.io/cube-orange
      https://munegames.itch.io/virtual-coloring-book-for-kids
      https://rizvn.itch.io/love-is-war-remake
      https://tailot.itch.io/dice-soccer
      https://snekjar.itch.io/scaffoldedge
      https://magnus-froelund.itch.io/5-in-1-retro-games
      https://maximilian.itch.io/side-shooter
      https://sj-logo-transparent.itch.io/baldis-basics-songkran-in-education-and-learning-x
      https://jdmgames.itch.io/expandoscape
      https://hoglet.itch.io/river-strike
      https://xxerikxx.itch.io/the-higher-society-v013 XXX
      https://xxerikxx.itch.io/the-higher-society-v014 XXX
      https://iamqqqqqqq.itch.io/classicgame
      https://xyxitchio.itch.io/felix-the-toy
      https://pinou007.itch.io/application-that-costs-a-lot-for-nothing
      https://calmed-by-the-dark-games.itch.io/calmed-by-the-dark-infinity
      https://ahsanmakesgames.itch.io/top-down-showdown
      https://faustgabor.itch.io/potatoes-corruption
      https://automaticgrasshopper.itch.io/alostgirl
      https://krabovaypolochka.itch.io/long-forest-old
      https://clevertop.itch.io/temple-of-the-silver-dragon
      https://maximilian.itch.io/zombie-apocalypse
      https://hempuli.itch.io/mobile-suit-baba
      https://kyaniteheart.itch.io/i-think-i-need-your-help
      https://thethil.itch.io/strange-toilet
      https://icarus-dev.itch.io/the-present
      https://phasepixel.itch.io/resistanceisfruitile
      https://kyaniteheart.itch.io/a-potion-for-chamomile
      https://asa-studio.itch.io/bff-or-die
      https://oi01games.itch.io/antonio-anfiloquio
      https://thethil.itch.io/strange-toilet-2
      https://alexander-wiseman.itch.io/fear-assessment
      https://evolvedustry.itch.io/evolvedustry
      https://falsevacuum.itch.io/linda-joan-prologue
      https://krunchyfriedgames.itch.io/bunny-hill-horror
      https://0zanm.itch.io/still-alive
      https://kyaniteheart.itch.io/potion-commotion
      https://virtuaworlds.itch.io/columns
      https://nnuk.itch.io/the-weird-gamma
      https://distant-dimensions.itch.io/seclusion
      https://krunchyfriedgames.itch.io/bunny-hill-horror-bunny-boiler
      https://ibar.itch.io/solitude
      https://kyaniteheart.itch.io/sunbeams
      https://forwardinstinct.itch.io/panchin-is-frustrated
      https://littlemuggames.itch.io/rylees-lunchboxes
      https://manstersoft.itch.io/chimera-crusader
      https://jdmgames.itch.io/orbital-paladin-melchior-y
      https://seeone.itch.io/grav
      https://shadowglass.itch.io/assassin-at-crimson-keep
      https://thearesjej.itch.io/prosignal
      https://manstersoft.itch.io/fun-pak
      https://pyrthenix.itch.io/the-legend-of-the-hero-of-edoriam XXX
      https://lyl-games.itch.io/color-mind
      https://dragonaz.itch.io/the-convoy

      24 votes
    10. Truffle chips suggestions?

      I'm trying to make my own truffle chips for the wife after having it at a nice bar together. Any suggestions as to the types of chips or truffle seasoning? I'm going to try to buy a bag of regular...

      I'm trying to make my own truffle chips for the wife after having it at a nice bar together. Any suggestions as to the types of chips or truffle seasoning? I'm going to try to buy a bag of regular chips, put it into a bowl, and just shake with some truffle salt and truffle oil (real kind not synthetic flavor).

      Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

      *Thanks everyone! Looks like it's time to do it properly instead of the lazy way...

      12 votes
    11. What have you been watching / reading this week? (Anime/Manga)

      What have you been watching and reading this week? You don't need to give us a whole essay if you don't want to, but please write something! Feel free to talk about something you saw that was...

      What have you been watching and reading this week? You don't need to give us a whole essay if you don't want to, but please write something! Feel free to talk about something you saw that was cool, something that was bad, ask for recommendations, or anything else you can think of.

      If you want to, feel free to find the thing you're talking about and link to its pages on Anilist, MAL, or any other database you use!

      12 votes